I can see this working if i were to smile more and practice hand gesture more with people i know, but what about people that already know me they already have a perceived idea about me if i start using hand gestures when i never really have they'll notice immediately and ask what the hell im doing.
1) Focus on non-verbal presentation instead of worrying what you should say 2) First impressions (7 seconds) 3) More hand gestures : To show intention and emphasis explanation 4) Vocal charisma/ variety : say it like you mean it, positive energy 5) Genuine Smile
I'm in medical school and I get graded on my interactions with actors who pretend to be patients. After doing this, my ratings skyrocketed. Totally worth trying out!
I saw one of her videos and been binge watching everything. I love her energy. I think Ive mastered mostly all of these queues , Ive been mindful of behaviors.. my intuition leads. I genuinely care and I am always my authentic self. Whomever has energy that is not on the right frequency I just keep it moving.
You think you’re not but the hand gestures made a big part of her conversation which means she’s using hand gestures just right. If hand gestures is all you see that means the person is over doing it and you’re probably not focus on what they’re saying.
This is the first time I see you Vanessa! You are gorgeous, savvy, sassy, and fun. I'm a speaker/leader/advocate who has TED on my horizons... so I loved the feedback. I enjoy talking more when I can be passionate (and funny, especially if the topic is heavy). You rock!
You rock, Vanessa! I had the privilege of seeing you at the Youngevity convention in Salt Lake. You have really made me think about body language, hands and micro-expressions. Thank you for your imparting some of your incredible knowledge. Thank you to you and your team for all your hard work!!!
Love love! I watch about 15-20 hours a week of motivation/inspiring RU-vid clips a week. I am a John Maxwell instructor and I will use these tips for my next class!
I saw a documentary on the Queen Elizabeth's hand gestures and searched for powerful hand gestures; luckily, stumbled across a video of yours. I've been binge watching for an hour and i absolutely love what you are teaching. Great techniques. Your way of explaining is also very understandable and ofcourse very focused hand gestures too. Good job and thankyou💚
There is still an other side to this. Should we teach people these hand tricks and other stuff, or should we rather teach them to listen what other people say instead of paying attention to tricks.
Absolutely love this video. I’m currently researching how I can do better at group interviews and connect with people more quickly. This video has made me realized the important stuff of body language, how I say things and my expressions. Super thrilled to try these tips out in my next video.
I have been following your programs for awhile now, and am constantly learning and taking notes. My daughter also follows you. Is Body Language 101 still available? I'm saving up to get all your books.👍
I lived in Italy for 4 months and realized the Italians understood me much better saying the same thing in broken Italian but using the hands - really improved my Italian!!
Well the best thing about this info.. is that is not just... for public speaking.. or for sales... it can ACTUALLY change-your-life! I mean... implement it everywhere and you can get a girlfriend easier, you can get a raise, you can get more "high quality" friends etc :D Thanks for sharing it! I will look for your book here in Greece
+visceral fate Because when people like you, they're more likely to do/give you what you want. That's the sad, selfish truth. It's advantageous to be liked.
Vanessa Van Edward's is my NEW FAVORITE person!! I have been studying people ALL MY Life!! Learning about people and what causes them to "tick" is my jam. I have her two books CAPTIVATE and just recently received. CUES. LOVE LOVE LOVE the content. Maybe one day I'll be on her team...LOL!!
Fantastic job, Vanessa, as always! In fact, I also used your suggestions from a previous video in a devotional that I gave at church and the positive comments received were many!
This hand gesture skill is Eureka kinda thing for me . Never thought that the simple hand movements can bring in profound change in the impressions I leave on audience.
People used to tell me to just be more confident but I couldn't do it until I became more confident many years later. It would have been great to have your instruction!
It's amazing to hear what people have told me I do naturally that builds rapport with them. Thank you for breaking this down so I know how to share these secrets with friends and others...and for helping me understand myself so much better too!
Omg thank you. I had this friend that would always say that people never think of her as intelligent and yet they think of me as quite smart even though we were both equally as smart. Now I know why.
in reality these statistics are not congruent to how your upbringings are and character. charisma comes from the energy and vibe you portray that's eternal from the chore emotions you feel while expressing yourself. mimicry is what human thrive on naturally and when you try to do something that's no in aline to your perception then it will not come off as charismatic.
