How to deal with a STALKER - CRIMINAL psychiatrist explains (Dr Das on STEPH'S PL!)

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Isla Traquair (CRIME REPORTER + POCASTER) @IslaTraquair
This video is about an uncomfortable and creepy topic - STALKERS.
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@melstiller8561 6 месяцев назад

I can't even begin to imagine how the victims of stalkers must feel, especially when the stalker becomes intimidating or aggressive. To add insult to injury, how frustrating it must be for stalking victims not to be taken seriously by the authorities by having their situation undermined or dismissed altogether. Why the victims have to be responsible for the behavior or reactions of their stalkers more than boggles the mind.

@charlottewebster4233 6 месяцев назад

@melstiller8561 My daughter was stalked by a random guy who was already banned from her Uni cos he kept freaking out the female exchange students that lived on campus. My daughter is a very petite, pretty blonde haired blue eyed Japanese student and must have stood out to him. After he was banned from campus, he started to show up at the petrol station she worked nights (lone worker) and he was banned from the store between 8pm-8am. Then hung around the building for literal hours standing directly under different cameras, smiling at her through CCTV and relaying the usual route she took going to and from work etc. She reported it to police there and then and to be fair, they did take her seriously. He was questioned and cautioned, banned from being within a certain distance of the forecourt and the police issued her with an insanely loud alarm and contact details for officers that would pick up and be available 24/7. He went quiet and then dropped off the radar. Few months later she got a call from Metropolitan Police. He'd moved to London, picked up where he left off with another young lass of very similar age and appearance who was subjected to a serious physical and sexual assault for which he's currently serving a four year sentence. Don't know the finer details but dread to think what he did to her that got him 4yrs inside. Poor lass. 😔

@camellia8625 6 месяцев назад

@@charlottewebster4233 thank goodness the police’s intervention helped in the case of your daughter. I had to move house, change job, and change uni all at once and not stay in contact with anyone from my old life to stop the stalking I was facing. The police said they would only intervene if I were to get hurt - which is a bit late.

@charlottewebster4233 6 месяцев назад

@@camellia8625 That sound horrendous 😧

@skynrbec 6 месяцев назад

Thank you, your comment is very validating.

@KatyYoder-cq1kc Месяц назад

YES, EVERY DAY FOR THE LAST 3 YEARS, PLEASE REPORT WAR CRIMES AND SPIRITUAL WARFARE: Cease and desist malicious use of AI, and weaponry of chemical and biological warfare: supremacists, terrorists, communists. I am not your property and neither is the rest of the world. GO AWAY. WHAT YOU ARE DOING IS ILLEGAL IN EVERY GOVERNMENT ACROSS THE GLOBE.

@honormcgrace 6 месяцев назад

Having a stalker forever changed my life.

@urbansurvivor360 2 месяца назад

Me too being stalked and harassed changed me forever. He died, of alcohol in a graveyard which made the world a safer place. But the damage he did to me is untold

@user-zx6kn1sn9y Месяц назад

How did it end… I have an ex that’s scaring me.

@gigi9301 Месяц назад

@@user-zx6kn1sn9y As a single woman, I have to deal with a lot of male workers going around my lawn and even inside my house I have felt that a landscaper is creeping me out by showing up unannounced and asking me personal questions, showing up randomly and dragging a job out I've made the decision to tell him something to end it like I had a relative pass away I will be gone for a long time so I'm putting this project on hold / pay him and just get rid of him because he's creeping me out. I can't exactly put my finger on it but I sure don't want it to escalate. I have had contractors become too familiar with me and I'll tell them something about a boyfriend or my fiance and that usually does the trick What is your ex doing to creep you out? Anything besides texting/calling?

@Blacksquareable 6 месяцев назад

In Norway, where I live there is the use of zoning tags with restraining orders so that if the offender comes in too near proximity to the victim it sets off an alarm both to the victim and the police.

@CameronCorneilus Месяц назад

Wish Scotland was like that.

