How To Build Your Music Business | Avoid This Common Mistake

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Starting a career in music is almost impossible if you go about it in the wrong way. Music marketing and understanding the music industry ins and outs is only part of the equation. There is one thing that sets big name artists, bands, and producers apart from the rest and it's something that most of us fail to do. Making this mistake will not only ruin your chances at a music career, but it will ultimately ruin your life. I actually made this mistake myself when I first started, but luckily I realized what I was doing wrong before it was too late. I made this video in hopes that you don't make the same mistake yourself.
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@marvomusic 5 лет назад

"I don't wanna be a forgettable". This could easily be a life motto!

@IamDumham 2 года назад

That is the life motto

@drive-byguitarlessons1858 5 лет назад

I am 40 and have just recently “found myself”. I won’t bore anyone with the details, but having arrived at what I feel is my true station in life, it has put things I thought were so very important into focus. The brass rings are actually tarnished and what I had with me this whole time was my true treasure. Great video. Something you said has resonated. It’s unrelated, but thanks for the unintended truth and intended truth alike.

@nigelcarren 5 лет назад

Nice to read of your epiphany mon ami. I had one recently too. To Infinity and beyond!! ... Good luck... Here goes!! 🏆🚀

@acousticmusic3615 4 года назад

I'm 16, I've always had a passion for music ever since I was a little kid. Adam you've really inspired me and encouraged me. I always have wanted to pursue a career in the music industry, but I never knew where to start. Thank you so much for giving me and many other people around the world this advise!

@nonguitarplayer 7 месяцев назад

As a young person, I’m constantly worrying about riding the middle. Being likeable by everyone. Terrified of being hated. I’m still trying to truly find who I am, trying to find who I genuinely am, but this video has further pushed me to put more work into doing so. I look forward to finding my genuine self, and I’m so excited to share that with the world in my music someday.

@itstylerfuller 5 лет назад

I love your videos, man. You are very gifted at delivering messages people need to here. Thank you for doing what you do.

@Volentry 5 лет назад

Just discovered your channel, subbed and also have noticed a thing about your videos that I'm sure many people have overlooked but is actually a testament to your skill... Many of your videos are one-take, or consist of a few takes only. Not those that cut to a different take every sentence or phrase. Small detail, but it makes a big difference in the presentation's feel.

@JamieDupuisMusician 5 лет назад

Great advice man!

@lisaclark4517 5 лет назад

Thank u for this. Being my authentic self on RU-vid is more difficult than I expected. It has also created some introspection... because I'm a people pleaser. Am I the way I am because I want people to like me? It's also scary. I'm an adult, and it's still intimidating. Thank u for the encouragement.

@kevinsoloman7684 2 года назад

If u want to make every people like there is a trouble we love ones but they love anouther ones thats it.

@ogforeva Год назад

no matter how good ur are , smbody outthere is gonna find a reason to hate u, even wanting ppl to like you can be a reason why somebody else hates you

@stompcity4085 5 лет назад

I HAVE GAINED INSIGHT INTO MY REAL SELF, in the last 2 years suffering from PTSD, but I am full-time in music and happier than I've ever been, love your work! Cheers, big ears

@BarukkiBooPyromancervideos 4 года назад

That "being my authentic self" journey is ongoing. It's like this stair case. Thanks for the motivation and honesty😁

@DEMONTmx 5 лет назад

It hit me, this video just hit me.... Like when you're reading a book and a truth hits you, when you said "There's nobody thats perfect, and those who try to be, they crack eventually..." This is so true! And im always trying to be perfect, especially as an artist and "public figure".... im not going to be! OMG i feel like i just got liberated, dude! Thank you!

@sin.huya11 Год назад

I'm myself unapologetically. I love myself. I'm not here to please everyone. I won't give up.

@BRUZNEWTON 4 года назад

When I remembered the kid who used to be a dreamer and he just wanted sing and dance, my passion resurrected.

