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How to Change Someone’s Mind - 5 Rules to Follow 

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Are you searching for ways to change someone's mind to your way of thinking or methods to convince someone to your opinion? One of the things that we frequently try to do, but almost always fail is to change someone's opinion. We are so bad that, to a point, our relationships with our friends and family gets spoiled just because we are really bad at convincing the other person about our ideas and a opinions. In this video I am going to share with you how to change someone’s mind in a much easier way.
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1) Never turn the conversation into an argument
2) Never say that you are wrong
3) Get the other person saying "Yes" as soon as possible
4) Let them talk a lot!
5) Let them think their idea is theirs
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Комментарии : 494   
@jeremyjohnson4106
@jeremyjohnson4106 4 года назад
“Our emotions play a much larger impact on our decisions then what our brain logically decides are facts” so true
@jaredconner6567
@jaredconner6567 3 года назад
Facts
@keysix6371
@keysix6371 3 года назад
Facts are facts no way around it
@gpgp
@gpgp 2 года назад
It depends on the person bro! Logical people don't mix feelings with facts!
@ceterisparibus8966
@ceterisparibus8966 2 года назад
@@gpgp That's what people tell themselves to make themselves feel good
@learntoearn8704
@learntoearn8704 2 года назад
@@gpgp how do you know if someone is logical
@user-yh9sy4pd1f
@user-yh9sy4pd1f 5 лет назад
They won't work if someone is extremely closeminded and do not even accept making a conversation
@stebarg
@stebarg 4 года назад
Λάζαρος Μαγιόπουλος yes. Many if not all people are mentally ill to some degree these days.
@Fernando-rw6vz
@Fernando-rw6vz 4 года назад
I’m open minded, but.. there are some factors out of my control that determine how shit goes in those situations, but hey
@arooshatariq5573
@arooshatariq5573 4 года назад
I agreee
@ushasatheesh3694
@ushasatheesh3694 4 года назад
Wow Greek I know some greek
@e-52shreyashinde34
@e-52shreyashinde34 3 года назад
My brother took my phone because he saw some pics which he shouldn't have. And now he thinks I'm bad and he is so closeminded that he isn't even listening to the real thing.
@heroricspiritfreinen38
@heroricspiritfreinen38 7 лет назад
"Just because your correct, doesn't mean you're right!" -Emiya Shirou
@PracticalPsychologyTips
@PracticalPsychologyTips 7 лет назад
@TheStoriesIn15
@TheStoriesIn15 7 лет назад
Practical Psychology would you dare to try "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene?
@knightofnights1693
@knightofnights1693 7 лет назад
One of the hundreds of anime I've watched
@allahismygod5205
@allahismygod5205 5 лет назад
Just because your bad doesn't mean you are evil -me
@meraguzzzman
@meraguzzzman 5 лет назад
Um actually it does
@lenientbigcat2174
@lenientbigcat2174 2 года назад
1 : Never turn the conversation into an argument 2 :Never say/ force anybody to say "i am wrong" 3 : Get the other person sayin "Yes" as fast as possible 4 : Let the other person do a great amount of talking 5 : Let the other person feel that the idea is their Extra tips 6 : Dont try to prove things 7 : If u r disagree with something that they r sayin never interrupt them
@under2171
@under2171 2 года назад
Thankfull for your comment
@JasonBourne-cg5pe
@JasonBourne-cg5pe 2 года назад
If you keep all these points , then you will be the one gonna get convinced by the other persons points😂
@sonias9722
@sonias9722 2 года назад
5 works so well 😏
@Medietos
@Medietos Год назад
@@sonias9722 I've heard so too, but how o earth do you do that? If the idea is not theirs, won't they notice ...?
@sonias9722
@sonias9722 Год назад
@@Medietos you lead them so near to solution that they have to get it, they're the first one to say it out loud then you pretend you didn't realize and praise them
@AbudBakri
@AbudBakri 7 лет назад
These tips sound like HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE :) Great points!
