Asalamu Alaikum brother I purchased a prayer mat in August last year and never received it. I tried reaching out through PayPal and Instagram but never heard back. I hope you see this.
Fun fact for ya: did you ever notice they stopped mentioning Jehovah in the new testament? The God, Jehovah, who was giving them all the words through the prophets in the old testament? Who started speaking in the new testament? Jesus. So, what did you just learn? the One giving all the words in the old testament? That's the Word that became flesh and dwelt among us and you can read all about that in John chapter 1. Jesus is Jehovah, so Him claiming to be God is a claim that explains itself. He doesn't have to run around saying "I'M GOD, I'M GOD, I'M GOD EVERYBODY. PLEASE LOOK AT ME EVERYBODY. I'M GOD, I'M GOD"...if you need Jesus to do that for you? You're in REALLY dull shape my friend. Jesus is Jehovah. Period.
i find it disgusting sneako ended the episode with that comment “women cannot find islam without a man” who are you to say something like that? women find islam through ALLAH and ALLAH alone.
Again guys, I dont think we should blame SNEAKO. He is literally new to Islam and has no idea about Islamic theology. He comes from a background of red pill stuff as well so I can understand why this misogyny crept in with the religion. Always assume the best from your Muslim brothers. However, I would agree that the brothers here should have corrected him. May Allah guide us all.
@@CookieMonster-ky1rbnot a single one of the brothers around him (who are Muslim and have been muslim for decades) corrected his extremely misogynistic opinion. They went so far as to justify it. These podcast bros are so misguided
The first Muslim to revert to islam was a Woman. The first martyr was a woman. Tell me again how women dont have a connection? Sneako would you DIE for Islam?
Sneako was definitely wrong but if we are being honest Khadija RA was led to islam by her husband Prophet Muhammad SAW, so if you mention that to him then thats an easy counter
Not correcting Sneako was so incorrect yall muslims men and yall agreeing on woman not being able to have a connection to Allah without a man? This statement was truly wrong, false and disgusting
Saying women can’t find Allah without a man was the worst thing you could ever say! Fear Allah and do something better in life instead of coming these red pill ideology.
We as Muslims collectively must do something about these men trying to push their agenda and red pill ideology. They are creating very hostile conditions for women. Islam is complete and perfect but i fear especially for our Muslim sisters. I wish sheikhs intervened and did something about this atrocity and barbaric nonsenses
I dont think we should blame SNEAKO. He is literally new to Islam and has no idea about Islamic theology. Always assume the best from your Muslim brothers. However, I would agree that the brothers here should have corrected him. May Allah guide us all.
@@Xano493 ah how would he have known if he's not knowledgeable on Islam? He's a new Muslim that recently reverted. Give him the benefit of the doubt. What we should be doing is politely correcting him and not mocking.
@@tambrown-rh6cv if you have no knowledge abt the religion remain silent and ask, this has nothing to do w religion btw this is looking down for women, like women can’t even have a free will. Defending this w the “he’s not knowledgeable about the deen” as excuse is wild. This man knew what he was talking about. Watch the video of him w Adel and we’ll see if this excuse works out
A group of educated and intelligent men actually sat and agreed that a woman cannot have a connection to God without a man, and that a woman would never pick up the Quran and take her shahada without a man 💀. I'm actually terrified that's were living in times like this
They can't. Women are inherently selfish, self obsessed and solipsistic. They're tuned into the dunya, they care about material stuff and instagram, thats why most of them are in hell fire. Men on the other hand are far more empathetic and can easily detach from the dunya and become spiritual. Very few women have achieved a high spiritual state in history compared to many pious men.
Generally speaking you learn religion from the preachers who are men so it makes sense. Idk what you mean tho? Are you claiming a lot of women are accepting Islam without learning from men?
Saying a women will never pick up a Quran without a man is unhinged and so wrong idk how they expect Muslim sister to enjoy and learn from podcast like this when you alienate them. Shame
Again guys, I dont think we should blame SNEAKO. He is literally new to Islam and has no idea about Islamic theology. He comes from a background of red pill stuff as well so I can understand why this misogyny crept in with the religion. Always assume the best from your Muslim brothers. However, I would agree that the brothers here should have corrected him. May Allah guide us all.
@CookieMonster-ky1rb I agree of course Allah can guide him. it's just, I've seen so many videos of him and all have been talking about women very badly and I'm starting to think he came to islam because he thought it's okay to be this way because the stereotype the west shows. We need to correct these evil ideas immediately.
Islamically it doesn't matter you can have any preference in your spouse. It doesn't say anywhere in Islam because you had a past you can't have a spouse without a past. If the person a man marries has no past and he does and they don't care who are you to judge their marriage? Use some critical thinking. Also women usually only say stuff like "I also dont want a guy with a past" but they only say that when men bring it up. Never women bringing it up. So their response is reactionary. Its always men bringing it up which logic dictates it means much more to men then women. If a man has a past and struggles then so be it its on him but we all know men and wome btih want different things and are perceived differently by each other and when you look at reality it's sisters that struggle the most with a past not brothers. It is what it is.
