Finally! A petite woman talking about weight gain and how differently it affects us short girls (i.e. 10lbs increase looks like 25lbs on a 5 ft frame). Hallelujah! I'll be back
This is a great video! As a 5'2" 61 year old who has gained 20 lbs in the last two years, thank you! Such good tips and I appreciate the 'no shame' approach!
I am 5 ft as well. I am about 200 pds and have such a hard time dressing. I am on a weight loss journey. I was 255 and have gotten to 200 so far. Thank you so much for helping me
Those of us in the 70-80 group know the body changes as well as life style changes, us shorter gals also know difficulties, as much as I love watching style suggestions on other channels, it does not work for my everyday life. I’m now minimizing to basic and mono. These were great tips but a little over budget but adaptable. This is the forgotten age group
Just found you. Omg! Finally! Real talking points for people that are not tall and thin. I'm under 5' and have struggled with my weight all my life. Have been feeling hopeless with how to dress better. Thank you for your channel! 💖
First time I see your channel. Came at perfect time. As soon as i entered my 60s I went from 117 lbs to 137 and 5'2". So depressing. Hard time losing it. Dressing is difficult. Your tips surely will help! 😊
I’m 60 and now weigh 137 from 120 one year ago. Thanks for video as I’ve been super depressed over it. Had surgery and couldn’t exercise at all and started eating at night. I’m doing IF and have lost 5 lbs to 137. I got up to 140 and have tiny bones so the gain really showed up on me immediately. TY for video!
For me personally, more than any tips on dressing, it's been so helpful to know I'm not alone with mid age weight gain. I look at pictures of myself and think "who is that?" I don't look good in anything right now. I'd love to hear more about your journey.
@@ckgonzales6743 You definitely are not alone. ❤️. My weight has yo-yo’d all my life and in my late 40s felt unrecognizable to myself. You can read the comments on Here and know that so many feel the same. Try not to be hard on yourself. I know that’s easier said than done. ❤️💕❤️
Great video. As a sewist making my own garments, i want to add that if theres a specific garment you want but cant find in your size, color, fabric, etc., you can have a tailor make it for you if you dont sew. I know its pricy [you'll pay for the service and the fabric], but its so worth it to have a lovely garment with a great fit. This might be especially true for woven fabrics and not knits. I sew for friends who are different sizes than me, and theyve told me off the rack woven garments can be so ill fitting. The first fitting with a tailor will likely be in person [wear a mask for covid], but once your garment or toile is done, the final fittings can likely be virtual. I taught my friends how to take measurements so i can fit their toiles virtually. I love that all black look with a camel colored cardigan. So classic. Lots of great ideas here. Capsules are a great idea. You dont need much to have great style. If you love an outfit, wear it every day. 😅 i wore the same dress every day for a year in 2023, it was a one dress one year challenge. The worst part was handwashing the dress, but otherwise it was fine. I got sick of it by october though. 😂
Hi Lori! At 75, have I ever been through body weight fluctuations and changes....🙄. I love this video because you are covering that most aggravating change I have dealt with for sooooo long.😊. Your clothing choices are beautiful and, not only make you feel good, but are just perfect for you. I wanted to comment on them as you went through, but there were so many outfits I loved on you that it would take too much space for me to do it.😁. The v neck is a go to for me, and the jewelry you paired with your v necks really draws the eye upward in a very flattering way. The one, of many, that stands out at the moment is the white collard blouse with v neck, gold jewelry, black belt with gold clasp and jeans or the black pants. On my weight journey (remember, gravity has sunken me to 4'9" at this point🙄), in my early 70's I discovered intermittent fasting and, amazingly considering how much I like to eat, that has worked for me. My weight stays around 104 - 108 or so which works for my small frame and height. I have a grandson's wedding to attend next June in California 8,000 feet up at a mountain resort so am working hard on a formal dress that looks good on me and for the right shoes for this outdoor on soft grass shoes that will look good with the long dress. Boy, oh, boy, this is quite a challenge for me because heels are essential for me. Anyway, I just love this video because I have experienced exactly what you are going through - more than one time! ❤Kathleen
Hey sweet Kathleen! Always so good to hear from you! It’s such a frustrating struggle isn’t it? I guess I’m just trying to embrace it and work with what I’ve got. I know so many women struggle as well so we might as well do it together right? Thank you as always for your kind words! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@@LoriLundquistthank you Lori. At 75 and 4'9" I struggle all the time with my weight and most recently have been put on medication that has put ten pounds on my short frame. I love your ideas and plan on implementing them. I look forward to more videos on your weight loss journey.
