Thirteen months into separation from my wife here. I was the prodigal but she left me. I deserved it for sure. I started changing quickly, but she had to go through a process, too. We have swapped unfaithful/betrayed/standing roles a couple of times. One big change was the difference between needing her back and wanting her back after my need bagan to be for Jesus. Now we feel closer to reconciliation while we just sit back and let God work on the marriage and each of us. Glory to God on the changes in us and the marriage.
I need to watch this video every day to reinforce my needed behavior changes. I have such a hard time leaving my spouse alone and letting God work on Him. I'm always wanting to say the right thing, pray the right prayer, and write him notes with scriptures and words. Lord help me to trust you more.
Same here. After 11 months of trying my way I have pushed her into another man’s arms and it’s a deep regret and pain. Letting go and letting God control is the hardest thing to do but the best thing. I need Godly sorrow, patience, renewing of my mind, and guidance.
He’s 💯. We so often turn our spouse into our idol. That’s a recipe for disaster. God should be #1 in our focus, then we will love them through the Lord.
Thank you for such a great message, I needed this. Sending 50 text messages a day and Bible verses wasn’t getting it done lol. When I first started seeking God after my wife left I was really getting close and then like you said started fearing and letting the enemy win. When I’m all alone at the judgment throne, it will only be me. I’m so thankful he sent his son to die for me. Thank you again
I have no words… yesterday was a revelation and today this video. Church… I ask for a global prayer for Matt Hartley, in Oregon for his salvation. Pray the Lord our loving Savior come upon him in such a loving merciful way to lead Matt to repentance… in my excruciating pain of a breakup, I am obeying the Lord and not trying to do this on my own…
I pray for my prodigal husband to turn to the Lord. It's been over 11 months separated after 37.5 years. I have faith & pray my prodigal husband hears our God's voice reaches his stone heart, in the meantime I praise trust God restoration with God first, then us with God centre of our life ❤ 🙏. I surrender myself to God and pray trust His healing. My prodigal husband left our Lord's covenant and I will pray & ask Jesus Christ can forgive us for sin, heal us both and fill us with Holy Spirit 🙏. Thank you for your encouraging words Frank.. I understand to continue to pray for my prodigal husband as I turn to God and let God guiding him. This painful process will end up beautiful when we both bond first to God then love each other as God loves his church and keep God centre of our life ❤ 🙏 🏡. I trust our destiny & relationship with God will bless us with Faith. Amen 🙏.
This video was speaking to me. Almost five years into spousal abandonment and multiple affair partners, the Holy Spirit has gently guided me into the correct path to follow. If he comes back or not is not as important as following the purpose and destiny God has orchestrated for me. Tomorrow I am physically taking a long trip toward my rehabilitation, having understood through prayer that this is God’s plan for me. God bless you Dominic 😍
Thank you Lord for your servant Dominic. I clearly see my own selfishness, wrongdoing, and especially idolatry in my attempting to force my will, instead of total submission, and surrender to the Father, Son, Holy Spirit, and His ways instead I've attempted to force my will ,and timing instead of yours Lord. I repent and get off of the throne. Thank you, as always Dominic. God bless you, and yours ,as all who have ears to hear, repent, and obey the Word ,and Holy Spirit. The throne, Calvary, the Blood, the Resurrection Power of the Lord Jesus. My first desire is to walk with the Lord in obedience, and seek first the Kingdom of God, and His righteousness. Thank you again and blessings! '
May The Lord richly bless you Mr. Herbst, for allowing Him to use you. I cannot tell you how much this timely message has set me free from bondage. God is Good!!!
Wow wow wow wow!!!!!! This is amazingly on point with what I have been doing with my husband. I do not get in Gods way. I surrender him and focus on me and God. This was timely CONFIRMATION! Thank you so much!
It’s true all what you’ve said..I’ve tried my way to get her back desperately, gifts, offerings, telling her I’ve changed.. all it’s done has pushed her further away. I should have prayed and trusted Jesus since the beginning for transformation and reconciliation. I want her back very much but I want and need is Jesus close and for him to work on me on us first.
Its treu ! My spouse left for the 3 time. We didn’t repent. Now we divorced. God spoke in my dream . Two years ago ‘Focus on healing ‘ I saw two houses standing next to eachother , with two green trees on every house. This was a dream of God. The waiting is long. I get delivered and let him go. There is another women in his live. I’M standing.
