How to Find a Mentor

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In this episode, I talk about being a mentor and a mentee. Because the truth is… We are all both and we all need both. No matter what stage of life you are in there is value in having an intentional and authentic mentor relationship.
We cannot allow our insecurities to keep us from seeking out a mentor. Nor can we allow them to keep us from saying yes to pouring into another person. God desires for us to live in community with each other. He desires for us to learn from one another. Iron is meant to sharpen iron. So join me as I discuss how to find someone to be your sharpening iron and how to be the iron that sharpens someone else.
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7 июл 2024

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@meredithsheppard1889 2 года назад

Your mom was a great mentor to so many! She truly blessed my life as a PW. You'''re following in her footsteps and doing an awesome job. Praying for you!!!

@mamellomphahlele6965 2 года назад

What I love most about you Chrystal, is that you keep it REAL! 😍 I enjoy the practical examples you share from your own life! ✨

@phildamasimba9859 2 года назад

I so love and value you and your messages are for me

@peacelily515 2 года назад

Thank you. Love you so much. Couldn't put into words how much you are adding to Christian women around the world.

@m.a.ykitchen8807 2 года назад

Hmmmmm they is a cost for knowledge, thank you for this

@jillw.2524 2 года назад

Thank you for this discussion...so appreciated. Im 59 & feel like having a mentor can benefit us all. Ms. Crystal when I 1st followed your sister I said that older sister she mentioned must be an wise lady.. I was so right. Keep ministering to us all. Hug.

@kameronloftman4807 2 года назад

Thankful for you as a mentor.

@wendybarrett9536 2 года назад

Thank you for these words of wisdom. We are adding a Mentorship into our Women's Ministry and this is very helpful on what our mentors and those they are mentoring can expect. :)

@Jesusislovingu 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing you ( your life,family, etc, Stuff!) May God continue to use you and your entire family. I know it began from obedience of men and women of God in your family generations ago. We need to thank God for our ancestors who loved God and prayed for us before we were born. May our children/ descendants follow the Lord in their lives in Jesus name.

@meredithsheppard1889 2 года назад

"Be specific in your ask!"

@dreamteamleader9098 2 года назад

Woohoo we get the extra! Thank you for sharing this and being a blessing in my life! Blessings to you Crystal ⚘❤

@apiffanyfulcher6628 2 года назад

A lot of good advice Chrystal!!! I was mentoring but it was draining bc I was doing all the work… 😅

@revchinenyemodebeluthewalk714 2 года назад

I am so excited that I watched this video. I am so blessed. More grace woman of God.

@makenasandra 2 года назад

I definitely feel like you are my big sister/ mother. Keeping dropping those gems

@margiegonzalez6576 2 года назад

Good information, thank you . God bless 🙌

@Sisterbettyjo9179 2 года назад

Thank You!! Crystal!! 👏👏👏👏👏🥰❤❤❤🙏

@WhitneyPrather 2 года назад

I love you Chrystal. You’re such a beautiful, beautiful, beautiful God-send. I’m thankful for you.

@hannahbrown5069 2 года назад

Yeesss!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾…

@phoebelukas 2 года назад

You are so incredible intelligent full of God’s wisdom that has taught and spoken to me as long time mentor.I will use your teaching 🙏🏾🙏🏾🎶💕🎶

@tiffhaynes4103 2 года назад

There's so much additional gold in the bonus reel. I needed to hear it and experience it. "Thank you" is an understatement, but thank you!

@ChrystalHurst 2 года назад

Hey Tiff!!!

@tiffhaynes4103 2 года назад

@@ChrystalHurst 😍

@therelentlessboss 2 года назад

Great video. Thank you. The difference is - you choose a coach but a mentor chooses you.

@jsmith4049 2 года назад

I'm in Search of a mentor now. I had met some people and prayed about them being my mentor and God told me to "network" but not let them mentor me. I really want to be led to have a God sent mentor. I really don't have anyone within my reach whose able to give me knowledge. I may need to pray for opportunities to meet people. I've outgrown my circle and old mentors. I'm usually the one mentoring. I've reached the ceiling at this point.

@michellewright99 Год назад

God will give you what you need! The fact that you are praying and listening to His instructions shows you are putting Him first. In time He will give you the right people who are farther along than you. In the meantime, try researching people who have been where you are headed, both current and past. Read biographies, articles, etc. And even watch movies/documentaries to see how other women / people of color / people in high positions / followers of Christ handled themselve in high pressure situations. God bless you, sis.

@alexisgrier3526 2 года назад

Oh Hallelujah!!! Your gift teaches so well, breathes life Into many situations, exudes and simplifies knowledge! We benefit from the years that God has imparted into you. I am at the place in my life where I need mentoring. I did not see this season coming my way. You have gifted me with so much knowledge from this particular video. One day I'll be able to partake of the inner circle, but for right now the crumbs falling from the table are filling! You are my girl Crystal!

