how to cultivate strong self-love | filling the void you feel | @tiffanylaibhen

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can we be honest for a sec? how many times have we been on the asking end of respect, love, honesty, compassion (the list goes on) ..that we fail to give ourselves? we're diving into self-awareness + taking responsibility for the role we play in our own longing... and also into the power we hold to change that immediately.. grab your bevvys + let's get into it 🍷
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@TiffanyTV 5 месяцев назад

good newwws! In addition to the physical deck, I’ve just dropped a digital copy of my “i’m listening self-love deck” journal … perfect for anyone outside of the U.S. or anyone who wants to have it on their phone.. find both here: www.tiffanylaibhen.com/shop

@alkelangaspard 5 месяцев назад

“Everyone is actually doing the best they can at their level of emotional maturity.” Sheesh this is rich 👌🏾

@ariannacamacho4150 6 месяцев назад

Listening to this In the morning while showering was the best decision I’ve made✨ now I’m gonna get dressed and take myself out on a date and buy myself roses✨✨

@ariannacamacho4150 6 месяцев назад

Self love is beautiful

@TiffanyTV 6 месяцев назад

this made me smile so big 😌 have a beautiful day!

@ayo3070 5 месяцев назад

I will do the same….let’s start from there 😍

@AAA34FL448 6 месяцев назад

Girl, I needed this because I was barking all morning, and I just sat down and started crying. I'm crying as I'm typing this. The lack of love I've been showing myself looking for it in others lately is disappointing. I feel like I've lost myself lately. Thank you for these words. I needed them. It's always up to me

@TiffanyTV 4 месяца назад

I’m a bit late but I’m sending you the biggest hug girl because I gettt it! praying your able to make a few shifts to find some more inner peace.. you’ll start to see it reflected on the outside 🤎

@menaaileen 6 месяцев назад

Literally just went through a breakup last night, that was completely unexpected so now today I have to move out after 2 years together. Thank you for dropping this. I love hearing your messages.

@S00DamJazzy 6 месяцев назад

Stay strong sis ❤

@baisinbu98 6 месяцев назад

Hugs 🤗 and kisses. You got this. 🤍💚

@chichimweetwa 6 месяцев назад

You got this sis❤️ your gonna love finding yourself again

@iesheamahogany3785 6 месяцев назад

Sending lots of love your way❤❤❤

@SadeCeara 6 месяцев назад

Going through a break up right now with my boyfriend of almost 8 years & my now child’s father as I am currently almost 7 months pregnant and it sucks. But through out this process I need to just focus on my baby & I! Stay strong sis! We got this

@Fuzzyblossom 5 месяцев назад

Self-love is a different ball game if your single...You have 1 choice+ that is to LOVE YOURSELF ..it's hard but the journey is priceless+ empowering✌️✨💖

@jasmineasinati 6 месяцев назад

This was especially difficult for me because I couldn’t even define love, let alone give it to myself. I looked to 1 Corinthians 13 4-8 and my life has changed. Now I treat myself how the Bible defines love to be. And I’ve never been more full.

@emmarampf7354 4 месяца назад

Thank you

@asamara673 6 месяцев назад

Am I the only one who has it the other way round. I just want a relationship. I’ve been single for so long. I know how to look after myself be by myself, go out with myself, push myself to do better motivate myself, but sometimes I just want a shoulder to cry on or some support to keep me going 😢

@asamara673 5 месяцев назад

@@user-st9fs6xu5yI’ve just said I don’t need someone to keep me going. I’m comfortable pushing myself and doing things on my own. BUT I WANT a partner. I don’t NEED one

@sandrasteward2059 2 месяца назад

That's real. We are taught on one hand that we are strong black women, we can make it on our own, trust in God & keep it moving. All of that is true but we are human & we were NOT made to work everything out alone so we need to be loved, held, talked to & cry with by other humans. I do agree that the work starts with self bc "no man is an island"

@reneeari45 6 месяцев назад

I was totally in this deep funk because of this very reason last week. I cried constantly all week. Thank you for this 🙏🏾💖

@samara.dadonnn 5 месяцев назад

💕 Steps start @ 15:48 💞

@kimiko_111 3 месяца назад

Thank you 😊

@ashawntiford1457 11 дней назад

Came back to this video after a few months and whew was it needed!! Thank you for calling me in. I feel like I am losing myself, allowing others to have power over how I feel about myself. Placing my happiness in what others say and do for me. I used to have such high confidence until a big emotional blow that has me questioning how I really feel about myself. I'm working to not get back to who I once was, but to allow adversities and trials and tribulations to inform how I love myself better and become confident with new and darker chapters to my story.