@glennandersen1552 Месяц назад

@@CameronCorneilus In Norway we also have something called "Nødverge". That means that we can kill someone or use sufficient violence to keep us safe.

@Poppy-yx8js Месяц назад

Why does my harassment group want my life “forever changed” that’s disgusting. Nobody should be a part of any kind of hate campaign like that.

@Mountlougallops 6 месяцев назад

I wish we all had a forensic psychologist to represent us when we have to go to the cops for something ike stalking.

@vermilliongecko 6 месяцев назад

I was targeted by a stallker I barely knew in 2008. He was a friend of a friend, and I don't think we ever said more than 'hello' to each other. He somehow got hold of my home address, and drove for hours to knock on my door at 3am. It was terrifying. He climbed over my fence and was trying to look through my windows. I think he was either an 'intimacy seeker' or an 'incompetent suitor'. He was eventually arrested by the police, and when they asked him why he was doing this, he yelled 'BECAUSE I LOVE HER!' When the police told me this, I told them 'he can't love me, he doesn't KNOW me'. He was eventually sectioned due to psychosis. But the police didn't warn me when he was discharged from hospital, and they made some very inappropriate jokes to me, a traumatised victim. Sixteen years later, and I still haven't dated, because I'm basically scared that any man will turn into a stalker. I'm still afraid every time I get home alone in the dark.

@Epic-so3ek 6 месяцев назад

That’s horrible. Police are the worst, they really are. At least they did the bear minimum of there job and got him arrested. I hope you are eventually able to date someone you trust, if that’s what you end up wanting to do.

@vermilliongecko 6 месяцев назад

@@Epic-so3ek Thankyou. I suspect that I will need some more counselling before I can date again. The police made some insensitive jokes, but at least they arrested him quickly, largely because they caught him in the act.

@cartermusic2020 5 месяцев назад

@@vermilliongeckoI’m so sorry ❤ that is truly awful. Wishing you peace.

@thegrandlevel313 Месяц назад

A female neighbor stalker is what I have. It’s terrifying. She got renewed in the lease, and she now thinks the landlord sided with her.

@haitiqueen0119 22 дня назад

My current situation; best advice to you is to document document document however some are slick and know how to trigger their victims low key. Narcs are the ultimate low lives real talk!

@danae-rain3019 6 месяцев назад

I live in the US and work for a government agency and my stalker is a co worker. They have a policy of not firing veterans. He is a veteran. I was told he will still be working there long after I am gone. Before anyone says i should get a different job, I am 64 years old. Noone would hire me in a position that would pay me what i make now. It has taken 17 years to reach this pay. I told a friend at work if I disappear or am murdered who will have done it. He has no reason to be anywhere near me at work yet is always showing up in my space to intimidate me. They used the term micro aggression in the video and that is very accurate. Not knowing what they are capable of, always having to think about them. It's awful.

@camellia8625 6 месяцев назад

Sounds horrendous. I wonder if you or he could be relocated to another of your organisation’s offices. Even if that isn’t possible; surely he can be prohibited by management from going near where you are situated given the harassment/safety implications.

@Epic-so3ek 6 месяцев назад

That’s terrible. Wish you the best luck.

@barbaramatthews4735 3 месяца назад

I'm a veteran and can tell you that veterans can be fired. The policy is lunacy. Report him to HR. Veterans can be fired for cause. I know this. Stalking is cause. You can go to HR, or your Equal Opportunity department. You can also call a hotline number for sexual harassment. You don't have to take it. I know it's hard. I'm a woman veteran and had a stalker once. It wasn't taken seriously. After all, I was in the military, so I "should have" been able to handle myself. That was the crap I got fed. My stalker was a civilian who lived in my apartment on the floor above me. Creeper. Maybe you can transfer to another department or agency. I worked at the VA, and got fired during my probation period. I worked 11 months and was let go without cause. So yeah, they fire veterans. That didn't have anything to do with stalking. It was something different. I didn't even do anything to deserve it. They decided that I wasn't a" good fit" for the position.

@KatyYoder-cq1kc Месяц назад

@Aimee03110 Месяц назад

TSA?

