How to be miserable for the rest of your life 

Yes

I love this one! Works like a charm

This one eats me up alive. The most present one in my life. I made past mistakes, specifically talking to people, and I cannot let go and stop thinking over it, even after I apologized and changed.

Because he doesn't have a solution for us overcoming our past mistakes. Only Jesus does.

what you've mentioned can be counted as a subset of point no. 9, I believe!

All 13 a perfect match!

This is me too!!

it has definitely been an eye opener for me

yes happiness and unhappiness based on reasons.

me too

Lmao

funny

if you're procrastinating, just procrastinate later, you'll achieve stoic sigma godmode status

@@ryndrssn how do i unread a reply

​​@@mahoolumOk hear me out, cause it is hella complicated, first you wanna close your eyes, then turn your brain 180° so it does the inverse of processing, EXACTLY 180°, a bit more and your brain will overunprocess and you may become a child again, a bit less and there won't be enought unprocessing power Keep your brain at that for about a bit more than the moment you read the reply Obviously you will forget anything you've learn in that lapse of time so i recomend someone to help you since you will unprocess this comment I hope this helps Oh yeah and before i forget, after all of that, you can open your eyes

can u explain a bit more number 2?

⁠@@melancoholicmake your self worth dependent on the attention and opinion of others, for best results makes sure it’s strangers you will never interact with again

Surrounding yourself with equally negative people is better than being alone. They will all have a lot to talk about.

⁠@@rodneyhamilton2562i disagree, i think you learn a lot of the good things about yourself when you take the time to be alone and be with your thoughts. being surrounded by equally negative people will only bring you down more (in my opinion).

No you don’t want anyone equally negative around you, they must be less so that you’re the most negative!!! If they are 4mica you must be 5mica

My haters throw rocks at me and IT hurts. I hope they don't throw The Rock at me because I like him as an actor. GAGAGAGAGA!!! I am funny!!! I am the funniest RU-vidr EVAH! Please agree, dear taran

Same

Right?

O great I'm already expecting it to..

Same here

Only do what is comfortable*

Well thanks!

You know what this sounds exactly like my dad...... I need to change 180° I'm 21 is not too late

Just pinned this on my wall. My goal is to do 6/12 opposite things each day, when that becomes a routine 8/12 and so forth

14.) Post long comments on RU-vid videos

last step listen to self help books instead of listen to people in your life.

​@@robertagren9360Why not both

@@robertagren9360 bro throw those self help books in the trash, theyre written by nepotist freaks and the whole self-help market was created by rich californians on acid who were trying to find a reason to justify building golf courses.

hey bro how is the progress coming along? i hope all is well spencer

@@robertagren9360that sounds like that stems from a personal experience not what they should actually be doing. Because those books were written by people too, you know

edit: Ok this hits me insanely hard, i actually do all of this.

its a match !

lmao

@@samgalloway3012 Sorry man, BREAK this cycle!!!!!!! Please live.

😀😁😂

I know its too scary when you realize you might be doing the things that steels away happiness

jorji i always gave you access. i hope you found yourself

Exactly my thoughts

I feel better knowing that Jorji from Cobrastan feels so similar to me. We've got this Jorji, we'll make it through

Nah his house looks so clean mine looking like a trash can

What happened

@@DogBiter3000 starting when I was 20, I was diagnosed with severe Crohn’s disease, and stage four intestinal cancer. I’m now 55. I’ve had 37 surgeries removing 95% of my entire gastrointestinal tract, which led to kidney failure. I’ve been clinically dead three minutes, the cancer came back three more times, I barely survived each time, I’m just an empty shell of who I used to be, and it’s a lot more than my brain process. God knows I’ve tried, people tell me I should be thankful to be alive, but just to live isn’t enough, not when you can’t go anywhere or do anything because you’re daily medical regime takes up almost all your time. Sorry to be a downer, but that’s the truth.

You are a hero! 👑️ Don't worry about your age! You are never too late! Do anything you think which would make you happy, even tho it's a very little thing. And don't be sad or worried about your life, because you already won! And I think the reason you overcame death and heath problems is you deserve to enjoy ur life. May be reducing overthinking, constant negative feelings and doing any little thing which bring u joy will help. I know its hard at first, but it does a big impact (Eg- watching sunset, having dinner in your favorite restaurant, giving food to birds, watching a plant grow, meditating, having a little convo with a stranger or a neighbor, watching ur favorite tv show, dressing nicely, wearing ur favorite perfume) I know they are very little things, but they bring joy. Plus get rid of phone addiction and social media addiction. They mess up our mental health and happiness. Removing social media accounts and reducing screen time is the best decision I ever took. U are same age as my parents. I don't want to see them unhappy, neither you. I know you will definitely feel true joy. Waiting for happiness to come to you won't help. It must come from within you..because it is how you feel. So be happy!!! You got this. Love you! ❤️

Please read quran book @Paranormalin416

Please read quran

Werd dawg

@@jacobgivich2581 So you wanna be a playa??