@brianpat7087 5 лет назад

I'm not going to front but, today I got a reality check and I'm kind of glad it happed.

@Luis-nk7iq 5 лет назад

This is a blessing. Thxs Adam. BTW, ur left arm tattoo is badass

@IPutTheBand 5 лет назад

Thank you Adam! And thank you for taking time to reply questions, and give advice for free. Thanks!!

@azaleajanemusic 5 лет назад

I need to hear all this repeatedly! So much of my life, not just music, is just about trying to figure out who I am and just showing people that. I love the line "my vulnerabilities are what make me me". I love seeing people be more open and frank about their vulnerabilities. It feeds me!

@lemmy.oficial 3 года назад

Just started watching your videos today and they are great, super inspirational love it. Keep doing what you're doing and trust you can even change people's mindset of how they look at what they want to be in life! You're a great person keep that in mind.

@Daviddosi 5 лет назад

Your channel is gold Adam! youre allways spitting the truth. I remeber a few years ago when i allways tried to please every one but i still ended up with people disliking me. as fast as i stopped that and was me 100% It all changed and its like a weight who dissapers from your shoulders. It does somthing to you and u get like a aura who drags the real people towards you.

@Thamigo 5 лет назад

Appreciated the words of wisdom, hope you get well!

@TobiasRommel97 5 лет назад

Great advice in this video, thank you so much Adam ! So glad I found your channel and to see it growing. There is so much good advice in your videos 🙂👌🏻👍🏻 love it !!!

@dahlinbossmusiclifestylere6465 5 лет назад

This is very helpful Adam, Big up yourself for the good teachings Been learning a lot

@Marsellis 5 лет назад

This was helpful, being yourself is the easiest and hardest thing to do in your career!!!

@thezackschade 2 года назад

This is the first video that I watched from this channel... SUBSCRIBING. I think this one answers my own questions on why I'm always down. 12 Years of music(not a specialist, but a generalist.. and I don't think of ever stopping) ✌🏻

@hallebeedoo 4 года назад

This is just what I needed right now :) I've been nervous to allow my full personality to shine through on my social media, but I truly think it's what I need to do. It fits a niche that is far from oversaturated. Thank you so much for your amazing videos.

@robertgoldner2453 5 лет назад

Glad i found your channel man. Your videos really motivates people or atleast one!. Taking your advise and somethings got to happen!

@angelynaalice 5 лет назад

thank you for sharing. i watched your video because i've been wanting to start a youtube channel, but haven't really known where to start. your video helped me understand that the first thing i need to do is reflect on myself, who i am and what i want to share with the world. thanks for delivering great wisdom. it inspires me to do the same for others as i've always wanted to!

@drydessert4198 5 лет назад

I paused this and watched your first video, then 2-3 more over the years. The first one is really funny. Thank you for not deleting it. It demonstrates well what a huge progress we can make. Nobody should hold oneself back because one perhaps feels embarrassed for not being on the same level as a seasoned professional. If starting now means that people laugh at you (for a while), that's fine. It takes guts for making yourself public and therefore a potential target for trolls. All the people who you might be afraid of mocking you are cowards anyway, sitting in their comfy home, typing comments on the web anonymously. And they are never going anywhere. Not worth bothering. ... As for this video: Great value as always. Thank you. :)

@hush4749 5 лет назад

Mate,if I'll succed in my music career,i swear...I really want to shake your hand someday... Not only because you help me in music,but you also help me to improve my thinking,my life,at my "sweet 20"... Thanks a lot,and i wish you the best, 'cause you really deserve it man ;)

@hush4749 5 лет назад

P.S: I just finish watching your video,and....mate...you make me feel like WE know for years =]] Even if you don't know me at all...That's a special thing man...That's YOUR special thing,and that's the reason why i came back over and over... You.....are you...and this means a lot...not only for me,i'm sure ;) Have a great day,Adam ;)

@rudegyalvanilla711 5 лет назад

Get well soon brother ❤ thank you for making the video even though you aren't feeling well. We appreciate it. 21st Jan 2017 when I enrolled into music school, I finally became me, and the rest is history, or rather the rest is present lol. Because truly my life is a gift and there is nothing I could be more grateful for.

