How to find "THE ONE" 

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my first reaction when i saw the title

I like how you change the O to describe which one is more important, you get a star 🌟

26 looking at 27, with no real hope for ever finding anyone, let alone "the one". I wish I were 21 again. You can't be passive about this. You need to go out of your way to meet potential partners. I've heard that many parishes sometimes organize social events to help people like us meet others looking for love, but my church doesn't have anything like that because there are so few young people in the church that there isn't much point. I don't know where to turn at this point, but I trust God will help me out.

This is crazy, but I looked back at your channel, and you have a beautiful voice, you are my age, you are single, and you clearly love God. This is absolutely insane of me, especially from a youtube comments section, but I'm gonna say I'd like to get to know you better, somehow.

Unfortunately I married the wrong person. I married a narcissistic woman who treated me great at first but then slowly began her emotional abuse before leaving me. Take it from me, someone who has been single, married, and now divorced, it's way better to be single and wait for the *right* person. Feeling alone when you are married to the wrong person and then being on your own through divorce is so much more painful. God's got this. When someone you're interested comes along, do yourself a favor and pray right away that he reveals his plan and direction for you regarding them.

@@sirzorg5728 the best way to meet someone is by living your life. Do stuff you enjoy, have fun with friends, and be yourself (maybe tweak a couple things to improve yourself if necessary). Everyone says that it generally happens when you're not looking for it. And 27 is nothing today. You still have time. But put it in God's timing, which is way better than ours.

Your 21! You’re so young! I’m 34, trust me I’m lonely

Yeah, you need money for expenses. True love by itself cannot pay for groceries and utility bills.

@@indigofenrir7236 God will provide.

​@@indigofenrir7236that's not the point but yeah

Yes, the heart of the person is most important! A heart for God and inner beauty!

@@lovegod777 ok

Keep putting it off and she'll run away with a used car salesman and get married in Las Vegas, when this happens you can blame the invisible guy in the sky for wasting your time.

remember that God steers the boat but you must row. If you like her you need to take action, after all love is sacrifice, so you need to put yourself at risk of breaking your heart so you can have the chance of something beautiful happen(even if she breaks your heart Jesus will be there to confort you!). Praying for you my friend. This is an analogy you could use, Jesus wasnt wating for the Father to crucify him, Jesus took action believing in the Father and that lead to the most beautiful thing in the universe(his sacrifice for us)

You are right, After all Gods timing is perfect!❤️🙏🏽

I have a crush on a girl from my church since almost 5 years xD

@@dmkbnin5129 you should make a move! Especially bc it’s been 5 years there’s a chance she feels the same. Praying for you if you do end up doing something 🫶🏼🙏🏽

Why should an all great and loving God be feared? Why should anyone care what the Bible says on this?

⁠​⁠@@Doom0728Fear of the Lord is belief in the Lord. You do not fear what you do not believe in. Fear is the Lord is useful as it persuades people to follow the Lords word. People should care about what the Bible says about this because the Bible is the truth of this world, and it holds wisdom and is Gods direct word. Anything God says should be followed.

⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@bam-dh6tj Well, I’m an atheist who used to be a Christian For 16 years and that whole statement kind of falls flat on its face. A kind and loving person, let alone a God should not need to be feared. He’s basically forcing people to follow and believe in him out of fear? That doesn’t sound right or ethical… As for your Bible, I care very little about what it says as it is actually NOT the truth of the world. It doesn’t hold wisdom because everything in it is barbarian, immoral and contradictory. “Anything God says should be followed”. So you’re basically saying we should have blind obedience, and not question anything. Not very helpful or smart…

@@Doom0728 God doesn’t force anyone, we all have free will. You freely made the choice to become an atheist didn’t you? I’m very sorry if that sounded harsh. But God is love, He loved us so much that Jesus came in the form of flesh to die on the cross for our sins so that we may believe in that and be receive the gift of salvation. No one is forcing this, instead people want others to also receive this gift from God so that they may be saved. And if you truly love God and are truly saved, you would want to change your sinful ways and no longer do the things that He hates. We don’t live by the system of law anymore since it is the New Testament. However, how you live life should reflect your faith in God. And the “blind obedience” is the whole definition of faith. We are saved by grace through faith, and we are told to live life through faith. As an unbeliever this may sound crazy, but many don’t care what man has to say, rather than what God has to say