Iooooo

Oooô

Spot on

People live like this? I know maybe one person and he suffers from a very debilitating depression. Otherwise, everybody else I know is so fucking busy working/studying they can’t afford to live like this.

​@@Conordylan97 Being busy working or studying won't protect you from any of the points mentioned. Being "fucking busy" is actually what leads a lot of people to start checking things off this list, including me.

Stop trying to act smart

@@Conordylan97 but, the people who are mostly busy working are probably avoiding there inner problems.... Fun trick take all of someone's distractions away and see how long they can go with there own thoughts.... Because I've never met anyone who can just sit there and deal with them yet....

I say that would be suspicious in itself, only snake oils peddler make something ordinary into a problem. They make something that isn't normally a problem, and make it one, so you want to solve it, and it just so happen they have this book/program/method for you to solve this very big problem of yours. Be careful of those who make the mundane problematic.

Make sure to say that to your wife then.

@@DuncanWilliamsOFFICIAL Sounds like a You problem, to borrow that self-help parlance you weirdos are so fond of.

Yes but always saying no leaves you alone with no opportunities while you “prioritize yourself” as a way to keep yourself lazy and underworked

Word

Take it for granted that we all here felt that way

I swear bro

I got 12 out of 13 let's go

Fr just woke up at 5pm again..

!!!

Yes bro you’re so right

It's basically a "reverse" morning routine video that you just reverse engineer.

Agreed!

Me too man

But he is trying to make your life better just in a different way.

in that parallel universe imagine a parallel universe where in that parallel universe this isn’t the ultimate goal

In that parallel universe, People suffer from their peak of success and struggle to regress to a state of despair, distress, and disaster. Being a failure, penniless on the streets is what they aspire.

:((

@@paige172 ok....

@@andrassbb yes that's our world !

Thats why every 2 no's 1 yes gotta come. Introverts gotta develop a system to navigate the social world. Too much yes to people and you burn out, too much no and you are left alone.

Yea I did that for so long and it's true. Now I'm all alone

Yeah ive ran into this problem but even if people stopped asking i just ask them instead it's a two way street

@@kobbehh I suppose. Idk sometimes I get these periods in my life where I just wanna be alone. Like I don’t wanna do dick. I come home from work, watch porn play video games and go to sleep 😂 and one of my friends will ask me if I wanna go out and I’m like ‘fuck no I’m tired.’ Idk sorry I’m ranting. I think my issue is that once I get in a rut, it makes me more introverted, which drives me further into the rut and it’s an endless cycle

@@dungusglumbus9946 yeah im the same but life goes on and my friends knows how i am so we chilling

Requiem got rated

Requiem got rated

Did you though

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@@pinkfedoras Are you ok??

this is a good one ):

Get some psychotherapy.

Or how much worse the past was and that you didnt change for the better at all and are the same. Also care about what others think too much. And beat yourself up over every little mistake you make. And care about looks alot

and if something good ever happens, dread the future since it will be worse

Thank you

same, i hate when it happens to me

>loving wife Those don't exist anymore, they have mutated into thots and e-girls.

@@anti-semitickrogothonitswa8406Who hurt you?

@@user-qn9vf7vd1m His wife's boyfriend

holy shit you messed up

I do literally every single of these points!

Hello from the other end of the spectrum. I was where this video is a decade ago. I promise it's worth it to seek peace and happiness.

@@baranobama5375 what I'm on currently.. dont know how to escape it

Or it just feels like idealistic bullshit

This cuts deep for sure...

Feels like it slaps me back to reality

Well i don't know, this is a good video, but it's not gonna change my way of living.