@OwnlyMirah 4 года назад

i realized who i was through youtube,professionals, and even people i knew. I realized all three has something in common. to reveal that being me isnt necessarily doing what they feel i should do.

@EjRidenhour 2 года назад

Love this video 💯💪being yourself will take you a long way

@ELRADONE 5 лет назад

Always inspiring and motivating ,that's why I am a follower...get well soon homie

@tronnyplaysguitar 5 лет назад

Hey adam, I’m new to the channel and I just wanted to say I really appreciate having a voice talking about business and marketing for music. I’m a guitarist in a hardcore/metal band, so naturally most of the music related channels I sub to are about gear and technical performance related stuff. Almost nobody really takes a deep dive on the marketing and business side of things. Watching your vids has really driven home a lot of things I’ve been realizing about the awful mistakes me and my band have made so far in trying to promote ourselves over the years and really helped inspire me to start taking things into my own hands. I’m saving up to get an actual computer (writing this on an iPad :p) and start my own little bedroom studio so that even if band stuff ends up not working out (which could be a possibility due to member changes schedules and what not) I can be a self sufficient content creator for my own music. I know your more of a hip hop guy, but I don’t think any of your advice has a genre barrier, anyone can use the tips and hacks you talk about to promote any art form or skill, and some of the huge you tubers in the metal community that I personally subscribe to all seem to have very similiar strategies for their social marketing and content schedules as you. As a viewer sometimes it can seem like these people just have unlimited creativity and luck, but any of them talking about their careers in interviews or whatever will always say it’s not about luck it’s about work and consistency. Anyway this isn’t particularly relevant to this video but more just your channel as a whole, I haven’t been here long but I really appreciate your content and your perspective, keep it up bro!

@leonmartell 5 лет назад

This is basically the thing I asked You few days ago by e-mail! Thanks a lot for this, it's actually something that you can't understand by accident. whether You learn it from experience or someone like You explain it to you :) Thanks again!

@alexdivega 5 лет назад

Nice vídeo Adam! I really start discovering myself when I emigrated to Germany, when I was 23 years old...alone! It's hard but at the end a very nice feeling. I like your videos. Keep doing 🤘

@mfghost2165 5 лет назад

Man thats more of a lesson on life than a lesson of youtube/music business! Really good video! Respect for opening up!

@sajadlangari7708 3 года назад

Man you're great. You make people feel great about themselves & the art they're creating. Man I wish you were my big brother.

@Random-wc3hx 4 года назад

I'm recording my first song next week. thank you so much for giving me so many tips on starting out.

@priscilliasportal 2 года назад

This was amazing Thank you so muchhhh You are blessed and May you continue to be 🚀🚀🚀

@silachinwogwugwu6572 4 года назад

Aye man. This video is super vital. Authenticity is real hard to incorporate into artistry. Still struggling with that myself. Glad I came by this video Man.

@mint_vfx 3 года назад

thank you so much, there are some bullies at school who would diss the shit out of me as soon as i would do something new that no one has ever seen before! and this video made me realise that it doesnt matter what they think ab it, its all ab what i want to do, love the vid !

@shadowpriestesssbaybee 3 года назад

I'm starting to go through this now. It's exciting and very intimidating. Also you're great for making this video while sick

@ModestJon 3 года назад

I know I’m super late to the game, but thank you for all the information that you are giving. I relate to this video heavy because throughout my music career I have evolved because in the past I worried about what others would think so I would make my music as such. I wouldn’t even curse or speak on certain topics in my music because I worried about it offending someone. Now I’m at the point of just giving everyone the real me. If you rock with me then cool join the movement if not, then keep it pushing. Thanks for the free game! I will definitely be watching a lot more of your videos! 💪🏾

@rayasunshyne1100 5 лет назад

Thank you i spent so much of my years being told what i should do and pleasing people who hadn't had themselves figured out. Now it's time to figure myself out so I really can be myself.