@@Doom0728 its not fear in the same sense we think of it today. I see what you mean, I asked myself this question too about a year ago, since I'm fairly new to the faith. But to have the fear of the Lord is to have reverance, knowing that God has all power and knowledge. Knowing this causes you to run to God for help instead of away from Him. Knowing that God has all the answers you need makes you revere and respect God in a healthy fear that causes you to hate what is wrong. I hope that made some sense! I used to go to church for about 12 years and had these questions but I never knew God for myself, until 2020 when He gave me a dream and His Spirit fell upon me. I could never describe that experience but I Know that it was God and He changed me and I found that to be Jesus. I know Him NOW!! And He hasn't given up on you. People may misrepresent Him but He is known by His Word. I found that in the short time that I have been saved, that the church, and men often fail to live as Jesus says, but he doesn't call us to follow men but HIM (Jesus). He died for you, that you may not be held by sin and death, but be set free by His grace in FAITH not by a checklist or prayer. Jesus is the Way and Truth and the Life. Blessings.

You are so right 🙏❤️

There's nothing in scripture to say there is only "one" for you, you are actually free to marry whomever you choose as long as they are likewise born again as you. By over spiritualizing everything, you are actually missing opportunities to simply meet and mingle and get to know people. That's how you will find the person you want, just be friends and let the relationship grow!

@FruityPebbles111 I don't know how you can think that God (who loves all the same) will give everyone else a partner but not you? God loves marriage, he has created a partner for EVERYONE so no one will be left alone. Just because you might be ready that doesn't mean that your partner is ready, but one thing is for certain that if you don't stop believing I PROMISE YOU that he will bring you two together, it might take some time but the important thing is that it WILL happen, if you just focus on getting closer with God, you two might get together sooner than you think, God loves marriage, he has created it and wants to give that beautiful gift to EVERYONE, and i'm not saying this just because i believe in him, im saying this because he gave me my wife, what i had to do to get to that point was to get closer with him which means stop living in sin and start growing your relationship with God, you MUST have a relationship with him and not just go to church or read the bible but have a relationship with God like Father and son or like a best friend, in the bible God himself said that if you believe in him you can ask him for ANYTHING and he will give it to you (only if your motives are clean, for example if you ask him for a 1 million dollars just to spend them on cars and stuff he won't give it to you, but if it for something important like paying out a debt he will give it) so don't be discouraged because it takes time, everything good takes time, if you rush things they will break apart, so just focus on your relationship with God and he WILL give you your partner, he knows how much you want to be married, he HIMSELF desires REALLY MUCH for you to get married, he wants you to be married, if you read the Bible you will realize that God loves marriage, but a real marriage is the marriage that God is in, because every marriage without God results in divorce, so be sure not to forget about God when you receive what you want, and don't try to force it, you will only hurt yourself, so if you see someone that you think you like don't just jump and the first chance you get to be with them, you don't have to look for someone, God has already made the perfect person for you, the only thing you need to do is focus on getting closer with God and he will bring that person to you, you don't need to look for the person yourself, when the time is right he WILL bring you to together and you will be together for ever and you will never leave each other, you won't divorce because you will have God in your marriage, and whatever God gives you is yours to keep for eternity

Proverbs 18:22 ; “he that FINDETH a wife finds a good thing” we have to seek for one on our own and take risks; not saying we won’t have to pray abt it, but have discernment on choosing the right one.

@von8357 well don't you think that since God wants us to marry he won't prepare a spouse for you? So you just have to ask God and be patient and he will bring the spouse to you, by trying to find one yourself you are trusting your own ability instead of God and will go through pain and much suffering, God just gives you the spouse without any need for you to seek it, he has made a spouse for everyone

at least you

I think this guy said in another video that you can try to fast to help with your decision.ill pray for you as well

It's not confusing. Don't date unbelievers. Hand her off to a sisters group and keep it moving.

