How to Become a Sex God | Gregor Schmidinger | TEDxDonauinsel

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Gregor suffered from one of the worst nightmares of a 20-something guy, erectile dysfunction. Once he knew the cause, he decided to not only reverse his ED but he also wanted to make up for all the lost years by becoming a Sex God. Little did he know, that he first had to completely revise his definition of a Sex God with the help of the Greek philosopher Plato.
Gregor Schmidinger is a filmmaker living in Vienna, Austria. He studied screenwriting at the University of California Los Angeles and is currently working on his debut feature film Nevrland, that artistically explores the themes of sexuality and pornography. In 2012, he started his blog the Sex God Project, where he wrote about his personal experiences with porn-induced erectile dysfunction and quitting porn.
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@vivienly5722 8 лет назад

He looked so embarassed but he is so brave for telling his story and educating others! God bless him !!!

@mihcalk 3 года назад

. Vi v Vivi

@rafasimsim 3 года назад

Agree!!! 👏 👏

@danielbianchi3479 3 года назад

So True, it took a lot of confidence & courage to go on stage in front of A roomful of Total Strangers & try to enlighten them on such a Taboo Subject! Big respect to this courageous man!

@ozzylogano6732 3 года назад

Everyone deserves love and it feels amazing 🤩 happy for this young man

@jvrkneymalvrkney 8 лет назад

His method of weening himself off of the porn addiction via the use of awareness and willpower rather than guilt and shame could probably help with many compulsions and addictions. Guilt and shame really only feed the cycle by causing you to swing from extremes without correcting the core issues. Suppression breeds tension and relapse.

@declanattenborrow4543 6 лет назад

incredible comment

@m3m3fuzionz67 4 года назад

Damn, you just summarized addiction and a proactive solution

@danielbianchi3479 3 года назад

Valid point!

@Nathan-lj2cj 3 года назад

What an excellent point. Thought work is literally everywhere

@TheRoarWithin 9 лет назад

Day 146 without porn for me. It definitely helps improve your sex life... that shit's toxic.

@alyxshark 8 лет назад

+Stefan Alexander Lay You have an appropriate last name, Mr Lay haha

@manictiger 8 лет назад

+Stefan Alexander Lay That's exceedingly easy. But he also mentioned 'no masturbation for 120 days'. Uh... WHAT?

@jaredwalls3889 8 лет назад

+alyxshark lmao

@soulwaves20000 8 лет назад

+Stefan Alexander Lay Wow, not even an accident? Not a wet dream??

@musclebrainsmartypants6275 8 лет назад

+Stefan Alexander Lay How are you doing?

@Blessthemartyr132 8 лет назад

From this day forward, I'm going to stop watching porn. Thank you for your message because this completely complies with my life.

@sashacrespi 7 лет назад

With you! how is it going?

@kansen-sei8353 7 лет назад

I'm gonna leave a hand print on my dong, please excuse me while I go fap to ladyboys very aggressively

@snxttynozedoc169 7 лет назад

Dennis Little gang

@runescapefan0001 6 лет назад

I bet he didn't last a week.. btw a week in myself

@yardvader458 6 лет назад

Even week is super nice. My record now is a month, but I think we all can do more.

@therebootnation 9 лет назад

Excellent talk! Keep on raising awareness on the potential negative effects of internet porn. Porn has the potential to be extremely sex-negative. There is nothing more sex-negative than something that gives you a limp noodle with real partners. Keep doing your thing Gregor.

@gbd-oq1rz 3 года назад

Limp noodle 🤣🤣

@danielbianchi3479 3 года назад

I’m with you 100% !!!

@timniyo1085 8 лет назад

its hard to admit it to oneself but yeah its a real problem

@usoyade6122 4 года назад

zztop3000 wtf

@michz2256 8 лет назад

To summaries 13 minutes in one sentence: stop watching porn ! Thank you...

@Will-fj9gy 6 лет назад

Thank you fam

@johndoh1000 6 лет назад

That really doesn’t do the video justice

@thekey777 6 лет назад

mich Z тнαик you

@tusharbarman1924 5 лет назад

God bless you

@tejinderchauhan 5 лет назад

Thanks for time saving

@mariameyer4217 8 лет назад

So basically, he shares the same problem that nearly every girl struggles with; no orgasm, lack of stimulation, no doctors that can truly help, and being surrounded by people that overlook this frustration. This is such a great talk and should definitely be recommended. Anxiety can be very debilitating.

@Sma3oYaJame3a 5 лет назад

Mike John hahahahaha 😂😂

@self-prodigytheory4035 5 лет назад

@Mike John yeah what he said, I need to know this for research purposes. Not for me but for my friend.

