decentering men from my life made me MAGNECTIC (a CELIBACY journey for 1year and 9months) 

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trevor noahs mom said that quote

@@jordieshore222 yes, thank you! I'd forgotten where I'd heard it. The women in his life sound so wise.

Wow sooo true!!

@@kikijewell2967 "some men are attracted to powerful women because they want to cage the exotic bird." --- men are not hypergamous. men could care less about a woman's success. this has been said by men many times, but i'm not quite sure why men have to keep saying it. a woman being successful does not make her more attractive to a straight man. women have this weird thing where they think the same thing that attracts her to a man, attracts a man to her.

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Or you don't like sex

Does that mean you also shouldn’t masturbate when you go celibate ?

​@@Gundice_the_cryomancer shut up

@@Gundice_the_cryomancerJust another reason not to want a man! Ignant azz! 😂

They are the actual golddiggers

43 is still young. Because we no longer see ourselves as only worthy when fertile. 43 is still young for women outside of that childish patriarchy ❤

@@MisaRedd most healthy 43 year olds are still fertile...

Totally Relatable. Same age experience here!!😢

@@TabJoy7 but fertility is declining and in the past that’s where a woman placed most of her value

Please don’t feel like you’re wasting your youth, if anything you’re preserving it! My daughter is 24 and she has finally come into the light, thank god! I’m proud of you for exploring the path of celibacy and self love. ❤

Same. I am 20 and this whole year i have felt propelled to start my celibacy journey/ spiritual cleansing journey. God has been tugging my heart to find myself in him and spend my early 20’s building self trust , a relationship with him and all round improvement. My sex life isn’t so wild but i do have lots of fantasies i am scared of not experiencing ( FOMO) At the end tho , i know something much more better and a high value version of myself is at the other side. Wish you good luck, i am encouraging myself as well as you to start❤️

I am 22 as well and on the same journey, it's great to know I'm not alone! 💜

On point!

i started late in life for a sexual partner.... i got to finish school and start a career, you learn to know who you are. You will find you will attract great experiences and better boyfriends because of your energy. The rest of your life will be affected by loosing out on a full youthful experience if you choose the wrong paterner and not making good choices, have options especiallyy if your career becomes your fall back for a better life with or without a man.

Feeling exactly the same, just wowww

Right on about the childlike innocence! I LOVE THE WOMAN I AM BECOMING

I feel the same way!

This has been my experience too

I know this has nothing to do with the video but please read me if you can i think im on an abusive relationship i dont have friends or family to talk to i need advice 💔 I am on a 4 years relationship since i meet my boyfriend i made him clear that i will only date to marry because my dream is to have a family & happy marriage, he told me he was looking for the same thing after 6 months in our relationship his father died and he lost his job due depression his mom kick him out of her house because he was not working i support him & never leave him alone i told him he could stay at my apartment i try to help him to overcome his depression and i took care of him and everything i was very tired because it was hard for me to take care of him & to take care of myself and the apartment at the same time but i knew he needs time to heal after one year in our relationship i finally see progress in him overcoming his depression and i encourage him to get a job i didnt want to pressure him for everything that happen to him and finally he got a job he seemed more happy and finally doing great he start helping me with the bills now we where doing 50/50 and i feel relieved because i dont have to work extra hours anymore then at two years in our relationship he started to change with me and i didnt understand why and i ask him what did i do wrong in order to you to change with me? he started to calling me bad names, making fun of me i am very sensitive so when he made fun of me i cry and he made fun at me for crying i start feeling really sad and i told him that if he doesnt love me anymore please told me and i understand but please stop hurting me i dont want to suffer anymore he ask me for forgivness and he promise to change and to be again that man i feel in love with he changed for a while and then he start telling me that he likes white girls as a form of “joke” but i feel bad because i am not white i’m mexican just like him and he start making comments in front of me with his friends telling them that he like blonde girls with blue eyes and i start having low self teem so i told him if you dont like me why are you with me? if you dont like me just told me the truth i dont want to be hurt anymore and he says of course i like you if i didnt like you i wouldnt be with you and i was okay maybe im overthinking so i trust him again after 3 in our relationship he started to become agressive everytime he got mad he yelled at me and call me bad names at that time i was so sad about the whole situation and i talk to him about breaking up because i feel like he is not really happy with me and i dont want to feel sad or hurt anymore again he ask me for forgivness and he said he was sorry and that he would change and he did i was happy again but now at 4 years in our relationship he start becoming agressive again to the point he put his hands on me he was playing LOL and i left the room i go to the other room because when he plays he curse and screams a lot and i got anxious i was in the other room and he enter very mad screaming at me what are you doing?? And i say nothing im just watching videos while you end your game and he was like my game is going slow turn on your wifi my game is more important than stupid videos i got really offended i feel disrespected and i ask him please leave me alone and he says i really want to slap you right now and he hit the wall and then left the room i start feeling depressed and alone in our relationship i don’t understand why he changed i did everything i could i try to support him i forgive him i give him everything of me all my love my caring and i feel like he hates me and i don’t understand why, then the thing that ended up breaking my heart was when where with his friends and one of his friends ask him infront of me “hey if you could marry a russian girl would you” and he answer “sure why not” that made me heart broken and when we where alone i told him i know you like blonde girls with blue eyes and i am not like that so if you dont like me why you are with me? And he got mad at me and called me drama queen he started making fun of me again and i ask him to please stop making fun of me or my feelings i told him that i was tired of him calling me bad names and making fun of me and i told him everything i ever do was support you and give you all my love and he says “i never asked you to do that” now i am heart broken we just had an argument again and he start insulting me and calling me bad names again i got really mad and i start screaming at him back because i was very frustated and when i screamed at him stop insulting me im tired of this i cant do this anymore i never expected it he slap me in the face i was spechless and i say did you really slap me? And he says dont be dramatic i didnt hit you with the close hand i want to leave him but i am scared he slap me or hit me again if i do i am so sad i don’t understand why he hates me after i support him and i do everything i could for him 💔😢