@witsrip 10 месяцев назад

ive never seen your videos up until this point, but you definitely "made it" in my opinion. you are you, you won.

@jeffcanadasucks Год назад

A friend sent this to me. I’m a texas country artist that often questions if I’m doing the right thing by being myself. Totally needed to hear this. Thank you. New follower here.

@adamivy Год назад

Happy to hear that Jeff!

@filanthistavrianeas4577 5 лет назад

Love this video! Thank you for being honest and sharing your story with us.

@karinruiz2279 Год назад

Adam I just found this video! And I appreciate this point. Makes me think, that I used to be more authentic till something shook me off a bit… soo kinda the other way around, but I like what you say that you can’t stay in the middle cause you’ll be forgettable.. imma focus on reconnecting with my authentic self and show it through my arts !

@mitchlunsfordmusic 4 года назад

What I got out of this video was worth a lot more than I was anticipating when I originally clicked on this video. I'm a goofball Army veteran with a dad bod and a nerdy personality. And for a long time, most of my life I was insecure about showing who I am, because of so many different reasons. I kind of morphed myself into whatever I thought people wanted to see. And eventually that lead to a 5 year break from music entirely. I had play music and sang my whole life and because I thought that it wasnt something that I should do anymore, I stopped. Man, was I just miserable because of it. Then last year, I started playing again. But this time it was different. I'm 31 years old and I finally decided that I'm going to be exactly who I am regardless of what other people's opinions of what I should and should do is. Now, for the first time I feel good about who I am and what I do and for the first time, in my opinion, I'm finally writing and doing the music that portrays who I really am. I'm still new to this whole music scene and I haven't had a billion views or made a million followers yet, but because I finally decided to embrace who I am and who i want to be, I finally have something that I am building and a place to start. I just have a small Facebook page and a RU-vid page that I just started actively posting on, but I have found that I have had more of a positive experience with people since I have finally decided to embrace who I am with all of goofy and nerdy quirks. And I'm just much happier with myself and with my music since I have decided to do so. Thank you for the content that you put out and the awesome information and I wish you the best and for both what you do and also the future of your channel! Thanks man!!

@richardpenamusicpr 5 лет назад

I literally started being more authentic and true to who I am in social media right after I started watching you're videos Adam! Thank you for inspiring me to become greater!! (Typing this while I drive, lol. Know I'm not supposed to but fuck it)

@saoricuzu5571 5 лет назад

Hello Adam I just want to take a time to thank you for all these videos these advises. I decided to give my musical career a try but didn't know where to start and I can't say how much you helped and is helping me to have a direction. Big up from Mauritius.

@MrNewDROID 5 лет назад

Thank you for this video. I am just starting and this is an important video to me. I love your vulnerability. Thank you a lot. 😌

@Diestrafitness 2 года назад

Great video, love the advice about being yourself!

@justdiamond1347 3 года назад

I understand this.I want to thank you for helping me realize not to ride the middle. And to be myself.

@jaytarantino 5 лет назад

Just started watching your channel Adam. I've learned a lot already, thanks for the valuable advice.

@VindreKane 5 лет назад

Thanks Adam, ur really connecting with people 🍄

@Spyritmyx Год назад

Thank you. Really needed to hear this.

