same. My ex left and refused to properly explain why. I tried to fix our relationship but my effort felt one sided so i left. Blocked him on everything after two weeks of being a clown but moving on has been so hard because I see him almost everyday at work so-
Thank you Liz. I was ghosted and was thinking about sending something again. Then the words 'You are a clown' popped into my head and I went back to watch the video again. I feel better. Lots of love ! ♥️
He tried to gain my approval back by calling himself a clown💀the way they know they are one too I want nothing but real and healthy relationships to you❤️❤️❤️
@@margeryojije7862 ur right. what she says is empowering but its a real impact when you actually put in effort to embody her nature . using ur words as advise ma'am
this video changed my whole perspective and strategy for dating. i cannot even describe how much i needed to hear this and in this exact tone and wording. I've listened to this at least 50 times in the past few days. I got ghosted by someone i really liked and thought would go somewhere and ended up sending texts asking why. im so embarrassed and i will keep rewatching this so i will never behave that way again. Thank you so much for this vid. I needed someone to tell me this.
I searched up “how to stop being in love with my ex” and this video popped up 💀and to make matters worse I accidentally tapped on it. My spirit guides definitely sent me this 😂.
Guys I want to make very CLEAR the way I’m talking is how I would talk to my family and friends about this subject. I hate when my loved ones devalue themselves, I always want them to be treated as queens and expect that treatment. I see all of you as my family, I want the best only I hope you all can see that! I love you all so so much, please don’t mistake my sarcasm for arrogance that’s never my intention ♥️♥️♥️
Getting ghosted is the best thing that ever happened to me. I developed so much self care and self love and i can finally focus fully on myself. If you're being ghosted its your choice how to deal with it, do something with your life, make yourself proud 🙂
This woman is telling us what we need to hear sometimes from a friend or relative. It's harsh to accept what she's saying, but it's the truth and it's for our good.
she made a 15 minute video having a mental breakdown, being condescending and sarcastic at her follower for suggesting if she should double text a guy? is it that serious? there's no way y'all think being left on read is this paramount of a situation to behave like this. If you don't want to ever text him again that's fine, but stop acting like a neurotic child because something tiny like this didn't go how you wanted
Ghosting is an emotionally immature way to respond to something, it means they're afraid of confrontation, and it is a sign of being emotionally immature. I'm literally the worst with social skills, and even I don't do this.
Not always tho... some people do deserve ghosting. when you constantly have to tell someone how they should treat you and they keep disrespecting you or not change their behavior you have to do that. i had to ghost my ex after i gave him a second chance on our relationship and he didn’t even change would always give excuses on ignoring me all day until i decided to ignore him back and move on
@@emaandreww I mean I wouldn't call that ghosting, that's just setting boundaries with someone not worthy of your time. Actual ghosting is when a person intentionally doesn't respond to messages when there's no good reason for that.
I am a former clown, luckily I retired and threw away my clown shoes. After that behaviour I attracted a man who is genuinely interested in my and treats me a like a queen.
@@momov4060 sure, yes we should expect much though because many men barely make any effort, the bare minimum 🤷🏽♀️ if you got a clown of a man expect clown behavior from the girl. Simple as that.
note to myself: - if someone ghosts you, they're not worth your attention. A respectful person will communicate with you. - keep being real in your head, do not be desperate - focus on yourself, if they wanted you you would know - if they come back, ghost them back/let them (literally) pay - don't be a clown
@@sidsolovelyyy you're obsessed, you love them because they dont want you back and make you feel like shit and u are not used to this so now you seek constant validation from them, they are the only persons who can fix your broken ego because they are the ones who broke it in the first place. They know it so now they can do whatever they want and u will always excuse them and come back. The only way to get out of this is to stop victimizing yourself and start seeing the things as they are objectively, there are a lot of people in your situation because its just how humans psychology works, its hard to get out of this but you can, the more you wait the more you will lose time and have regrets later
@@yentixx3576 if they didn't think im worthy of a reason before they ghosted me then calling them and asking for it won't do me any good. As far as it goes, it's a reflection of their personality. I'm good
I love liz so much seriously like literally also i love how in some vids she say hey guys its lix welcome back to my channel looking super nice and cute then she hits you with the disappointed mom energy really gives me a reality check
thanks i really needed this after being sad about a friend that constantly ghosts me and forgets to reply. this time they ghosted me for 3 weeks but this really helped me realize they dont care about me.
This might be superficial but could you do a series on LEVELING UP physically? As women, I know we feel good when we look good and this has helped me through issues like the one in your video. Thank you so much, Liz! You really are a wizard :)
@@razan-777 you can post anything you want, but just don't waste your time posting indirect quotes waiting for someone to notice it, or care for it... cause they probably won't give a huge sh**. That was the point she made.