@PracticalPsychologyTips
@PracticalPsychologyTips 7 лет назад
Yes, glad you noticed ;D
@dogmahacker8278
@dogmahacker8278 7 лет назад
I have found more people are likely to come to reasonably terms when approaching a softer two way present your case. When you call them out on anything people tend to build a wall to defend not only their opinions, but their honor as well and this can lead to a very bias outlook on their part, because they are no longer trying to make a good argument, but rather trying to defend their honor and they mistake trying to defend themselves with trying to come to terms with the debate. I have caught myself building irrational walls to an argument merely because I was insulted and I can even notice my logical reasoning, being replaced with emotional defense. For people un-familiar with their own psychology, this can be nearly impossible to spot in your own thinking. Like trying to spot your own logical fallacies. Another thing is that, even if you know they're wrong and you can even predict what the next fallacious thing they are going to say is, you still have to listen like you might learn something new, even if you know you wont. Being honestly engaged in the conversation shows people that you are taking note of their points and listening as oppose to calling them out before they even finish the sentence. That never ends well as that wall of defense will immediately come up. There is one problem that this approach can have however and that's where your the one whos wrong and your interlockuter is in fact right. When you put all factors on the table, no amount of technique of approach is going to make an irrational argument become rational. Unless in the case where the person who's right doesn't understand their position well enough and they don't know why they're right, they just guessed lucky and the irrational argument seems more persuasive to them. Here all the factors are not on the table of course. This is an example of how a normal person can be persuaded by a flat earther and change their mind. At some point in their life they happened to land on the right answer or were brought up believing something true, but never had good enough information about it to begin with and a false argument in that case can appear to seem more reasonable that whats actually true that's backed up by better information that was never addressed.
@trackrapper3604
@trackrapper3604 7 лет назад
Dr.StickFigure I love that book my dad made me read it the summer before 7th grade and in the past 1 1/2 years it's helped a lot
@Cristian-Akuma
@Cristian-Akuma 7 лет назад
I kinda doubt it man, I've lived my life following that and I'm a lonely person, my life is going to work and come back home to eat and sleep... Maybe sometimes people doesn't like to be given the reason or being convinced of things.
@hycron1234
@hycron1234 7 лет назад
It seems to me if you can master "likeability" and "rapport" you have more chance of convincing someone; that said some people have their mind made up. I once had a customer argue over 1 cent, so pointless...
@TheFreshestResh
@TheFreshestResh 7 лет назад
But if saying "wrong" is useless how did Trump win?
@conorcremin4024
@conorcremin4024 7 лет назад
WRONG
@ProactiveThinker
@ProactiveThinker 7 лет назад
He won the public vote and didnt change his opponent's minds. His case is very different.
@doedfiskjr
@doedfiskjr 7 лет назад
Because he never said it to the people he was trying to convince. He said it to Liberals and they dislike him even more than they dislike other republicans, he said it to other republicans, and he had a unprecedented lack of support from them.
@3maneqwerty1
@3maneqwerty1 7 лет назад
Trump won because Hilary was garbage, the media damaged her while she was going against Bernie and when it became mainstream that Bernie was cheated she somewhat split the party and hurt the Bernie supporters that could have gave her the W. He also won because identity politics is king and that killed off every serious candidate. I would also call that the electoral college played a role but it's role was minor. The US isn't a democracy, it's a representative republic so we all went into this knowing how it works and Obama won against the system twice so i can't blame the EC too much. Trump ran against what could be considered some of the easiest competition he could have had in regard to running for president.
@laneyb8911
@laneyb8911 7 лет назад
Russia lol
@optionsspecialist1214
@optionsspecialist1214 6 лет назад
I closed a 1.7 million deal today with this video.
@optionsspecialist1214
@optionsspecialist1214 6 лет назад
JesusIsMyLife LoveIsAllYouNeed I started w Jesus. You will get there. I’m 40 and blessed w 2 boys. Money isn’t everything.
@deathreaper1991
@deathreaper1991 6 лет назад
Options Specialist Can't feed those boys and can't pay the rent with religion
@deathreaper1991
@deathreaper1991 6 лет назад
JesusIsMyLife LoveIsAllYouNeed Lol funny
@oRoligk
@oRoligk 4 года назад
k
@vince6252
@vince6252 3 года назад
@Options Specialist, 1.7 million [currency?] doing it right! Nice work!
@TheDarkoricle
@TheDarkoricle 4 года назад
Narcissistic person watches thill end: "how am I the wrong one?"