I have the same problem, but the guy I am interested in, isn't there for me like I want to be there for him. So if I'm going to feel more alone with him, he's not for me. I hope it gets less confusing. Look at everything objectively not emotionally. I hope that helps. I'm going to miss him but I'll have to let him go.

Yes. There is no confusion. But making a hard choice in obedience to God. Do not yoke with unbeliever. Praying for strength be upon you and courage to obey God. Remember, obedience means blessings.. disobedience means curses.

@@oliver2001 Haha funny you say I just came off a fast this morning and I did pray about it and then saw this video get posted! hence why I'm feeling confused. Thank you so much I appreciate you and your kind words!

i prayed

I pray that she's ok, God bless the both of you. ♥️✝️

Love that you were able to recognize the difference between a Christan and a Man of God!

I'm sorry about that.

He’s got ya have a blessed day

Amen, god bless you

No.1 rule is he/she should be a Christian

I think the point is that you can't commit yourselves to them unless they are already Christian. It's amazing to help someone on their journey closer to God! But if they aren't there just yet, then it's always better to wait😁

@@bronwilson2390 right 👍

On the wedding day, absolutely. She's seeing the light though. It's clear as day, she's more vibrant and joyful. We should definitely be careful, but if she just seems a little lost or lukewarm, there's no harm in giving it a chance. If you aren't sure, pray for guidance first.

May she come to Christ

If your sister is married, there is no scriptural permission to divorce, unless in case of adultery...God hates divorce, so if her husband is unsaved you pray for his salvation, not the end of the marriage. That's not God's will.

@@mrmrlee she is not married, is just in a relationship with someone who isn't Christian, she wants to marry him, that is why.

@@Lupizzapizza Then you are absolutely right, don't marry unequally!

i prayed for you

Salvation is a free gift

Same here. But here's the trick: whenever your body starts to feel the lust, yell out loud that you've offered your body to Jesus already (Romans 12:1). Memorize Colossians 3:17 and repeat it until the lust has yielded to God.

Romans 6:23 for the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ. A gift is free and of no cost, after all it is NOT our works that grant us salvation. I am still dealing with lust till this day, has it gotten better over time yes id say so but i still have more to change. One way I learn to defat temptations is with the verse that paul wrote to Timothy, Timothy 2:1-2 I think, "Be strengthned by the the GRACE that is in Christ Jesus!

I have some advice..don’t lose hope..you might feel as though you’ll never get better but keep fighting the good fight and repent and ask for help to change you’ll see a change in time but always believe that the lord is with you and you will make it..and I encourage you to attend a church tell them about your struggle so you can be encouraged.

that's amazing! very happy for you 🩷

i prayed for them

@@ImpactVideoMinistries thanks god bless you in this hard times

Guys, Here is The TRUE Savior YaH The Heavenly FATHER (Genesis 1) HIMSELF was Who they Crucified/Pierced for our sins and “HERE IS THE PROOF” From the Ancient Semitic: "Yad He Vav He" is what Moshe (Moses) wrote, when Moses asked YaH His Name (Exodus 3) Ancient Semitic Direct Translation Yad - "Behold The Hand" He - "Behold the Breath" Vav - "Behold The NAIL"

God loves you, be steadfast and good in working for him and he will reward you.

What a lovely message God bless you.✝️♥️

I can relate

God loves you and he has someone for you! Don't allow the enemy to destroy your identity and tear down your self-esteem. By making this statement, you are stamping agreement with the lies of the enemy. God truly loves you friend!

God loves you so much.

The reason no one likes you is because you have this exact mentality of how no one like you man up and stop being so sorry for yourself

Jesus loves you. Seek him first and all things will be added into you !