@@destructo3457 no RU-vid video is gonna change your way of living sadly

I honestly thought I was the only one in this cycle! I guess I feel less alone. I've lived this cycle for so many years I don't know how to change it.. :(

@@Anonymous-fj2uo Maybe this could help, maybe not. Ask yourself, ok, if I had the courage, if I was the person I envision myself to be, what would I do? What excites me to do the most? Don't rush it, spend some time with yourself and answer this question. Then, and believe me, this works! If you have instagram, twitter facebook and other garbage, please do this. Delete your accounts, complete DETACH yourself from this garbage. The reason why I'm telling you to delete your accounts instead of just ignoring them is because, you won't ignore them, you already have it in your instict to open them. After you did these 2 things, now here comes the hardest fight yet. After you know what you want to do, or at least, if you have an idea of what would make you accomplished and proud of yourself, you need to do start small. Do it a little now, a little tomorrow. But here's the catch. Consistency is key, not how much you do in a day. Don't overpush yourself, do it a little each day, and have patience, you won't become amazing next week or next month, but you sure as hell will become better next year, and the years ahead. Also remember, do not waste time thinking about shit that you have no control over. Politics, economy all that other garbage, when you think about it and how unfair it seems, push it out of your head ASAP. Good luck stranger from youtube! PS: Cutting down youtube altogether will also help massively.

@@ionutluchian9720 thanks for the advice.

Same

@@ionutluchian9720 about the last part, RU-vid is kinda one of my best sources of educational content, so I can't really cut it out, i just try to minimize all the pointless bullshit videos that don't really help me

@N Gonzales same

damn same this is the first time i can follow a tutorial

bro don't be a bum get work done try to be happy man its a good feeling

@@Beylatheshepherd yo stop make life miserable try to be happy its a good feeling

Uh being miserable is bad

1) I need to work on that. I wake up at a decent time but I don't get out of bed for 2 hours, just sit on my phone. 2) It's not that bad, I'm comfortable in it. 3) Oooof, big time. My problem is, though, I get tired so quickly of just the simplest stresses, like literally tired, it's almost like it's impossible to stay productive for long (and people will tell me, oh you just don't WANT to...) but really it seems almost impossible. 7) This is something I can't help. After over 20 years of mental abuse in my life I have become severely paranoid and unable to trust anyone. 8) I simply accept what I cannot change. I used to be a better person but it's definitely slipped in the recent years. 9) Thankfully I don't focus on those things 11) Life is short. I do put effort into things, but minimal. I might need to work on putting more into it, but I still believe it's important to stay comfortable and happy. I'm a moderate hedonist. 12) It was actually a recent revelation, a few months ago in fact, where I realized I am not special. I'm glad I realized this, it helped me a ton. I'm not happier per se, but a lot more realistic. More of a note to self and venting.

Sigma rules

I'm seeing how it is and it's still making me Miserable

I see all these things in myself but i always remember rule 8 baby 💯

@@breadfan590 never thought i'd see a 20+ yr old saying oooooof lmao

I exited the video came back to say I did it again, have a good night

@@ViiRaLChaoticGamerTM23 fuck...

Still in this rut. Been 7 years. Really don’t know what else to do but I’ll keep trying

@@itzricky4091 Today is the day you turn it around.

@@itzricky4091 I was stuck deep for 5. Can’t tell you how long it will take but your guaranteed success if you don’t give up. Hit every day as hard as you can.

Lol

I wake up at 9 but work from bed then I end up napping cos my brain doesn't work during daylight. Then I research at night and repeat til the weekends.

Lmao 🤣

@@chrisspeed270 yeah, but they wake up late because they work. I wake up late because I waste hours in the night staring at screens

I legit woke up at 2pm after clicking on this. smh...

Perfect 👍.

Perfection.

That’s harsh but true

i cried

Objective accepted

frrrrrrrrrrr

The truth is too real

Omae wa mou shindeiru

@@maxwellsequation4887 Nani!?

Real.

He just made me hate myself more

@@swiftblaqness same

Pain..

Specially where he said the fantasy part. I have such a fiction in my mind and it is so detailed, Im so scared to let it go. It’s either diving out of the 16th floor window or putting in effort , and the first has never been more appealing.

Yup

Jokes on you it’s 8:42am here

@@_kilex_3538 same

By that definition, we're wasting our time right now lol ...and he just called us out on that. 😅

@@David_K_C it's 8:42 AM here RIGHT NOW lol (4 hours behind you apparently).

Waking up is harmful and toxic, this video should be removed or at least censored.

@Lazar It's a j-j(burps) joke man. Ugh.

I think you underestimate how much time and effort go into making a video like this. Don't worry, he won't be taking it down.

I'm new to this channel. Does he usually take down vids or what?