@sonjajefferson23 6 месяцев назад

I've had two in my life. But this year I got a birthday card from one after 20 years. Wow, just crazy.

@heidismutti 6 месяцев назад

I used to live in Los Angeles, which has the toughest stalking laws on the planet, but also ran up against the problem that the police aren’t trained to deal with stalking. My stalker literally ruined my life and ran me out of the state. The police were like, “Filming you isn’t against the law.” And “ How do you know it was her that slashed your tires?” The police are useless.

@marquese1960 6 месяцев назад

21 million... WTF!!!😮 What is wrong with people.😢

@patl3897 9 дней назад

You have to know, there are hybrids walking among us. They have no soul.

@sunshinesunshine-eu3xy 8 дней назад

I have been stalked for 3 yrs + now,stalker has damaged my 3 cars,property, and physically hurt my dogs,one of my dog got out over the weekend and got hit by a car because the stalker left my gate open. Now he comes everyday faking that hes sorry. My life is at stake and courts/police no longer help,gets off due to mental illness.

@VDJ4500 Месяц назад

It is the same here in New York… the legal system is not up to date with a criminal behavior that has to do with an abuse committed by mentally ill people… i’m going through this cycle with one sociopath/stalker and it’s beyond what one can comprehend and do. 😢… unless a tangible crime is committed, most of time authorities do absolutely nothing and even refuse to punish the “criminal”. As if psychological abuse that sociopaths can inflict is not on the same “level” as physical violence… it is horrible. Also “my” stalker is a definition of a pathological narcissist…. Nowhere is said narcissists won’t be stalking 😅

@haitiqueen0119 22 дня назад

Hello fellow New Yorker 🙋 You are spot on with everything.

@joakimber8831 2 месяца назад

Psychological services feed off both the perpetrator and victim, You get told to get therapy to get out of the situation, yet services who already counsel the stalker have no accountability loop or any desire to engage their patient in a discussion around the behaviour you try to report to them. Women are told "safety Plan" Perpetrators are not provided with a behavioural change plan....

@emilysnyder4857 Месяц назад

Yes, I am working on boundaries and trying not to think about the behavior I witness periodically. Like all of this would just go away if I gaslight myself into ignoring behavior. The stalker doesn't go to the doctor or therapy, he is not held accountable for anything and is emboldened in his fantasy. So I have to pretend I am not bothered as I wait for what he will get away with next. They know it's wrong though because of how sneaky they do things to avoid getting law involved.

@joak9913 Месяц назад

@@emilysnyder4857 Hope your ok. Stay in touch if you like and we can help each other. I have been googling women safety courses which may be more relevant. Paying for a security guard or having a dog can help. I am going away for at least a few days from next week etc.

@ozzyoz5210 13 дней назад

This is whats happening to me. I have ptsd and panic attacks from being here in this area and when he doesn't intimidate me he recruits others in the neighborhood

@cidercik 2 месяца назад

The police do nothing. Victims all over hear the same things, how the police cannot do anything and in my case it was dismissed as a neighbour dispute. 6 yrs now I am under constant surveillance, followed where ever I go, the verbal abuse when I leave my home, go to my garage, threats to me and my pets, cameras pointed into my home, damage to my home, assault, etc. All caught on video as he has done something under each window there is CCTV all around my home and I have a body camera. I make sure I never react in hopes of deescalating the situation. Getting a solicitor to start an injunction resulted in the police threatening the solicitor with arrest for harassing my stalker. You quickly understand there is nothing the stalker will do that the police will do anything about. I have told everyone: family, friends, co workers, that if something happens to me it's not an accident. This ruins your life. I wish I had you Isla with me when I report the stalking to the police. The police believe my stalker who says I'm stalking him despite all the evidence and incidents occurring all on my normal routes/places and home.

