Liz - building stronger women. I used to be a doormat, always shy, a people pleaser. Until I learned how to defend myself by always speaking up, calling them out on their behavior, I used to think I should be unbothered by their hate but then it is actually more satisfying whenever you call out your bullies for their behaviors and seeing them looking so shocked thinking you are not capable of defending yourself.
I applaud Liz for standing up for herself and teaching other women do that. She’s so right - bullies are truly very ugly, weak people who hate themselves.
i was being bullied when i found this video and it made me cry. im very sensitive person and the people who do this to others dont care at all and i doubt they think about what they do to people, but THANK YOU SO MUCH, you made me feel free for just a moment. i'm a happy type of person and im ashamed that for a moment I allowed others to convince me to give my inner power away, YOUR beautiful and sweet and brilliant and honest! keep going :)
You give such practical advice without feeling ashamed or afraid. It's so needed in a world that's filled with "omg don't hurt others by speaking up, be empathic to bullies and be the 'bigger person', "kill them with kindness" etc bs. Especially for an agreeable girl like me.
i had such a hard situation right know, a girl i blocked two years ago bc she's toxic started hating me for no good reasons and started stalking me and stuff and i was so panicked bc i felt weak, but this video reminded me who am i and that i shouldnt stress over it bc haters are just fans, thank you liz
I befriended the girls who were bullying me and kinda became a mean girl. I saw in their friend group that the “main” girl was bullying all of them. I learned how to protect myself(but I am still learning ). You guys if there are any people who bully you, its better to realize that its a situation from which you can get an advantage. You can learn who you are, love yourself and then nobody can touch you with their words or in physical way.
Literally before this video I was so afraid of being called weak for telling on these guys that were bullying me, but after watching I’ve realized the only thing that is weak is hating on someone for no reason and saying nasty things instead of focusing on not looking like a gremlin 24/7. Today they didn’t even have the chance to say anything like how they usually insult and bully me in the morning, because I walked straight to the office waited there for someone to talk to and told. I haven’t heard a word from them since. yk what’s weak bullying and not expecting consequences for your actions what’s not and never will be weak is standing up for yourself and telling. I feel so much better and they haven’t been on my mind since, I was so stressed before I felt a pimple on my face and that’s when I knew I had to watch a Liz video and get this problem fixed😂
