Main characters wear the same outfit everyday therefore outfit repeating means you're an iconic character in a teen coming of age anime/cartoon, accept it as such
“only wear clothes that make you feel good” ahhhhh this is so important sometimes i forget this and wear clothes i don’t feel comfy in bc it’s cute or trendy but it’s not me!
my dad walked in while i was watching this and said "she looks like a really cool lady" and honestly that is one of the top compliments he could have given you
so im not very confident in most clothing so every Friday i wear a piece of clothing that I'm nervous or scared to wear so that way I can ease my way into more clothing. just my advice :)
i feel like confidence is rlly hard especially when ur friends seem to reject anything “girly” or “trendy” istg they hate on every person who cares abt their fashion. it’s hard to not feel insecure 🤷♀️
if your friends are making you feel insecure and feel like you cant wear what you want or care about your fashion.. then you need some new friends love. your friends should never make you feel bad about anything. and they should especially never make you feel insecure.
Like people are saying if they are saying these negative things they are projecting their own insecurities (they feel like they need to not be girly or trendy to stand out or to be accepted ) but I hope you can’t find a group of friends that will uplift you and support whatever you want to wear 🥰
I get what you're saying, it's not even just friends at this point :( The society we live in doesn't find feminine clothes to be acceptable at this point. If I even put on a dress for one day, everyone makes comments and asks why I'm dressing up so "fancy" lol.
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100%. I have a really eclectic style, but I always scale it down for school. And then people compliment me on my outfits. Like compliments are absolutely awesome, but sometimes I feel like if I get all crazy with my outfits they’ll be weirded out Imao
god that's an amazing opportunity to be different and special, i used to go to school in a big city and everyone in class was like a little supermodel, i just wanted to come back to middle school where everyone used to wear an hoodie (but when i haven't found my stile yet) to stand up a little despite my introvert and shy personality
I used to be like this, then I saw one girl at school with some crazy full on emo/punk thing going on. I'm talking neon on black, chains, bright green hair, clunky platform boots, fishnets, chokers, anything my Catholic grandma would faint at on sight. You couldn't miss her. And yknow what? I thought she looked cool as fuck, and I wanted to be her. Of course there were probably plenty of folks who thought she looked like a freak and what not, but if we cared about every negative opinion, we wouldn't have a life. So I'm on my journey to one day before I graduate, go to school looking as metal as this girl did. You never know if you simply wearing what you want could inspire someone else to do the same.
There was this RU-vidr who I used to watch all the time her aesthetic was the typical rich "basic" girl with the led light in her room and the modern furniture and the crop tops and I always wanted to have that but when I decorated my room that way and dressed that way I always felt so weird and unhappy. So with this video, I realized that having that style just wasn't me and I didn't feel comfortable and I had to find a style that made me happy.
I think it’s so crazy to see that in America it’s a weird thing when you wear an outfit twice or a few days in a row. I live in Belgium and here it’s not a thing at all, we wear the same outfit until it’s dirty and then we put on a new one. Here it’s weird when you change your outfit every day lol
We love that! I mean idc about pants but I do switch up my shirts more often but will repeat it after a week if I want to or to another occasion (mostly speaking pre covid) but that’s great because it promotes an anti-consumerist idea I feel like there’s a big pressure to keep buying new clothes when you don’t always need to
Pro tip: When going to thrift stores (mostly like goodwill and for feminine clothing) go to the mens sweater section. Mine has SO MANY good sweaters and sweater vests for really cheap.
I love what you said at the end - a lot of times internalized misogyny brings women to shame others for their fashion. But remember, "basic" is a word used to bring down women for liking things, so please don't encourage that mindset!
Yep if you like it who cares!! There’s people that will hate whatever you choose if it’s more unique you get called weird or if it’s more mainstream it’s basic just DO YOU
YEEPP, no matter what style someone has, you shouldnt think youre better than them no matter what, especially if they've never said anything rude about your own style.