@reciprocalhealing 6 месяцев назад

Ah, how synchronized... self love has been the center of my awareness lately. Thank you for this video ❤

@SiobhanC.Quinones-ws7sw 2 месяца назад

Tiffany!!!!! As a mental health professional I want to thank you for your energy and your support to empower others to seek self-love. Self love is sooooo crucial to your mental wellbeing. I have shared your video with my clients as a source of motivation. Keep up the work mama! It’s truly healing to others.

@donniep.1513 6 месяцев назад

I’ve realized this as well and I’m glad you said it so I know I’m not crazy. Whenever I feel unloved it’s due to a lack that I started slipping on ❤❤❤

@marywithane9166 6 месяцев назад

FINALLY someone who explains self love in a way that I understand bone deep. The idea about finding the void and filling it yourself is gold that I can practically apply straight away. Your content is excellent instant sub thank you 🙏

@einaj9 3 месяца назад

Your comment really is the cherry on top to this quest of self love 🥹🥹🥹🥹 your comment has truly blessed me indeed❤ thank you

@chantelleg5529 2 месяца назад

Don’t know how I found this video, but I’m so happy I did. My husband and I had a major argument three days ago. He asked for space but it’s been three days. I’ve been keeping busy for the last 72 hours waiting for him to talk to me( I’m anxious attached and semi- codependent). After watching this video, I’m inspired to work on myself, love on myself, take the time to pour into me. I’m so use to “us” that I’ve been forgetting me 😢

@TiffanyTV 2 месяца назад

I relate to this alll too well… it’s almost impossible to fix things in a relationship before we’ve healed what’s going on within ourselves. sending you love + and big hug on this part of your journey + praying for health in your marriage 🫂🤎

@chantelleg5529 2 месяца назад

@@TiffanyTV thank you very much !

@briannaevans2600 6 месяцев назад

Yes you shouldn’t look for happiness or joy from others. It should come from within. However, just like someone can add to your happiness and joy they can also take from it. Your surrounding influences your mood.

@jeralynlangford1341 5 месяцев назад

“Is this really about him”😮‍💨 we truly project unhappiness onto others in the form of nitpicking. I’ve been guilty of that. Learning to go within and be content with self has done so much for me! Great video Queen🫶🏽

@TiffanyTV 5 месяцев назад

that part! thank you love 🤎

@yukisj673 6 месяцев назад

I used to give love and care to everyone but never giving it to myself I still have lots of insecurities but I'm trying my best to put me first this time it's a hard journey for me so please everyone pray for me 💙✨ and thank you Tiffany you've always been there since day one of my healing journey 💙✨

@MJmamita 4 месяца назад

Same here

@rdaliz 6 месяцев назад

Another home run. This is beyond impactful, this is exactly where I am. Thank you once again for sharing. I am speechless and taken back by how well you managed to deliver this message. This is an amazing starting point for healing ❤😊 You are so amazing 🙌🏿

@k.karmas1126 27 дней назад

1. Identify the problem/void 2. Identify how you imagine the relationship is going to fix the problem, be detailed 3. Do those things for yourself 4. Choose one to implement 5. Don't point fingers/lash out

@kathlynroach566 6 месяцев назад

Tiffanyyyyy, ! Shouting amen amen amen .. at my big age Lord knows you have reminded me to wake up! Hug myself ! Love myself, be okay ! Build me. Recognizing individuality, regulating boundaries, my family reminded me. I am the common denominator and I need to show up for SELF and not always allowing people to be codependent or vice versa. Lord I really have some cleaning up. I am not for everyone. You may have just saved 50 percent of my mental health😢.. thank you

@makeitcount8164 6 месяцев назад

Yes! To be honest I still get kind of iffy and listen with precaution when being told to continually love myself I do think however that you have a good balance

