Be Confident & Be Own Best Friend Technique: 1. Speak Truth 2. Loving 3.Focus on what you can control 4. Accept what you can’t control 5. Specific Key: Don’t waste energy and time worrying about others thoughts of us (#4)
the best confidence builder is what u accomplish: getting amazing grades doing acts of kindness regularly (working for a charity) doing work well (like u give ur 100%) basically u do something that makes u feel PROUD-- it changes u inside believe me. and the more work u put it the harder it took to accomplish the more proud u are self-discipline is an EXTREME self-confidence builder
It's great to accomplish things and gain a sense of self pride, but we have to be careful about that. Then you're building self esteem and self confidence by attaching it to accomplishment alone. Also, self-discipline can be easily used by people who still feel unconfident, it doesn't make them more confident. Confidence comes from a sense of peace with you are, regardless of accomplishment, or habits. I think volunteering is an awesome act of generosity and awareness, but it's not an accomplishment as much as it's moreso, placing your gain (accomplishment) aside to serve a cause or need greater than you.
We should talk! Story of my life! %%Me at work, "Wow, guys...why din ya tell me I had spinach in my teeth?" Coworkers: We din want to hurt your feelings. Huh? Quick fix on that one. Later same day, everyone points out it's 'against the rules' to receive personal calls when the high school calls cuz my kid needs stitches. Thanks, guys...so helpful!