Well first, what kind of christian treats other person that way? This is very alarming and not ok! Second: You have been worrying about getting married for years, you say? Well, me to! And thats the problem. Many people tend to focus all their attention on getting married, its very important and they are trying as much as possible to make that dream come true. And thats not what we sould do, we should put all our focus and attention on god! God should be the first priority, not getting married. God's will will happen anyway, so if it is his will for you to get married, it will happen! That means that you don't have to worry about it now. Instead, you can pray that the desire of getting married disappears, and the desire of living for god, serving him, reading his word etc grows. Pray that god will be your first priority. Trust him about his will, and ask him what his will for your life is. Remember this verse: Luke 12:31 31 But seek his kingdom, and these things will be given to you as well. First, seek his kingdom. Then, trust him that he will give you the other things (like a wife) as well! I prayed for you, now remember that god is with you!

brother, be discerning. no true Christian who lives by the word of God will treat others like garbage. and I'd like to add that God must be our first priority in everything, He is the big picture in all things. And other things will follow, be it finding the one, being your best self, and having good relationship.

​@Acid0999 my only problem with that is that I have been focusing on God. Or trying to, anyway. My relationship with him was going pretty good until this summer. Then he cut off communication with me. I prayed and did devotions daily, and he still wouldn't say anything to me like he did before. Now I'm mad at him, because he doesn't talk to me or answer any of my prayers. I ask for a girlfriend. Nothing. I ask for the opposite, which is to help me control my desires and focus on him and the good things of everyday life, and to have peace about the thought of the future. Didn't help me with that either. Isn't he known as the prince of peace? Because he sure hasn't given me any, even if I beg for it. I can't have God as the number one in my life if he keeps ignoring me and letting me down. My trust in him has been broken.

@@sadhawksfan12 why not date an atheist then? Atheists are great!

​@@Doom0728In the name of Jesus begone with your bad insinuations!, He is a child of God

In my case God told me "you're broke and ugly, but I like you".

​​@@fixer1140God was so excited with the idea and image of you in the beginning, that he had to bring ypu to life. Your blemishes and imperfections are absolutely perfect in God's eyes because *he* made you who you are. You are beautiful.

Make God the number one desire of your heart and your healing will be easier and stronger and you will grow faster and stronger in him. I want to be married very much but I understand that it isn't supposed to be the thing I desire most because marriage can fail but God will not. I believe you should work hard to make yourself good for whoever you want to marry and you should work even harder to be better for God. In the end, if you never get married, you will still have him.

We tend to make relationships an idol in our lives. That's awesome that God has revealed that to you. Take your time and let God work on you (and her as well).

I don't want to get married i just want to be kissed by a girl at least 1 time in my life, then I'll die happy

Thanks so much for the kind words. Yeah, it can be hard choosing a spouse or even meeting someone suitable these days. We’ll definitely be praying for you.

I'm single again and yes it's so hard sometimes, and we question whether we will find our person but true it all we must realize that being single is not a curse it is an season we use to pursue God fully with less distractions. I too struggle with this sometimes but my daily prayer is for God to be number 1 and help me zoom on him while I have more control of my time, activities money and basic direction on my life. I also pray that God helps you in this.

@@thezenlife4728 thank you for the prayers and support. I too will pray for the process you are going thought✝️🙌🙏

Same, never been on a date and I’m 32, but I’ll be praying for you

I went through the same brother. What I can tell you is, focus on this period to get closer to God. Once in a relationship, time and lots of parameters drastically change (for the best, of course!) but will never be the same as the freedom of being single. We should enjoy the time God gives us for growing on knowledge and wisdom. Be blessed. Jesus loves you so much

Don't use looks bruh😭

Number 2 is a bad criterion. It's not about physical appearance because age makes beauty and your eyesight disappear. Appearances start a relationship, but personality maintains it.

@@indigofenrir7236 yeah I was listing basic prerequisites for entering a relationship

@@indigofenrir7236it’s not bad, it’s actually somewhat important to find your spouse attractive. But it’s not the most important thing in marriage because their personality and their relationship with the Lord is more important

It's a lot more than that. Narcissists can be attractive and pretend to be a Christian (unfortunately I know the sting of narcissistic emotional abuse and discard first hand). We need God's wisdom and the closer we get to God and the more we get on the Bible, the easier it gets to borrow his wisdom.

@indigofenrir7236 though we have to account that beautiful/handsome=healthy

Im worried too