I’m constantly trying to ask myself when I like an outfit “is it the fit, or is it because the person wearing it has a good body?” Because I know it will not look like that on me hahah
that’s why I always try things on hate the situation we are in rn bc trying clothes on before you buy is hard :/ but definitely trying on dif clothes will give you a idea of what kind of clothes fit you
yess, this is why I always try to imagine myself wearing the clothing before buying it. Thankfully, having been blessed with Steal The Spotlight, Im pretty good at just coming up with outfits in my head.
just realized the importance of thinking before buying T,T i bought the sweater vest to follow the trend just to find out it doesnt compliments my body type, i literally cried so much bcs i hate the way i look in picture with the sweater vest outfit lol 😭 i think i prefer the neat style, leather jackets/coats etc rather than baggy outfits 😂
Does anyone else feel like they dont really have their own sense of style it’s just dictated by what’s trendy at the moment I’ll be like “oh i love funky prints” but then realize EVERYONE loves funky prints right now and i hated funky prints 5 years ago so i’m clearly just influenced by what pinterest says is cool
Same, the worst thing is, these funky pants, fuzzy bags, and the brown trend will fade out, and ill be left with these clothes i dont like anymore. And im too broke to buy new stuff every year. So i think its best to buy things that are trendy but more on the basic side so you can rewear it
A few months ago I was obsessed with the idea of looser pants (more like mom jeans) when it wasn't that popular among the people around me. Now everyone is wearing them and I fully regret never actually trying to get some.
I’ve found that for me finding my style was really about realizing the colors ,fits, and the style that make me the happiest .Instead of buying a bunch of different styles or buying a few pieces from other styles that I also liked , I started buying only items that fit my color pallet and style because the random impulse pieces that I would buy I would almost always only wear once... or never at all . Another tip is if you are at home a lot , spend more money on cute loungewear and pajamas instead of buying a bunch of pieces that you never get to wear out , trust me it has made me so much more confident throughout 2020 .🤍
thank you so much for addressing the "piece looks different on pinterest v.s my body" dilemma. i feel like ive been constantly holding myself back from exploring new ideas or styles because i write off inspiration or an outfit as "it only works bc she's skinny/white/conventionally attractive/curvy/etcetc..." rather than find a way to approach it with my own style/proportions ! will definitely remind myself the next time i end up down that self-loathing hole again
“Nothing is concrete” thank you! I normally get stuck on an aesthetic and think some pieces “don’t fit” into the aesthetic but I’ll remember fashion is fluid. 💕
im not the richest so i dont have a lot of clothing and it makes me rlly insecure cuz im afraid to repeat outfits but tysm for this video it really helps and hopefully i can make the most of the money i have :D
If it helps, you can cycle out what you rewear so you're not wearing an outfit a few days directly in a row, and instead over a more extended period of time! Also switching out the bottoms for new bottoms or the top for a new top can completely change an outfit and gives your wardrobe more longevity (provided things look nice when mixed and matched!) Thrift stores really are a great way to stretch your dollar; I'm not the wealthiest myself, and most of my closet are thrifted finds. At the start, I would recommend getting things you can wear for multiple outfits (like I have a white button up shirt I can use for three to four outfits) Keep an eye out for sales! Thrift stores like Goodwill usually have sales going on, which can save you even more money! Lastly, be sure to try everything on if you can to make sure you like it. Good luck, and I hope you find wonderful clothes!
I love how jazzy gives such cool vibes and she’s like that best friend that u can always trust and I love her style and if anyone knows where she got her bags from please tell me🥰
feels like i lost my identity every single time to be on the trend and claim that “thats the way i dress” while changing everytime something on trend 😭😭😭 if that make sense 😭😭😭
I recommend you take some time to step back and really ask yourself if tomorrow everyone hates this will I still like this? That will make you realize if you truly love something. Also know there’s nothing wrong with following the trends because it can be a jumping off point for your personal style.
I always ask myself this question when I buy something thats trendy " if this wasn't trending would I still like it and wear it daily?" the answer is 80% of the time no lol sadly
my aesthetic and style keeps changing in my mind and I felt great when u said u don't have to fit into one box because I have always subconsciously had a pressure to be of a certain aesthetic and stay there
Same here, I always have trouble finding what I like and scared that I have to stick with a certain aesthetic. I also have trouble with my clothing being in the feminine or masculine side, I can't choose one or the other. Or maybe I want both but don't know how or where to find that style.. Advice please?