@haitiqueen0119 22 дня назад

Your story hits home, very sorry about your situation and you're absolutely right about these weirdos and their behaviors affecting us in different ways. Well in my case, it took a series of recordings overtime and speaking to a Sargent to help me with my situation. The cops who shown up to my home before seemed to believe my narcissistic neighbor and it was very upsetting. I spoke with a Sargent from my local police and that's been a help. In my experience complaints especially involving harassment and stalking are taken way more seriously when a Sargent is involved perhaps you may want to try that too. Maybe it may be a help to you. After 4 years of constant harassment by my neighbors and several cops, I now have a protective order against neighbor. It's taken 4 years to get one sadly and it doesn't necessarily stop the psycho from harassing me. My neighbor still seeks out even with order of protection in place but she does that through 3rd parties like her children and boyfriend now involved creating havoc in my life without reason. Best way to completely get a piece of mind is no contact and possibly moving without a trace. These narcs are crazy of crazies it's pathetic!

@jenbodhi1133 Месяц назад

I’m currently dealing with this, I barely even know this guy, he’s relentless and it’s been over a year, I have no idea where he gets the energy and motivation for this , I’m exhausted

@Esther_is_my_name Месяц назад

I have a TRIO of stalkers and harassers within my community. So much for "loving your neighbour as yourself"...but they aren't Christian, and that speaks volumes regarding what the Bible says and what the world says about "mental health issues"...As my personal and most current stalkers/harassers have been doing such to me for several years now...to the point of having dead animals found on my property amongst other "items" and traces of such, to which I do not want to post exact details of here...not sure if these people are trying to intimidate me or they are just trying "scare tactics"...as wolves always come in packs. They are never just ONE individual, they are many. But most victims only "see" one individual who does the actual "physical foot work" so to speak. The rest of them hide behind their computers or phones and do that type of "foot work"...like texting, harassing, gas lighting, spamming, hacking, theft, ID theft, scams, doxing, messaging of another sort etc... on social media accounts of many kinds, to which I also have been victim to. SICK AND TIRED OF THEM!

@KarisaKarmali Месяц назад

Love thy neighbour means obey the law, that's clearly something they struggle doing!

@emilysnyder4857 Месяц назад

I sometimes wonder how much my "Christian Values" are what attracted the stalker to begin with. I checked on him a few weeks after his Mom died because he had no visitors and was clearly abandoned by family. In time I became aware of the reasons why he had no other connections. But it's done a real number on me now that I have been coping with their stalking over a year. I am definitely not qualified to help here and regret getting involved... In fact I think he was provoked when I told him I don't watch horror movies because God told me a long time ago not to. This person watches horror movies all the time and I think he didn't like my opinion about his favorite slasher films. So now he is an actor in some stalker movie of his own. I feel like it's a spiritual battle with people who stalk someone. Like they are targeting you for trying to be a decent person.

@SMALLDANE 6 месяцев назад

Thank you very much - it is always both educational and entertaining to listen to you 🙂

@chrissyp7 Месяц назад

I'm currently being stalked and have no clue who they even are. I'm a male 31and it's a group of guys all riding in the same pickup. They follow me every day when I leave for work (I've made purposeful turns and u-turns to be sure they were actually following me), they stop about a block away from my house just screaming shit at me (can't tell what though they're too far away), and they drive by my house really slowly at 3am every single night (I have cameras). Even with all the photos and videos nobody will believe me because I have a penis. Do you have any advice for me? I know if anything goes down I have the right to self defense (I'm in the US) but I'd rather it not get to that point. But all it's going to take is them finally trying to jump me or do whatever they're following me for and I wouldn't stand a chance one vs 4-5 people. Idk what to do at this point beyond be extremely cautious and watch my back

@faescotland4174 6 месяцев назад

Was the police officer a misogynist, or was he gullible and easily taken in by charm? Both could be true - and misogynists will always side with the man so he needn't be very charming, but that's how narcissists get away with abuse, isn't it? They charm everyone not the current victim.