@paulbeck2816 5 лет назад

Myth

@AnyaIzmailova 5 лет назад

@Mike John I'm not sure if you're being sarcastic or not, but obviously it's not all about the size. It's about skills, communication & having a strong connection to your partner.

@amamuffin Год назад

It’s a myth women can’t orgasm, I’ve never had an issue

@МаксимилианФилипожкиь 3 года назад

So much respect for this guy and his journey. Talks like this one should be made in schools

@bertstumpton8104 5 лет назад

4 months to re-wire my brain😵 wish me luck

@saunders_daniel 5 лет назад

Dwl

@jordandixon5184 5 лет назад

So how’d it go?

@harisonxavier9441 5 лет назад

Bert Stumpton, how did it go?

@allanmubeezi4216 4 года назад

Did it work for you?

@Trelznc 3 года назад

Why take 4 months when it can take 12 hours ? Take a mushroom trip 😇

@djgruby 8 лет назад

Full respect for this talk.

@peterjuryobligacion5743 3 года назад

I would like to thank you for being confident enough to share this.

@VansSkully 8 лет назад

Wow this video totally just opened my eyes on this whole PIED recovery process. His story is the exact same as mine...although he gave up porn completely he tried to project what he used to watch into his real sex which is what I tried to do as well. That being said I think that we as a society should educate kids at a young age the negative affects of viewing pornography, it is simply not worth the problems you will face later on in life because of it.

@Yuztok 8 лет назад

It's not simply the porn itself, it's how you feel about it. Better than "banning" pornography, is to try to change the mindset of young individuals so that they don't get addicted to pornography.

@thenewme79 8 лет назад

I watch a fuck ton of porn, and have done so since I was a teenager. I'm what is called a sex god, constant erections even after climaxing multiple times and still ready for more.

@richardhayward1171 7 лет назад

I was the same way man...rock hard erections and loving every minute of it...hot hot women, endless situations. When it hits you, you will be like WTF?????!!!. When you see porn for what it REALLY is, you start the journey to heal. Go ahead, say 'that will never happen to me'...that's what I said too. When you get to that point, goto 'yourbrainonporn' site.

@darrylrobidaable 7 лет назад

Sounds to good to be true, sure your not schizophrenic. Just joking, if you got em smoke em. I'm sixty years old and never in my life have I experienced such low performance. I have had cement hard erections permanently for my entire life since age 5yrs. And my multiple orgasms have turned into one giant non-stop orgasm. In fact, I'm having one right now. Got to go!

@arestcm1013 5 лет назад

sorry, i didnt quite understand what did he do to fix his ED problems?

@Hi_nochai_bye 5 лет назад

Thank you man! This video shows the sheer courage you have...

@NYCHeavyHitz212 8 лет назад

This is what I was expecting when I clicked on "Why I Stopped Watching Porn" by Ran Gavrieli.

@odm9107 8 лет назад

this mans speaks the cure...

@lilwatermoccasin3431 5 лет назад

Close to the end of the talk I’m over here saying “thank you” in my lonesome for the knowledge cuz this issah real stuff and useful. Guilt and those sort of emotions are suicidal type and just get nobody anywhere good, similar to pride it’s just not necessary. Nobody should feel they have to prove themselves to anybody just be yourself, do what your heart resonates and feels more at home with and do it just to smile more on your own, it’s all really important. There’s nothing wrong with being alone as well, nobody should feel anxious towards their own loneliness, and it’s all for an important reason and beside, nobody is ever really alone.

@mat_supersocial 9 лет назад

Courageous, interesting and very well delivered talk! Congrats Gregor! :)

@M.Djurhuus 5 лет назад

5:54 the topic starts

@scarlett285 7 лет назад

Day 69 of no porn it has definitely helped my sex life oh wait I don't have one.

@AnyaIzmailova 5 лет назад

You will:)

@bongafulpeeps4660 4 года назад

Drake Silas lol why?

@frankjaeger942 4 года назад

nice

@calvinbrady9944 8 лет назад

I have this same thing. No medical reason to have this problem. Was told to take Cialis. I've been addicted to porn videos for years. I'm now on a reboot.

@numendei6025 7 лет назад

Calvin Brady how is it going bro?

@rohangiroti4497 5 лет назад

Did you get any results?

@Azav312 5 лет назад

I guess he canceled his internet service !

@DILLIGAF679 3 года назад

@@Azav312 😂😂😂

@szervosz 6 лет назад

Plato's Cave is our comfort zone.