@LammySammy
@LammySammy 7 лет назад
On Number 4: It is very wise to let the other person talk and to let them know you respect their opinions. BUT, this is followed up by "never interrupt" and "Encourage them (to talk more)." I have talked to my fair share of people and when you meet someone who is good with discussion and debate, these are not a very good idea. People who are good at discussion could talk for hours, and can talk circles around you. Encouraging them to talk more is a bad idea since you are not putting your own thoughts into the equation and they could dismiss them before you ever brought them up. Some people are very aggressive with speaking and may not give you the chance to talk. How can you persuade someone when you never get the chance too? You can't. Instead of "Never Interrupt" try "Interrupt politely. Instead of "Encourage them" try "Letting them speak is a good idea, but establishing that your opinion has value is important." That one is just a little bit longer. Listening patiently is a good idea, so stick with that one. Just remember that peer to peer persuasion is discussion, not a stage performance!
@HandSanitizerAttack
@HandSanitizerAttack 7 лет назад
I agree.
@aaliyahclark4179
@aaliyahclark4179 6 лет назад
Yep.
@GetGood-li2gh
@GetGood-li2gh 6 лет назад
More or less depends on the person, people who are intrigued in learning( you want them to talk more) in a debate u are correct. It is important to not make the opponent feel like they are winning, especially with spectators and judges
@syedmazharsmrco8951
@syedmazharsmrco8951 5 лет назад
What a big commenting. Short and sweet is the best
@michaelstueben2880
@michaelstueben2880 2 года назад
Non-stop talkers are best avoided for multiple reasons.
@mypenisisunbelievablesmall6558
Forgiveness is kind of my mindset. Ever thought of telling them, "I forgive you for your ignorance."?
@vince6252
@vince6252 3 года назад
"I forgive you for your ignorance", I think most would perceive that as massively passive aggressive. Maybe "I understand that different people have different experiences, so can come to different views." Unless that's starting nothing. What'd you think?
@mrsarcast8500
@mrsarcast8500 3 года назад
*My freind will understand what i said him in future. Huh* When I try to convince my friend to think in my way he says - Everyone have different perspective . But what I am trying to convince him is mere facts , and its true for everyone . So its like he is saying "No , 1+1 is not 2 . Everyone have different perspective" Maybe he don't want to accept facts and bitter truth . And when I try to convince him he says - You are such an aggresive guy ,always debating . Well, he will understand that I was right , in future .
@GetGood-li2gh
@GetGood-li2gh 6 лет назад
The problem with 3 is that it’s a shallow type of convincing strategy, it also happens with salesmen, the customer thinks about their decision more and then regrets it. It will happen in conversation too
@bigchainring1977
@bigchainring1977 4 года назад
I think people usually jump to saying "you are wrong" way too fast. patience is key.
@archity1242
@archity1242 7 лет назад
This is by far your best video ever Practical Pshology. Thank you SO MUCH! I will send it to all my contacts!
@PracticalPsychologyTips
@PracticalPsychologyTips 7 лет назад
Oh wow, awesome! Thanks :)
@ilustradamente.oficial
@ilustradamente.oficial 7 лет назад
Great as always! ;) Greetings from Brazil!
@PracticalPsychologyTips
@PracticalPsychologyTips 7 лет назад
Thanks for watching!
@MarquinhoArgento
@MarquinhoArgento 7 лет назад
So useful man, so useful! Keep on! Thanks
@SAMPAIDAWG
@SAMPAIDAWG 7 лет назад
Feels like inception haha, gotta make them feel like its their idea without being too intrusive or agressive. Don't alter the dream too much or the illusion goes away :)
@HackerNoon
@HackerNoon 2 года назад
Excellent video. This video is really helpful for those people who are looking for a way to convince someone to their opinion.
@thecarenthusiast8886
@thecarenthusiast8886 7 лет назад
Love this channel!!!
@avpfitness5271
@avpfitness5271 7 лет назад
great points, facts don't always convince people
@EvansBusuru
@EvansBusuru 4 года назад
ok thank you we'll keep these in mind
@oopme2934
@oopme2934 7 лет назад
this is such a fun channel to binge watch keep it up! :)
@Rosannasfriend
@Rosannasfriend 7 лет назад
Very smart points!