@@patriciahurt5608 Hi Patricia! Oh goodness why can’t the pharmaceutical companies make medicines that don’t cause weight gain?? So frustrating! Hang in there! I hope some of the ideas help you and just know you aren’t alone!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️
@@LoriLundquist Hey Lori, The best part about it all is that we don't just throw in the towel. We keep working to look as nice as we can, be ladylike and work on being beautiful on the inside which shines through and is the beauty we can't lose no mater how our bodies change over the years.😍🤗
Isn’t it the truth! 5 pounds on our frame is like 20! So frustrating. Thanks for watching and I’ll see if I can put a video together on the things that are helping me with weight loss. ♥️
I’m 5’1 and 66 years old. I’m a size 10 and weight 150 pounds. I lost 10 pounds and got down to a size 8 in 2019 by eating no sugars, no gluten, a lot of salmon and veggies. Then they shut down my gym and I gained it back by drinking too much red wine and eating junk. I’m back to eating healthy, back to my gym, doing cardio and weights. I can never get below a size 8. Even in my 20’s. I do sew so I make all my clothes. 10:56
@@cleanqueen75 I relate to this so much! Too much red wine and just not making wise choices for me! I have noticed as I get older that it’s extremely tough to get to a lower size as well and I’m not willing to be in food prison to get there. It also could just be that our body’s set point is just at a certain place. Consider me right there with you working out and eating better. I’ve also cut out alcohol completely 🥲🥲. And Diet Coke! Thanks so much for watching and commenting ♥️
Thank you so much for making this video. My 48 year old body is certainly not what it was when I was 38. As you get older …your shape changes…whether or not you put on weight or not
Thank you for this! Very helpful, I put on 12 pounds since 2020. I wish there were more videos like this out there. My weight goes up and down all the time.
I actually find the taper leg pants to appear more slimming and chic (for me) than the straight leg ones. I am 70 years old and 4’8”..😵💫 Wearing straight leg pants, most often, makes me look shorter and wider (and older) than what I already am. Of course, selecting the right style of top and shoes plays a huge role in the overall look. Oh, how I miss the days I was 5’1” and wore a size 5!
Great tips for how to keep your wardrobe comfortable and versatile as you're going through weight changes. I am also on a journey to losing weight, since I've gained 15 pounds since my son's wedding in August, but had about 15 pounds more on me than I have had for many years, so I'm a good 30 pounds up from where I feel comfortable. Good ol' hormones wreaking havoc. Gotta love it. I love the idea of that smoothing back bra. I love the Shapermint jacquard shaping shorts. They are so comfortable and give me a great amount of smoothing.
I just found your channel today. I’m also petite and I gained 20lbs over 2023 and am struggling with how to dress. I want to loose the weight because I’m so frustrated that I can’t wear a lot of my clothes in my closet.
I needed this video so much 🥺 I recently turned sixty and even though I’m super active, I’ve put on weight. I’m currently going through my wardrobe and really being honest with myself about what no longer fits. This video is encouraging me to realize that I can still look put together even with a few extra pounds! For reference I’m just under 5’5” and have a short torso (my weight gain has mainly been in my middle section). Thank you!!
Hello! I hope it helps to know you are not struggling alone! Myself and so many other women are going through the same thing. Hang in there, you are beautiful regardless of what the scale says.
Love monochromatic look, it instantly reads effortlessly put together! For me it was hard to size up but having the correct size actually makes me look and feel good. Love your content
Oh I needed this video today I am 4 11" and I have gone from 108 to 128 and I feel every pound. I have been trying to get it off. Thank you for the style tips to make me feel better in my clothes.