@edgarsilvavk8920 5 лет назад

Real talk homie. I barely like and comment videos but this was inspiring enough to make me express my self. Thanks for the words

@ellieramos 5 лет назад

Great video Adam! So back then, when I was 20 years old doing music, I would make novelty ish love songs so I can hit the market in my country... but now, fast forward 3 years, I am writing songs about my struggles with Bipolar Disorder and how I live my life as a broke college student and published them on Spotify and RU-vid haha and I’m gaining more fans that way actually. I’ve began to accept who I was now! Just be yourself and being authentic in content creation is the best advice !

@keepareal3704 5 лет назад

Hope you feel better and great video 👍🏻

@jeremyrmcmahan 5 лет назад

I personally still find it a challenge, but being authentic is definitely something i continue to work on. Thanks for the reminder. Your videos help keep me check.

@soul4bass Месяц назад

I know who I am, just discovered it 5 months ago. Thank you so much for ur videos, you are the youtuber adding the most value to me. You make me feel powerful 'cause you just emphasize my thoughts with so much power. Thank you.

@adamivy Месяц назад

Thank you for the kind words and the support for my channel. I appreciate that.

@jojibiggums1610 5 лет назад

Your videos are really inspirational, I appreciate everything you do to help people and more so being your self. Thank you

@AaronMatJ 3 года назад

Keep making more and more videos! YOU ARE AN UNFORGETTABLE!

@srishtikamboj560 3 года назад

You r a very genuine person:)...always be this way...& we love watching your videos...the content that u produce is always worth it...Thank uuu

@CrystalB0112 4 месяца назад

I actually never really thought about that, but I can tell that you are right. You saved me the trouble of trying to people please. Thank you!

@nickjimenez5611 3 года назад

Your videos opened my eyes to a lot and I really appreciate it! I have been wanting to record drums and play drums for a career( I know this is a very blunt and basic way of saying it but believe me the passion is here I just don’t wanna type a super long comment lol) but I have been afraid to upload my first video and it not look sound and just be overall perfect but I know no one is perfect and everyone starts somewhere! So I def plan on Pursuing more then ever what I want to do

@martez8094 5 лет назад

Needed this bro...great video 💪🏾💯

@HairGlitter 5 лет назад

Dude.. you are so amazing!! Thankyou for sharing you wisdom in honesty. 🙏

@AudioOrchardMusic 4 года назад

Thanks man. This is encouraging and so true.

@GeorgePMusic 5 лет назад

thank you again Adam.. it is always about being yourself and allowing that to come through!!!! totally agree.. thanks for sharing:))

@lekouh_s 2 года назад

Thank you, I needed to hear this.

@alexdivega 5 лет назад

Nice video Adam! I really start discovering myself when I was 23 years old and I emigrated to Germany...alone! It was hard but at the end a very nice feeling. I like your video's! Keep doing 🤘

@duardbandy1241 7 месяцев назад

Thanks for sharing. I am sure, I have been one of the ones who mention limiting cursing never with hate just my different perspective but always value your honesty. I still don't like cursing but always had respect for you. You are awesome for just being you!

@nunopinheiro5543 5 лет назад

Great talk Adam, i hope you get better quick 😎

@muchixl2427 2 года назад

Always great advice!!!

@shanequiabailey8671 5 лет назад

Thanks for this video you made me smile thanks for the encouragement and support!

@TheAudioDabbler 5 лет назад

Introverts unite, separately, in our homes!!! I still can't seem to get out of my own way with a lot of things. Doing youtube videos has helped me come out of my shell some but I still need a lot of work to embrace who I am and let that show in my work. Thanks for the video. Great content as always.

@paulawilliamson637 5 лет назад

ADAM this is pure golden awesomeness !!!!!!! My brother told me once that the just because someone writes a Book or gives an option about any given situation, is exactly that an opinion, it doesn’t make it true or not, it’s whether or not you give it any validity. I was absolutely cut off at the knees concerning any type of encouragement from family or friends concerning my music. I have recently joined the Smule app & the outpouring encouragement is beyond my wildest dreams !!!!!! I have many fans & people following me. My dreams are coming true. I’m humbled. Yes, finally I just my feel like I’m good enough. Thank you very much.