@naitik-in42
@naitik-in42 2 года назад
Thanks really really for making this video
@ungface
@ungface 7 лет назад
Heres a better idea, dont be so egotistical that you think you should change someones mind. Just have a healthy discussion about both viewpoints and come to a consensus on what each other believes. The idea that people should go around changing other people is what is wrong with todays society. "When I was a young man, I wanted to change the world. I found it was difficult to change the world, so I tried to change my nation. When I found I couldn’t change the nation, I began to focus on my town. I couldn’t change the town and as an older man, I tried to change my family. Now, as an old man, I realize the only thing I can change is myself, and suddenly I realize that if long ago I had changed myself, I could have made an impact on my family. My family and I could have made an impact on our town. Their impact could have changed the nation and I could indeed have changed the world."
@HandSanitizerAttack
@HandSanitizerAttack 7 лет назад
So beautiful. ^-^
@sparsh1478
@sparsh1478 5 лет назад
What a load of BULLSHIT
@ukillmeikillu532
@ukillmeikillu532 4 года назад
Beautiful
@blahblahblahblah2837
@blahblahblahblah2837 4 года назад
Yeah ok, so what about my family members who are eating themselves into diabetes and refuse to either diet or even consider any exercise? Are these behaviours that should continue unchallenged, even when it's physically hurting them and will place a burden on the rest of the family/society?
@ukillmeikillu532
@ukillmeikillu532 4 года назад
@@blahblahblahblah2837 i personally think that the fat people should go to camps where they learn how to exersize a bit more. or maybe do shots that works too. diabeeties are like, for real a major issue here. who do you blame, the fogs? i dont think so. like, just eat some cabbage and ull be cool dude. if someone wants to eat thems slefs to death who are you to say yes, say no thank you sleep well rabbit boiiiiii. diet coke will do the trick. ;) get some nice chinese training maybe, open a book, die die diesnt tuns wokrs too lolz. try to ciber bully me ill just drink some juse and take a nap lol.
@slindy1141
@slindy1141 6 лет назад
I love ur channel keep up the GREAT work
@everydayistaeminsday9500
@everydayistaeminsday9500 3 года назад
I'm going to use this for my mother, wish me luck guys 😭
@karims9379
@karims9379 3 года назад
Helpful advices, have a great day, much love
@yasirrasool8185
@yasirrasool8185 2 года назад
Amazing video and tips, thank you
@phinamnguyen2697
@phinamnguyen2697 7 лет назад
Nice vid, keep on giving Tipps 👍🏽
@PracticalPsychologyTips
@PracticalPsychologyTips 7 лет назад
Thanks, glad you enjoyed!
@christianflemming6971
@christianflemming6971 2 года назад
Number 4 is GOATED!!! I just convinced my friend to play a machine with me after trying for 16 hours, I am so excited I hope we win or else he won’t play machines anymore.
@AlienPrincess555
@AlienPrincess555 2 года назад
Thanks
@ErikMmoney17
@ErikMmoney17 7 лет назад
Thanks for the video! :)
@PracticalPsychologyTips
@PracticalPsychologyTips 7 лет назад
Thanks for watching!
@sowmyakrishnamurthy71
@sowmyakrishnamurthy71 Год назад
Good one
@tejgautham4628
@tejgautham4628 Год назад
One of the best video
@stebarg
@stebarg 4 года назад
Great tips ❣️😃👍🏽
@MrSkorpija
@MrSkorpija 7 лет назад
next Monday im going to have an debate at my college this really helped me out
@raybel322
@raybel322 7 лет назад
btw i am too lazy to read books so i watch your videos ;-) it really helps thanks
@nabinupadhyaya5977
@nabinupadhyaya5977 7 лет назад
You are great buddy.
@rememberme2406
@rememberme2406 3 года назад
WoW, thanks for the tips I believe they'll help me a lot 👏😃
@y2ksw1
@y2ksw1 7 лет назад
My way is to make people laugh or reflect. And I have no hurry for the answers!
@alorikkoln
@alorikkoln 4 года назад
Exactly. Look at the facts and not opinions.
@hempriyaraj6708
@hempriyaraj6708 3 года назад
It's really helpful
@vedvartak9915
@vedvartak9915 7 лет назад
I usually don't have a trouble of convincing people but what i learnt​from this video is how to sound polite..
@PracticalPsychologyTips
@PracticalPsychologyTips 7 лет назад
Interesting feedback :)
@moralitysiteshow
@moralitysiteshow 4 года назад
I really concord with what you said that you should never say some one is wrong because that can stair up fight. We should correct one another with wisdom and love. Please friends if you enjoy this video as I do, then give it a 👍💯💐
@mallikabenallal
@mallikabenallal 7 лет назад
thank you😊
@PracticalPsychologyTips
@PracticalPsychologyTips 7 лет назад
Thanks for watching!
