The dude had planned their whole life up, from their first child to watching their grandchildren grow up, But then she shredded his dream by a single word
yes it is. Cos, He is talking about general morals which is the same in every social circumstances, how people should interact with each other. These are basics in Islam :)
wow he's so right sometimes I stare and even flirt but then by the time it's over, I'm like what I'm doing I'm supposed to be Muslim. May Allah swt forgive and guide us
Hamza Ahmed maybe try wearing more religious clothes it would stop you from saying certain things . I'd say start with something simple and that specific item will always be on your mind when doing bad . Even if it's as simple as a bracelet that has allahs name on it , or a necklace . Or the tuspahs ( idk how to spell it lol but one of those bead things ) or you can go the whole mile and wear a cap or Islamic clothes .
Hamza Ahmed all the boys named Hamza r always flirty i think its somthing to do wiv ur name bcz i have seen boys named Hamza at my school nd all of thm r always flirting wiv evry girl i m not sain ur like em but it might have something to do wiv ur name nd if u wanna stop flirting i suggest u should ignore girls even if they come up to u nd recite aytul kursi or dua or something it will help trust me i have done it
@Mehmet Dogan but brother I have never said that the one is more prettier than the other, everyone is beautiful inside and out. And I'm thankful that Allah created us Alhamdullilah!
When you go to a non-Muslim school, you come off as very weird if you act all serious with a dude. But oh well, deen over dunya. HOWEVER, it is also coming to the point where Muslims dub me as an outcast for staying away from guys & dating. This is wrong. Astagfurillah. May Allah guide us Aameen. I still talk to guys about school & work, but no touching or being giggly...
"lower your gaze, make just enough eye-contact to get your point across" this saved me so much. i'm just so shy with dudes even, older or younger and i really have trouble making eye-contact with them but i always forced myself to because i don't want to come off as rude omg i love islam
Lol this happened with me and my male co workers. Im so damn awkward. Sometimes i stuttered and tried so hard not to make an eye contact for a long time
A good advice think before you say really focus and research what you want to say save different words repeat them even talk to your self about the same topic in different words read a book as loudly as fast and as clearly as you can the stuttering will go away and you will be shocked the improvement is gonna be in days. And get a confidence source what ever it is, i get mine from boxing and staring opponents right in the eyes you will really feel like your self but high class as heck and confident, peace
Assalamu alikum sister. Do me a favour please remove your DP(profile picture) and let it be blank or upload something else. Strangera may or may not see this in bad intention. So make it as an advice and try to remove it. Assalamu alikum
there are always gonna be people who'll interpret stuff with the wrong intention , but because of that we can't change the way we are... And it is FULLY HER CHOICE whether she wants a DP :) #Peace
Ive always been so strict to boys that they find me intimidating and sometimes when i see my friends being all friendly with boys i feel a little jealous and think why cant i be as friendly? Ive always felt like i needed to be more friendly but now that ive seen this video, alhamdulillah i dont feel like that anymore. I can keep being the cold intimidating me 😈😌
why do you think they felt that being stern and not having male "friends" are non girl-like (in a way)? Imo, I think they lack the attention and love from their father so they went to other non-mahram males to get that feeling.
Wolver Dëp honestly when a girl has a strained relationship with her father or when he has always been abusive towards her or her mother It causes a lot of psychological damage and sometimes they aren’t even aware that their attention seeking behavior and flirting with nonmahrams is really to fill a void in their heart that should have been filled with the love and affection of her father. My heart really feels for those girls who are so misfortunate. We ask Allah that he fills their hearts with His love and light instead of filling their hearts with the love of guys that will be careless with it or cause her to sin.
If you have brothers or a father, anytime you talk to a non-mahram, mentally pretend your brother is standing with you.. If it's hard for you to not act girly lol 😂 it works... I guess with brothers, act like your sisters or mother is with you.. not sure if this will work for everyone e but if you think it may help, won't hurt to try
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Damn I was just practicing to get rid of my anxiety and make eye contact with people (I thought it was rude not making eye contact while talking) but this changed my entire perspective 😂. I'm still so happy and thankful that I'm Muslim
I used to be tough and serious to the opposite sex .. but then i changed. Bcs my friends told me that i was too extreme. And yes, now i realize that i shouldn't change. Thank you Ustadz.
don't listen to those friends. My friend also said that and i thought may be i should change my way but then I saw how she was getting into troubles for the overly sweet behaviour.
He's such a great influence plus a guider but I wanna say that his way of describing things, talking, and expression are more likely to amuse me 🙌 moreover informative, thank you, sir, 🤲
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Dude but what I don't understand are the creepy guys in the comments y'all can't control yourself when you see a woman ? Be nice towards her instead of getting dirty thoughts no matter what type of dress she wears.