They way these men talk about women is so judgemental and disgusting. If these men existed in prophet pubh's time they would have been shaming him for marrying khadija.
the part where he said a woman will not pick up a quran if a man didn’t explain it to her…?? i was so shocked. honestly such a disgusting thing to say.
@@idkbro4932he always talks about his past w women and when he was not muslim but holds judgment to women who repent, this is ARROGANCE. his repentance is no more important or accepted than hers, so him holding this view shows by defult he doesn’t accept what allah swt says- “its the same for punishment and repentance but not for preference” is a hypocritical statement
Again guys, I dont think we should blame SNEAKO. He is literally new to Islam and has no idea about Islamic theology. He comes from a background of red pill stuff as well so I can understand why this misogyny crept in with the religion. Always assume the best from your Muslim brothers. However, I would agree that the brothers here should have corrected him. May Allah guide us all.
@@CookieMonster-ky1rb How long can you keep making that excuse of being a new Muslim for him? Unlike the average convert he has access to information from scholars and shuyukh. The misogyny was already a problem of his before conversion, the fact they didn't set that straight and he's smirking and swaying around all arrogantly and they say nothing about it speaks volumes.
This show is more about not finding a wife than finding one because as a woman I would never marry a man with this mentality. Good luck to all the men following and looking up to these type of guys.
The sin is just as bad but it seems like the repercussions physically may be different? Eg. Women with more partners being more traumatised or getting pregnant, etc.
yeah, that was extremely problematic! The situation in G.a..za has proved that wrong. So many women came to islam because of the resilience they saw in PS Guidance is from Allah swt alone
@@nukediamondx you're right, I shouldn't say "this ummah is lost" there is still a lot of good believers with deep knowledge, and I said it in a moment of despair in front of what I was hearing. I edited it now :) But I wouldn't go as far as say that it's an insult and I doubt it's worst than their sayings
"I don't think a women can have a connection with God without a man explaining it to her". How was this disgusting statement not immediately corrected? At least cut it out of the video??
Sneako clearly lacks knowledge about Islam and just stated his own view on the matter, completely disregarding the actual Islamic view on it. So to say, he thought that he would say something relevant and intellectual, however it made him look like the complete opposite. I doubt that he is taking this really serious.
1:33:00, absolutely disgusting. Maryam peace be upon her and Asiyah peace be upon her have contributed so much to the ummah. Allah swt even dedicated one entire chapter to women, while the rest address both women and men. These random dawah brothers need help fr
Really! It's embarrassing, acting to be knowledgeable and speaking nonsense! It's really disrespectful for Aysha Asiya Meryam Fatima Khadija peace be upon them, and alot of women around the world!.
Extremely disappointed in you all for agreeing with this awful premise at around 1h 33min that "women cant have a connection to God without a man explaining it to her" and even coming up with trauma being an exception. Do you not know of Mother Maryam ra? Do you not know the struggles of women today BECAUSE of men, some of them even muslim, cat calling them and they still choose islam? How pathetic and awful this conversation is. Wow.
So no one pushed back when sneako said that women can’t have connection with god without a man explain it to her or that she can never take shahada on her own what a shame…
He even went ahead and said that it's the reason men can marry outside of Islam when women can't' which is literally wrong. And Muhammad hijab didn't say anything I'm so disappointed in him
Am I the only one who is fed up with Hijab's inappropriate jokes? After the mention of that Hadith about sexual intimacy with your wife being a Sadaqah, Hijab calling himself a great donor might make his in-laws embarrassed. If I am the brother of Hijab's wife, I am never showing my face in the public now.
exactly, imagine if a muslim woman said that? disgusting and a complete lack of haya. even many non muslims don't make jokes like this and post it on youtube
@@user-zu3ot5lo8w It is funny? Where are you from? You have most likely not lived in a traditional Muslim country. If a man in my family said something like that about a woman from my family, that man's life will be in danger.
@@user-zu3ot5lo8w Also, You know I have realized that Muslim men in the west care A WHOLE LOT about how a woman looks, especially in terms of her body figure, than the Muslim men from the Muslims majority countries. From where I am from (a Muslim country), men here are simple. Many of them leave it up to their mothers to choose wives for them. A friend of mine said that he will marry a literal cow if it was chosen by his mother, that's how much sincere and straight minded these men are. A whole lot of men from my area first saw their wives on the wedding night. I don't know why an average Muslim man from the west is so crazed up about the physical looks of a girl he is looking to marry. I mean if you ask me, I would marry a girl if she has had a high level of Iman and loves Allah and His prophet SAWW. Other than that, I would just appreciate that she is not obese, if she is over weight than that's fine with me, but not obese, I am scared of them, Ahahaha. That's it.