@@arturo8475 can always happen to any video on youtube

Damn I needed that perspective, thanks

Thanks bro i needed that

so true, thanks!

100% true

Bad thing is when you're actually right about something happening, ugh.

Thank you my friend.

Needed this

The last one hits too hard im about to cry

@@leviliam5702 dont cry over the things you can change❤

I literally do all this but I don't find my life miserable. But I'll try my best to change it before it starts to become miserable

No apologies needed - you're absolutely right. I'm in a similiar spot but I think we can leave the vicious cycle. Let's do it!

It's a journey. You got this, we believe in you.

I have always been the same way and I’m trying to break free! love myself more, you got this brother

I had a realization moment the other day that motivated me some, but the energy is hard to grasp for long. This is a great message to my eyes, as will it be for others. Thank you for this 🍉

Haha same

Literally. It’s kind of a “reverse psychology” method which I appreciate

Self destruction book

Yes, sometimes the contrasting view is important like this video.

I mean not really. Just listing a set of problems doesn't help anyone to solve them. I know very well that I am in a hole but not how I can get out of it.

@@iamchris6033 yeah its like I don't wanna be like this

Ticking away the moments that make up a dull day Fritter and waste the hours in an offhand way Kicking around on a piece of ground in your hometown Waiting for someone or something to show you the way Tired of lying in the sunshine, staying home to watch the rain You are young and life is long, and there is time to kill today And then one day you find ten years have got behind you No one told you when to run, you missed the starting gun

I feel called out at every single one of these wtf I am screwed

@@Tommy-gk6bh me too, we must change

@@symblesurfing7666 how? It's easy in theory but it in practice is almost imposible, at least when you are 30

@@george1449 that's such a common and easy escape for not fixing your life, saying that it's too late since you're too old now. it's never too late to fix yourself and not live a miserable life. don't wait for opportunities to come to you, take action

You pretty much described how I was feeling the whole video. Like the reverse psychology here is so strong that I immediately got up and started being productive as soon as the video was over.

Thats not sarcastic if you want to have a bad life than follow these steps, man is spitting some truth lol

@@TheOneAndOnlyJinglebi it's sarcasm

Funny how it was the opposite for me, it actually motivated me to be more disorganized and hedonistic, and made me ingrain the belief more than I should support prodigality.

However, from the tone of the video, and his looks, the video does look a little sarcastic if I'm being honest.

Meh, I'm too lazy to go through 13 steps just to be miserable. I'm fine with being half miserable.

@@kakarusakusei6194 Then what is the other half of you feeling?

@@kakarusakusei6194 1 zero

H and I don't know if hk.

@@kakarusakusei6194 mbo

I feel this one the most. I've been doing my best to change however and so far I've been doing somewhat better with taking chances instead of being too scared to do it. it truly feels so refreshing and nice.

Yeah this is me

Alternatively, be a perfectionist, but let that stop you from trying new things. After all learning requires failure and failure is bad.

@@TylireousGaming that one hit a bit too close to home

Or try to make changes hundreds of times and give up, because nothing works.

Fym reclaim happiness its not hard to find something to be happy about including yourself. Its a literal mindset change thats all

@Nobody Others men make fun of men who do that, so is technically their own fault 🤷‍♂️

@@ohnaw223 spoken like someone that’s never experienced major depressive disorder

@@atanaZion It's one person's fault what another person does? Seems legit. Stop generalizing bruh

@@Tweezer510 I'm literally trying to make you guys realize is left to yourself to change what toxoc masculinity is like but its harder when you want blame feminist or some shit for this

Nostalgia? Why?

@@alio6051 imagining a future where current problems don’t exist is bad enough, coupling that with remembering the past where current problems also didn’t exist makes things worse.

@@ThePokemaster62 wow man

@@alio6051 because it draws you back to the past without being able to enjoy the present. Nostalgia is good. Too much and its a bad thing.

What for? The past is in the past. Live now.

just do it

Good luck, you can do it!

Having your eyes opened to your backwards mindset was the hardest part. Now that the veil has been lifted and you can see the light at the end of the tunnel, you are presented with a choice: Will you stay as you are, content to let your darkness consume you? Or now, having tasted light, will you crave it with all your might and stop at nothing to achieve the peace you desire? Fight my friend, fight with all the strength and resolve you can muster. And know that you do not fight alone.

You probably won't, but I you do

"I'll try my best" I hate those words, and i hate them more when they come out of my mouth. I'm just so good at giving up on things even if i developed an habit, i'm miserable.