@linegenevievemichaud6739 6 месяцев назад

I can so relate to her❤. I had to leave my home and put it for sale due to stalking, harassment and constant surveillance. It was easy for them to hack my devices as i lived next door. It did not end there...story to be told at a later time. This individual is a typical case of predatory stalker. He takes pleasure by intimidating and dominating. It is his way of life however in my case he never succeeded 😊

@cazbah1111 6 месяцев назад

Thanks for highlighting stalking issues and raising awareness 🙏. It is much appreciated. Your video is great. It is really informative and straight to the point.

@MoodooVanSpoon 6 месяцев назад

Hi. I am a fan. However, this video is unwatchable due to the imbalance of audio levels. This could be easily resolved either within your video editor or with a separate audio editor. Thanks.

@parislogan3284 Месяц назад

My stalker is the 👮

@victoriao1828 18 дней назад

That's dangerous. Even if you move they can look up your driver's license and get the new address 😮

@patl3897 9 дней назад

They are on every level of our govt, including doctors, therapists, EMT;s,lawyers, and yes all police and state cops, not all are stalkers, but they do know about the program.

@parislogan3284 5 дней назад

@@patl3897 💯

@joakimber8831 2 месяца назад

IN Australia, staying at a family members property and it started day one after I had been doing a property condition report and looked at something under the carport - 2 wood beams that went through to the other side. I was called names, then I was called a very horrible name. Then there were notes in the door etc and an incident at the front door. My phone camera interfered with and someone in my kitchen, then creepy out near the side gate holding his phone up to take an image of me - during the time my phone was stuffed with. Followed cyber security advise and went to a tech, techy did not know enough to understand the phone hacking and said it was the hard drive. It was not. My. phone worked properly the next morning. I spent money going away and staying away for days and weeks. I got work and was about to settle down to work and then he just tapped on the window at the time I had to get up... It was weird and created distress, then the person at the reception desk was rude when. I arrived and someone else .... I resigned from my job with a trauma head ache and curled up in bed that afternoon acknowledged psychological damage from my past relationship that started from an assault.....

@cartermusic2020 5 месяцев назад

Too nice IS TOO NICE. TRUST. IT.

@ellie698 6 месяцев назад

I was stalked by a jealous boyfriend in my early 20's. He turned manipulative and violent.

@lionessontherise2403 Месяц назад

My oldest daughter has had a guy stalking her for 7 yrs literally a couple years after high school. She’s getting married to my grandson’s dad and they’ve been together eight years so he’s been there from the beginning of all of this starting and at first he believed that she was out there in the streets doing all these things this guy was saying. I told him this dude never has any photos of her doing anything no photos of them together. He’ll go away a couple of months then he’s back. I think the longest he disappeared was nine months and then he came back. The last time he sent something to her sister and I don’t even know how he got her phone number, but I don’t think he knows it’s her sister. He thinks she just a girl friend Because he sent her a video from three years ago and it’s been edited her and her sisters were all at a party dancing together, but in this video, she’s dancing with a guy, but you can’t see the guy face. All of them were there together, so they know that there was no guy dancing. They were dancing together. My daughter never posted anything and it was the sister who had the video. But he has a snippet of the video and somehow he put some dude with no face in it dancing behind her. Her sister lives in a whole otherstate and has never been here. Like we know the original video was 3 yrs ago and there’s no guy in it just the girls. She stays armed with her concealed weapon She does weapon training. She’s always aware of her surroundings and it’s just crazy that it’s been going on this long. Police can’t do anything because she can’t prove exactly who it is and even if she could, she has prove that they’re the ones sending all the messages and getting the numbers

@janedoe7025 6 месяцев назад

My stalker literally stopped because I asked him to 😳 I wasn’t expecting it to work but I told him that he was making me very uncomfortable and that I needed him to stop and he said that it would pain him to do so but he would do it for me 😳 I’ve never seen him since! Might be worth trying in the early stages for anyone else struggling with this, though some will just be determined to continue no matter what unfortunately. Perhaps worth trying to directly communicate if it’s safe to though.