I don't even understand why they invited someone loke sneako to have Islamic conversations. Saying that a woman cannot find Allah without a man. Seriously? The fact that they really turned this whole conversation into man vs woman thing wow
Well, I am that woman who found Islam all on her own. No man in sight. Actually dead scared about reverting fearing how I'd ever find a man. And there are a ton of women who've gone through the same. Huge amounts of women are accepting Islam. Some have men, but MANY don't. How about reading the QURAN what Allah says about Maryam? How she conceived WITHOUT A MAN and faced the struggles all alone. Or the wife of the Pharaoh, who was tortured to death BY HER HUSBAND after saying she believed in Allah. So don't YOU as men say anything about a situation you have ZERO idea what it's like. Making your shahada all alone. Those iftars all alone. Swallowing your tears whilst eating. Learning to pray from scratch all alone. Reading the Quran all alone. Taking care of everything all alone. Knowing that Allah is the only one you have, and the only one to trust. Being a celebrity or whatever before Islam doesn't matter after you revert. You need to sit down, study, learn humility and keep your mouth shut about issues such as these. You're not a celebrity anymore. You are NO ONE to talk nor to have any say about millions of women. I really hope you make sincere repentance for your words and beg Allah's forgiveness, and apologize to the sisters of yours you've just belittled. Allah guide you wallahi
I was 18 years old and standing outside at night time looking up at the sky thinking “life can’t just be working and having children and building a home just to drop dead and leave it all behind” I looked into religion by the will of Allah alone, I picked up the Quran by Allahs will, not a single male asked me to. There was absolutely no trauma involved, I just saw no logic or purpose to this life and needed answers as to why I was standing there at that moment . With Allahs will, I pushed my dad to Islam and used to wake him up for fajr even though he would tell me not to because he has work. I pushed him to grow a beard even though he said he can’t cos it’s itchy. All by the grace of Allah, not any man on this earth. And it’s nothing that I’m proud of because THIS IS NORMAL. Women pick up the Quran and come to Islam by Allahs will and without the help of any man every single day. I know a lot of women who have left Islam due to abuse from Muslim men… let’s talk about that. Oh sneako, btw, when I found out riba was haram, I didn’t have a tempter tantrum like you did either. Your red pill garbage has no place in Islam.
I, like a million other women, found Islam with absolutely no guidance or influence from males. I was introduced to it by other females and accepted it of my own accord. Allah sees and knows the utter injustice about what was said in this video. The fact nobody corrected this shocking and offensive tripe is beyond one's logic to be honest. How embarrassing. I hope no females or new Muslims are put off Islam (by a group of men of course) if they see this. Absolutely disgraceful.
I’m convinced that some Muslim men like Muslim men more than they like Muslim women. Much of this conversation felt so childish and not reflective of real life and marriage. Why do I keep watching? So crude and lacking in depth. Allah have mercy on us.
Extremely!! And IT'S so hurtful to islam. Muhammad pbuh loved and respected women. He used to ask permission from his wives to do certain things because he loved them so much, but many men today are sick they only want to abuse or dominate, and that's all that is in their hearts 😔 Allah Help them be better
@@hamzah3048 That sneako claimed : women can't find God or pick up the quran or take her shahada without a men, and the brothers somehow agreeing and not correcting him.
No it's not just you. I stopped watching those series cause i find it also a bit arrogant and inhumane how some things are said. There are definitely muslims who do not think like that or would ever say stuff like this!!! Rest assured
@@sandman_dreamers I think she is saying that women don't need men or Muslim men to become Muslims since Allah if he wills can guide them himself by making read the quran and learning Islam. And I agree with this since everything happens only by Allah's permission but I don't understand what point she was trying to make.
Nvm the sister is talking about what they were saying in 1:33:10 about if a women can come to Islam without a man. Yes women don't need a Muslim man to come to Islam as most reverts are women.
Wallahi these conversations make me fearful for the sisters looking for husbands. While these brothers are doing great work in the dawah scene, when it comes to marriage advice I find them so harsh it turns my heart off from them. The way they speak about muslim women is mind boggling. I thank Allah every day my husband never came into contact with this red pill type content. We are just a muslim man and woman trying to do our best and be good to each other. Please brothers I beg you do not lie to your potential spouses about wanting a second wife/multiple wives. The amount of mental problems this can cause your wife, Subhan'Allah I can't even begin to imagine. And another point yes most virgin muslim women want a virgin husband, we are not okay with getting with a man whose had 'experience'. And we can see and appreciate the haya in the eyes of our husbands. Both men and women should make character and deen your number 1 consideration not whether her father speaks more or her mother. People can also have different natures. Maybe the mother is much more of an extrovert than the father, but he is actually a very strong man who is respected by his family. Do not make finding a spouse so difficult for yourself that it leads you into haram. The rest leave to Allah.