I think that women should wear whatever they like I agree in islam there are certain rules and the muslims can follow it but however the muslims who Don't doesn't deserve any hate and also doesn't deserve to be seen as a whore. A true man can and should be able to control himself the true problem is that you aren't around women who wear such reveling clothes so you feel urge to do something to people who does..... Let them have their own freedom even tho they might or might not be in the same religion they are still your sisters. Cause WE ALL ARE HUMAN and we should love and spread peace instead of hate and sex
a guy in my class doesn't want to leave me alone he's literally flirting with me I was cold strict and direct but the guy doesn't want to understand and want to stop annoying me he even dare to ask to take off my hijab or to show him pictures of my hair I changed my place please help me I want my place back and I want peace
OMG ,Something similar happened to me,I was in English sitting by dudes...and one guy was like "what's under that hair" or something idk but yeah thank God you aren't in that situation anymore.
I have one thing to say... Some girls are smiley and giggly by nature. So they can't control it everytime... For example I am a very shy woman and because of that I become smiley... I don't think that a man will be attracted just by that...
Elnar Then they have a problem... They can't just think that a girl likes them just because she is giggly when she talks with somebody...Boys shouldn't interpret so much things into a girls behaviour or nature...
this probably sounds a bit weird but its true HAHA coming from a students of islamic school where the interaction between boys and girls are restricted. because we don't usually interact to diff gender like others do, small things that others do can affect us a bit deeper lol
This is kinda a long comment but i just had to share with the Ummah. I PRAISE Allah swt for these teachings. Especially TODAY (8-3-18)... Do you know for four LONG years I have been looking exactly for the content in this video. And today, when my faith is low and I'm trying to listen to positive messages, Bam...seemingly out of nowhere, not looking for it, on JUMMAH Friday!!! Alhamdullilah! Subannallah No fifteen letter words, no entangled speech. Simple and to the point with vivid illustrations for people like me who are very visual. Also, this particular lesson is what I've been trying to say for four years. As a new Muslim I've had arguments with other Muslims. I ask them how they function in the world without opposite sex interaction? How can we bring non Muslims to Islam if we don't TALK TO THEM? I'm a U.S. Army Veteran and most of my interactions are with mainly men while also being the only Muslim in the situations. Sometimes Muslims take thing to dang far. Again Thank you and Jazakallahu Khairan over and over!
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@Sonja Teal I'm so happy that Allah has guided u to Him :) . I definitely recommend listening to Ustad Nouman Ali Khan (which is the person in this video). He explains things so well and makes it really easy to understand Allah and Islam. He adds in humour too. His youtube channel is Bayyinah Institute. I hope u also check out Mufti Menk. Ps i find it so cool that ur a Veteran
Alhamdulillah I watched it again. I keep watching it again and again. Perhaps I've Committed a sin which I shouldn’t have. I'll try my best again inshaAllah. May Allah Azzawajal help us all and make it easy for us!💗
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This chanel helped me a lot I actually do this by nature and I'm super serious with non mehrim and they think I'm a weirdo and girls always bully me saying oh so this is Haram tooo and laugh boys too do that but behind my back with other "girls" they don't have the gut to talk to me while looking at me and I'm proud of that .But belive me I try to be nice but I'm not a bullied poor girl I return the favour to the girls not the boys and now sometimes I feel conflicted do I respond to badgirls and broke their hearts defending my self or be nice and believe me I saw what they do to those who do that PS: I live in 99% Muslim country ironically and with my broken heart I say they laugh at every one trying to follow God path 💔
Sarah .B I’d really appreciate sis,if you give me some tips on how to talk straight to the point and seriously without even smiling. I do have a past, not so good past. I was a extrovert. And never had any problem talking to a complete random person. I would always make that conversation friendly. I would joke around with random people. But that’s not Allah wants me to be. I really need to change. But it’s really hard, to focus😢. And whenever I used to go out... I always kept my head up. Never lowered my gaze. I find it really difficult now. I am embarrassed now. I really *need* to change. I would really really appreciate sister, if you’d share with me some tips and advice 🥺🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@@qoon7689 It was always easy for me because I'm extro/introver so I switch from introvert with boys and extrovert with girls . My advice for you is to set a goal you know like when you're studying and you say this month i WILL FINISH THIS COURSE or when you say this month I will save money to buy this book or clothes YOUR GOAL would be to become a Royal they never talk to random people only to special people and people in need so whenever they talk to a person they have a very straight and good reason for exemple I don't talk to all the classmates because some of them can be bad influence so I talk to the favorite few that I really trust and apreciate and let the other to come and talk to me if they want but I will for girls keep the eye contact from time to time and average smile and only answer or keep the coversation pro (by time if this girl is good behaving near me she could become a friend) for boys I keep my head to my book or whatever I have then turn my head from time to time not eye contact though and they all respect and never talk to me with disrespect . I do have good friends that I consider sisters they respect me even though I talk normally with them but my first empression never go away they love my sense of humor my principes and being their for them whenever they are in need but never cross the line talking about bad things or haram things even if they say those things between them they don't near me. The result : People will look at you like you're very elegent and they will respect and help you I know some people don't care about others opinion but you should have a good reputation not only to build a great career but to honor your Now and Futur family belive me I'm talking with experience you should see my father's face when he come and a teacher or someone he know tell him how much he should be proud of me and how much they are curouis of how he raised me so well because their daugthers are giving them hard time. what they don't know is it's not only their raising but the girls WILL if you have the will to become better to study have a job a career a family anything you can because the girl can do every thing and she is the very first stone to build the society. I hope this help you remmember it doesn't mean to put your self under a rock it's just some principle to become the queen as you're now a princesse and to get more help read about our mother khadidja or aisha they were both strong yet shy women.