@LilMsLorelei 7 дней назад

Her story is so similar to mine. The police do not take it seriously and the stalker I believe is paying off some of them. I had a young officer tell me about the stalker that he is so nice and polite. Clearly, this officer was young and dumb. I guess it’s all around the world in that police force is not trained regarding stalker behavior. Same thing happened to me when we went to court: he tried to make it like I was stalking him. He lies at the drop of a hat about everything and anything. I pray that this blows up in his face. I’m praying for justice. I also have to move just like she had to. I hope he picks the wrong person to mess with one day and finally gets what he deserves. I hope he ends up in jail for the rest of his life.

@deannadeason1850 7 дней назад

I reported it I had a witness ,I moved to several states I changed my name and still fighting , it has taken its toll on me I'm angry all the time I have been diagnosed with PTSD, this is a fricking nightmare. She has the worst of the situation and the Courts will say move, how many times do you need to move?

@sunshinesunshine-eu3xy 8 дней назад

I have 3.5 yrs proof of videos/texts and over 200 calls/per day and courts locked him up for a month,then got off for good behavior..So now he learned that police dont do their jobs,so he daily comes around laughing at me calling me stupid b...

@a-ms9760 2 месяца назад

Why are stalking incidents increasing?

@user-ds5uj6mj9n 17 дней назад

Being stalked terifying it happened to me it ruins your life

@heartdominance 6 месяцев назад

I feel like in this woman’s case there was a severe lack of empathy as well, hers of which was no doubt impaired by the stress of the situation too thereby harming her social reasoning problem solving ability; heck if I was a single gal and who knows what other prior experiences I have with guys and then yeah this dude next door right…. If there was a greater level of intelligent mentalizing aka that’s what I mean by empathy on this case from the cops that inevitably would have led to more assertive boundaries on there end this would have cleared up much better. I want to be mindful about what I say as a comment in response to this video overall out of respect for the woman involved. Understandably cops have a cognitive threshold for their caseload right, though in general I would say that the capacity for mentalization isn’t selected for enough as it pertains to cops for uniquely selecting for social problem solving. Great stuff again Sohom, inner peace to the woman and all around.

@mptajosog Месяц назад

Sharing with Federal Agents! Thank you! #advancedai

@Catlily5 6 месяцев назад

What percentage of stalkers become violent?

@britishmick 6 месяцев назад

Hi Dr Sohom, is the only/main difference between narcissism and psychopathy the levels of empathy shown by the individual i.e would this be the defining metric used to differentiate between the two? Could a simple definition for a Lehman such as myself be that a narcissist can show empathy after the fact and a psychopath is born without the ability to empathise?

@APsychForSoreMinds 6 месяцев назад

Check out my video on narcissist versus psychopath. It has all the answers you seek, traveller

@britishmick 6 месяцев назад

@@APsychForSoreMinds will do, Ty👍🏻

@viralaffiliate8999 5 месяцев назад

Can you please talk about if a woman has a big dog ( like a protection/guard dog) how it can decrease the chance of any type of assault by men , like how it change there thinking ? Thank you in advance 🙏

@KathrynFarrell355 6 месяцев назад

thanks.

@User-x4w2o Месяц назад

Dr have you ever heard of a person being hired to stalk on behalf of someone else? For instance, when you no longer respond to the fake profiles (changed SM settings) So my ‘hired’ stalker was actually an actor, pretending to want a relationship with me, things didnt add up, he had 2 phones, he kept going to the loo, coming back with more questions. When messaging and phoning me he was asking things that related to a previous stalker who had done an SA on me at work. The real stalker got a warning from the GMC so cannot contact me direct-he is a very wealthy psychiatrist! There is more I could tell you-any help would be much appreciated. Thanks

@frano3927 Месяц назад

Your talking about levels of stalking, don't try to defend stalkers who aren;t physical, mental stalking has a physical effect on people, folowing people has a mental effect which causes physical stress, lack of motivation, depression, hopelessness and all sorts of physically diminishing effects.

