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S A D B O Y same man, same

It really really does 💔

Same.

Eva Nartey it does

I know...

indeed....

Cannot agree more. It seems so rational to have that hope when it is so clear the relationship is done and there is no coming back

Tejus Coulagi so should just give up on ever getting back together with her

@@amincampbell1939 Well, each time it's ended in disaster and furthering the pain. An important thing is to know when to cut your losses and walk away.

Tejus Coulagi but there still sum chance we can get back together I don’t believe she’d just end it like this

lagh I feel the same way, but then I have moments where I tell myself... why would I want someone like them, someone that couldn’t love me

Then that greatest moment you find someone who surpasses them. Why end your world over one person when there’s a billion in this world

Bryce Valdez very true. It’s difficult to look at it that way when you invest a lot of time and effort into somebody.

lagh believe me, that’s exactly what I’m going through rn. I was used but I couldn’t see it cause I was so caught up in this girl. But I can’t destroy and pick myself apart of it more than I already have. Everyone will find themselves sooner or later. Just find your release

lagh I just went through a break up two days ago. And I did nothing wrong but loved him with everything I had. He hurt me twice. But I believe I can find someone better than him. Not someone like him. Because you won’t grow with someone like him. It’s hard I’m not going to lie but remember that. Remind yourself that your feelings are valuable and one day someone better will come.

There all denial accept and face the feelings

I believe a feasable explanation is better than no explanation.

@@mrsniffwell7736 I got no explanation after 7 years.. Just rejection and blocked instantly from all contact... She was cold and heartless, and I still feel like crap. The doctor is right, I am going to focus on that entirely, objectively that was a monstrous thing to do. No idea why I focus on the good stuff after experiencing that kind of behavior. Only up from here!!

Sure did

Damn. Yes. I heard. It's my second time I am going through this. I didn't expect I would have to get hurt again, but here I am. All over again. Crying over a man, who broke up saying he doesn't feel that we have a future anymore, and he can't help it. I will have to pick the pieces of my already broken heart, all over again, and mend it. But I guess that's the beauty of life. It will all be worth in few months or a year. And if I live 70 years, 1 year on a wrong person isn't a lot. Isn't it? It's already been few days, and in few more days, it will be months. And I will again be feeling a lil better about my existence. Till then, we fight.

i feel ABSOLUTELY the same.

I feel you on that. Right now I’m leaning towards the latter

@@FuriousFerrell I'm never trusting again I can't take another heart break

YES

It's the worst feeling....ever. I made myself so stressed about it...I got so sick and I nearly went comatose over him...but hes gone, forever. No getting him back and I dont know if I can be that happy ever again...God I hope so

damn

Such wise words such truthful meaning so well said

you dont need happiness

How can I find myself...

Thank you

They are the crazy ones don’t mind them

Tell me about it 😒

It really is...

it was probably your fault

Just because they turned cold on you doesn’t mean they don’t feel anything. I turn cold to protect myself.

You're a guy right?

@@mmmbbop9351 Yeah.

Ur. Not alone 😢 me 😭 💔♒

I can relate to your comment❤️

Yo I was ready to marry this girl. Making plans to go meet with her homophobic family (I was gonna win them over bc I am a legit person) and I knew she was gonna propose. Less than 12 hours she got drunk (I’m in recovery) and sent me messages that crossed my personal boundaries (for the 4th time and 2nd time in 24hrs) and pretended to be me and cancelled my flight while I was taking a nap. I said some horrible stuff that I’ve never told anyone in my entire life. I feel bad. I know it’s bc my inner child felt wounded bc I told her and finally admitted to be vulnerable and make a 2 year commitment to her. Yet she wanted to still play high school games. So I reverted back to default mode and was cruel. Yet I was only pushed to the end after waking up from what I said before AND her saying she was cutting the chord even tho I said the next time we end it, it will be over bc we go back and forth. I feel bad for what I said. I also feel like I need to respect myself and hold true to my word. My therapist said this is karma getting me back for all the heartbreak I caused bc this is my first time getting my heartbroken that wasn’t caused by me using and ruining a relationship.