@TiffanyTV 6 месяцев назад

I’m tearing up reading this. sending you a big hug 🫂🤎 we love aha/realization moments 🙌🏾

@kathlynroach566 6 месяцев назад

@@TiffanyTVthank you .. everyday has been a challenge.. I pray for strength and positivity energy 🙏

@kathlynroach566 3 месяца назад

Thank you sooo much for you all your feedback...I am continuously praying for the guidance and strength on my life attributes.. work everyday and push towards abundance. Today is February 1st and I inhale/ exhaled

@__4theloveofkj 6 месяцев назад

I started back buying myself flowers yesterday. Each week I’m promising myself to do that. Also taking a least one day to do all self care things for myself. I also really enjoy cooking so that helps too. Don’t forget the gym!

@starrchild1972 3 месяца назад

New subbie here, I love it! I was too that relationship girl! The codependency is real! I found myself "chasing" relationships as soon as one ended because I truly thought I needed one to be whole. Now, I here trying to fix this mess. If I could go back, I would change this about my younger self. This is great advice. Plus, loving me and focusing on "dating" me makes my even more desired.

@amandatheeauthor 5 месяцев назад

Thank you so much for this video. I’m going through a divorce and I’m single for the first time in almost a decade… I didn’t fully realize just how much I’ve spent my life dependent on others for my happiness/ self-regulation/ self-love until I watched this! Thank you for giving steps to take to get to a place of self love. ❤️

@_thelovelyliz_ 6 месяцев назад

This was another beautiful said reminder to fill my cup before anything I do. So that I can feel loved and good within myself and be able to pour out positive and loving energy with others. This was really really helpful for me, this week was a struggle and listening helped me see what I was missing. Thank you truly again for another impactful message! I truly believe god is working with you to help our generation ❤

@giselle7026 6 месяцев назад

Still healing from my last relationship I truly needed to hear this. Thank you.

@Larue8807 6 месяцев назад

THE WAY I AM CRYING......😭😭 Thank you!! this was a real blessing. ❤

@TikaReed-dx6li 5 месяцев назад

I needed this!!1 SO HELPFUL

@licisoul3283 Месяц назад

Thanks for this video!! First tome here!! To all the ladies feeling/believing we need to be "fully healed" before getting into a relationship, we must know this isn't correct. We get opportunities to heal within relationships as they help us grow. How else can we see where we must work on if it isn't reflected in relationship with others? Let's be gentle with ourselves and appreciate where we are (while working towards growth) and know that we are worthy of love and acceptance within the bounds of partnership. Working together ❤

@kylacharter4885 6 месяцев назад

Wow, I needed this today. Thank you Tiff💜

@kims4744 6 месяцев назад

You are a blessing. For individuals who find it difficult to articulate their true emotions (me)… this has helped me truly learn to look inward first, because now I have my voice to advocate for myself with others

@AlisonSharp 2 месяца назад

thank you for this message

@iam_luzmarie7928 6 месяцев назад

Talk about perfect timing!! I really needed to hear this today 🥰

@Keidrah 2 месяца назад

Wow! I’m so glad I came across this. Thank you. ❤

@helenribeiro5243 5 месяцев назад

This is literally what I needed to hear for today. Thank you so much ❤

@Areallionaire 5 месяцев назад

I’ll Be Using These Steps To Get To The Root Of Why I’ve Felt Resentful For Being Kind Lately. I’m Naturally A Kindhearted Person, I’ll Do Anything For Anyone. But For Whatever Reason, The Gestures Dont Feel Good & I Think It’s Me Overcompensating, Doing Too Much For Others & Neglecting Myself.

@ashlycartier 5 месяцев назад

Earrings are bomb❤

@Perfectpeace19 6 месяцев назад

You never miss Tiffany. Thank you.

@HiddenObjectsFoundSubjects 6 месяцев назад

Thank you for this! Love your words of wisdom ❤ keep shining!

@AlyUy 5 месяцев назад

This video is everything. Thank you!

