I was real quiet at the post office... casing mail all the carriers always gossiping everyday and I was always on eggshells and the “quiet one” & never gave them nothing but a smile and positivity... they would say “ ooh beware of the quiet ones....they are the most crazy” 😂 people will twist anything.
As a quiet dude myself just entering my first job at 20, I will definitely be expecting this to be said about me. I finished my first week and haven’t said a word except to my boss and did everything to a T, but im sure the females especially are going to start some shit. I don’t understand why people have to gossip or speak about non related subjects to the job. Getting friendly with a coworker as I’ve always been told is like stepping on land mines. One bad move and you could lose your job and have a ruined reputation
Exactly! They hate it when you’re quiet cause they don’t know about your life 🤣 That’s how pathetic these coworkers are. They’re so bored with their lives and have nothing else better to do but come to work gossiping🤣🤣
Exactly. If you speak with people, they will twist your words and spread rumors, if you choose not to speak at all, you will also be gossiped about for not participating in the dysfunctional interactions. Either way, you’re going to be lied about, talked smack about and triangulated against so may as well stay silent, work, and do your own thing, or quit and become self-employed.
@@Kova-ow2enI’m 29 I’ll be 30 soon Being quiet lately has almost gotten me fired they don’t like my quiet personality Some people especially women love it
Everything right on. Be discerning who you're dealing with or talking to, especially coworkers. I love that suggestion to never outshine your supervisor but make them look good. Also to be quiet and focus on my work when around toxic coworkers. I mostly try to focus on my work and stay out of people's way anyway.I will talk to co workers but not for very long conversations.
You nailed the situation I was in last year, with a toxic manager and toxic co-workers, which ultimately gave me the huge drive to finally pursue self-employment. Thank you for sharing your insights and providing guidance. Thanks for making my video request!
Words of worker wisdom here ! Toxic politics rules many companies and public agencies ! Find a way to escape no matter what you get paid ! Exit plan folks ! Thank you Tyler for the wake up call !
I’m ready for these people to try me. I have no problem saying anything I’ve said to work because I know I’m not in the wrong. They know I’m with my shit and that’s why they gotta talk to my boss in secrecy instead of coming to me in front of our boss. They’ll get caught up in their distortion of my words 🤷♀️
Tyler you hit right on like like if I'm having down time when shit is slow and I'm having a drink of water and I see someone else in the office chillin with the manager in the office with the manager on that same on that's same down time oh hell na that's the the same person that you are talking about.
Hi Tyler another great video please could you do a video how to know if someone is a Narcissist or just reacting to a Narcissist because i know a Narcissist is causing so much trouble and I'm not sure if the other person is exactly a Narcissist or if there just acting out of frustration from the evil things they've had happen to them
Jayne Powell. I would like to invite you to go into my achieves and I did A part one, two and three on how to recognize a narcissist. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.
My name of my other youtube channel is T--LowCTI,which you can go to the people I am subscribed to under channels. Look under featured channels and you will see it. Peace and blessings to you.
Good vid.I have a question I'm taking classes to better my career.there are only 3 in our class.I'm the only female in a mostly male workforce. There is one male there that is always negative and puts me and everyone down constantly. He never has anything good to say and thinks he knows everything. I feel like he is sucking the life out of me and physical I'll when I get near him.how do I deal with this and what do I do? Thanks
Hi Tyler can you please make a video on how to get a girl to wanna talk to you if she dosent want anything to do with you because she has a boyfriend ?
infantry grunt warrior. I can't guarantee that I can get to your video request very fast because I have way too many right now. It might be a while? Just being honest. Peace and blessings to you.