Viviana Romo, don't worry, I know of a man that will help you get your ex back and heal your pain

Contact the man on

He will help you get your ex and happy again, he get me my ex back last week

Time is the best healer

Romo you will Heal. It will take time. I felt the way you for a long time. 20 years ago. I still Remember her., But I am over her. Just the Memories that I have..

You have to work towards your confession my dear friend i can recommend you to a great relationship restorer from the US that can help you manifest your ex back without any delay in less than 24 hours 😊

He just helped me restore my relationship of 2years with law of attraction manifestation last week and everything is going well between us and I pray the universe grant you your heart desires through the relationship restorer ✅✅💕💕😄

Whtz>>app him

Thank you but that relationship was not healthy for me and I do not wish to restore it.

Yup this one really set me straight. The pain in my chest is still heavy. I realize as much I wanted closure he just wasn’t the right man for me.

Do you need help?

She can help you too with all your pains!!

January Orcullo I need help

That's my number.

Im so sorry to hear that 😔💔

I want to feel that😢

​@@sushantkhanal2303yeah same man!....it hurts kills....but it need to move on....Just like that....lets hope Together

We can do all things through the lord he who strengthens us🙏🏾 we will heal one day

Want to skip a year

I wish I can heal as fast it’s been 7 months I saw him again and it’s like day 1 all over again I’m so sad

🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

Did you?

For sure

U know what Alfred used to say to batman? Neva, hehehe

You are. But not me.

That is very true! After two months of pain and depression, today I caught myself thinking that it's been a couple of hours since I woke up, and he pop up in my mind much later than usual!! that also gave me clarity and understanding that it’s over for real, and it’s time to move on. But of course it will take me more months to completely heal, as I know myself, but I had the time to think about how bad he would make me feel a lot of the times, things I didn’t see or just avoid before because love is blindness ❤

I really needed this♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

thank you for writing this

thank you, going through this right now. I’m scared to go to sleep, it sucks to wake up with my heart pounding and she’s the first thing on my mind, hope this will all go soon, I’ve suffered a lot, may we all find peace.

Same here, Im on month 2 and she is still the first thought in my mind when I wake up. The pain is unbearable some days like I wonder when is it gonna end, Im starting to realize its gonna be a while until I feel better so Im not comparing to anyones healing journey. Its more painful couse we are on good terms and she still likes me but doesnt love me, so Im asking myself why so many times and thinking why it was my fault she fell out of love, but now I know those are just intrusive thoughts. Im giving myself distance from her couse we still want to keep in touch, and the only way to do it in a more healthy way is to first heal. I only trust time, that this will pass. I really hope it will pass.

Do you mind if we have a chat

@@arnella3087 omg same, I understand you...

Arnella don’t worry about how a real relationship will end. If that happens, you wíll manage just fine. Don’t make the fear of a break up stop you from finding love!

Hello everyone if you need your ex back contact Dr.uguel because he has a solution to all your relationship problems.

They never really are ever yours. It was just your turn.

I’m in such freakin pain. It didn’t just end. He couldn’t have been meaner and it came from nowhere. I’m determined to do no contact. But I’m shattered and he’s free to be so vicious without consequence

U said time bro that’s all? It hurts a ton rtnw and I keep thinking there’s no one like her. I get sad reminiscing literally all the things he said not to do. How u been now? Btw we jus broke up today.

@@jasonstorey1905 I’ve been no contact and he keeps contacting me. I answer and I don’t get excited. Today he text and I cut him short. So he called and I cut him short. Then he showed up at my work and he can see me get flustered. That’s all he wanted to see and he left. fucking jerk

@@jasonstorey1905 me.. two days ago. it was an affair, she met another guy. didnt want to be the bit on the side anymore, im devastated, cant eat sleep think breath.