@user-zs2cw5dd5p 6 месяцев назад

I’m so in love with your channel ❤️I can truly say it has helped me a lot.. continue changing lives lots of love

@KarmasIntuition 6 месяцев назад

I was today years old when i found out “White henny“ was a thing😳

@gvgrll 6 месяцев назад

This hair and the length is THE look! ❤

@KrishanaDavis 5 месяцев назад

I'm still working on this in marriage. It takes time to develop those skills to be happy independently when you have been sold a dream and now have expectations that the oneness of marriage means all of your love and joy is the responsibility of your mate. I would often let my husband's emotions or bad days consume me because as an empath I feel others' feelings so deeply. I am still learning to regulate myself. Thank you for sharing this!

@dearmelcee 5 месяцев назад

Your voice is so soothing ty for sharing and spreading this message ❤

@diallomady5184 6 месяцев назад

Hands down, the best cideo I've ever listened to about self-love. Thank you!

@ThePlantBasedPiggy 6 месяцев назад

This is by far one of the most important and beneficial videos I have ever seen on RU-vid. ❤ Thank you so much.

@chantellerivera-urena1087 6 месяцев назад

Okay but I loveee!! I had a tough moment yesterday with work and I needed to hear this! Know your someone I look up to when it comes to growth! ❤️🙏🏼

@IAmZuva 6 месяцев назад

Yes Ma’am. Well said. May God continue to bless you

@jackiek4159 6 месяцев назад

This video was right on time! Thank you for your wisdom Tiffany! 🙏🏻💕✨

@abbeyeligio8468 6 месяцев назад

Thank you for being the big sister I never had but always needed❤️

@msdreams6838 2 месяца назад

This was divine timing of this message 🙏🏾💓💓

@holi.spirits 5 месяцев назад

I’ve been focusing so much on this lately and maintaining my self awareness like this and it’s been game changing for me and those around me. Thank you for the confirmation and additional tips 🌸

@gold.marley 3 месяца назад

this was such a beautiful & needed video ✨ thank you!

@Tiinae.club__ 5 месяцев назад

she brings out the best in me is swear

@AJventure13 6 месяцев назад

This is a very great timing❤

@lacandysandy 5 месяцев назад

You're amazing and helping me through a tough situation.

@yayasims16 6 месяцев назад

Ok so why is it that every time you drop a video it's exactly what I need! Thank you sis!❤

@blackangel1194 3 месяца назад

Thank you for this.. I'm saving it to revisit when I need it again. You're amazing.

@Okaythen193 6 месяцев назад

Girlll I be watching your videos wishing I has friends like you lol. I just feel like you’re so self aware about your actions and how your behaviors can contribute to how you feel and your environment. I loveee that about this channel because it’s hard to come by people who are self aware about themselves. Honestly even I have to work on being more self aware myself and it’s harder than it seems, so I don’t blame anyone who has a hard time doing that. It’s a lot easier said than done, and takes baby steps and a lot of time to fully understand it all. But anyways this is so true, keep up the great work ❤

@ashantarandolph9652 5 месяцев назад

U said a word..Love your messages ! Please keep going and I pray God blesses u

@jaimerose1297 4 месяца назад

I loved the actionable steps you gave to sit with how I am feeling and take responsibility by implementing what I need for myself ❤

@LoveJhanelle 6 месяцев назад

Your videos always hit at the right time. Thank you!

@kellentraylor4949 6 месяцев назад

Tiffany!!!! Oh my....you was in my head!!! I needed this!! I will be rewatching and writing down notes!! Thank u

@noxolonancyndlovu1576 6 месяцев назад

Hey Tiffany, I want to tell you that you have become my best friend. Every time l watch your channel l learn more about myself thank you very much for the wisdom you share with me💐

@desiijae 6 месяцев назад

I definitely needed this ! thank youuu

@Jaythedon7 6 месяцев назад

I love your videos. As a male follower I resonate with a lot of what you’re saying. Thank you!