I came here tryna find comments from a female POV...lol this discussion scared me of men lol. It's scary how extreme behaviour of women is turning men extreme too, I mean it makes sense but it is scary...everyone just needs to chill
You are most definitely a woman speaking out of pure emotion. 1. He said it was scholars NOT himself, that have debated on the topic of lying on things to get yourself married and some have agreed to it being okay. These are people with far more knowledge than yourself and I. 2. He also explained you can put it in your nikkah papers that your husband will not have a second wife, so that completely voids point 1. 3. He ALSO explained that under the same understanding, a woman can ALSO lie about her past as she would be exposing a sin. 4. If your wife is having such a hard time over something that is Islamically accepted that she's caused mental issues, then the problem is with her, and she needs to learn to adjust. Yes it won't be perfect, but mental issues? Lol. Don't exaggerate, but again with all respect you're a woman so I don't blame you for doing so. 5. When it comes to the real world, we speak in generalities. Most human beings are raised by their parents, most people raised by their parents take traits from their parents, so in that case, seeing your mum being dominant over your dad is something you will most likely take from. You see, generalities.
😂😂 you act like he raped and killed, omg you women and your emotionality he is wrong but he is a new Muslim have some patience and wisdom when advising him
True!! Absolutely not listening to these dudes again! This is why you shouldnt take non scholars serious! They gonna say stupid stuff outside their knowledge
I think parts of this show was particularly demeaning to Muslim women and I’ve seen this trend recently, almost as an extreme reaction to the feminist movement. I don’t like how women, particularly Muslim women, are classified under this swathing umbrella of degrading traits and man is painted to be this infallible being. The last part however is what truly struck me when it was mentioned that women can never be guided unless through the initiative of the average man! Even if the comment originated from one of you-mind you one that is fairly new to Islam so his ideas may not be supported by knowledge-the silence and acceptance which registered from you all was loud. How can that be said when we have the examples of Asiya the wife of Pharoah, Sumaya the first martyr, Abu thalha who accepted Islam for the purpose of marrying Umm Saleem a Muslim woman, Ikrimah who his wife preceded him to Islam and he accepted afterwards, and the multitude of other women in Muslim history whose contributions to the Muslim ummah have been momentous and whose devotion to God has been unmatched?!Women are not so mentally compromised that we need men to tempt us in accepting Allah and His commandments, it only takes sincerity of heart. The intention behind these talks should be to craft affiliation and mend what’s between the hearts of the Muslim men and women, too often I feel myself demeaned, insulted, disregarded, or portrayed in a skewed fashion when talks like these take place. I beseech you to reassess your approach and be mindful of what’s said and with what conduct and the affects of your speech on all parties involved, especially being someone of considerable influence on the Muslim ummah.
Most of the fitna in the ummah is driven by muslim women and their tiktok/instagram + their simp husbands. Women are addicted to social media and watch garbage and get influenced into wanting things they simply cannot negotiate with their 'market-value'. Inflated egos and childish entitled attitudes, that is the avg muslim women in the muslim countries. Unless you have lived in one you wouldn't know.
I'm sorry to say this, but from the conversation, Ali sounds the most immature & shallow minded & he should be the last to give advice. He's SO wrong on so many levels. Sincere & fair human beings PREFER to be with people who are NOT pretentious, well grounded, honest & NOT narcisistic. Who talk when they have something substantive to say. Who believe in mutual respect & are cognisant of their own shortcomings instead of focusing on other's failings. These are basic human decencies that are required for any relationship to work. Its not just the women who need to work on their behaviour. Men should also be held aacountable for their misbehaviour & misdemeanour
And he is trying to show that even in Islam you can see a woman that you are hoping for to be your wife to make them feel like it's okay to do certain things not just because they wear hijab then they shouldn't show their faces or hair and that's not Haram
Sneako would be shocked when he will found that many Muslim women are scholars, muhadditha, muftiyyah, and mufassirah…and they don’t need man to become a scholars or seeking knowledge
@@akjustice ALL Muslims need the Prophet (peace be upon him) bc we follow his example. It’s not gender based or exclusive to women. And that’s not what he was trying to say, so stop deflecting and using loopholes to try to justify his nonsense.
"A woman will never find god without a man"??? Do they have any idea who is mariyam (isa's mother) who never had a husband still a whole chapter in holy quran is about her, what about asiyah?? Pharaoh's wife??? She was someone who had a connection with allah swt even when her husband used to torture her for that, but she still continue to pray to allah swt.
@@taimurahmad Islam would not have been here today unless the early Muslims- men and WOMEN found, held onto and passed on the teachings. Umar's sister found Islam before Umar and led him towards it to this belief that Allah leads women only through men is so stupid.
im 27 years old i never had a girlfriend before i never kissed a girl and im a virgin. i never smoked cigarettes shisha or drunk alcohol and im proud of my self. But thats why my future wife has to be a virgin too BUT if i wasnt my virgin my self i shouldnt and couldnt expect a virgin wife too
Finally someone who understands Deen properly and that virginity goes both ways plus God prohibited adultery for both genders Jazaka lahu khair akhi for standing for the right thing
It is embarrassing that these men did not correct sneako on that comment. Believing that a woman needs a person ,a human to bring her closer to Allah is shirk. Associating partners with Allah is haram. No woman needs any human other than herself to pick up the quran and read. This is discouraging and shameful. Fear Allah and repent.
