00:35 Why Men Are Emotionally Shut Down 01:33 How Childhood Created Emotionally Shut Down Men 02:48 Why Women Try To Change Men 04:21 Learn To Meet These Needs Ourselves 05:21 Ask for Your Needs and Wants 05:53 Is This Negotiable or Non-Negotiable? 06:40 Heal From Codependence
How about "Why men pretend to be someone they'e not until they marry someone and then become someone else entirely different???)" I did not choose the jerk he turned out to be. For two years he was a good partner. Shortly after the marriage he began to avoid me at our usual evening time tv time, and began to spend his evenings alone, usually playing video games in our spare room and then eventually seeing other women. This was verified when I was called by one of them where I worked. Apparently, they were making plans together.
It is like a tremendous weight has been lifted from my shoulders after hearing this, i am a pushy person and really want things my way. I will work on me from now on and accept what i cannot change.
I've come to the conclusion that I prefer people to not be "emotionally shut down." There's something wrong with people that are so closed off, emotionally.
Wow, this is incredibly eye opening! I feel like I was always the one wanting to change them and I never saw my responsibility in playing my part in the dynamic. I feel like my mind is blown. Thank you so much Kenny!
Any videos on BPD would be great if you’re willing! Just got out of a relationship with someone I believe is undiagnosed with this and it was the worst relationship I’ve ever been in. Very tumultuous. Is that really how they feel all of the time? Heartbreaking but he almost ruined me.
I love your videos ❤however’ I’m in slight disagreement with what your saying’ the point is’ when I’m talking to someone who I know’ hasn’t emotionally healed from past relationships/ and or’ experiences with woman’ I just leave them completely alone’ otherwise’ they will become a hindrance to my growth and well being! I’m at a point in my life that I thought I would never get to ( I’ve lost weight’ eating better’ successful businesses ‘ home owner’ I just bought a new truck’ ect) it would deem futile’ if I were to ever try to understand the y’s ‘ with men’ it would hold me back! The love ❤️ I have for myself NOW’ will not ever change or be diminished’ or even compromised’ because of a confused weirdo ! Life is too short! I Move on and learnt to raise my vibrational energy and focus in attracting someone who has IT TOGETHER ❤ NO EXCUSES OR EXPLANATIONS OF WHY OR WHAT’ will no longer be tolerated 😌
Do you think you could do a video on setting boundaries with a toxic mother and like how to stand up to a toxic mom? And handling pushback when they don’t like your boundaries
If you go to my codependence playlist I have many videos like that. Regardless if it’s a toxic mother friend or anybody else the process is always the same
There’s only one way. You have to manipulate them and abandon them. But do you see what that requires? You have to be an avoidant just like them and it’s all about manipulation. As soon as you open up they will run away again so therefore there’s nothing you can do. The biggest key is to focus on your own recovery and start learning how to meet your own needs in one’s and discovering why you chose to pick an avoidant. Ultimately that’s the best way to handle them