Black Lives Matter you're welcome sis, I wear full hijab it look like a long dress and a hair cover that is long it cover until half of my arm they are nice though and have their own fashion .but without niqab
I have just started my uni.and I was much worried how should I interact with my co fellows according to Islam.and yes Islam has a thorough explanation on it.feeling much relaxed after watching this
Wow this was, to a non believer, really helpful. I'm from Germany and I found many conversations with Muslims quiet weird, because while it is welcome to talk to the point if your not close friends. Not making eye contact whilst addressing someone (especially if formal) is considered very rude in Germany, to the point where some consider it disrespectful. Most importantly while shaking hands and introducing yourself looking away signals to most of us here a message of "I don't want to talk to you and you are unworthy of my time".
Muslims aren't supposed to look away when someone is talking to you , me for example i Don't make a direct eye contact mostly bcz I'm a shy person but also to avoid the attention of man , it's like an eye contact for a millisecond hahaha
so when you want to know an another muslim we are supposed to know his personnality, his character... in order to get married but if we (girls) are cold, we show none emotions with him how he will be attract (sorry for mistakes I from France)
You're formal with them but you don't have to be cold. You can talk to someone with formality and still make jokes. It's when it gets sexual is the problem. You don't act seductively, you act rationally. And as time goes by, you'll know each other better and can therefore decide if you'd make a good couple. That's what my intake is on this, at least. =D
Ayesha Ansari no I am sorry. You can't do that. It's inappropriate to have those kind of talks with non-mahram men. If it's innecesary to talk to them, then don't talk to them. If A men is attracted to you he will go to your father, you should not have small talks with them. Excuse my vocabulary/grammar mistakes. English is not my native language
Halima Sissoko a Muslim man will be attracted to you by your shyness ad modesty. If he sees that in you, he will propose you and you will get to him via your father. In my opinion it is very unattractive if a woman is too social with me or other men.
ia 20 If I can't have these discussion and even joking with him, I can't know who is he really and I wouldn't want a man that I barely know come to my house in order to make a proposal...
Halima Sissoko that he makes a proposal does not mean that you immediately have to say yes or no. It's just the halal way of knowing him. As a muslima you have a great status in Islam. Allah granted you that status because you have a great responsibility and that responsibility is that you respect and honor your father. It s really disrespectful to your father if you as his daughter are chilling laughing and making jokes with non mahram men. Every father hates that, because they have Girah inside them. Please respect the honor of the men in your family and don't get to know the guy behind the back of your father. Khair in sha Allah
الحمد لله الذي جمعني بقنواتكم في الوقت الذي لا املك فيه احد لينصحني لقد طلبت من الله ان يرشدني اخواتي ادعو الله الدعاء حبل النجاة من هذه الدنيا الله يحفظ امة محمد ❤
A good point about the giggling. I always get giggly out of nerves or because I don't know how to respond, but I know I should try to avoid that. Jazakallah khair for the tips and the funny cartoons.
If you want to get to know someone for marriage There’s this thing called Islamic Dating. Here’s how it works: 1. *Have a family member in the conversation* (so the 2 people don’t say inappropriate things) 2. *Use business like tone to ask questions to the other person*- see how compatible you are (Ex. Do they want kids? Where do they work? Etc.) 3. *This can happen face to face or even text* BUT make sure to make it a group chat with one family member. Good luck! Hope this helped
I'm so thankful for this video, honestly. When I have to talk to non mahram men I often think that I come off as rude to others, because I don't want to come off girly girly.. But now I know how to act...? Anyway, thanks a lot جزاك الله كل خير ❤❤
Jazakallahu kairan Bhai. it's really good for we sister to understand how to treat non mahrum and especially not showing yourself or popping with the guys. Really love this concept and your hard work. Allah hum'ma barik lahu 🌹💕