@heartdominance 6 месяцев назад

(my grammar hasn’t been the best just relaxing while texting on my phone my bad haha; undesirable autocorrects) And I found it interesting that she said that stalking cases have almost tripled in the last decade and I have no doubt Sohom that you’ve correlated that to social media hey, yeah this digital sphere which is what I’m mindful about concerning the woman, it creates more delusions as people are not getting non-verbal and physically verbal direct feedback from each other. I feel like in this situation with the woman that’s obsessed with me, she relies more on non-verbals because she’s unable to mentalise which makes her obsessive thoughts worse as she tries to figure it out which is why yesterday I sensed this and just told her straight and she said she apologised if she overstepped any boundaries and then she just acted like she worshipped the ground I walked on and now I should just send her message and tell her I’m just a super regular ordinary dude that doesn’t deserve her respect haha. Peace Sohom, peace yal

@ImogenC-rt3fm Месяц назад

Stalked by Monterey CA sheriff. To whom can I complain?

@LaurieHussell-h5x 4 дня назад

Jesus God please somebody help me explanation mark this is no I can't do it anymore I cannot do this anymore I cannot it is not an appointment it is not an old friend this is a real hacker / Stalker.. I can't do this anymore he has been stalking me for a year I can't go online I can't do anything I can't have any apps I can't have anything and he's still here why won't he go away why I'm not important I don't have money what is going on I can't do this anymore I cannot not healthwise I can't I can't somebody please please help me no one will help me

@XzoahX 19 дней назад

Could you make the sound quality of the video a little worse please? What's the audio equivalent of 'needs more jpeg'?

@a-ms9760 2 месяца назад

Have i missed something? I don't see that it's embarrassing at all the have a stalker.

@user-ds5uj6mj9n 17 дней назад

Police dont take stalking seriousley my ex husband was very violent they did nothing when i was stalked

@daejahhankinson3467 20 дней назад

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@user-ds5uj6mj9n 17 дней назад

Women and childrens aid will help you if your stalked

@AbbieQuirk-u7o 12 дней назад

@channel4 Why reference your support section at the end of the video, if you don't even have a 'stalking" section on your website... Please do better.

@JesusSavedMeTwice 3 дня назад

I have been gangstalked twice. Jesus saved me both times. Glory to Jesus✝️

@ellie698 6 месяцев назад

I don't think tip 4 is at all controversial. The more people looking out for you the better!

@heartdominance 6 месяцев назад

*_Possible Consultation Suggestion:_* Tailor made methods for police interventions concerning stalkers is what needs to be a part of police training now in light of the supposed massive increase over the last decade. Let’s face it, bright cops are a dime a dozen when it comes to being the Shakespeare’s of mentalizing. I now realise that not only do they need tailor made methods for stalking in the police academy as a permanent transformation to this that Dr Sohom Das you could obviously be an amazing advisor for, but also they need to incorporate mentalizing into all forms of police response training. Police routines are very outcome dependent and process-object biased, if they instead were created through the lens of increasing police awareness as a permanent part of a response tactic I think this would have a profound positive change to the politics of the police concerning their logistics around case loads and coordinating actual implementations with a long term vision. Lastly concerning this woman, it’s politely my intuition and like I said I’m just relaxing, but yeah, my suspicion meter is a bit wonky there. But it is for the interviewer too so maybe it’s just a glitch in my graphics card heh. Peace Sohom, badass awesome stuff here man. Great. Thank you for the info, I’m just spitballing here.

@ambar9814 2 месяца назад

😮i heard the f out of that😮

@MarianMurphy-rz8ej Месяц назад

Cut out your filthy talk. You’re not impressing anyone.