@calvinsmith6037 2 года назад

Hello there nice to meet you how are you doing?🌹🌹👋

@ritamcclendon9961 2 года назад

Love the After the Show info.

@fatimazoeabrahams2130 2 года назад

I just subscribed. This is just what I was saying to myself the other day. Mentoring is about giving, serving, and sharing.

@sisterpatroach320 2 года назад

Thank you Chrystal, very helpful!

@TReidSims 2 года назад

This was excellent.

@yelitzadiaz2182 2 года назад

What a word today!! Thank you Chrystal

@estherbyoona1572 2 года назад

Thank you so so much for sharing...I really appreciate all you have said...Lord knows I really need a mentor figure in my life 😊🤗❤thank you sister crystal 💫❤❤🤍

@Suubi4620 2 года назад

Thank you Crystal!!! Lots of wisdom.

@sheilawiggins80 2 года назад

Thank you!! This is very helpful!!❤

@winniemwanzi866 2 года назад

Great insights here ..if you want to be mentored come along with me and learn as we work together...that's the best way to be mentored...love it ..keeping it real...thank you Chrystal...!!!

@teresarodgers176 2 года назад

Finally thank you.Love your enthusiasm

@minkrasi3318 2 года назад

Thank you so much for sharing this! Loved it!!

@aprylegates7250 Год назад

This was so needed. Thank you!!

@calliefayne5497 Год назад

This really helps as well. With not having girlfriends because I have changed throughout my life. Alot of people dropped off. So, I am picky who I give my time too right now. Right now I am looking for a Mentor in the Ministry, dealing with empty-ness; along with a semi new marriage. This has been helpful in choosing, and gave me a good idea for helping others in my shoes.

@parker.100 Год назад

I lot of great advice. I'm so glad I pinned this to my To Watch queue and then finally sat down to watch the whole video. Such a good ideas to "show up where they are", among many others! The video (in the tone as much as the stories) 1. shows how it's really a relationship, and 2. demonstraties how you can infuse warmth and humanity into your interactions. Thinking of it as a relationship might seem intense but these ideas are applicable even if you never meet with them in person and even if the relationship is a short one! So much advice out there on the internet is bad... everything is transactional and kind of souless. I never really got it, and always felt like my asking for help would be a burden to the person I was asking. This video completely changed that for me! And now I have a few ideas up my sleeve about how to potentially bring value to them!

@sheilajohnson8154 2 года назад

Thank You! Chrystal for this very informative topic.it really help how to ask for a mentor and what to say. Without going on and on speaking about emotions and things I'm going through.I now know to get to the point specifically about what I need and get hopefully the most pointers I need to live good prudent life.

@marya.h-sealy2802 2 года назад

Hi Chrystal, thank you, for sharing, appreciate it always!!!!!!!!!!!

@Keitha6328 2 года назад

Thank you Crystal this so good Big Sis:-)

@l.butler9110 2 года назад

Thank you 😊 💓

@marjoriebailey3085 2 года назад

Thank you so much for this Crystal! You have no idea how much this has helped me. God bless you.

@mimimel143 2 года назад

Thank you big sis, 😍

@totalbodybeauty4832 Год назад

I reached out to someone for this about 3 weeks ago, and I'm so glad I did!

@marynaidoo8814 2 года назад

Thanks sis l been learning a lot from teaching

@johnkodhek 2 года назад

I loved, and learned from, every minute of this. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

@sherriwesley6657 2 года назад

Thank you Chrystal. Very much needed to hear this and be open to find another mentor or become a mentor in this season of my life.

@agathaogutu7284 2 года назад

worth watching,thank you

@joyh.729 2 года назад

Chrystal you are literally saving lives w these videos. What you’re sharing we (me) have been starving for! Growing up in church I rarely got this info & I suffered terribly because of it. Please keep these coming. Your wisdom is a Godsend. The part you said about mentors are *not* your therapists was powerful!🌟

@ChrystalHurst 2 года назад

Glad you are here!

@graziaedumabagraham5346 2 года назад

Mrs. Hurst God bless you so much.