I look younger

it's true!

Agreed! Colors were more vibrant, food tasted better, birds were singing idk 😅😂😂♥️

how long did it take b4 you felt the effects i think mines isnt working😅? (im serious though)

​@@ralo390you cannot "center yourself" to find a man. (And that's not obvious.)

@@ElevatorSolangelove this for you ❤️

girl lol when i say i felt i got fine fine shoot ima be single for many many more years @@ElevatorSolange

RIGHT🥹✨ It makes me so happy to be a woman

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Lmao FACTS! Cause I envy the single .. it’s hard out here in these relationships😩♥️

@@jasminsirii rtt got out of a relationship recently n the energy since whew😭

I’ve come to love my Me Time so much, I need to really think about it, if someone wants me to share my time with them.

That part 💯

good for you

I completely agree 🙏🏾🙌🏾🤎

Wow omgosh. You're right. I've had multiple people who eventually turned out to be predatory comment on my innocence, sweetness, etc.

@@JMarie0921Yes! Please protect yourself. A simple protection prayer works but also, practice strengthening your discernment skills. ❤️

@metr08 thank you. Any more insight regarding this that you'd care to share. I guess it ties into what she said about wanting to harvest your energy?

this is kinda backhanded ngl

@@hiverionhow?

Thank you so much for watching♥️

The old adage comes to mind "Hurt people hurt people. Healed people heal people." As a species, being uncentered impacts everyone and everything around us. What calls us back to our center is a sacred journey unto itself. If it's heartache or any other experience, it has no owners or a preference of gender or even species. It just is. Maybe no one leaves anyone because we are all still arriving. Recognizing patterns of why we couple with others is a life journey. Journeys emerge out of living. Life emerges out of balance. Walking away from and walking into partnerships is an expression of balance. When we're out of balance it is difficult to recognize let alone nurture the center of someone else.

False y’all are the cause of divorces

It's not true. You're judging an entire community of men just because of some arsoles. Men are great and will stay great. Men are better than women and will be. Just men need to focus on themselves and stay celibate. Men don't need women in general but these days men are losing their masculinity that's why they're behaving in that way.

It's ok, I can understand. Demeaning men can make women feel powerful. You can continue with it, no one will stop you. Carry on.

Same here❤

That's me I lost interest in men and I thought something is wrong with me.

@@Lisziomania My understanding is that God is working on your heart. Often, it is God forcing us to fast from what (sin) we are losing interest in. He is removing sin from your life to help lead you to what His will is for you! It is also a way of our Heavenly Father protecting us from harm. Keep faith in the LORD. Fast & pray! Pray without ceasing!!! 💜

Been celibate for almost three years after I lost my husband through cancer.This was very important for my healing and reclaiming my innocence back .However I'm now ready and open to meet someone amazing...I know it's time ❤❤.However I'm.not anxious about it.

same

I did this. I love my son dearly but I offered my womb to a man who probably will never value me, though I birthed a son that carries his last name and therefore his legacy. This was part of my learning journey and thankfully I’m awake now.

Love! 💗

It gives you a clear and stable mind to make improved choices and you can spot bad men quicker.

Beautiful! ♥️

@@fruitsarelife7073THIS! I have a natural “X-Ray vision” with men who simply have poor intentions. You disconnect and the desperation ends.

God's love is the ultimate source of comfort and guidance.

It should be the foundation for all beings. this world has gone astray and people believe it is ok to engage in s3xual acts just because they can. Spirituality/God should always be the centre and foundation of all matters, especially in the union of two people.