@@giovannam.1325 i have noticed a lot of streetwear or other kind of outfits do that where they may take a more “masculine” bottom like maybe trousers or baggy jeans or something more comfy with something like a jazzed up crop top or more designer stuff like scarf tops or blouses or something if uk what i mean and that works soo well in my opinion :)
I love how you mentioned hyper fixation and outfit repeating! As much as I love fashion, I often come back to these issues of being over critical of myself from what I wear and how it’s going to be perceived. It’s so reassuring to know I’m not alone with these concerns 🥰
I feel like it’s harder when you live somewhere, where all the people have the same style and I am very insecure so I feel like everyone is judging me all the time and I feel that I don’t like going all out with my outfits when I’m with my parents which I think is weird but I will go all out when I’m with my friends idk 😂
Also, I love that you said it's okay to change your aesthetic sometimes... I have such a hard time staying in one style because I love them all!! I just always feel insecure that people think I'm crazy when I wear egirl stuff one day, dark academia another day 😂
You gave some good advice but also based on these comments talking about how people are seeking to redo their wardrobe to fit a new aesthetic, I think it's important to emphasize that aesthetics can change year by year. You also don't need to trap yourself into an aesthetic or color palette. Aesthetics are cute, yeah, but they trap you into a box, and as you grow up you'll realize you can mix aesthetics or even change aesthetics every other day. There's no reason to limit yourself to one style. You could instead work with the pieces you have now and tie in your desired aesthetic through accessories, layerable clothes, shoes, etc... but just don't toss your wardrobe out for a bunch of clothes from your new aesthetic when it (more than likely) will change in the coming year or two. I'm saying this because: 1. It's a waste of money 2. It's harmful to the environment / wasteful 3. It limits your ability to find your personal style; maybe you enjoy multiple aesthetics but it's just dependent on the day TLDR: Just don't overdo your new aesthetic by purchasing a bunch of new clothes to fit your new found aesthetic. Mix your aesthetic with the pieces you currently have because aesthetics change very quickly and are the cause for a lot of wasteful clothing.
i’m going into my junior year of high school and i was like “you know what i want to change my style this year” and this video helped me so much. i love you jazzy!! 🤍
ahh the part when you said about the models, it's soooo true. I started to look at inspo that kinda is only the clothing match. Also, I found people on insta that convert their face, so It's easier to just focus on the clothes rather than the model.
i actually love being short bc i dont know if its weird but i think my height matches my personality ?? like i love being the baby of the group or what you may call as "little spoon"
it's not particularly like a thrift store but honestly if there's one in your area, I'd recommend tkmaxx!! if you look around regularly you can often find cute items at a more reasonable price. the mens t-shirt section is just *chefs kiss*
I don't think you'll see this but let me just say that watching you growing into your self confidence is, for some reason, making me more comfortable and confident in my own body. Anywho thank you for that and u deserve every bit of happiness you feel
I really need to separate the person from the outfit, sometimes I see things that look good on other people and wholly trick myself into thinking I want that outfit too. I also very much recommend dumping all your fashion inspo in one folder! That's a thing I've done this year instead of categorising and I think it has made me able to see the whole of what I like. Thanks for the video!
ok just wanted to say that the "accesories and shoes first" thingie actually helped a lot because i have to wear a uniform for school and since i don't really have much of a social life outside of school, accesories, shoes and the way i wear that bloody uniform are kind of the only things that i can change cos the rest of the time i just wear sweatpants and an old sweater or hoodie lol
my dad has always told me that if you’re unsure in the shop/trying it on, don’t get it because 9 times out of 10 you’ll go to wear it you’ll have that same hesitance & it’ll just end up sitting there- this has always helped me catch myself before buying into trends that just aren’t me
Aesthetic tracker : rn: 💗🙂🐶🦄🐷🐰✨ My dream aesthetic:🌈 🍃🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈🦕💿💕💅 Coming back to this ever month to see if I get closer to my dream bedroom aesthetic :) March 2022: 🍉💗💛🌈🤍☺️🦋
Oh my god I just realised the first ‘good’ outfit you showed has been on my Pinterest board forever. I even went and checked and it’s the exact same pucture
I love baggy, boot cut, boyfriend, flair, and straight leg jeans!!! I used to wear skinny jeans just because everyone else did, but then I wore the jeans that I like and it's much better! So yes, wear what you want to wear, not what you think you should wear to "fit in" Thanks for this video ✨
15:18 this made me feel so loved honestly. I've been insecure about no having tits for a lot of time now and I've been wearing a pushup bra almost everyday because I feel hot with it but I kinda felt like I was being shady?? Idk but you saying that honestly was so reconforting thank you
its so funny hearing her story about jeans because im the exact opposite i grew up always wearing baggy jeans and bootcut jeans but as i grew up ive learned that skinnier jeans look better on my build/shape
Unpopular opinion...your style was actually really cute even in 2016! What you wore was just what was popular back then and it makes sense that it doesn’t look as stylish now as trends change. But I love that you have gained so much confidence over the years and that has translated into how you dress as well!