@heartdominance 6 месяцев назад

I have a “stalker” but I don’t have rigid lenses the way other people do. She suffers from autism and so she isn’t able to put herself in my shoes. She has just become obsessed with me. I’m hyper-aware of the fact that she’s probably aware of how “omg I can’t believe how much I’m obsessing over him” and I just gently maneuver around that. It’s all digital. No physical contact. And I won’t do that. I told her I have a girlfriend now even though I don’t (by the way she already has a sir, yeah I know). I don’t have the heart to have harsh boundaries towards her. I trust my ability to socially analyse the situation well and not freak out and be a jerk like one of the normies would and probably that she’s been rejected by in the past. Peace Sohom, and yeah, stalker is such a loaded term or maybe I just haven’t seen enough terrifying case studies not that I’d want to put myself through that. I just believe in contextualizing reality accurately, through the lens of life as life. Like we wouldn’t call a wolf a stalker of another wolf or another animal a stalker of another animal. It’s a bizarre word and we have all these bizarre connotations as a part of our survival apparatus, to me we gotta focus on the reality of any potential illness more than anything else. But yeah folk if you’re a bit too obsessed with someone like this gal is with me and that person has never reciprocated it’s probably a good idea to pull back because there’s a chance they’re like me and they’re just “socially intelligizing” the situation to save your heart. Peace out again

@tonicoledo 2 месяца назад

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@Monarch-Rainman. 19 дней назад

The COUNTRY for having the sex is Russia, and Greece.

@tigernotwoods914 6 месяцев назад

I have a question I’m a big fan of the channel by the way, but how do you as a medical professional keep your composure and keep yourself together because you do forensic psychology and you have a pedo or similar predator you have the case file in front of you the evidence is there but you still have to do your job. How do you hold yourself together in that snap on some of these people that show up in front of you and how do you decompress and calm down when you’re not working, I imagine this must take a toll.

@UseherasContent 6 месяцев назад

And another one..

@APsychForSoreMinds 6 месяцев назад

Good question, Tiger. I am very clear in my mind what my role is - I am only there to diagnose mental illness. I am never there to decide guilt or innocence, as this is up to the judge. Doesn't mean I don't internally judge but I don't let it bleed into my professional opinions.

@ellie698 6 месяцев назад

@@APsychForSoreMinds You have very clear professional boundaries. Professions such as yours, any that involve two people alone together, including therapists of all kinds, social workers, care workers etc etc have professional codes of ethics to ensure everyone stays safe and there's no confusion, no blurring and no abuse of power. Having boundaries is so important in every relationship, to keep everyone safe, isn't it. Yet so many families fail to have proper boundaries or to instill them in their children. No wonder perpetrators feel entitled to overstep them and victims don't know how to enforce them.

@jamesbarnes4964 6 месяцев назад

Is being a nonce a mental issue or criminal? they usually stalk

@UseherasContent 6 месяцев назад

There's a ton of projection going on in this world.

@markjones1337 6 месяцев назад

1.1k views with 55k subs. While the camera is OK in this video, the next video it could be very poor again. Also, is now a good time to talk about lighting? Please, Dr. Daz, you make really interesting content, but the visuals are intermittent at best, sound is OK though.........have you considered podcasts?.....no not for you?.....well then sort your f-ing camera out....

@MamasFunkyMonkey 4 месяца назад

I couldn't watch the video ..... terrible editing u talked over her story let her tell her story then talk thumbs down I found this frustrating to watch learned nothing

@user-fi5fx8om2l 9 дней назад

If someone ben in love with me and then acedently see me on the buss , trying talk to me trying follow me I sad I don't wanna talk to you but he won't listen, I run he run He catch me and sad I don't wanna hurt you hug me But you knew thet someone trying to manipulate and you he wants too punish me for some mistakes he thinks I make I wanna force me to talk too he and hug him I got to the friends house and that is how runavey Im so scerd What I gonna do if he agen see me somewhere He don't want to leave me alone I afraid if I youse peper sprey What if I see he after that (we live in small city in Serbia) And he be lot more angry because I used peper spray? I can't call police What I need to do to protect myself do I need to use pepper sprey? Thank you anybody who's answering me 😊 I got a number cause he called me from he's mom number and she said he wants from me to go to the police and comfese he's act (something he did) and give me money form that I dont wanna do that He want form me too hug him i don't wanna do that He scared shit out of me

@Gayophile 6 месяцев назад

1:43 guys n gals as it appens now then now then showaddywaddy jingle jangle jewellery goodness gracious uyhuyhuyhuyhuyh (Dr Das Schochondas does Jimmy Savile impression)