There are no words for how grateful I am for your videos..I became a Christian in 2014.coming for a very dysfunctional family.I have never had anyone explain my failed relationships in the manor you have.praise God for the wisdom given to you to help so many grow❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻
I agree w/ this teaching and have learned these things over time as I’ve been in a season of marital discord for almost this whole year. I struggled with control and manipulation, I reflected and have changed my ways. My spouse is a prodigal at the moment and I have been remaining and standing still, praying, interceding and seeking God. There’s a lot of teaching on standing and getting out of the way of God’s will, but not so much on how to stand and remain standing with purpose when there’s so many parts and complexities to it-backlash of the spouse, family affairs, living everyday in limbo. It’s just a sad thing 😔.
Been where you are , 6.5 yrs later this message is confirmation and truth of letting go totally and praying for prodigal spouse . It’s a process and working through forgiveness of spouse and self , and releasing the control , it’s a freeing experience to give it all to God . Knowing God gives us all free will to choose even our spouse.
This came to the right moment because everyday I feel the urge that I need to do something to get him back. Thank you for this. Only God 🙏 can help me go through this. God bless you.
May the Lord reveal Himself to Mads & increase his faith in Him. May God bring Mads to church & bible studies again if it's good for his soul & our relationship. May God be willing to restore & heal my relationship with Mads. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Please pray for my marriage to be restored and that I will be obedient to what the Holy Spirit is instructing me to do. My wife wants out because I was unfaithful but for the past two years I re dedicated m my life to Christ and am trying to be the best father and husband I can be.
Dominic I just want to say Thankyou for your healing prayer. My adult son has been very ill but is almost now close to full recovery. Your healing prayer gave me so much guidance and comfort .... I listened to it many many times. Again thank you and God Bless
Thank you Brother. This is confirmation through the holy spirit about this Storm. Restoration with God. It has been an unexpected revelation and blessing from God. His will be done. Proverbs 3: 5-6.
I have learned so much from you Dominic..I been listening to your videos for months now..I was doing all the wrong things ..I thank God the father that he has been helping me with my stand for my marriage restoration through your teachings ...I have been able to stay out of my husband's life ..He came back on July asking for another opportunity but he did not seem he had repented and didn't not returned...so I once again told God your will not mine ..
Although I agree all that is said, but for many people who get left behind to be honest with themselves that their partners were given honest reason to want out of relationship, that the one who got left behind was being in the wrong. Or, some partners, both done wrong. But this is a very awesome message for those who are honestly not at fault for their partners having left. I am grateful to listen to this. At going on 45, I never been married, but have come to struggles with a boyfriend. I am going to get myself to let go, let God, and if it works out, it does. If not, I moved on from guys before, I can do it again. But this time I would learn to make the most of being alone instead of feeling misery over it. In meanwhile, focus better on getting right with God, and other things. Bless your very spirit for this very awesome message, and tone of voice and how you worded it. You were not all cut throat or "in your face" about it, or blunt off the Richter Scale about it. You were very easy to listen to.
I also as a woman have the spirit of fear that I "need" him. a man. yes you may need love or financial support and fear of being hurt. so these videos help you learn to hand him over to God and have faith in a power above you and your efforts alone. it is bondage as this blessing of videos shows us to depend on a human to bring you up and down in cycles. we judge their mistakes. thats bondage to them and you.
Thank you for this, it helps me. I like you was an angry person from unhealed pain from my childhood. My husband left and we have two smal children. I pray that the lord changes me and him so that our relationship can be healed. He comes and sees our oldest daughter and does not speak to me. I pray like you said that he weill feel the change in me and that Jesus will draw him back to me and our kids.
so far your words resonate and youre the only one I can listen to on youtube because your energy/tone/sound in voice doesnt deter me like so many pastor types do. I dont know why but I think others understand what I mean. many say all the right words too but there is something in the energy. that may be just me,or people like me, as they do help many others.