@@mscb5817 yes, ofc , but I just posting like :if you think me bad just wait and you will See No body deserve anything Focus onyourself only Don't do it for man do it for your self only Respect your self… Don't give up .. And like this videos
I'm gonna be so sad if she stops doing videos. They are literally changing my life and I start to feel way happier. Every time I feel down or upset I'm watching one of her videos, because it became my safe place. Liz, we all love you. May your deepest wishes come true.
Thank you so much Liz for this video. 😊😊you literally a part of helping me in telling me what to do. During my worst part of dating a hopeless guy, and I’ve got you, it was the best part 😅
i'm literally crying, i'm so grateful you opened this channel. You're literally helping a lot of people. You're an angel. The truth may be hurtful but it helps you living better
@@Entrejai What if she had abusive parents, and never had a chance to grow up ? As every time she was ghosted it felt very personally and close to home, and this video finally released her from her trauma ? Think before posting comment like some bozo. I hope u felt better about yourself Mr. grown up. My lord.
I used to be ghosted, now I’m the one leaving and being chased. The message is to value and respect yourself above someone else perception of you. Move on.
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Or just ghost people who ghost you why do you have to scoop to their level and be like them instead of ignoring them 2 wrongs don't make a right you're no better sis
No because this is so embarrassing to admit i was that girl not just once but multiple times, i believe in loyalty that i put it on the wrong people i was so desperate and only date one person who wasn’t even giving me certainty, i fell deep into my fantasies in my head that i could be the love of their life it’s terrific. I’m so glad whatever it was didn’t worked out and i love being called out by Liz, cause everything she said in this video is facts.
YES go on girl! date as much guys as u want i promise u if u kept ur options to only one person you will get disappointed every time. speaking from experience
I’m so glad I found your channel, some people don’t teach their kids the real deal and it’s sad but I’m glad you are on here and give people the real deal and no bs
My two cents: if someone you're seeing ghosts you, THAT is their message. The person just clearly thinks you're not worth their time anymore and they're too much of a coward to put it straightforwardly and verbally. That's it. You're allowed to feel upset, specially if you felt a connection with them, developed feelings. So give yourself some time if you need to. You'll be fine, don't worry about it. And then, just move on.
i agree with you but the thing is, women like mysterious stuff especially with a boy, the masculine males energy is supposed to be focused on their mission and do that, it will keep them more interested but if you say focus on yourself, people will take it the other way and become sexist (OMG WE DON;T NEED MEN!) and then once they get too deep down, they will hit the wall and start suffering. i just think she should've went in depth with spirituality
@@yolobro983 nah bro always be nice to others and you will attract positiveness, talk to them and check whats up, you don't gotta be negative or else karma will come back to you and if someone ghosts them, they will get karma, i would talk to them because what are you truly getting out of ignoring them. UNLESS it is bad for you i would say hello and check up on them, if they ghost even more, ignore them and do ur stuff
I script, and I use the law of assumption. Remember what you want is already yours so act like it. Dont act like it’s a want. For example: I want this guy to like me 🚫🚫🚫 I can’t believe he likes me, As soon as I found out I felt so excited My heart started racing ✅✅✅✅
I actually have been ghosted for about 3-4 months now. And I kept being upset, wanting to talk to him, blah blah. After watching this video. This whole video was a snap back to reality. I need to get my life together. Taking care of myself, building relationships with Friends and God, and achieving my own goals
Love this vid Liz. I’m a 22 year old man going through a divorce. After constantly being walked over and even being cheated on, I’ve been left feeling like I have no self-respect. No sense of masculinity or honor to defend. Thank you for helping me feel empowered and worthy again
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This is perfect. It’s the video anyone in this situation needs to hear, but it’s better coming from a stranger because sometimes the tough love from a person close to us falls on deaf ears.
Its true honestly. My mom told me the same thing as this girl and I just didn't wanna hear it. It just sounds more raw coming from a stranger for some reaosn.