@phiology1983
@phiology1983 7 лет назад
..Yes the Art of conversation. Great video to start out the month of May. For men, this advice works great when talking to Women especially when they are angry haha
@PracticalPsychologyTips
@PracticalPsychologyTips 7 лет назад
Haha, great comment xD
@thatonedude7377
@thatonedude7377 7 лет назад
Thank you so much!
@PracticalPsychologyTips
@PracticalPsychologyTips 7 лет назад
Thanks! Have any suggestions for future videos? :D
@thatonedude7377
@thatonedude7377 7 лет назад
Hmmmm maybe more videos on relationships between peers
@tilosobelman3114
@tilosobelman3114 4 года назад
The best is actually go for "no", don't avoid objections, understand what emotions they convey and figure out why they react with that emotion at that time instead of logically convincing people. Eventually they're going to be more receptive and come to their own conclusions. Read never split the difference. By Chris voss. And getting to no, by Jim camp
@himanshijoshi7392
@himanshijoshi7392 3 года назад
Nice points ❤️ Greetings from India❤️
@samislam2746
@samislam2746 2 года назад
Thanks to your friend Isminof
@mondayman4676
@mondayman4676 2 года назад
He is the best when it comes to recovery ex back💔💔😭
@marcushire6130
@marcushire6130 2 года назад
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@markindi7244
@markindi7244 5 лет назад
I am watching this video to change the thinking of my friend
@BeOutstanding
@BeOutstanding 4 года назад
Great Content Thank You Psy Let the other talk Ideas was their Never argue Say I may be wrong Yes yes yes
@arghadeepsaha8598
@arghadeepsaha8598 7 лет назад
its a very good video. yes i would like see more like this. thanks
@meh5807
@meh5807 4 года назад
Damn it. I Wish I knew this earlier before.
@george2855
@george2855 7 лет назад
Awesome Video 👍
@PracticalPsychologyTips
@PracticalPsychologyTips 7 лет назад
Thanks George :D
@shnasuel6492
@shnasuel6492 7 лет назад
glad i subbed one day when I rule the world I am gonna give this youtuber free acces on anything he wants
@renze7133
@renze7133 7 лет назад
Hey, sounds like you changed the tone of your voice while talking. Honestly, it sounds better. Good job!
@renze7133
@renze7133 7 лет назад
Well, half way the video you started talking a bit faster I notice now. Still, it's better though.
@mrsarcast8500
@mrsarcast8500 3 года назад
When I try to convince my friend to think in my way he says - Everyone have different perspective . But what I am trying to convince him is mere facts , and its true for everyone . So its like he is saying "No , 1+1 is not 2 . Everyone have different perspective" Maybe he don't want to accept facts and bitter truth . And when I try to convince him he says - You are such an aggresive guy ,always debating . Well, he will understand that I was right , in future .
@01mustang05
@01mustang05 3 года назад
Nobody is good because we don't know how to agree on things.
@mariosi.6550
@mariosi.6550 6 лет назад
-try to look at it from my perspective 1:00 -ever thought of looking at it from that angle? 4:09 in these moments are you implying the speaker's ability to FRAME CONTROL? Could you please make a video about CONTROLLING THE FRAME OF THE CONVERSATION?
@kyegrant2880
@kyegrant2880 4 года назад
This dudes voice is so nice
@MEGAsporg12
@MEGAsporg12 7 лет назад
"never say i am wrong" . What??? why would you say that during an argument?
@lukelyons7255
@lukelyons7255 7 лет назад
MEGAsporg12 conversation*
@TheCharudatta
@TheCharudatta 7 лет назад
MEGAsporg12 You missed the first point.
@HandSanitizerAttack
@HandSanitizerAttack 7 лет назад
While trying to prove a point, literally no one says "I'm wrong" like wth.
@someone951
@someone951 4 года назад
"I slept with your mother,I'm wrong" - That's how you'll say it.