Came over from Theresa Rene and so glad I did! It’s very hard to find advice for a normal to average size petite instead of a tiny size 2 or a 5’8” woman. 😊
I'm 5'1" (plus a smidge) and I lost a good 13-15 pounds and oh my golly, now the crepey skin is grossing me out. Going from 128 to 112-115 did a number on my skin elasticity, plus I just turned 60 so that's another factor. It's darned if you do, darned if you don't! 😂😢
Lori, thank you. Words cannot truly express how much I appreciate you and your video. You have provided me hope. You are making our world a healthier, safer, and more educated place.
This helped me so much! I quit smoking 9 months ago and I have gained over 25 pounds. I'm 5'2" so there's a lot of rolls and bumps I'm not used to having. I agree with the stitch fix service. It helped me see what looked good on my new shape and I was able to shop like that style on my own later. Still struggling as I continue to gain weight but your tips and tricks have given me some new stuff to try. Thanks for sharing!
Hi Karen, you took the words right out of my mouth as i've just discovered this wonderful channel. I'm 5ft and struggle so hard to look 'put together' when wearing clothes. Going out and prior to going out is such a stress for me as nothing seems to fit correctly. Unfortunately though, i'm English and there isn't a lot of information out there in finding such petite clothing as most of the clothing on petite channels are American. I can't find anything from Amazon or in the nearest city, I also can't travel far due to having 'stiff person syndrome' which has hounded me for 35 years so I rely a lot on online clothes buying. I'm 61 years old and completely stressed out but thank God, i've discovered Lori, at least I don't feel so alone now with the height, weight and clothes issues, just wish for more English options in clothing. I do think your channel is fantastic though. I feel exactly the same as you Karen about this channel, it's now my favourite also xx
@@nicolaliesel9685 Hi Liesel! So nice to ‘meet’ you! I was just thinking about how there are SO many petites out here but yet the selection of petite sizes in any clothing line are SO limited. It really is difficult. Hopefully Lori will help us 😃 I watch another petite influencer. I’ll put her info below. 💕
What a wonderful video! Honesty doesn't seem to be high on the list for a lot of folks, but you are brave!!!! I am 5 foot 7 inches tall, so I didn't really think you would be of much help to me....but you are! Thank you! I especially appreciated how you talked about your back "boobs".....they really are my scourge too! You are so young....I am 69 now....but women really are women. The age, color, financial situation, etc. does not negate the fact that we are all women....we really do go through the same things....have the same thoughts....have the same fears....it is different but oh, so the same! Thank you again for your honest video!
Hey Cindy! Thank you so much! 🙏🏻. I hear you on a weight loss video. It’s such a personal journey and different for everyone. Thanks so much for your comment! ♥️
@@LoriLundquist I get value from other people's health journeys. Even the comment section on such videos can be very helpful..recommendations for other experts etc
Thank you. You are the Petite Fashion Fairy! Echoing all the "finally" comments. Not all short women have straight figures. You are beautiful, by the way. And practical. And encouraging. I too, found Maidenform slipshorts. They smooth your figure without squeezing. Now... let's see you in some COLOR!
I’m in the process of adapting my wardrobe for my recent weight gain. Although I had already done some of the things you suggested, there were still excellent ideas that I had not thought of. Your product suggestions were great, too! Thank you!
So happy that I found your channel! I'm also 5 feet tall and have gained menopausal tummy weight. I went from a 4 petite to a 6 or 8 petite. Could you please give us ideas about tops to wear with different cuts of jeans to balance our proportions? I love your pointed toe slingbacks but live in a cooler climate. Thank you!!
Thank you! I put on 10 pounds as a 5’0 woman and it’s been miserable. I feel like non of my clothes fit. I’m doing everything I can to feel better and your tips will help.
I totally get it. I’m so sorry you are feeling this way. You definitely aren’t alone so many of us, including myself, can relate. Sending hugs and encouragement!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Great video. My weight has always fluctuated a little bit, so it's good to know what to do when I'm getting upset about it. As you say, even a small change shows up on a small frame.