@Bruce Wayne My mom is typically very cold and emotionless with relationships which is why I don't take her advice often lmao. So if I hear the same thing from someone else I know there must be some truth to it 😅
@@cay924 always listen to your parents big momma. I used to the be the same too. When I was a kid. Thought they were annoying and didn’t know about my life. But they know because they were once kids too and experienced life already and are wise enough to know
I haven’t even dated yet and I swear your dating vids are seriously my fav ones 🤣 I play them on repeat so many times, because IDK how the hell while speaking straight FACTS and getting us back to reality, you can still insert such awesome sense of humour in there sometimes lol. Also, this is so helpful whenever somebody always ghosts me. Most of the times, IDC at this point, but the times that I do, you get me back to earth while also giving some good laughs 😂😅 “people who say you need to be grown and communicate… Who’s communicating with you?!” Thank you, really needed this
She sometimes makes me laugh by her way of saying it but it actually works and clears my mind off I love her thank you you explain so well❤️ I just don't know how to thank you thanku Liz
I've found one of the biggest keys is to step into alignment with what you ACTUALLY want, and own that fully. When we CHASE something and we believe the PRIZE is OUTSIDE of US, that's when we start to suffer and live out of alignment with our values. Once we step back into alignment with we who ACTUALLY are (Not the cliche, "be yourself" kind of thing, but who you ACTUALLY are), that's when everything shifts. Great video Liz ! Thanks for being one of the people that inspires me to post videos every single day ! Much Love 🙏
Yo guys? do you agree with what shes saying? personally i think she should've went in depth with spirituality because the masculine male can be very focused on his mission and i watched this and i realized that she was assuming it was a very insecure guy but one thing ill say it, it would've been nice if she went in depth with it tbh. good video tho i liked it but i dont really want her to blind females more
yea they think the prize is outside of them but when they claim the masculine man, they will feel like they won a prize and be happy, she straight up assumed that it was a insecure pick me boy and told them nothing, but she did say she was acting like she was talking with her family
Im listening this video almost every day! I did the same. I was ghosted and so sad. Posted sad quetes. Omg! Im so happy for you!!!! this OPEN MY EYES !!! God bless you!!!❤❤❤
The way she yells at us sometimes really makes me confident. I feel someone cares about us and is actually serious about our concerns.....! Much needed.
i keep coming back to this video. it makes me laugh, puts me in my place, and makes me realize my worth. my life really has changed since i started watching you, and i can’t thank you enough
I'm hollering at the part where she tells us to massage the dude's feet! 💀🤣 I wished I watched this video several months ago. Thank you Liz for your awesome content!
im as 13 year old listening to you inspires me to be the best version of myself and to stop chasing people who are not worth the run I love you so much even if i bearly know you but i hope you become more successful because anything is possible with God if you see this thank you, you changed my life💗💗💗
Thank you so much for giving me insight on how I should think like correctly. I am guilty of doing this bc when someone ghosts me I double text which is so bad because I’m like “ugh they’re the only one I want to talk to” but like who cares bro??? Like there’s so many people who’s ACTUALLY going to respect me and never make me doubt my self worth and think I’m that unworthy of a reply. Thank you Liz ❤️
Liz, you're amazing. I love your straightforwardness, I'm a 20 yo girl and you're like the older sister that I've never had. You're an amazing person and every video you learn me a new life lesson, I (and I think multiple others share this mutual feeling) appreciate you a lot for this. Being vulnerable in front of a huge audience isn't easy, you're a blessing in my journey of healing 💗
@@kiaraaa9674 That sucks wth, I'm the older sister in my family and I could never do something to make my sister feel bad about herself :(( I hope you can heal and build up your confidence 💗
This video is definitely shaming the part of me that needed to be shamed 3 months ago. I practically begged and would ask why he wouldn’t be the same like he was before and I can’t tell you how embarrassing it was setting myself up like that. He didn’t give a shit about me at all and you’re SOOO right it was literally the most desperate thing I could’ve done that I still cringe thinking back. I’m really glad to see you’re helping other young ladies and spreading this message! I don’t know what you went through but I’m really proud to see where you’ve come!
Thank you so much Liz! I know i am not a clown because i blocked him after he ghosted me 😂 your advice help me stay strong bc i sometimes cry or miss him 💀
liz is one of the biggest reasons my life is changing so suddenly & my perspective on everything has changed so vastly, could never express how thankful i am for these videos. u deserve the world
"How much more can you embarrass yourself?" EXACTLY. Sometimes you cannot be gentle with people when they are this dedicated to making themselves look foolish and desperate.
I love how she really took her time to reply to that message and show that people like that dude are not really worth it, and also the fact that she even told us and gave us advice about that type of people, it’s like if she’s a mother lol
I love getting to see her humorous side instead of always talking so serious. This video was actually funny. She's FED UP with dumb behavior and I LOVE it! 😂❤️
I just want to let you know liz that I appreciate your authenticity and aura in the videos you upload, your advices literally changed my life because I used to be a people pleaser and now I have accepted that being treated like a queen is my birth right.
@@RezeHB well, being treated like a queen means I am in my feminine energy and I am allowing the treatment that I deserve and I am not settling for less.
@@sandrashaine6770 You understand what shes saying BUT, some people here who are still blinded by society wont thinking "Omg we don;t need men" "We are so independent!!" she should've went in depth with spirituality and once they hit the wall, they will suffer. I already talked about this and people are out here deleting their videos lmao keep continuing queen