@reemshaaban6498
@reemshaaban6498 2 года назад
i have 2 dreams i want to become a wealthy artist and an international jewellery designerand have my own jewellery line but i really dont know from where i should start thank u so much for this motivation ❤❤❤
@firedragonemperor535
@firedragonemperor535 7 лет назад
I watched this vid in hope to learn convincing my mom n dad
@paulyprograms
@paulyprograms 6 лет назад
Getting people to say yes often times backfires greatly. Read Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss. PS I also love when you cite your sources. When you don't it seems like you're just making up these thoughts in your head without research. I stopped watching when I noticed the lack of research for this video. You're typically incredible and I'm still a fan. I want to enjoy all your videos.
@sonkeigaming8939
@sonkeigaming8939 7 лет назад
Love the vid 👌🏻😍
@PracticalPsychologyTips
@PracticalPsychologyTips 7 лет назад
Glad you liked it! Thanks for your support
@cristianoronaldo-uo7lm
@cristianoronaldo-uo7lm 7 лет назад
Really bro following you ... changed my life ... the way i used to think of everything . . Really man thnks ...
@PracticalPsychologyTips
@PracticalPsychologyTips 7 лет назад
This means a lot! Any suggestions for future videos?
@cristianoronaldo-uo7lm
@cristianoronaldo-uo7lm 7 лет назад
Actually u know exactly what the problms we r facing ... onto that u are suggesting the solutions & i am following , i hope u might be knowing more about the solutions .. anyways keep it up . u really really changed my life . thnks 👍✌
@BeOutstanding
@BeOutstanding 4 года назад
Great Content Thank You Psy Let them feel idea is then Nv interrup Let the pers tal Say yes Nv argue Nv say ur /i am wrong More data Change ur think
@jatingarg1375
@jatingarg1375 3 года назад
I was doing all these to my younger brother..and now he is completely out of hand today..he hates me..i always care him but from my perspective..not from him ..i got to realise by this video..
@HowToTop10
@HowToTop10 7 лет назад
I think "You might be wrong" is saying "You are wrong" so something like "I have a different opinion for I see and respect your point" is better maybe? I just made a video about that BTW :)
@damnit8904
@damnit8904 3 года назад
I personally think that is stupid. Since most people don't even care about others opinions.
@KarenManukyanArmenia
@KarenManukyanArmenia 7 лет назад
I really like your videos ))
@laughingvampire7555
@laughingvampire7555 2 года назад
another issue is the way we codify our ideas into words, what we mean by a word might not be what other people mean
@Dude35570
@Dude35570 Год назад
Good video
@scchouhansanjay
@scchouhansanjay 7 лет назад
it's from How to win friends and influence people.
@mohammedrashid2906
@mohammedrashid2906 2 года назад
Nice
@kotokotify
@kotokotify 7 лет назад
Great video, it just that it's harder to use those tricks in a group talk, any advice in that case? also, I think that there is a mistake, is it not "nerver say you're wrong" unstead of "never say I am wrong"? 1:07 and thanks, keep it up :)
@kotokotify
@kotokotify 7 лет назад
my mistake then ^^
@shresthaditya2950
@shresthaditya2950 Год назад
0:18-Never turn your conversation into argument and don't try to involve your feelings into it 1:06-Never say them that you are wrong say that you might be wrong 2:10-Get the other person saying yes as fast as possible and more likely they will say yes in the future 2:47-Let the other person do the talking 3:18-Dont interrupt them even if you might be wrong, listen patiently 3:51-Let the other person feel that the idea is theirs
@ericb8494
@ericb8494 5 лет назад
3:53, are we talking inception here?
@mikec334
@mikec334 2 года назад
I’m going to use this advice with my mom bcuz at the moment I can’t bring my car to college because I failed pre cal last semester and I know I messed up but I feel like my car shouldn’t be brought into the situation especially since I didnt even have a car last semester I just got it in June prayerfully she can change her mind it’s only been 2 weeks and I miss driving it
@marcushire6130
@marcushire6130 2 года назад
He is the best when it comes to recovery ex back💔💔😭
@marcushire6130
@marcushire6130 2 года назад
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@jjay3582
@jjay3582 3 года назад
This is from HTWFAIP but its good stuff thanks!
@generalgrievous4341
@generalgrievous4341 7 лет назад
Now these may *seem* like great tips, but try looking at things from this perspective…
@77794471
@77794471 7 лет назад
Christ you straight stole from Dale Carnegies book, im not hating but i think he does at least deserve some credit in your description or something.