Since covid

Me too

It's time to change. Bro get up. *GET THE FUCK UP!*

Same, except I graduated in 2010. Lol.

What should we do

If this is depression im depressed

@@thijsboss1246 me too 🥲

@@thijsboss1246 well these are all signs of depression but it doesn't mean you are 100% depressed if you can relate to it and I wouldn't use this video as a form of diagnosis but there is a reason it's called "how to be miserable for the rest of your life"

@Acave give up social media, stop watching the news, stop consuming junk food, hang out with positive people, get a restful sleep schedule, get lots of sun, exercise often, start every morning with a purpose in mind, and I believe your depression will soon subside.

This is a recipe for depression, not the illness itself.

The last one is enough

**...do nothing but listen to audible...** "no no he's got a point-"

@@insectslayer1374 lmafoo

suspicious

13 Rules for Unlife

I feel the same way. It gives me a wonderful feeling of accomplishment. I've reached the top of Misery Mountain. It hasn't been easy, but I've persevered in spite of temporary setbacks.

Hahah this is funny

I have accomplished 11 out of 13. Only 2 more to go!

@@phatmonkey11 Don't give up! You can succeed!

I actually felt good watching this.

I don't know you but I'm very happy for you 🙌

Well take this video as a sign to start improving your life and lifestyle.

then change it.

@@King-mz8xe yeah mate. Number 1 and 2 I need to get rid of the habit. I wake up when and go downstairs without showering😭😭

Good for you I guess..?🤷

You can start changing it now

Same man, same

your not alone

I hope you're better now

same...

Same bro

Let's continue procrastinating

@@kevin-ru6oe exactly!

imagine you the last 3 minutes

@@kevin-ru6oe im down, if we wait long enough something good will happen??? T_T

@@coreeater8677 no always :l

Just because it's normal doesn't mean it is right. I believe in you homie, break the mold. I'm trying myself, I just gave up again today, but this video inspired me and I'm now pushing myself again. I wish you the best.

@@ithinkimtherealcam7628 the worst feeling is when you realize you were a better person before, when you actually tried, but now just stupid jaded and lazy

Crazy how everyone here feels the same way

Same bro, same........

same…

Damn bro, sorry it didn’t work out

I feel sorry for you

Really man. Now I gotta hire BILL GATES to do my laundry.

LMAO

You ruined your life bro

It hurts doesn't it.

hi hawk!

Why arent you in team tribe videos anymore?

God codm is just an app that makes ppl through their life away and the bad thing is I want to do it even tho I’m 14

Bro.. I haven't played cod in 2 weeks...

It's a robot, not a "guy".

I agree but don't agree with the waking up thing. I love to wake up whenever I feel ready to wake up.

the default yes thing can go wrong easily but the rest i agree with.

Umm if I may, for 6, say yes especially to the divine call that you should serve and not be served. Say yes to the call to serve people even if you know they don't deserve it. Because you yourself received undeserved privileges. Because you yourself is the same as them. Undeserving of the privilege that you've received and that you will now share(-the privileges) to them, to make the world a better place before you leave.

JuSt Be HaPpY

Yeah like Marie Antoinette when she was beheaded for being inside her mansion all the time, eating cake, enjoying her life, being happy, and what about the people that she was meant to serve. She was beheaded and she did not even know why until the end. She was happy. You know what's happening around the world, what are you doing? You can look away. However, you can never say you did not know. Serve and not be served. That's how life should be. We know people are suffering right now, what are we doing? What am I doing? Yeah sorry for lashing it out on you. I just feel like I'm sacrificing other people when I feel comfort. Especially when I'm just sitting on our dining room lashing it all out in the comment section of a comment section of a youtube video. Like yeah what am I doing? I imagine people right infront of me in a single line waiting for me to reach out to them one by one. And it's a long line of people. Right now and in the long run of things, how can I help them? How can I make their lives better? "Some don't deserve it." "I don't care."

wait, I didn't even realize this video was 7 minutes after reading your comment.😬

This wasn't motivational. This was a call out to all the people in the world that do this, and are perpetually stuck in their own self misery that they just can't get out of. It's not about being miserable, it's about not wanting to go on or keep going.

@@dr.dreamer8914 it’s called sarcasm 😂🤦‍♂️

I felt bad at first because I've done all these things, but then I realized that I have made a concerted effort to correct all these things as well.

No it’s not. You will go back to doing nothing.

Never too late to change brotha. Just fix 1 thing at a time from easiest to hardest