Right that's what I'm saying and because sometimes some people say hang gestures are bad. So it's like what do I do it's like some or everything contradict the things that their talking about that suppose to work,be good,etc
+Harold “Dominicanbulk” Tavarez I don't want to keep living up to everyone expectations and just because a lot of people may agree with it doesn't make it right
I feel like this woman came out of left field. I watched her video with Ryan Holiday this morning regarding warmth and competence, and I've been devouring her content since then. Just bought her book Captivate on audible. Also she's so beautiful.
I love this videos too but I wish the older lady would stop making all those weird noises while the younger lady is speaking. It's very distracting to me. Does anyone else notice it? Or is it me?
Btw I'm asking because I really, really want to hear what Vanessa has to say. Does she have videos without the two older people that are usually in the videos distracting and interrupting her?
Lassi Vainio lol your video just made me smile because I was just about to finally fall asleep for the night and my two Great Danes started barking at the front door so I had to get up and make sure there was no kind of danger. Which there wasn't. Idk where you are but it's 2:00AM here. So I just went from a bad mood back to a good mood because of you. Thank you. Have a nice day and I hope you won't be tired all day.
Vanessa Van Edwards Hello! I have been following you and has subscribed to your channel. Indeed,you are making an impact to the world. Sincerely,you're doing a fantastic job with your calling. Wishing you blessings,happiness and much success. 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I love your video's! I have always paid very close attention to body language because so much can be revealed - and when I watch you're video's I always learn something new! And your explanations are very understandable and "user friendly". Thanks Vanessa!
Hey Venessa, my question is; How the participants who watched it on mute gave credit to intelligence without hearing the ideas and thoughts? Can only smile tell about how intelligence the person is? Thank you
This is really helpful.. It took me a hard times to literally talk in good terms way with people but for now I have finally know what to do while I'm communicating with someone. Thank u so madam.
I use hand gestures. Probably a habit picked up when I lived with an Italian family for two years as a teenager. One thing that happens a lot though, is that I smash a lot of wine glasses! I drink wine out of stemless glasses whenever possible.
Just stumbled across your channel the other day and I'm really enjoying your videos. They're informative, entertaining, and most are brief and to-the-point.
+Justin Bosley Actually, the most-important part of you did. Depending on who you listen to, the brain can process between 2,000,00,000 and 4,000,000,000 bits of information a second but only 2,000 or so make it into conscious awareness. The remainder are either filtered out or go directly into the subconscious and since hands can convey threat you can be certain that your brain is aware of them even if you did not consciously ATTEND to them.
I will say this is pretty on point because I definitely decide whether im gonna watch and listen to someone within those 7 seconds...that gives enough time to read the energy of that person lol
Her hand gestures seem so meticulously curated it's almost parodying sign language translators... Don't get me wrong I like hand gestures and I personally had been accused of using too much, but hers are a bit unnatural...
She's Puerto Rican, she can't stop, it's innate....... No seriously I don't think I'll ever understand people, unless she offers 1 on 1 help. No therapy has helped. She should teach counsellors and therapists etc. W
waste of time people...sadly tapped in to many peoples insecurities and hopeful secret wishes...made a tonne of money excercising empty pointless nonsense, with a hint of intelligence, and greedy monster mom manouvering.
Not saying I disagree with what these ladies said or not, but holy ish they just ran over them with their words lmfaooo, no hesitation. Was not expecting that 🤣
You're amazing Vanessa. Your studies, your books as well as your videos are very helpful. I discovered you thanks to my brother who is working on the last part of his MBA in Tunisia. Love from Germany😍
I just found your videos today and this is my third in a row that I've watched. I have a customer(s) of mine that have given me a nick name because I smile a lot (smiley) and act ( quite honestly excited) about what ever they are doing or winning. example: winning a free coffee or lottery. I want to let you know that I think you are awesome and to keep up these great videos.
The thing is, Vanessa is applying what she's teaching. Right after she mentioned hand gestures, I started observing her hand gestures and she uses them a lot to give better explanation.
Hi Vanessa , I just watched your only 2 videos than I feel strongly "you have got or something have" , that was I finding last so manny years. Thanks & love you 💐
I just learned 3 new important traits that I'll be unleashing in the future, while some may think it practice I look at my future with a liberating excitement and eagerly embrace it! 😃🙂
