How To Be Talkative And Less Shy 

I’m an introvert but I get my energy from people I like I be hella boring when I spend too much time alone

in middle school i was very talkative and not shy at all but now in high school i have become very shy. i’m shy even around friends that i’ve known for years

The problem is not the shyness It's more about what do I talk about?

Ive been in such a toxic loop of hating being around people when I’m in public, and wishing I can talk to anybody when I’m at home feeling lonely and bored. I can’t even laugh, have fun, or communicate with people anymore, as I feel like an alien. This situation has lasted for far too long, and I honestly don’t have any idea on how to take the next step.

When I'm shy, I'm not just afraid to say something, my prefrontal cortex is totally blocked and I can't even think about anything. I lose all my thoughts, that's why I'm not saying anything. Thoughts stop flowing in my head, there's just a blank slate. But as soon as I get home and the anxiety goes away, I have words, thoughts and ideas that I would like to say, but it's too late.

I remember when you said this on a podcast episode, when you said "we just never learned and it mind boggles me that this stuff isn't taught in school". I believe the topic of discussion that was going on was storytelling, or just how to tell a great story when talking to or interacting with someone.

These videos are helping me overcome being socially awkward. Recently, I got so socially awkward that I developed a mindset that "maybe I'm just not meant for friends" or "maybe you're just a loner" and isolated myself. Then one day I searched up how to be more socially confident, and you showed up. I've always thought that making friends was hard, but maybe I just needed to be my true self around people.

idfk why 😭 whenever i’m in school i just shut downnn. like i’m all talkative everywhere but oml

I just saw this video and I’m now one of the most social people at my school now! I really appreciate your wonderful tips

i have all the confidence and wanna talk, the only problem i have is being dry and not knowing what to talk about

Thanks for the great tips! I just found myself being at my first party this weekend and these tips would really help if i knew them beforehand. Especially the tip to stop filtering myself will really help, as i very often overthink what i should say next.

I'm an introverted person These tips help me tremendously. Thank you for these lovely tips 😊

Any quiet Virgos,Scorpios and Sagittarius here?

Being talkative is easy. The hard part is do small talk with co-worker at work while focusing on others tasks and do it with a second language 😂

I began introvert since I grown up But was a very lively at childhood ages 4-10 These days I feel happy being alone Thanks a lot for the tip

I'm actually really Quiet so this video was very helpful , It will definitely build up my social life🤭

Thank you so much, some how I never realized I was just trying to hard to fit in, this video really helped!

I don’t know how did I become an introvert. Maybe because of school. Unlike other my classmates, I spend more time studying rather hanging out with my classmates. I also used to spend time in our yard, however now I don’t feel like for example going for a walk… Now I hope that everything will be fixed

I have a dead spot on my frontal lobe so memory is an issue. I work, drive, do Juijitsu. Yet, my confidence in meeting others is lagging. I enjoy your input so much.

I even dont know what topics to talk with my friends🥺I only talk of they talk about a topic that i like

I'm actually not shy but I don't know how to carry a conversation, I can't tell interesting stories like others, I only speak short sentences and ask generic questions. 😢

I am not shy of people but I don't know what to say ... That's why I don't talk more

I’m hopping to help myself to not to be so unapproachable I’m super nervous and shy, I saw a couple of your videos and I saw a change on how I look when I’m being nervous and shy and just overall unapproachable and then I saw how I looked when I’m trying to be Approachable I even asked my self if I were someone else I would want to interact with the person who looks slightly happy and open. So I’m hoping if I continue to practice and step out of my shell that I will soon see some changes in me and maybe I might make some new friends.

Yes. I don’t usually join extra activities. And I never become talkative in class.

❤ thank you so much for the tips ❤❤

My social skills are actually pretty good, i just have a hard time be likeable in the longevity of things. In a sorts of course. Who knows? I'm probably over thinking it, lol.

My problem is that, I’m not shy i just don’t like to have small talks about average stuff

My zodiac is cancer and I grew up as introvert due to my mom “holding my hand and talking for me my entire life) I never really learned how to just hold a simple conversation with others and now that I’m 30 I still don’t know how to be talkative whether that’s with new people and people I’ve known for years

I’ll try thanks man I know I need to be more social

I met some moms in a mom group and I honestly was just sitting there unable to talk or be heard. They were all so loud and talkative… when I tried to talk they couldn’t even hear me 🤣🤣🤣 its so awkward but I really need to improve

While checking out at the store i can banter with the clerk no problem. At a party i would be paralyzed.

I'll start from 'Plan ahead of time'.

To be more confident and to be more relatable.

We do this

Accept your self and not compare to nobody Body language confindent Planeje interações e prepare assuntos Que se lixe o julgamento de outros, accept quem vc é. Ninguém é melhor ou mais interessante that you Pratique everyday, parte por parte - Ask for motivation and how the things make them feel Nunca dê respostas curtas, sempre forneça mais detalhes no que diz para permitir que outros criem assuntos e vc também. Ache sempre pontos em comum. Qual é a pior coisa q pode acontecer por tentar? Vergonha? Ótimo! Pelo menos não morreste. Eles vão esquecer de ti em 30segundos e voltar para única coisa que lhes interessa mais do q vc, a vida delas. Pare de se filtrar, fale o q te vem em mente sem medo, pensando no que as palavras e assuntos lhe fazem lembrar. Se filtrar, tentar agradar ou dar good impression have the opposite effect, just have fun.