A woman can’t pick up the Quran and be a muslim unless thier is a man is the subject?!!!!!! And no one correct him and u agreed حسبي الله ونعم الوكيل فيكم اتقوا الله
I knew my husband when I was 25 years old and he was 42, on a Facebook group for halal marriages and we are now married since almost 4 years AlhamduliLlah. I was never married and he was (and is still) married already, with 2 daughters and 2 sons. Although I miss him when he is at the other wife's house, I am so happy to have a righteous and pious husband may Allah s.w.t. bless him. Now he has 5 children with her and 1 with me on the way. Since I am married, I never miss a prayer AlhamduliLlah and became a niqabi, even if it isn't easy in Europe. May you all find a spouse that helps you becoming better people and better muslims.
@imrenclk ameen. It was so difficult and took so many medical care to have this little boy which is coming on June Insha'Allah that I am already happy and content. My heart and my duas are with the Palestinians always.
I was taught Islam THROUGH the women in my life. Shoutout to my elder sisters who taught how to write and read in Arabic, taught me wudhu, taught me salah, told me what I’m doing is halal or haram, answered any questions I asked them, and if they didn’t know (unlike sneako) would ask those with more knowledge and make sure I got the correct answer.
@@taimurahmad. They were both made from clay. The Hadith about women being the rib is a weak Hadith, however, we can derive lessons from it. This does not mean women are less than men, or that women are inferior, this Hadith just means that women are of men, in the eyes of Allah, they are the same. Physically, mentally in almost every way they are different and have different roles, but that doesn’t lower the status of one in front of Allah unless they obviously a very sinful person and are an enemy of Islam. What the Hadith meant was that if you don’t force change on her, she will benefit you and you won’t be harmed, but if you try to “bend the rib” (as the Hadith states) then it will break and it will harm you. So all it meant was don’t force a woman to change. Simple. That Hadith was literally in support of women.
@@taimurahmad. Yes, all the prophets were men. Yes, we learn from them. However, this isn’t the problem in the video. What Sneako said was literally what Christian’s believe “a person (in this case, Sneako said women) cannot have a connection to God without someone in the middle” we Muslims do not accept this. Sneako pretty much put Islam, Christianity and Red Pill in the same container and mixed it. We Muslims do not accept the teachings of red pill, feminism, Christianity or anything else. We are Muslims, mixing the religion with anything else takes you out of the fold of Islam, because Islam is pure, and mixing it with things that are not is not correct. These brothers, had the chance to correct him, especially Mohammed Hijab who is literally who I consider the most knowledgeable in that group, but instead of correcting him, he was the first one to defend what he said and even agreed. Yes, we have the teachings of the prophet Muhammad (sallallhu alayhi wasallam), the greatest of men to walk the earth, however, saying that women need a man to have a connection with Allah, is a major sin, in some cases, depending on who you ask, it could be equated to shirk, so if anything, it’s against the Quran and the Sunnah. May Allah guide and protect us all, inshallah this was of benefit to you. I’m in no way a feminist, however, I have a feeling that the reason why no one said anything was because they feared being called a feminist. These brothers have done some amazing things for the ummah, that could take us a while to repay them, however, they are humans and need to be corrected, like in this case where they said something that was not only sexist, but also completely went against the teachings of Islam. The fact that they said something sexist is the least of my worries, but the fact that none even tried correct them except for maybe Ahmed and Ali (although both were not the right ways to defend the sisters, and they eventually succumbed to it, and even agreed and laughs it off). What I’m probably most disappointed about is that MH is literally the most knowledgeable one there but he didn’t even bother correcting Sneako when he crossed the line. I don’t care what they say about women, so long as it doesn’t transgress the boundaries Allah and His Most Beloved (sallallhu alayhi wasallam) have made. This went against the teachings of Islam, and if u was there, I wouldn’t care what they called me, a feminist, a girls girl, I don’t care, if I perceive something as wrong, me as a woman who grew up with sisters who knew more about Islam than my own father, and as a Muslimah first and foremost before anything else, I would’ve corrected them with no fear of what they may call me, because I know what Allah has for those who transgress, is far worse than them calling me names. I’m fine with that, so long as I know I did my best to say what I believe to be the correct things about Islam. If they even said the same thing about men saying “men only convert for because they know it’s haram for Muslim women to marry a kafir, and a man needs a Muslim woman to explain the Deen to him” I would’ve said the same thing. If a sister came and said that, they’d 110% blast her on this podcast and on social media for it. The only 2 people I’m aware have actually stepped up, reacted and said “this is wrong” are Saajid and one of the brothers from the 3 Muslims. Other than that, I’m convinced most people are going to completely overlook this within a matter of a few days. After a while, some brothers will actually believe this the Deen. We should not be silent when a non Muslim OR a Muslim tries to corrupt the religion and the minds of our brothers. May Allah guide and protect us all. Ameen.
@@taimurahmad Ayesha narrated most of the hadith's that we all need to follow and learn from to be good Muslims. Khadijah comforted the Prophet (SAW) when he fell into doubt Umar (RA) an influencial man of that time reverted due to his sister. No insperation by Allah can be spread by men alone he made men and women because we need both for the message to spread.