Amein sister. ❤

💯 Thought the same thing! Conten is dope too! More women AND men need to hear these things... I've been told the same and plan to one day start one. WITH plans to have regular sessions with my 22 year old son, who is so wise already but still growing (as we all are), where we talk life and relationships. I cannot wait!! Media is flooded with so much trash!! We need to dilute that mess with THIS type of content--WISE and full of love and beauty.

Right like the female Morgan Freeman 😂😂😂

True. Have been listening to it over and over.

incredible

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As well you should. What a lovely idea!

Yay! Yes, it’s a journey. I’m still learning to forgive myself.

Same. Stay strong, sis ❤ censor who you allow in your space

Trudy , I’m so proud of you. ❤ keep going , Gods got you .

SHUT UP! BECAUSE GIRL, SAME! 😂😂😂 God has been sending me signs after signs! I'm so grateful for His protection.

I AM PROUD OF YOU!!! I am a 45 yo mother of 4 (26, 25, 23 & 18). I have a 23 yo daughter and we have these talks from time-to-time. Keep going. Keep your faith in the LORD. Hallelujah! Fast & Pray...especially in the face of testing & temptation! Fast & Pray without ceasing!!! No matter where you are! 💜

Hey girl! I’m 21 & recently got out of a relationship & that lonely feeling hit me like a ton of bricks lol. It’s so isolating but your not alone God is with you and community is probably what you need at a time like this, I’m always open to new friendship’s so if you ever need a friend who’s understanding & we’re around the same age so we could have things in common in our journey I’d love to connect with you❤

@@melanatedcoilshey, i am 20yrs old. I am also getting over a relationship that I didn’t want to let go off. Also starting my journey without sex this period. I’m also open to connect. ❤ Maybe we get to know each other or something (Sorry if this comes of weird, I’m new to this 😅❤)

I have become more confused and unable to focus while celibate. I wonder why?

​​​@@JadeW1111your body and mind is purging and purifying itself, attempting to balance your masculine and feminine energy. Don't fight the withdrawals, be kind to yourself. Get a comfy blanket and drink warm tea with lemon, slow all the way down and try to relax. So many of us are DOING, doing the hunting ie working & giving and preparing ie living predominantly in our masculinity where we focus on gathering money and giving ourselves and our resources to others outside of ourselves thus we can lose connection with our feminine selves. Femininity requires us to rest, to practice self love and self care, requires us to give our time our energy our attention to ourselves. Rest in your femininity by doing nothing.

Feminine energy(Yin energy) is inward focused and because you embodied that, you were extremely magnetic. Perfect example of how to make polarity work.

​ @yasminah6823 The yin, the dark swirl, is associated with shadows, femininity, and the trough of a wave; the yang, the light swirl, represents brightness, passion and growth

This true,men learn when a woman leaves them. Women must leave when a situation no longer serves them. Men are intentional. They will not change unless they he want to.

Inspiring 🖤

THIS. I’m about to do something similar.

Never was a fan of social media and I do agree. Your head is clearer. You have more time and you’re not missing out on anything. About 3 months strong with no instagram, Snapchat, or Facebook! (Never downloaded TikTok) When I tell you it’s so freeing. And things that actually matter are now at the forefront and you realize how much time you have to work on yourself and be connected with your goals. Anyone thinking bout doing it. PLEASE DO.

Same here ❤

this hits hard, an ex friend of mine (wealthier than me) quit contact with me 'cause i couldn't have discussions on high end skincare products.

Dang

7 yrs? That's tight

@@coldblooded568 it's doable also in a relationship. I've been celibate for 6 and a half years now. Seven's my goal, but maybe I'll stay celibate for life as well. Other things in your life blossom for you when your focus is no longer on sex.

I really commend you for this. These temporary pleasures are really not worth eternal condemnation.

He is still getting all the benefits, energy, and resources off you that he wants and getting sex elsewhere.

You go girl ❤

It’s amazing! I’m still learning to forgive myself for the past but I’m not looking back!

Girl I’m so proud of you for acknowledging that he is 19 and not holding it against him. That’s a big step towards healing. I went through the same experience but I didn’t address the pain, I just held resentment in my heart and carried it for 3 years until now. And guess what? I started hurting other people the exact same way he hurt me. This realization came to me a few days ago and it hurts so much. I need a community of like minds like you. if you do too, I am open to connecting❤. You can reply this comment, let’s get to know each other if you’re interested. I’m 20 yrs old.

Girl I'm also 19 and I was in a relationship with a 27 year old man, it was the same. Age does nottt mean maturity.

I’m 20 and I’m still keeping my VCard and girl lemme tell youuu!!! I’m beyond prouda myself for not losing it yet and I will wait

@@SoulieNovaOfficial I love that for you, I’m waiting as well cause it’s the only thing that makes sense learning what I’ve learned thus far. Proud of you as well, ik there are seasons where it’s not easy!