I can try smiling at people but I don’t know how I look like. It’s hard to do this without being observed

The problem with me is I'm an extrovert. I love talking to people and being in groups and hanging out in groups. But I'm afraid to talk because of high school trauma. And because of high school trauma, I didn't connect with anyone after the pandemic ended. So, I didn't know how to approach people and talk with them.

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People looking this video to get friends and a partner, I’m looking at it to talk to my interviewer and not stutter or start blanking when they asked me a question 💀💀

My shyness even makes me uncomfortable posting my pictures on my social pages Sometimes my friends asked why didn’t you post these pictures they look 👀 cute 🥰

Yeah I’m an introvert I’m awkward when it comes to talking to others even my friends

I’ll be more so social planning ahead

I used to be really talkative as a kid as a result I was always getting in trouble at school 1 grade my mother beat me after having a conference with the teacher and after that I became a loner at school I couldn’t talk in school or make any friends except out of school I did a friends now as an adult I’m struggling on making conversation and making new friends will this still help me?

I always keep smiling cause if I don’t I’ll be so cold

Look, I am confident, I love myself, it's just that I don't know what to do

I just need this for volleyball

Liked this one most..

I used to be so outgoing, I was constantly making people laugh and I could always talk. But with my wife’s family I absolutely cannot talk and Idk why. It’s like I have a block, i can’t think of anything to say

Amazing video dude. It helped alot thanks

How do you overcome social anxiety for immigrants? I think I have anxiety speaking English, I only speak when I am confident with what I am saying

I am not scared to talk, i just feel like my mind goes blank in the middle of conversation. Like brain fog. Especially after Covid era.

I try to be myself and not someone else, but I just don't know my interests or who I really am. Any suggestions?

from my birth only i am shy and quiet. i want to become a talkative person but I am not able to so what can i do

My close friend is avoiding me for my boringness but I respect her as my best friend from but she doesn’t. When I stand with her outside of class then most of the time she goes to her other friend she doesn’t care I am alone what can I do?

I have a friend who always walks up to me initiating conversation with me. I’m currently trying to brave it up and reciprocate the conversation back with him because I don’t want him to feel like I’m not interested in talking or think I’m being one-sided all because I’m just being shy. 😣 How do I do that without feeling so nervous? Is this another way of me accidentally filtering myself?

Can you help me? Basically I try and talk but I get left out I can’t act confident I can’t leave toxic situations. But here’s we’re I need help,I have a friend group and they’re chatty and confident so I wanna be like them so I’m not left out. Please help

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not sure if you'll respond (or anybody rlly) but can someone give me tips to talk about with a person? I'm not shy or anything but when someone approaches me I just don't know what to talk about and it gets really awkward 😅

This video is helpfull I usualy come up with stories that are half-truths, but i guess i need to be more authentic I had problems at school, i got into fights, i had only 1 girlfriend despite beign almost 25 years old, so i feel like i dont have much to say most of time.

I am a Virgo

Do you have any course? How can I contact with you?

Watch this other video to help you talk more: 👉 How to become more talkative as an introvert: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-ocv68BsL8mg.html

I talk way too much. I see my wife's eyes rolling as i yack away. Stranger or not i talk and soeak my mind. My eldest son has gotten this habit from me since i see him talking to complete strangers sometimes. He's far from shy.

I used to not talk much and now i talk but still they make fun of me as quiet kid i hate it

I don’t talk much cause I just feel like I don’t have anything important to say, or even something nice to say. “ if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all “ 😶

What to talk

i just have a stutter so i just dont talk

My problem is I just feel awkward

I had the self awareness, I could always connect and relate to people and emphasize with them but I COULD NEVER ACCEPT MYSELF AS A PERSON. I always had to act a certain way around people but the moment i stopped filtering it truly felt like i was social and a bit more happier.

Hi

My true self sucks not an opinion it’s a fact

Nobody needs to become more Social

Be interested, not intresting!

Imagine taking advantage of someone's social insecurity to make a course which you have to pay monthly.

I talk very less and bad boys make fun of my name

“Start with eye contact and a smile” Okay… “Give some small talk” … “After that, use some witty banter and that’s it. No need to over complicate the process.” You lost me at small talk. Edit: All jokes aside, this generation is poor with communication with a small portion of men actually being outgoing while a decent chunk of us are introverted. And obviously a girl isn’t gonna walk up to you and talk to you even if she likes you. She’s gotta be really down bad for you in order to even look your way and say “Hello”. To them that’s like asking them to get to the moon without a rocket, it’s impossible. That’s why studies say young men reportedly have 1 close friend or none and no romantic relationships to speak of. The men loneliness epidemic is real.