I am currently stuck. I went from 260lbs at 5'2". It was extremely hard. It was my medication. So now I dropped the medication, I've lost weight down to 190lb. At 60yrs old my gad, has broke. I struggle daily with clothes. I've hit a plateau, now stuck at 190lb. I absolutely love you advice for us short gals. Thank you so much! 🥰🤗
Hello Lori, thank you for your kind and constructive comments. I’m 61yo and gained 2 very large tyres around stomach. I unfortunately did this due to eating sugar instead of expressing myself. I’m down to one spare tyre but felt a little lost. Your video has helped improve my self esteem. I was going to say more colourful clothing helps lift my spirit. Thanks again Regards Kym
Weight is such a personal journey and most often we are our own worst critic. Try to be patient with yourself and take one day at a time. Celebrate the small victories. Believe me I know that can be tough especially with the critic in our minds. Sending you lots of love!! ❤️ 💕💞
Great video. I’m 67 and 5 foot tall. I recently lost 92 pounds and still working on loosing. All the tips were great. I’ve never met anyone my height. Most dresses come to my ankles. I love wearing dresses. Can’t wait to see more videos. Thank you Theresa for suggesting this channel in your channel. ❤😊. Now a new subscriber 😊
Hi Jeanie! Yes thank you Theresa! Wow congratulations on the weight loss, that is a great accomplishment! I totally relate to dresses hitting your ankles lol 😂. I’ve gotten to know my tailor well over the years 😂. Welcome and so happy you are here!
I’m 5’2” and compressing as I age. I appreciate your reminders about tailoring one’s clothes. I have a beautiful pair of pants that were a tad too long and I stopped wearing them. Thinking of your tip, I took them to be hemmed and am looking forward to reinstating them into my wardrobe. Thank you!
Hi Vicki! You certainly aren’t alone. Even if you read through the comments here there are a lot of other women, including myself, feeling this way too. Hang in there and know you aren’t alone. ♥️♥️♥️
Just found this … very thankful …. I am 5 feet and love your styling and recommendations❤… like others have said… So nice to find someone that is not 5 foot eight and 120 pounds. Thank you !!
@@LoriLundquist thanks again for your content… I love that you’re telling us where we can find petite clothing… I am 68 years old but love all of your information. Keep up the good work.
Great video and just in time. Awesome tips. Just yesterday I gave into the fact that I need to size up my basics while I work on losing weight. That one small change made a huge difference in how I look and feel. I will be watching your video again so I can take some notes and incorporate more of your suggestions. We got this!!!
Hi Colleen! I may do this video in the future but will share with you that I am focusing on more protein each day. Also cut alcohol and sugar. It’s a tough journey as apparently my hormones have a mind of their own 🙄
Lori, this video hits home! You addressed everything to do with weight gain and providing amazing solutions. Thank you for addressing weight gain. Most of us don’t have model figures!❤
My daughter who is in her 40s calls me a “slip mom.” from which I conclude that younger women no longer wear slips under dresses. Perhaps add that to your comments about undergarments. I think that a slip helps a dress ease over “lumps and bumps,”
This is so true! And honestly I haven't worn a slip in so long that I forgot that it really can help smooth out the lumps and bumps! Thanks for bringing this up! ❤
Thank you so much I have just subscribed to the channel, I'm 5 foot 1 and always have a tummy even when I lose Weight, having 2 caesarian sections all those years ago didn't help. I will definitely watch your videos for extra tips I'm so delighted. Lisa x
Hi! I came here on the recommendation of Teresa René, and I'm so glad I did! I've liked and subscribed ☺️ Ty for all the helpful info, especially on bras and shapeware. Jeans too. I love my skinny jeans, but I like how a straight leg jean looks on you. I'm 5'2" and always thought they made me look shorter, but not anymore thanks to you! 😊
Thank You Lori! Very useful information. I gained weight over the holidays and also had terrible anxiety, eating helped me calm down. Now I've got an extra 17 pounds on me.....I've been getting on the bike for 30 minutes each day. Let's see if these extra pounds are ready to burn off....