It's impressive how sneako is open about his conversion and keeping his circle clean. Surrounding himself with good people. May Allah keep him steadfast in the rightful path
@@AhnafSpeaking I dont think insulting other people's religions is good, I also dont think insulting Christianity is good since its Christian countries that Arab Muslims move to when times are tough in the middle-east
As a born muslim, who has struggled with prayer my whole life, i can say from the bottom of my heart the salah project is amazing. I got sent a prayer mat after watching one brother alis videos. I did not know how to pray as it had been several years, however the guide on the mat is amazing. Simple and easy to follow. After a few times , I actually did not need it anymore! My sister had the same benefit too. May Allah reward everyone behind the salah project immensely. I would donate the £100 in a heartbeat if I could right now, that is how much i appreciate it. In sha Allah when i get out of my debt i will donate a lot. Thank you guys for everything
@@bahastar6688so beautiful to hear that honestly. ALLAH(SWT) guide whom he wills. May ALLAH(SWT) bless you both and make it easy for all of us and accept our duas this Ramadan. Ameen 🤲🏼
Hmm what if she does not have a father or is weak is not her fault and her Qadar. I think that is very judgemental. My friend is from single parent household and is happily married.
Yeah definitely shouldn’t use the parents thing as a strict rule but I think it’s a good guideline. Like you could have full on prostitutes change their ways but for most people, that’s trouble you wouldn’t want to touch from a mile away. If you do however then I’m sure Allah will reward you handsomely.
The irony is lost on them considering that Hijab is raised by a single mother who left his dad because he wasn't religious. So not only is this a case of a woman being guided to choose Allah over deenless marriage but one of the most prolific modern Muslim scholars being guided by one and yet he throws her under the bus.
Him: " Women can't find God without a man explaining it to him". So called Muslims sitting there who grew up listening to stories of Maryam AS, Asiyah AS and the mother of Musa AS said absolutely nothing!!!!! Wow
Muslim men are the ones that turn women away from islam lets keep it real. If it wasnt for other muslim women i genuinely wonder if any woman would come to islam w how these men function
it’s like Ali tried to please sneako w his absurd statement at the end of the video… hold him accountable. the only man that debunked his statement is the one w the white thobe
Not really. All he mentioned was that for every 1 man that converts, 4 women become Muslim. But even then, he really didn’t say much throughout the entire time and kinda agreed. Idk. Maybe I didn’t notice. Please correct me if I’m wrong 😅
@@pinkflower6872 That’s not even necessarily true. Plenty of women still keep their previous faith and even go back if the marriage doesn’t work out. And more women revert than men anyways. By themselves. The stats show this.
To everyone commenting about Sneakos remark about Muslim women, understand that he is *new to Islam* He also comes from a red-pillar background so I can see why this misogyny crept in with the religion. Sneako needs to be taught right from wrong. I don't think we should blame him or be harsh. However, I would agree that the brothers here should have corrected him. They might also have misunderstood him. May Allah guide us all. These brothers should introduce Sneako to more knowledgeable folks in Islam, he needs all the support he can get at the moment. The non-muslims are doing a fantastic job isolating him and canceling him ever since he accepted Islam, however, he needs to understand that he has our support now, and he's stronger with us than apart. Let's not make him feel more isolated than he already feels. Barakallahu feek.
This 100%. Yup he needs brothers by his side especially now. The people who's supposed to be his "friends" are abandoning him and his "fans" are turning on him. He needs a new social circle InshaAllah
@@anissalei4053 all the more reason for him to meet with actual Muslim and the Da'wah brothers. I don't think anyone actually expect him to just change under a little amount of time. He needs to be guided by his surroundings to unlearn these awful beliefs that he's been taught.
Why are they entertaining red pill misogynists into our Muslim spaces? Saying that women couldn’t possibly find a way to god without a man is absolutely ridiculous. There are hundreds of revert women who pave their own path into the deen. Did not expect for any of these men to let this comment slide and yet they did especially Mohammed hijab. Lost a lot of respect for the men in this ummah. Subhanallah
Those kinda of podcasts are misrepresenting islam and spreading misinformation. If u don’t have the knowledge about smth just keep quiet it ain’t the hard. And I find it concerning how some ppl are taking advice from these misleading sources and are acting upon it. At this point we should just ban ALL podcast mics to protect the society.
Please take advice from an actual scholar in islam especially for something as important as marriage . Honestly Ali dawah is talking with so little repect , If you want to follow someone follow Islam and the Prophet Sallalahu Alayhi WaSalam by asking a scholar if you not learned. If you going to call people on your show please do let them speak and interact with all of them . May Allah guide you and all of us Aameen.
Astagfirualh, none of you thought to correct sneako on his statement? Women can’t find Allah without a man? Hidaya comes from Allah along. Remember Allah is greatest.