@PoseidonKross2009 8 лет назад

Dude needs an actual stage instead of a table lol Kudos to the speaker for making the best of it

@johnl.sulpizioii1379 9 лет назад

You are very thoughtful and insightful, Gregor! Thank you for your wonderful presentation!

@TheTruth24Seven 3 года назад

He's speaking for a silent majority

@gollum19671967 2 года назад

Amazing talk. THe end left me with a tear in my eye. So meaningful.

@toddbedusek6263 5 лет назад

Not just curing Ed but more motivation.mental clarity ,less lethargy etc ,less back pain etc .

@enhdojodoe1223 8 лет назад

Nicely put! I'll surely watch it again.

@ShioriHama 8 лет назад

wow didnt expect such a good talk from the title haha. Changed my views and attitudes on sex

@لفتهالحريشاوي 7 лет назад

Shio ri good morring

@bestestinventions7032 5 лет назад

5:00 the best part is yet to come.. he forgot to say no pun intended again

@nellymiller7669 3 года назад

Thanks so much for sharing this precious content! That 's extraordinarily courageous!

@chaoscore09 7 лет назад

i have EOD. erectile overfunction. i'm 18. i get erections from riding a bus.

@KayleeANNAytbe 6 лет назад

The best ted talk .. needs to be teaching at school

@JTA-hq1cm 4 года назад

Very brave to show his vulnerabilities and thank you for bringing awareness to the problem

@chibasenkosana4294 3 года назад

And then you still get people who give such a masterpiece a thumbs down. True sign that no matter how good you are, you'll never be loved by everyone💔

@carissafisher7514 3 года назад

Maybe they hate ED

@Jupitra86 9 лет назад

thanks so much for sharing your research!!

@easternbluebird9371 8 лет назад

"mental gap between your impulse to watch porn and doing it" = loading of the video :))

@solrossi_illustration 8 лет назад

Very interesting perspective, thanks Gregor.

@anandk5536 5 лет назад

A brave step and he defeat fear of rejection.

@renanlinard7 6 лет назад

This lecture in one word: Amazing

@BigBootyDrugs 9 лет назад

Good talk, especially if you're the type of person who loves the idea of success, but inside is scared of success

@דודרנדלמן 5 лет назад

Rare gem of a talk. Thank you

@nehakhatri9196 5 лет назад

I just watched your video for no reason bcoz my bf don't watch this on regular basis we have been in relation from 3 years and 3 months but liked your video because you are doing great job for others.gbu.

@amitchothani9832 3 года назад

just share this video with him

@nomad98 3 года назад

120 days goal

@369Shahin 4 года назад

This Jedi Lord man had so many goddamn layers! Skip to 9:00 and you will be blown away.

@RafaelSaffiotti 7 лет назад

Absolutely fantastic and helpful!

@darcel21ify 9 лет назад

Well said!

@MrRubberduck11 5 лет назад

This was so much better than I thought it would be

@MrArun72 8 лет назад

That really helpful , i think every man has once suffered from it !! Thanks for showing way to be sex go

@raftal08 6 лет назад

an eye opening courageous talk !

@therealturph 3 года назад

Vulnerability on another level!! Thanks for the share bro 💪🏿💯🎯💎

@andrewkh3710 7 лет назад

wow great talk,i needed this

@agrimo1516 4 года назад

Day 7 of 120. I will get rid of ED for good and come back to this comment.

@besk777 4 года назад

*I am like you too* *good luck*

@agrimo8554 4 года назад

Good luck man! Day 14 now.

@richardcamarinha6223 3 года назад

Hey man, How is it going?

@alv1174 3 года назад

Any update?

@agrimo1516 3 года назад

@@alv1174 ED completely cured, i have zero issues. Not only that, i can go more rounds than i have ever could before.

@The_Scouts_Code 7 лет назад

The postmodern version of the shadows in platos cave

@Ashley-kk2tg 9 месяцев назад

9:35 اختصار الفيديو ان البورنوجرافي بتخلي نظرتنا مقتصرة فقط على الرؤية ودا مش الواقع والاهم ف العلاقة هو اللمس وانو السكس مش بس لاطفاء الرغبات البيلوجية هو شكل من أشكال الفن , طريقة للتعبير عن النفس وطريقة للتعافي العاطفي والجسدي , بوابة للتجارب الشخصية التي تفوق فهمنا للجسد والعقل

@delyanganev 8 лет назад

Definitely not about becoming a sex god. You should choose a more fitting title.

@ikigai3232 7 лет назад

Delyan Ganev, his definition of a sex God is great though. I liked his presentation.