Hi Savana! Great on you getting on the bike! I completely understand where you are at. I hope your anxiety has calmed, that is not fun to deal with. I suffer from axiety as well. Hang in there and thank you so much for watching!! 💞
5 pounds makes a huge difference on me. I’ve gained 7 in the last year. I now need size 8. I was a size 4 for years. The last year has been hard on my body- I turned 65 and I am dealing with lose skin , big upper arms , muffin top and an extra neck and a retired husband. I’m super small boned so this extra weight feels awful.
Wonderful suggestions! I hope we can all learn to love and value ourselves for the strong, beautiful women we are and eliminate thinking it’s in anyway connected to the size of our jeans or the number on the scale.
Hi, I came across your channel and subscribed. I felt I could relate to many of your videos and look forward to watching them. I am a mature “glamma” who used to be 5 foot three, but as the years went by it seems like I am now 5 foot two! 🙄 I’ve never been heavy but with some health issues at home and the holidays I put on 10 pounds and as you know 10 pounds on a petite person is a lot. I also have a baking channel on RU-vid so that doesn’t make it any easier lol. But I’m on my mission to lose my 10 pounds and when I get motivated it pretty much works for me. So wish me luck! I started in January posting some low-carb and keto recipes. Hope to see you again soon and I’m going to try to catch up on some of your older videos. Good luck with your weight loss. Hugs, Dolores. ❤️
Hi Dolores! Thank you so much for commenting and subscribing! ♥️. I too seem to be shrinking as I get older, just too bad it’s in height 😂. I subscribed to your channel, I am very interested in your low carb and keto recipes!
Your video caught my eye - how does the internet know I am struggling? haha! Thanks for the tips, I am really trying to embrace the change. I recovered from an eating disorder 10 years ago so the sudden increase has really been hard to keep the unhealthy thoughts at bay. It just feels so strange and uncomfortable - like I don't even know my body. Sigh.
Oh how I relate to this!! I really sympathize with what you are experiencing. It’s really a hard mental game we put on ourselves. Hang in there and know you aren’t alone! ♥️💕♥️
Hi Jackie! Thanks so much for commenting and subscribing! Looking to possibly do a video on the weight journey in the future but what I have been doing is, I cut out alcohol and sugar. Focusing on protein and good carbs. Lots of water. Very boring lol 😂.
Love the episode! Thank you 👍👍 Just one ask - please make the highier quality of video above 240 🥺 it would be nice to see your pretty face not blurred 😉💗
I am doing the carnivore diet to lose 20 pounds and reduce inflammation. I have lost 15 and inflammation is reduced. .. i am interested in what your weight loss plan is.
@@LoriLundquist Sounds good. I think we have all been underestimating our need for protein. I am.not a meat lover . But for the moment..this way of eating is working.
@@SunnyDays00 same with me I don’t naturally love meat. One thing I’ve been loving is Bone broth. 10 g of protein and also has collagen. I also do protein shakes and sometimes sprinkle unflavored protein on cottage cheese etc for extra protein
Hi Rita! What I’m doing is pretty basic. It’s working but very slowly. I focus on getting 100-120 grams of protein per day. I cut out alcohol and diet soda and stay away from sugar as much as possible. And I’m trying to get at least 20 minutes of exercise 5 days a week. Very boring lol. When I was 25 I would have had the weight off in a week but now my body wants to hold onto every ounce of it. Let me know if you have any other questions. ♥️
Love the video. Have a granddaughter getting married in September and I hv gained 40 lbs over 2 years. Also I hv knee problems and age 78 is it ok to wear dresses flats?
Hi Ann! Definitely okay but just make sure you feel stable and comfortable in whatever shoe you choose. Staying healthy is WAY more important than shoes. I’m sure you will look beautiful no matter what you decide on ♥️♥️♥️
@@LoriLundquist Hanging in there....starting PT after the PRP injection, it can take months before I know if it will work...but being hopeful and positive!!
@@AgeIsJustANumber Yes keep a positive mind (you are so great at that) and lots of prayers. Health first and you will be back in no time to do the things you love. I’m routing for you and sending tons of love and support! Let me know if I can do anything or help with anything! If you ever want to do some kind of collaboration, I can be your “try on” girl lol! Sending hugs and prayers! ♥️♥️