I praise Jesus late at night for leading me to your video, all you said is all I have been doing to try to bring my spouse back to me, fully thinking I was doing the right thing.... I surrender this all to the Holy Spirt and commit it to God's hands. Thank you for such a powerful video for my eyes see now that I can't fix this only God can fix us both.
Salvation is our only hope and we are walking in the light and still struggling.. Now imagine the torments of our spouses 💕 heart's they are hardened and darkened in their rebellion. They need our prayers which avail MUCH. Letting go of my idolatry for a restored marriage and perfect family life and letting YAH heal my pain and brokenness.
This video is such a Blessing, today is the last day of my 7 day fast and on the 1st thing on my prayer list was to save and transform my husband then 2nd to restore our marriage. Ive been doing so much soul work in my time of Isolation, this isolation was hard, lonely and sad but so needed. I know for certain I know and serve the true living God.
Thank you for your message, my faith is being strengthened in waiting on the lord, but I just had a reality check on motive!! I really am working on root cause of some of my behaviour through trauma, but through this hardship the motive was to get her back, not continue the work of deliverance and trusting gods steps .. thank you so much! 🙏🏽 and if anyone is reading this I hope that restoration is blessed upon your relationship
Lord I Thank You!! 🙏🏽 Lord I surrender my Relationship to You Please forgive me for all the Sins I have committed known and unknown. I believe in the Death And Resurrection of our Lord Jesus Christ 🙏🏽Please give me The Strength I need and also restore Peace in my heart In The Mighty Name of Jesus Christ 🙏🏽 and 🙏🏽
I’m on a binge of your videos. Thank you for the work you’re doing xx If your spouse has cheated or moved in sexually, the Bible says you are released. You are obliged, biblically, to let your spouse go. If they cheat and try to say, it is biblical and holy to divorce them. It’s the only reason given.
You are such a blessing to me and so many others! Thank you so much for your ministry and your faithfulness to the Lord! May God continue to use you as an instrument in the healing and growth of all who are going through the refining period. To God be the glory!!
All Glory to Almighty God in Christ Jesus' name through the Power of His Holy Spirit Amen. May Almighty God continue to Bless you and your precious family and ministry in Christ Jesus' name Amen.
I turn myself and all my worries and anxieties over to you Lord. I ask that you keep me and protect me, uplift my spirit and mend my brokenness. Let you light and your love be what guides me towards a more purposeful and fulfilling future. Please continue to be with me and please be with John. Watch over him and allow your love to lift the veil of the enemy off over his eyes, and let him see clearly that it is your path he must follow to earn redemption and reconciliation. I give You full power and full reign in order for Your holiness to wash away any negative or unwanted thought. Do not let temptation come between us, and allow both of our hearts to heal under Your name and under Your will. God I give myself fully to thee and pray that you forgive me for my past transgressions and sins. Lift me up with your divine spirit and enter my heart in a way I've never thought possible. I love you Lord and I trust You. Amen.
In my disparity, I find myself noticing you links, finally I'm watching you videos. I pray we both heal, but his healing has to be of his choice and it starts with him reaching out to God. For God's always been there, even when he falls, just he won't reach his hand out. So here I pray for me, for him foe God to lead us .
I love that im in agreement when you pray you pray that God bring that one partner or loved one back to him not you the relationship between them and God is more importantly than you. We all need more of God and not more of people, relatives, friends ect. Though shall not have no other gods before me. We are not here to make someone our god we are neither no god to anyone. Notice I spelled these false god with a little g rather than a big g. Because God is our solution not people. Amen
Please pray for my marriage James & Kai I miss her terribly. I turned it over to God 100%. I pray 2-3 hrs a day, praying fervently .. I have suffered greatly. Nothing I have done deserves this treatment.
You have to remember we wrestle not with flesh and blood. It’s so hard to remember this when our spouse hurts us. But they are under demonic influence or even control in some cases (my husband’s).
Praying that I can come closer to God, help me surrender and heal. I also pray for my deliverance. Yes Lord I want to marry Rick, but even more than this I beg that Rick is restored to God's paths, even if I lose him. Lord I want a Covenant Sanctified Marriage, but our salvation even more. Help me God, I can't do this alone, help me to trust You, you first. I also bring to you my Adult children. Lead me, cleanse me. I want You first
THANK YOU HEAVENLY FATHER!! This is an answer to prayer...every question I had in my heart was answered...ONLY GOD!!! Lord God, I pray for my daughter and granddaughter...I commit them to you...please protect them from the adversary...help me to trust you more /to cast all my cares upon you. Help me to cast down the "what if's and create in me a clean heart with pure motives, oh God. I pray your perfect will be done. My heart's desire is for total healing and reconciliation with my daughter. Bless your HOLY NAME, JESUS!