@janinepires360 2 года назад

I held the like button down enough for it to turn into a love reaction but that’s not a thing on RU-vid 😩 this was sooo great!!🙌🏽 all the loves 💕 💗💞💓

@annekap.1656 2 года назад

Making a few notes for myself after watching this vid. Thanks 🙏

@ladieesc0 2 года назад

Hello! First of all, I don't know if Im slow or what but I had NO idea you were Pastor Evans' daughter or Mrs. Shirer (sp) sister LOL. I found your channel a few weeks ago and have just been watching a bunch of videos. I saw a picture of you and Priscilla Shirer ( I didnt watch that video and thought to myself "oh that's nice, she has a nice group of friends lol). Then I watched another video where you mentioned your "sister" and it finally hit me she was your sister. THAT'S when I really took notice of the Evans in your name and i was like ohhhhhhh...she must be his daughter. lol. I told my friend who listens to you and she's like "girl i thought you knew!" . Not one clue 😂 Anyway, I just want to say your videos are truly a God send and I'm SO glad I came across them. So authentic, real, encouraging, and helpful. Your responding vs reacting video helped me A LOT, not just with human relationships but even my relationship with God because sometimes circumstances will happen and I'll just REACT like "Omg another disappointment, God must hate me bla bla, i knew it," just spewing negative talk out of emotions. Now I respond. I take a moment, like "Lord what are you teaching me, Lord I'm putting it in your hand, etc" God bless you for your pouring.

@feliciaancheta7169 2 года назад

Wow! Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and tips on the subject of how to find a mentor. Already liked 👍 the video and will have this on repeat as I continue to work on leveling up in my career. Looking forward to being apart of the inner circle come July. I love your approach, realness and dedication to build others. Thank you again❤

@jerriwilliams5691 2 года назад

This is good information 👏

@jerriwilliams5691 Год назад

@CHRYSTAL_HURST. Hi Chrystal, I am reaching out to you because you have something for me. 😊

@patiencemunhenzva7254 2 года назад

Watching from Zimbabwe,thank u Crystal

@tayclemons 2 года назад

Amazing!!!!!!!

@SheenaCEvans Год назад

This really did help a lot. I’ve asked this my whole life. Never heard advice like this. Thank you!

@ChrystalHurst Год назад

Welcome!

@josephcamacho823 Год назад

Thanks

@enriquetaromero6645 2 года назад

My “sistaaaa” 🧡🌼

@eviesalas6756 2 года назад

Wow, aunt Joe !

@julieailey9498 Год назад

I am trying to get to the point that I can start the ministries God has called me too.

@vernelllevingston1800 Год назад

💯

@tj817 2 года назад

I had a mentor many years ago in my singles ministry and she died young Of cancer. My second mentor also died of cancer years later . So I have no one now and it hurts. You Chrystal are like a big sister from a far

@pamk1967 2 года назад

Right on Time Chrystal!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Looking forward to the 7/22-24-22 OCB DESPERATE FOR JESUS Women's Event, Taking my Sister for her Birthday 🎂 #GettingaMentor for my change to HR, Finishing my certificate 8/11/22!!!👋🏾

@mariamendoza361 2 года назад

💜

@christined8989 2 года назад

Haha Chrystal needs a I got a Christal life coffee mug shirt. That would be so cute. I use books. Often I looked for aka accountability partners but I find Jesus and videos in areas where I then invoice myself. Reaching for people who reflect where I want to go do not resign near me, so I write my goals hold the mirror up and ask myself what did you change today? Are you listening to the drop wisdom? I appluade self on those milestones. Often people misread, misinterpret my ideas, precepts, what I say or meant. But I get it from online motivation and the word. I also podcast.

@josephcamacho823 Год назад

I want a new from u

@betzaidafigueroa9046 2 года назад

Would be a blessing if you could be at daystar program television network, is global. You have so much to give, people needs to be encouraged. day star could be an extended reach out. And I shared this link with my friends. :)

@julieailey9498 Год назад

What if there are no mentors to get. I have tried to get them and they end up not knowing what I know. I don't have money. On SSI I don't have the money to buy books or seminars. I don't even know how I am going to make it this month. I could budget and balance a checkbook at 8 years old. This is truly about not having enough money, so called friends have left me, and I am so ill that I am in bed most of the time and can not leave the house. I am reading all the things I can get my hands on and listening too everything I can, but no one is talking about what you do in this season, with no family, one friend, and can not keep care givers that an agency pays. I don't know what else to do. I don't know how to find a mentor that can help and is will and able to come too me. At 51 I have always been independent and could figure out how to do things myself. Now I can not. Trust me I pray, read the Bible and other books,and try to reach out to someone if I think they might be able to help. I even see dreams, vision, have word from the Lord and in prayer give Him time to talk too. I have learned so much, but the problems that I need help with are still not being solved.

@ms.5779 Год назад

@julie Ailey be strong..although tough times don't last they may linger and hang on for awhile. Do what you know to do right. Thank God for blessings small and big even when you don't feel it. The word says "The joy of the Lord is our strength ", meaning focus on his goodness, love and see the beauty in His creation. Prayers said for you today

@julieailey9498 Год назад

@@ms.5779 thank you, I am in a hard season. We're there are more questions then answers. But I have faith and trust in God. He has seen me through my trails and the ones I am going through now. I am ill and my brain is swollen, so I am more unsure of what to do and having people in my life to help would take a huge burden off of me. I am standing on The Rock of Christ my Savior. Thank for the prayers.