LOL🤣, The value of women in Islam.... "sister" first BUT ask for CV Have to see them naked BEFORE marriage DONT have kids with them for 2 years(MUTAH(short marriage) till you know, she is for you, Forget the women who is slave (after war) they are NOT even a human!!!🤣 Amazing scholars of Islam😜
52:10 the stress on the father is a problem, there are so many girls who grew up without father and turned out good and never did bad things. There are revert sisters, there are orphans
@@maryamshahzadtwins8644 never said they're saying anything wrong. They weren't talking about rules either. I was just saying girls with that background shouldn't be left out. Everytime there's a topic about marriage, everyone always talk about family and father.
@@abdullahtahir9622yeah,I want a husband who is an able human being, can cook,clean and take care of kids,would be nice if they were a virgin, he has to be taller than me, and attractive ,and he also has to be on his deen, and merciful ,also understanding , this is a good preference to have
Alhamdulilah Abdullah! May Allah reward you 1000 time more and protect you and make you successful in Dunya and Akhirah Ameen🤲🏼 Brother Abdullah took the show tonight's Subhanallah🤲🏼
The guided prayer mat has saved me Oksomtobelleh, I am so so grateful for the prayer mat. As a revert I tried for years to learn how to pray with the prayer mat I learned so fast Alhamdoullah❤ thank you so much. Allah bless you and your family and all of the people involved 🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻
LOL🤣, The value of women in Islam.... "sister" first BUT ask for CV Have to see them naked BEFORE marriage DONT have kids with them for 2 years(MUTAH(short marriage) till you know, she is for you, Forget the women who is slave (after war) they are NOT even a human!!!🤣 Amazing scholars of Islam😜
There are men out there who enjoy sharing their wives. Does that mean any man who doesn't deserves to be shamed? The bitter truth that most Muslim men can't accept is that most women cannot accept the idea of polygamy just like most men can't accept the idea of sharing. Just because once in a while you see some women being ok in a polygamous marriage doesn't mean you should force the idea on all women.
Obviously there is a difference between a man having multiple wives and a woman having multiple husbands First reason because allah forbid it Second reason biologically women aren’t supposed to do it Like look at animals, never there will be a female having two husbands at the same time
45:55 and 49:00 .. When speaking about the red flags one of the panel members stated the importance of the woman's family and father/mother relationship. Coming from a background of TRAUMA, yes that stung me a bit because I could not choose my father or mother, or the trials and tribulations of my childhood which were my destiny. It's best to judge people based on their actions, awareness, and character. How nice would it be if everyone had a perfect family (a present mother and father) Must be nice? I do agree with his statement that femininity gets affected by TRAUMA - DUH because it makes you live in survival mode, but that doesn't mean that the person wouldn't be a good partner. Everybody has difficulties in life and to anyone reading this who can relate, you are stronger and God put you through that experience for a reason, do not feel like you are less than because of it. Also, the mentioning of a "weak father" or "missing father", at 51:07, of course, it's going to affect both FEMALE and MALE children, Mohammed Hijab actually did not have a present father figure in his household, and look at him, VERY MASCULINE MAN wouldn't you agree? PEACE ❤
Akhi we don't live in an ideal situation and this world ain't ideal and we can't always fulfil expectations of others even if we try our best its never 100% ideal anything@@Ya39oub_G
Ya sister actually tbh it was a little disturbing to hear this coming from these good gem brothers MashAllah and I was gonna comment the same word to word u nailed it .... Allah is so merciful and loves us alot more times than our mothers and he put us in places with relatives (parents etc) to learn some important life lessons for our betterment and development Subhan'Allah...and I was seriously thinking how can a FEMALE especially grow to a certain intellectual level with ideal family scenario where she doesn't have challenges and trials , that's why some of them grow insensitive beings with lack of understanding and sometimes spoilt offsprings grow into bigger problems for society
This conversation actually turned me off of them, not as potential partners (I’m married), but as people. May Allah guide us all. Praise be to Allah that I am not looking for a partner now. My goodness, the men want perfection.
@@Ya39oub_G bro women also have certain preferences and there are men who fall fit for the criteria or call it expectations that vary woman to woman but do muslim women demand or force their husband to be a perfecto or do women get divorce specifically based on men not fulfilling their expectation or is there bigger reasons to divorce, I think its the later and Sneako as a revert have hid basics clear how the reality of human beings works ...I disagree with brother Alidawah where he talked about asking Allah for a spouse mentioning details (physical traits) but he ignored the spirituality part and character traits that aren't physical such as Sincerity and peace that is one big thing in a muslim marriage as mentioned in Quran
I loved how Abdullah's donations while Mohammed Hijab was talking became an inside joke, I couldn't stop laughing. But jokes aside, what a generous guy, he donated so much, mashallah. May Allah reward him for his good deeds, Ameen.
LOL🤣, The value of women in Islam.... "sister" first BUT ask for CV Have to see them naked BEFORE marriage DONT have kids with them for 2 years(MUTAH(short marriage) till you know, she is for you, Forget the women who is slave (after war) they are NOT even a human!!!🤣 Amazing scholars of Islam😜
@@anissalei4053 It's not good to constantly point out our Muslim brothers' and sisters' shortcomings; it's better to teach, peacefully and respectfully. Everybody has their own personal struggles. Humans are imperfect. "And it is Allah’s Will to lighten your burdens, for humankind was created weak", Quran Surat An-Nisa, Verse 28. Also, bear in mind that he's still very new to Islam. He still has a lot of learning to do. At least he's putting himself out there and trying to actively learn by building a network of close Muslim friends. We should be encouraging, not discouraging! I'd say he's actually learnt quite a lot for a new revert, Mashallah. May Allah ease his learning of Islam and bring him closer to his Deen, Ameen.