What do I do when he wants to come around, spend time with us? Will I be getting in the way? Or is this Gods way of touching him and softening his heart?
I am so trying, I fail much. This man is I have loved for 30+years. We been seeing eachother for 2yrs 8 months. He has pulled away, and I have made mistakes in wanting to bring him back, I know I have faults too, and yes we both need healing and deliverance. I myself have been struggling with surrender, I try but then I find myself trying to reach out. I am praying on this for Grace to let him go. But now I hurt cause he is going to start to date someone else. And it hurts so much, cause I live him and been praying and fasting for both of us to come into a sanctified covenant marriage. I don't want to see him with another, to shame me with bringing another to his apartment. We live next door to eachother. I hurt, but I so want to be with God first and I wanted to love Rick with and through God, I never wanted to place him above God. I want to finally marry Rick but I want him more for God, I pray for strength and help in surrender and the ability to truly let him go, and focus solely of God, in Jesus Name
I pray that God will touch Mads' heart & be opened to reach out to me. I pray Mads will completely trust God in everything, increase his faith, & obey God's plans for him & for us, not lean on his own understanding & plans. I pray God will heal & restore my relationship with Mads...to part the waters in front of us & make Mads see that God is paving the way for us to finally be together & progress to marriage. May God keep Mads' body pure for me & keep him away from all the temptations & remove his desire of flesh. I ask these in Jesus' name. Amen.
My husband is still home- what would you all say about that? He is quiet, detached- 6 mos ago he started to go through a depression and the. 2 weeks later he is questyhis love for me. It was bazar and hurtful. He seems to feel better from the depression but still verbalizing even in his counseling- with a Christian he is not sure if he wants to stay married. He is a believer which is ironic! It’s like he left God-
If your loved on has left you because they had enough of your poor treatment of them, let them go! If you truly loved them you will honor their wishes to end the relationship. If God wants it to work out HE will make it happen. So let them go and forget about them.
Great teaching! Thanks! My question is if I still wear the ring, how could it be possible for her to think I am not there any more waiting on her. Any suggestion?
My question that I just sent you about what to do when you leave it with Ghod is regarding a partner. We are not married yet. We met a while back and we are just kind of going together so is Prayer the same for that situation as well?
pls pray for my spouse Honeymae Clamosa and I Charlemagne Clamosa to be restored..and to fully surrender our lives into our Lord Jesus Christ..Let the Lord direct our step..and I surrender all to you Lord and ask for forgiveness..pls pray for us..my dying marriage.
I do not contact my husband surrender him to God. What about family members of his? I have a close relationship with my mother in law.. I have stopped talking to her unless she text me first but should I stop all together?
I keep going back and forth on this regarding her birthday. I think everyone is in a different situation. My ex is dating someone else so I will not be texting her on V day but I asked to be able to text her on special occasions during our final conversation… I’m not sure I will text her on her birthday but that is still months away. Pray on it. I want to surrender it fully to God and to be able to accept the outcome he has chosen for us whether it was the outcome I am hoping for or not.
I hope not because I told my husband i love him just the other day, just because I felt to do it... I believe we can but I think what he saying is don't try to get them back through words..
Please my fiance walked out on me today and I'm pregnant please I pray that he forgive me and come back and I pray that God for give me too for my mistakes 🙏 Amen
When you say pray and leave it to God, does that mean you just stop doing anything or do you still say prayers like this one and so forth or do you just leave it alone and see what God brings to the relationship or the relationship relationship I’m a little confused on leave it to God pray and leave it with Ghod
Hello, you can certainly still pray for the person. It is important that we lay them at the foot of the cross and let God work in their lives without touching it. When we interfere we only contaminate what the Lord is doing. You may find the linked video helpful. You can also visit our website and select the contact us tab to speak with a member of our staff. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-Vy7qYQuMWuk.html
Psalm 51 was written after David was rebuked by Nathan. So i mean this is a little confusing. I agree with it all, as far as surrendering your spouse and marriage to the Lord & staying out of His way. But also, He uses us to carry out His will. So where is the line? That’s a hard one for me to understand. I’ve been fasting and praying to understand.