@cordeea7880
@cordeea7880 7 лет назад
Your voice has changed!
@raybel322
@raybel322 7 лет назад
nice video i also rrcommend watching based zeus for personal looks and stuff
@ProactiveThinker
@ProactiveThinker 7 лет назад
His channel is great, really love it
@archity1242
@archity1242 7 лет назад
Also can you make a video on how to get out of awkward situations.
@shreyasmalhotra
@shreyasmalhotra 7 лет назад
I didn't realize it was this simple, amazing! Do you think I should use these in my persuasive speech in speech and debate?
@lambch0ps493
@lambch0ps493 7 лет назад
No i would not suggest it they are not very good tips. Look up some real tips on google.
@HandSanitizerAttack
@HandSanitizerAttack 7 лет назад
These tips are more for casual debates between friends, or acquaintances.
@shreyasmalhotra
@shreyasmalhotra 7 лет назад
oh ok
@SpektralJo
@SpektralJo 7 лет назад
Actually, If the point of a discussion is to change someones mind, you are doing something wrong. The purpose of a debate is to find the truth, not to win. So, the real goal is to behave in a way that maximizes the chance of a rational discussion.
@lewishaggart8032
@lewishaggart8032 5 лет назад
This video was very helpful within the first step it worked but it did end in my friend Cody shouting down the mike “fine then crybaby”
@Mightydrip_06
@Mightydrip_06 2 года назад
Yes i need this to convice my brother so i can play games
@ianencenzo7276
@ianencenzo7276 7 лет назад
dude, please make a video on how to properly negotiate your salary or how to get a raise. it would help a lot of people following your channel. thanks!
@daurham
@daurham 7 лет назад
The way this guy talks reminds me of morty. I love it. Don't chnageee
@keysix6371
@keysix6371 3 года назад
When my dad and my uncle would have a conversation they would say " what a guy could do" instead of " what you should do".
@jagwarz
@jagwarz 7 лет назад
Is it possible to request for your top 10 books :D
@user-ug9dw7ic8j
@user-ug9dw7ic8j 3 года назад
Trying to convince my mom to move to a state with an ocean, I don’t like Colorado especially the ugly, small and smelly town we’re living in. If you know South Park, it actually is “The Exact Opposite of Hawaii”. I’m in Florida right now for vacation and I feel like I’m missing out on life. The beautiful beaches, the vegetation, the rain/thunder, the palm trees!! It’s all so beautiful, meanwhile Greeley is so gloomy and dry. I don’t understand how anyone would want to live in small unknown towns. My mom chose Greeley instead of California and New York(she has lived in these before). I just wanna have fun...it’s so boring over there :(
@deejay6869
@deejay6869 7 лет назад
Those rules sound great IN THEORY, but anyone who has ever tried reasoning with a close-minded, completely unreasonable person, will tell you the rules don't work in actual practice. Add that to someone who loves to hear him/herself speak, or take forever to make a simple point, and u have the perfect formula for taxing ur patience. Even if u want to end the conversation and leave, they won't stop talking long enough to provide the necessary lull in the conversation. I learned those steps the hard way: experience through trial and error. Still, though, I got some new life skills.
@bartekkieller7709
@bartekkieller7709 7 лет назад
The JEWS have mastered it to perfection.
@rsb8594
@rsb8594 2 года назад
it worked:)
@marcushire6130
@marcushire6130 2 года назад
He is the best when it comes to recovery ex back💔💔😭
@marcushire6130
@marcushire6130 2 года назад
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@goofyaahhhh
@goofyaahhhh 2 года назад
I need to learn how to turn arguements to normal conversations.
@anthonyselman9194
@anthonyselman9194 6 лет назад
these tips are actually found in the book How to Win Friends & Influence People by Dale Carnegie
@teokun9960
@teokun9960 7 лет назад
some of those rules are polite and respectful to others opinions but using them feels like u are manipulating them bcs u change their mind without them knowing it sometimes u just gotta convince your gf to stop smoking or your friend to start spending more time studying than being lazy all day but u can also use them to change their ideas into something which is gonna benefit u only
@howmathematicianscreatemat9226
This video in principe says: „most science done only holds the illusion of being powerful. People are emotional, not rational. There can be data as much as humanly possible, if people feel uncomfortable about it for whatever reason… it is going to be rejected“
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