@@BobTheSnail759 I thought he was finally improving but he’s not changing and carrying on being sexist. Mohammed hijab didn’t even correct him or Ali dawah
@@anissalei4053 Bro/Sis, I'm not sure you fully read my reply? He's still new to Islam and on the journey of learning. Also, you never know about the others, maybe they will speak to him privately, off camera. Tell me, are you perfect yourself? Do you not sin? I'm sure the answer is no, it's impossible, because you are human. You are not an angel. Everybody has their personal struggles. It's best to focus on bettering ourselves, not pointing fingers at others. May Allah keep us guided upon the straight path, Ameen.
We have women like Maryam who was connected to Allah without a man. we have Asia wife of pharaoh who was connected to Allah despite the man pharaoh was and many others. I fail to see the point made here about women needing a man to be Muslim.
@@Klick17 you know what's disrespectful, making assumptions and judging others, Allah judges you when you judge and make assumptions about other people, your emotional assumption is incorrect from my point of view it was actually a compliment to a great discussion it would be even greater with the whole crew that's all i meant. learn not make assumptions too fast .
"Women cannot find Allah without a man", can men find Islam without men? Prophets are men, imams are men, majority of muftis and the ulama are men... what's his point? 😂 He is being taught and guided by men too! I have been a revert for years and my journey started when I was 15 because if my own willingness to find knowledge and search for purpose. My own intellect made me ask questions that only Allah could answer. Through who? His own Word and His Beloved Messenger salallahu alayhi wassalam. But so do men. 😂
Fear Allah Guys. This boy needs to be corrected. Allah guided me and many other woman to islam without any man involved. Humble yourself, Think twice before you speak and learn properly first. Everyone thinks they scholars these days. Please clarify this since so many people watched this and new muslim man can take wrong idea. Astagfirallah. Be responsible.
Allah SWT guides whom he wills…. Meaning he will guide women to Islam WITH or WITHOUT a man. Sneako, you’re mixing this red pill ideologies with Islam is distasteful to the ummah brother…. May Allah SWT guide you and show you that this spreading of your biased opinion isn’t the right way. Coming from a revert, who came to Islam, SINGLE.
No matter how I agree with your point of it harming women more than men, Ali. Your way of putting it was utterly disgusting. You could have said it differently. And, mind you, she is also a participant in this ugly business. So it is not a one way transaction.
As salam u alaikum so the way I said it was disgusting because I pointed out a fact that it a brother wanted a second wife he would be judged and rejected for marriage and if he did in a marriage he would be divorced but if a man says I prefer virgin he will attacked saying don’t judge her past. Alhamdulillah truth hurts
I am not referring to that point. Since i am of the opinion that a brother has the right to ask his to be wife if she is a virgin or not. However, the metaphor you used - i don't want to quote it- for how men use women is what I am pointing to. There is always a modest way of saying something.
I love this perspective. We can all see Sneako being new to Islam, even though he has to do certain things to maintain his career and online personality, you can clearly see he is avidly trying to improve and change his ways even though he still has to fulfil his contracts in his streaming career. And his perspective as someone changing his lifestyle is very relatable for a lot of young & new Muslims, especially people who have lived in and been influenced by the west, and are now shifting their lifestyles to be more inclined with the teachings of Islam. Alhamdulillah, may Allah guide us all. We all have our struggles 🤲
not really, especially with this topic, and especially since sneako comes from a promiscuous background. you can tell sneako is really trying to improve his haya and the other brothers are not helping talking about women with a lack of haya and proceeding to cackle. even sneako had to step in and like kinda calm them down. subhanallah looked like he had more haya than them. May Allah forgive and guide me, them and all muslims, ameen
@@alhamdulilah_421 They are grown man habibi, they would not be bantering if he could not handle it, look life on the positive side being pessimistic is a bad trait.
@@alukazoldyck5306 advising for haya isn't pessimism. Haya should be observed regardless of who is spoken to. I only highlighted and exaggerated this case because of logical reasons. "The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said heard a man urging his brother to be modest. He said: 'Indeed modesty is a branch of faith.'" Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Laugh little. Much laughter kills the heart." It was quite distasteful watching the lack of haya displayed shamelessly by people who are looked up to. Allah ustur may Allah guide us
You know what's mental, a few months ago I was watching Sneako reacting to Ali's speakers corner video and he was questioning so many things and I was like 'rah this guy don't understand English" 😂. Look at them now. SubhanAllah
Whats the point of this podcast if wrong views are not corrected? The answer to sneako was so clear and simple yet these three goons decided to beat arose the bush and actually ended up putting it in a way that they all agreed. Lmao.