@@ShestosinThank you I appreciate it :) and yes I am interested! I feel the same way about wanting like minded people, especially young women near me!

How now

Please do it for you ❤❤

Hi I’m 28 I came out of a 7 year relationship 2 years ago and I’ve been celibate for 6 months. I feel more stable within less shaky and scared. The feeling of being used and worthless have started to fade and I sleep very well these days. I hope you try it it out and regain some clarity and joy. Praying for peace and strength your way ❤

Yes it is

Wow what a powerful testimony and a great example to choose yourself every time. I’m honored to have your comment on my video. THANK YOU for this🥹♥️

@@jasminsirii Thank you so much! 💝 I’ve watched more of your videos yesterday and it’s like hearing myself talking. Thank you for using your voice 🙏🏽 Looking forward to more..

EXACTLY! I think women around the world are waking up to our power. You are the entire universe I love seeing comments of women standing in their power!! GO QUEEN!!!

I’m so happy my video was able to reach you. You are gorgeous btw!! Subbed back!

@@jasminsiriiAww thank you so much 🥹💕💕🫶🏾 I hope this video reaches MILLIONS of people!!

Princella the Queenmaker will give you a lot of clarity. ❤

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whats your purpose tho?

@@prodbydramatic What is yours?

So many women who want to remain single and childless, will die alone. But God has purpose for all of us. Sexual desire between a man and woman is a natural response and if one chooses not to engage in it is his/her decision. God made no mistake in how he created man and woman. There's nothing wrong with being celibate if that makes one be at peace and fulfilled.

You are called for greatness, it’s in your bones! I’m so happy this video resonated with you! Keep going♥️

Thank you so much for watching! Once our minds graduate our reality follows, so many exciting things are on their way to you!!

@@jasminsirii you are so right. I’ve realized this past year that even if I, for whatever reason, still want to operate in old ways (I suppose the most obvious place in seeing it is with men), because I want someone or something, that no matter how many things I try to ignore or tell myself “no one is perfect”… that my deep inner core will not settle. Like, the situations just crumble because I’ve just gone too far in my own evolution to exist in what, essentially, is not truth. I’ve realized that dimming down is equivalent to internal death and I begin to lose myself. I’ve come too far for that. I’ve spent too much time undoing the lies I lived in for so long to re-enter them just to be with someone. Doing that is like choosing the lies all over again. I praise God that I can’t even fake it anymore. It just is what it is. And I’m so glad. All the faking and trying too hard really does come from seeking outside validation and acceptance - which will always waver. I won’t build my life anymore on the sand. 🙏🏻 Thanks again!💕

​@@christamccann3771Preach!! 🙌🏾

Ok, this might sound crazy but hear me out. He may have a dark entity attached to him that wants to feed off your light. This is the reason he’s so persistent, you have something in you/on you that the entity wants. Keep him far away from you! Far!

My spirit says RUN! I've had a similar experience where he would call or text if I had an inkling of a thought of him...he's narcissistic. He's attracted to my light. RUN & stay focused. Meditation.

​@@staceywilliams1863I agree!

Honeyyyyy okay!

i am 30 as well, and getting to relocate...i have been celibate for almost a year, and im just enjoying it! i needed this space, to really relearn myself.

@@bambijones The level of peace is truly unmatched

Honey you still can know yourself while in a healthy relationship.Unless God is calling you to single hood.God us very relational and he says it's not good for man to be alone .So may God give you wisdom to balance .I'm celibate too but I'm getting married soon next year. Huggs

@@mildredwasike2802 people always quote that scripture out of context. There is difference between alone and single. Just because you are not engaged in romantic/sexual relationships doesn’t mean you are alone…meaningful and healthy relationships come in multiple different dynamics not just dating and marriage. If you’re SINGLE you are in relationship with yourself. True…It is not good to be ALONE, as in without community/relationships of any kind (friends, family, mentors or partners etc.) Singleness is actually encouraged in the Bible. Jesus himself was single and he wasn’t “imbalanced” as you say. Congratulations on your upcoming nuptials.

😮😮sooo right. She could be judge Lynn's daughter

Keep going goddess/ daughter

That was a great quote that stuck out to me as well. It's like they do everything to lose you yet become all apologetic when you decide to leave. It's senseless.

Sexual transmutation.

Its not rare, women just dont scream it from the rooftops like men do.

@@ARS-fn6px IMO, men think we are like them.

Yall worst, yall go on dating apps , talk all sexual , get men aroused n dont give them sex , like yall rob them with the illusion, claiming “I am celibate” men speak on it to let women know watsup n not give a false illusion

dating? Is this vid not about not dating?😂