@LeetaBeeta 4 года назад

You are my mentor and life music coach. I appreciate you & I continue to learn. I apply what you teach so the future is positive. Thank you 💯🎤🎶🔥

@AllanGildea 5 лет назад

Great stuff Adam, hope you're feeling better again very soon.

@therealjervsalem4953 5 лет назад

Hey Adam. Man your videos are real as hell. I'm a new subbie and so far, I'm grateful that I found you. Authenticity. It's what I preach! I don't fit in. And I'm so glad I don't. I began my journey of self acceptance in high school. I still care too much for comfort what other people think if I'm being real. When I decided to pursue music, I agonized over who I am as an artist. I don't look like singers out there. I was really overwhelmed. But at the end of the day I had to be me. It doesn't matter. I am who I am. As my Godmama used to say, "To know me is to love me." Damn right!

@datemonthyear 5 лет назад

Discovered it after years of playing covers, shows, orchestras, sessions, and such. Ultimately the focus had to change on to the music that was playing in my head, rather than the music that was being put on the stand for me-music from someone else's head.

@elodya915 3 года назад

Thank you for your advice! I love your mind

@bloody19ful 5 лет назад

This man is speaking gold, loved your content man. I would really love to get some reviews on my music from you if possible, although im still cooking music ❤

@kylehough1854 4 года назад

I appreciate it Adam! I just grasped the whole thing of embracing yourself and who you are. I've changed who I was all the way down to the types of samples I create or use. Im done, either you dig my shit or you don't. Thanx again Adam!

@Skaerex 2 года назад

This is a great video man, respect.

@A_AZEEMA 2 года назад

Great vibes from you. Thanks man

@BienCHANTERavecMarilyn 5 лет назад

Wow! Thank you so much Adam! I just discovered your channel and I really appreciate your shares 😊 I'm a singer and a mentor/futur manager for beginners singers and I want to improve my knowledge about music business. I subscribe. I like your vibe even if you're sick. Take care! ❤

@mackgeezmusic6321 5 лет назад

You the best brother. These videos is like we're at Starbucks just creating and vibe-in, I a student. I'll spread the word....

@chrisfreeq399 5 лет назад

This is dope! Still procrastinating in regards to online presence and putting out regular content, or any music in general 😅 but I'm also struggling with retaining my true self and deepest values through this music and business journey... Perhaps that's my biggest challenge/obstacle... This is inspiring, thanks man!

@AdamPlayssGames Год назад

Hey Adam it’s Adam good video dude this really confirmed some things for me really building the best me I can and my brand and music! 💎🥶

@AngelArzuaga 5 лет назад

Man, this was awesome. I am a youth Pastor and Producer and I am always talking to my youth about being real no matter what! Adam, can you make a video about Leasing and selling exclusive beats. The pros and cons of it. Thanks

@Coronaboii88 5 лет назад

Appreciate this bro! Get well!

@erikb6794 5 лет назад

Crystal clear Adam ! thank you :) Life is definitively a learning process to rich our best potential together :)

@Consolous 5 лет назад

I have definitely started to embrace who I am and my own truths. Not only in social media but also in real life. I grew up a shy, but bad-tempered boy and thought that was me. A couple of years ago I went to a class in college where we had to do a lot of speeches. I decided then that I would be my real, transparent self in every speech. The reaction was the opposite of what I thought it would be. Everyone had a blast and laughed at my jokes. I'll never forget it since I grew up with negative reactions from people and did not know why. It was because I was reserved, I wasn't being myself as a kid. (I'm 23 now) I also read a post a long time ago that you had to be all giggly and happy all the time in social media. That was a mistake and I felt fake, especially when I wasn't feeling well but I had to put the happy emoji. Now I try to express how I really am in every moment and it feels right. Truth shall set you free they said. Couldn't be further from the truth.