@jazmynmiles09 3 месяца назад

This video is everything! So much wisdom and amazing advice. Thank you for this! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@racheledmonson572 5 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing with us. I am sitting at work, working listening to this!! ❤❤❤

@iliyahberry 6 месяцев назад

Oh I love this! My biggest problem is me not getting enough alone time and I can take that frustration out on others sometimes. This is something I’m currently working through and have been working through for a while. Thank you for this video ❤

@reyyanlynn 6 месяцев назад

I just want you to know your words go a long way.. truthfully I needed to hear this because lately I’ve been relying on others for my happiness and it never works out in the end. I’ve been depressed for a long time but I’ve been watching your videos and I swear it’s my therapy. I’m becoming a better and smarter women every day. I feel your words really touch me. Thank you ❤️

@Nickisthegreatest 2 месяца назад

I love the way she presents herself

@lilanoue 5 месяцев назад

You’re speaking to me!! I am reclaiming my power and learning how to communicate directly. Getting to the root of what is, what I’m feeling, what I need, has helped me so much 🙌

@5HELENO 5 месяцев назад

Wow!!! Thank you so much!!! This was amazing and much needed!! You are beautiful! Thank you for sharing this with us!! God bless you! 🤎

@a.b2156 2 месяца назад

I just clicked on the video and the vibes are vibing and I love that this popped up on my page!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ new subscriber is right on time.

@TheTishbell 6 месяцев назад

This is so powerful! Self-love

@ugochiemerole9000 6 месяцев назад

You did so well with this video Tiffany! This video literally came at the right time and I am going to put everything you said into practice and actually journal!

@IamNATALYYY 6 месяцев назад

Thank you Tiffany… this video was just what I needed now ❤ 🙏🏼

@maximizedmoney 3 месяца назад

This video is how I found you and I’ve been binging ever since! This was so good and just what I needed to hear as I found myself questioning a few decisions.

@Selfloveisthebestdrug 6 месяцев назад

Love love love this !!! Keep shining beautiful

@kaylahwilliams7029 6 месяцев назад

Your videos have truly aided me so much in my journey. Thank you so much.

@jamiehuntington5563 4 месяца назад

Thank you for the reminder to continuously look inward when heavy emotions are arising in our relationships. I needed that perspective shift. ❤

@aisatacapri 4 месяца назад

Absolutely love this! Have to fill up your own cup because it's not anyone else's responsibility 🤞🏾

@IntuitiveFlow1114 6 месяцев назад

This was so enlightening and beautifully articulated 😌 Thank youuuu 🙏🏾 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

@breannamagana 4 месяца назад

WOW! I needed this video. And the way you say is everything is exactly how I need to hear it. I’m going to need to rewatch this a few times. And I just subscribed ❤

@emiliaaa6969 6 месяцев назад

Thank u so much for this video! It was a perfect reminder and I needed it!!! Have a nice day🧚🏻‍♀️🩷💌

@gsteff12 3 месяца назад

I took away what you were trying to give. 💜

@denaekeizs5671 6 месяцев назад

Wow Tiffany this was so timely ❤ thanks for sharing your experience. I look forward to your videos ✨ they’re part of my morning routine when you drop ☀️

@user-ub4bx8dc9g 5 месяцев назад

GOD BLESS YOUR BEAUTIFUL SELF!!!! THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO… CHANGED MY LIFE!! I’ve shared this video with sooooo many people & they’ve shared it. Everything you’ve said is so true. THANK YOU… please continue to make videos like this because our sisters need to know. I’m now watching all your videos now😊

@keoshastoolbox3797 6 месяцев назад

This was everything I needed. Here goes!!!

@sayuristillwater7471 2 месяца назад

This take was simply refreshing 😌. Thank you for sharing your thoughts & imparting wisdom!

@tanzanekova 6 месяцев назад

I’m literally in a relationship where I have to love on myself because I’m definitely feeling like I’m not getting it in the relationship. But like you stated maybe it’s me. And that’s the mission I’m on to find out. Thank you for this video, right on time.

@BachelorandTheWife 6 месяцев назад

Tiffany!!! You are highly appreciated for sharing this video! 🫂 you have spoken on this topic so honestly & elegantly 👏🏾💎✨ Wishing you all the best & look forward to working with you 🫂

@jocelyntorres69 3 месяца назад

You just spoke to my soul! Thank you so much for this, I have been feeling depressed down and with anxiety for some time now and you truly helped me to open my eyes and realize that I have to pour into myself more. ♥️ thank you! Definitely subscribed to your channel and would love to see more!

@DJslifeisart 5 месяцев назад

Thank you so much for this video Tiffany, this will help me to reflect on myself, and know where I am in my head space that way I can be clear with my feelings/emotions.❤