I think the thing about not liking clothing until you try it is totally right because I though ripped jeans were soooo weird until I accidentally picked up a pair at Old Navy and I tried it on in the dressing room- safe to say it's now my favorite pair of jeans
why i feel like the whole aesthetic and editing on this video is being so underrated hgubvfv you are putting so *much* effort on every single video jazzy and it’s showing !! I’m honestly so proud of you finding urself ur glowing girlll🍃🪐🧚🏻💕
"one day you might wanna be cottagecore, and one day you might wanna be goth gf" Bro why are those two style what I'm most interested in when they are literally completely different lol
bro i will find clothes that i feel amazing in and they won’t even be too revealing or anything like that. i feel like i dress like rory from gilmore girls. very modest. and then my mom or extended family will be like “no that is too sexy guys will look at you”. legit wtf why should i have to feel less confident in my style so that men don’t look at me. bro i don’t give a shit if they look at me i prefer women anyways.
you kind of make me see that style is a lot about details like you are wearing a simple sweater or whatever but than the way you pair it up necklaces, earrings, rings makes it look so so cool !!!! love it
I remember these edgy girls called me basic for the clothes I wore but they never bothered to find out that I couldn’t afford loads of outfits and ‘trendy’ things, so now I’m trying to find a style myself with the money I have :)
Ive always been interested in fashion, even when I was younger I liked experimenting with clothes. Looking back, I didn't always make the best choices but I still feel kinda proud of younger me having the courage to not dress like everyone else. I feel like I finally found my style and ive been trying to slowly build up my dream wardrobe (although that isn't really easy with strict parents and a limited budget) I also reuse a lot of old clothes we have lying around. Anyway, rlly liked the vid
I’m a year late to watching this but this made me realize I don’t need every sweater, jacket, shirt and stuff that other people have that I think are cute. I just like the way that they style them, like the way they layer it or tuck it.
the editing on this video is *immaculate* seriously! thank you so much for sharing jazzy, you are such an inspiration & I am so grateful for all of the things that you shared in this video! two of my favorite things that you said were "clothing does't come with the body" & "only war clothes that make you feel good" because they were so relatable and true! you are an angel!
I have this weird desire to look messy and wear mismatched clothes but also incorporating things considered "fancy" or "put together". Like wearing a sun hat and fancy jewelry with a tracksuit and leggings. It feels like I'm reclaiming my style and saying f you to social boundaries
adorable how worried u were when u talked about taking inspiration from others/pintrest. I mean, ofc theres nothing wrong with it! thats how u get to know diff aesthetics and styles! u explained it so well
The last tips : fluidity and repeating are fire ! I'm always uncomfortable to change style even tho I like the outfit but yes let's go (now I'm gonna go clean my closet & thrift)
My style is one outfit. Literally. Recently I completely changed my aesthetic so most of my clothes don't work anymore plus I used to put fashion over comfort but that has changed either. I have only one outfit that matches my current style and makes me feel good so I wear it over and over again. I knew I have to do something about it but I didn't know where to start so thank you for motivation
“Clothing and stuff at least for me don’t really help FIX my insecurities but it helps me not FIXATE on them as much” I can’t tell you how much this helped me omg
I still need to work on my self esteem and confidence so I can feel more comfortable in other styles/aesthetics that I want to try. And years ago I actually thought being called cute was an insult.. but I’m slowly learning it’s not. Basically work on not giving a f*ck on what others think. Lol.
