How To Find Your Style | 5 Things You Need To Do Differently In 2023 

Let me know in the comments section what your biggest style lessons from 2022 are and what your style goals are for 2023!

I am a recovering "clothing saver", come from a long line of savers!! I am committed to breaking the cycle! I want to show up as my best self, even if it's just Walmart!!! This video was a must see!!❤️

Thanks for the inspiration to be better in the new year. Life has so many opportunities it is great to be ready for them.💕

Lovely thoughts ❤ I think one thing I have learned is that it’s okay for me to have all the clothes I have. I kept thinking I need to have only so many clothes and seriously just a couple of weeks ago I decided to just keep what I have and continue with closet edits throughout the year. I don’t need only 30 pieces. I have some seasonal capsules as it were but I live in a climate that is fairly consistent except lately the rains have come. I can wear my clothes almost all year round and I plan on it ❤ Another suggestion to maintain a positive attitude is to have a friend who ALWAYS sees the glass as half full. Positive thinking is catchy. Can’t wait to see what you have in store for us in the future ❤❤❤

Your skin looks so glowing! Yes to wear your favorite clothes all the time!!!

I, like you, have always been a saver, that had the consequence of a lot of turnover in my clothes. This year I have changed that and the result is very positive: I have practically 100% of my wardrobe in use and many garments have a fairly low cost per use and I buy everything without being guided by price alone. The only low cost chain where I still buy is mango and la reudote and I only buy the highest quality pieces. I've changed reserving pieces for occasions or buying things for special occasions, unless it's a wedding or something similar, I wear everything and I'll change the accessories but you have to give life to clothes and we don't have so many special occasions for me to live long enough I wear a garment. I have also learned the value of natural fabrics and I have renounced synthetic ones, there are still some in my closet that can be used but as they wear out they will be changed to natural ones. It is an ecological decision that my skin appreciates (I was tired of irritation and greenhouse effect on my skin). Another thing that I have learned is that the capsule wardrobe, the massive cleanings and the Kondo method is not for me, in the end I ended up buying more and discarding pieces that I could put to use. I'm not so basic dressing and I like to vary, and the best thing I can do is accept it and buy my wardrobe instead of regretting over and over again having eliminated some item of clothing. My cleanings are small and meditating a lot and I'm doing better. I have gotten into the habit of making combinations with my clothes before I even have them of each thing I buy and I have set a rule: I have to make three completely different combinations per garment with what is already there, that way I make sure that it will have exit before I even know how I feel (I do it in the digital closet). If the garment fulfills this, does it have a correct color for my colorimetry, do I like the fabric and manufacturing, do I fall in love with the structure and does it fit me well? It stays, if it's not perfect it's returned and I don't care about paying a refund, that garment doesn't deserve a place in my closet. And very important: I have stopped watching videos on RU-vid about trends or being the most modern in the neighborhood, I have realized how badly videos of being the most modern in the neighborhood influence us, they make us consume things that we do not like. like, we don't want and in many cases low quality. If you are like me, clean your RU-vid more than your closet and you will win. Those are the things I've learned this year.

Happy new year with much health and love, Brianna! I loved that video and I agree completely with you about the investments who can change our lifes. Either we speak about fashion or about self care the truth is that quality soon or later always pays of. That's probably my biggest style's lesson of 2022, also my style feels now more like myself. I never thought that I would imagine myself wear a tailored vest combined with some tailored trousers (always with some beautiful and feminine undergarments beneath😉) and a pair of heels, but it seems that now I can pull off that outfit and feel completely in harmony with my effortless and timeless identity.💛🌻🥂

Honestly these all resonate so strongly with me! I have never really given myself permission to invest in my wardrobe and spend time in it, and I finally started to do that in 2022 and it feels awesome! I had so much negative self-talk and a really negative view of myself and my clothes, and figuring out what my style actually is and why I feel better in certain pieces over others has helped me so much. I've cracked the code on my style uniform and why my closet didn't feel like it was working for me, and I'm so happy with the form it's taking. And I can't thank you enough for helping me see myself and my clothes in a different way!

Um, well, I started my YT channel last summer talking about this very subject. I feel that I've had some breakthroughs recently and my personal style goal is to finally dress the way I've always wanted to dress. I'd like to solidify my core style and then perhaps experiment with different aesthetics. Thanks for the pep talk Brianna! ❤

I’ve been on this journey for like 5 years and I am still refining it. For instance, I’ve come to the realization that clothes that accentuate my waist are my best look so although I will keep my bulky sweaters and oversized shirts, I will style them in a different way to achieve that look.

This feels so overwhelming…I’ve spent my 20s working in the outdoor industry and living in athleisure. I’m turning 30 this year and I’m ready to grow my style. I feel so much anxiety just thinking about starting this process but I can’t afford a stylist. It makes me want to quit before I start and live in leggings the rest of my life 😔

Are you tired of hearing me say that my biggest style lesson in 2022 came from participating in your #parisianstyle10x10? I used a template for choosing my pieces for the first one that forced me out of my skinny jeans and sweaters rut. And they were all pieces I had in my closet! That prompted a major declutter. I have an entire bin of polyester in my garage that I've never missed. In 2023 I hope to add some new silhouettes that flatter my Kibbe body type, add a few statement pieces to my current wardrobe (which is feeling too basic) and find some influencers with personal styles that are less mainstream.

Brianna, I was thinking about this a lot and I dont know what to do in case I really like different styles that are almost the opposite of each other - I like romantic vibes like French romantic aka Sezane cardigan + jeans vibe, tea dresses, and then masculine outfits such as jeans, loafers and oversized blazer. And I feel like I can be one person one day, and another - another day and it['s like I have these different personnas that dont allow me to form a cohesive style.. Any tips?:) I would appreciate your input! :)