Thank you for your messege. Its beautiful. After seeing your video I felt a piece and understood that I have to move myself as wife out of God's way so he can Heal my husband. I pray in Jesus name my just will repent Lord and come back to you and love you Lord. Please have mercy on him. AMEN!
I watch all these and dont want back... I see what I did wrong. I take accountability for my own wrong actions. I wouldnt even be with him now if I had listened to God from beginning. He showed me every sign he wasnt ok and I kept saying "oh its ok ,he will be ok, he didnt mean that! " I was wrong. It was not my job or place to forgive him . he is GOD's not mine. sometimes as women we think we can forgive a person and they will change. its NOT our place! THEY had work to do with GOD and we ignore it!! we think WE have the power to heal them when we forgive them!!! thats WRONG. You had to SEE it first! I NEVER saw that he changed. its my fault!
To have had this type of counseling years ago things may have turned out differently in regards to my own marriage and divorce. Amazing and wise counsel. You are correct in so many areas...especially about the veiled attempts in the flesh. God's way ...no other way will do! Amen and amen!
I simply sit back, pray for healing and restoration, lose the fruit of the spirit over my wife?... She left me and 2 young children 3 months now and no contact made with me yet, my heart is broken and I'm lonely,please pray for me,I do love my wife, however she left saying after 14 years it's not working for her...God bless
The opposite can be true as well. One spouse can completely isolate and manipulate other family members to completely isolate the 'prodigal'. That is even more devastating as the 'prodigal' doesn't see (or want) to come back because it appears that others don't care.
So without knowing, I’ve been a prodigal wife for 15 years. Meaning I didn’t give or receive love due to a lot of childhood trauma. Now my husband is moved out and stated I left him without fight and heart broken. So now I’m a standing prodigal? He left the covenant. I never left. I was trying… wrong ways and wrong timing I know, but I would’ve never left. Please pray for the healing and that he can trust me again now that I’ve been working on myself and actually feel all the love I never did.
So my question would be what should I do when an unbelieving spouse leaves because of her selfish desires. Do I follow 1 Corinthians 7:15. I feel stuck but I'll still wait on the Lord and he'll show me in his time what I should do. In times such as these we all need to trust God, lean not on our own unstanding and he'll make our paths straight.
What about where I was the prodigal spouse, whom returned, and have remourse and walking in faith for full restoration but my spouse is now scared of trusting and committing again like before even if he still loves me.?
What if he’s not my husband? We’ve been together for 3 years on and off and we can’t seem to ever really let go.. we are apart months at a time and when we get back together it’s always super toxic and I’m left hurting more and more everytime.
I’m a little confused about contaminating what God is working in them. I’m trying not to communicate with my husband except when he reaches out to me. Could you elaborate a little more on this? Thanks in advance :)
Dear Dominic I have a question for you. I tried for years to manipulate the situation until I came across one of your videos years ago. Many times I have given to God and taken it back. At the moment my dear husband is going thru chemo from June. He finds it hard at his age. I do groceries for him box everything for him to cook. I am doing out of compassion. Is it an obstruction? Please advise. God bless
My unbelieving bf left me after 7 years and I am bound to him. Should I wait and pray for him or move on because he’s left me? I know we weren’t married but we’ve only slept with each other. He said he wasn’t happy wasn’t in love and felt that we should be with like minded people. Please pray for my prodigal ex bf McLean Pearson to come to Christ
i'm sorry, i think you need to focus on the Lord first. there is no bond sanctioned by God between you. perhaps you feel shame because you want to say you've only slept with one person, thus negating the thought of sleeping around, but even sleeping with that one person is fornication. there is no shame in marrying someone else, it will not add nor substract to your previous fornication. it's by God's grace and love that he's spared you from continuing to sin.
Pray (ask) God to imprint on your loved ones mind and heart to bring him close to the Lord. Ask for them to see sin and worldly desires are not the way. Keep turning to God, don't preach directly to your loved one. Look up and pray. “Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it." Matthew 7:13