@EH-zo9cf Год назад

🤦🏻‍♀️

@aikishugyo 4 года назад

Nice analogy and methodology based on self-awareness. I like it!

@theinfinitevic9017 3 года назад

Excellent. Great job, brother.

@joseavendano2140 2 года назад

What a profound talk

@rkvidekar 8 лет назад

great talk!!

@sammmyyyyyy 3 года назад

Imagine being the one giving this Ted talk

@garethmorgan3665 3 года назад

Really interesting video and clever title.

@srinivasnahak3473 3 года назад

I loved the Plato's Cave example....

@martian0955 5 лет назад

God bless you brother ❤️

@thebraindeadweasel8648 3 года назад

really thoughtfull and really inspiring

@IBRAHIMKHAN-gz3et 5 лет назад

My 4 months starting now

@freieux29 3 года назад

great speaking, deep knowledge told. Insightful and inspired

@theedge5584 3 года назад

ITS ALL IN YOUR HEAD.....BELIEF AND NEGATIVE THOUGHTS DRAIN THE LIFE OUT OF US

@chrysa9970 2 года назад

Amazing talk. Congrats ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

@Aj-iy5po 5 лет назад

Amazing. Thank you.

@angelikaskoroszyn8495 6 лет назад

It's like chocolate. Eating it every day make it less tasty. Time to time is completely OK

@jamesedward3619 5 лет назад

I don't know man, I eat chocolate every day and it's just as delicious every time as it was the last time.

@Cinnameisje 3 года назад

Beautiful message 🙏

@Avecfort 3 года назад

Great video, thank you for sharing!

@_TenaciousD_ 8 лет назад

awesome talk

@annan4866 7 месяцев назад

Thank you ❤ very enlightening!

@hirgons 8 лет назад

Hey, great !!! Well done man

@loveviolence8528 5 лет назад

I have a problem keeping it down every day , it just comes back up in few mins like a pole for fucks sake...

@arkokarmakar3596 2 года назад

Anything in extreme can do harm. That includes reading, or even watching porns

@toddbedusek6263 5 лет назад

And low seratonin effects ejucoation ,that's why ssri meds or supplements like dapavor can help and or sprays ...

@thrashtronaut999 3 года назад

what goes up must come down, keep a balance

@zenmcgrand1659 8 лет назад

By having sex more often I feel you get around the erectile dysfunction thing. I'm having it once a week and things are good (:

@jaredwalls3889 8 лет назад

+YourMother 5 if you have the time! no problems after that!

@josefromspace 6 лет назад

Zen McGrand Once a week is more often? Did you mean less often?

@SebastianSeanCrow 7 лет назад

First fine I heard the Allegory of the Cave, it was in the context of comic book characters breaking the fourth wall. God, I'm such a nerve.

@valianth 8 лет назад

If rooney mara was a man, this is what I'd expect her to look like

@harry356 8 лет назад

great talk. Actually there's a book that has the name sex god method and it really delivers what he is talking about. It can transform your life in a very positive way.

@prabhatkiranchaulagain1095 5 лет назад

Wow Thank you for your talk Myan. !!!!!!!

@musicpalace2508 3 года назад

About a million views.... It shows that really it's a serious problem

@elliottgwendolyn 8 лет назад

So good! Ten points :)

@3goldfinger 4 года назад

Well, what is a problem for some, is help for others.

@jennifermizrahi98 Год назад

One of the best talks I have ever seen. Get out of the cave, and into reality.

@prosper3883 8 лет назад

awesome man

@Biology20 3 года назад

@Suggestion You should add subtitles to every video

@dhanry 3 года назад

what good is wisdom when it brings no profit to the wise

@SageModeisOn 6 лет назад

Scientically , saving your sperms can help you grow like a normal man , and becoming more attractive to women. In a nutshell

@Tschoo 9 лет назад

A little correction on the part where you talked about dopamine. Dopamine produces a feeling of craving and wanting and not a feeling of pleasure. Source: Gary Wilson.

@xXxNinjaPenguinxXx 8 лет назад

+MrJoeRedford insert correct chemical name: Serotonin

@sanjaynakadehnl 6 лет назад

Endorphins

@runescapefan0001 6 лет назад

Dopamine is the brains reward after fulfilling the craving

@devkamal7705 3 года назад

For married only: Read 1 kama shastra, Rati rahasya ,vivahit prem, rai vilas. Then forget all. Otherwise God's re Crazy sometimes. Believe me a sleeping fallow becomes fire on after reading them the whole world changes . And you are not lazy anymore. Negative comes that you can see what man or womn wants now . And that mas start around you even it kills.

@toddbedusek6263 5 лет назад

Plus the death grip