One year out everything is the same

:”) me and my bf recently break up... this made me sad

Then you realize there is no right one

That definitely helps lol. Thank you.

😭💔 thank you

this is so sad :(

lmao

I'm gonna make a list now

SAME

Unfortunately this kind of videos don't help me at all. It's like they make it worse... My salvation is sharing my feelings in the comment section

I totally get it. We only remember the good times and not the bad times. I've made a list but it has pros too because shes not a bad person, just a troubled person. You will find closure ❤

I am here just in case this happens to me which it probably does.

Jolez _ it happens to the best of us my friend .

@@TonyMontana-ne3mw Sad truth :(

but it is also strangely comforting as it reminds us that we are not alone... and all millions of us will be okay eventually :)

Considering the size of our population I'd think that this would have hundreds of millions of views. Everyone goes through this and some people go through it many many times.

I can so relate. I felt absolutely broken when my ex left. I didn't have healthy ways of processing, I just wanted to numb the pain. I hope you have a good support system.

I feel like I can't make it. Eating,sleeping and going to work and pretending everything is normal is ... I hate the thought of going back home. I dread going to bed every night. I don't have any friends that I am close with and no family. I have to do this solo, in the same house with all the stuff there and no distraction or external support. It's all up to me to make it and I have to make it because otherwise there is no plan B.

⁠@@Suspended24😢 It’s an awful pain, from the inside out. You need to find support, a group online, a counselor (online options), is there an employee assistance plan at your work? Rearrange furniture, remove photos, bring in a new color. Try using isochronic tones and binaural beats to help with depressed feelings/anxiety/sadness. Start watching videos of people who have survived more intense events (helps for perspective). Heartbreak isn’t permanent 🙏🦋

@@Suspended24hey there stranger. i am here, in the same shoes as you. what is helping me is distracting myself and watching RU-vid films about dealing with break up. Weve been 10 years together and he dumped me. It Stings but I Think to myself that IF they arę the one we will eventually either come back . OR IF he is actually not the one then nothing to worry about - means its not making space in our life to welcome someone far greater

"Mornings are the beginning of a battle" - spot on

thanks man u too!

👑👑😥thank you and the same to you💆🏽‍♀️

No we're not we cant

I spent Easter weekend with my girlfriend of 2 years. Things had been going pretty good, she had recently voiced she wasnt thrilled about me being a cop, (I'm a month in the police academy) but Easter weekend was beautiful. We loved on each other and really spent quality time with each other and also got to catch up with each others families. Things were going so good. Even through Sunday night. (She spent the night) the next day she said she wasnt happy any more and didnt want to see me anymore.

@@ibold1000 I'm sorry to hear that :/ thanks for opening up though, it takes courage

True

That makes sense, cause no one ever wants to go through it. But you do have to face it to live.

A fight that I'm about ready to throw in the towel for. The daily pain is just too much for me to bear.

@@wizardofahhhs759 I feel you! I’ve been really going through it, I’m a lover not a fighter

​@wizardofahhhs759 how are you feeling now? Sending lots of love and light ❤️🙌

For real... I'm here trying to figure out how to survive this heartbreak and this comes up.

@@caroline3206 you've got this. It sucks, but we're in the same boat

Shout out to the boys at the FBI

Exactly😂

I feel you.

Same hear the comments are healers.

This!❤

The love specialist can be of great help to you, he offers the best solution in restoring and fixing broken relationship.

Aww I am so sorry! I have had my heart broken twice. It's a horrible horrible feeling. The first took years (we were married) and I am still working through the second. I'm in my early 40's and heart broken twice. I need to be with someone who loves me as much as I love them (or more).

Me to at 20

@@rachellydy3367 this love specialist can help just give it a try

Same here at 23 - been reaching out to my friend group and everybody is saying that everything I'm feeling right now is normal. But damn was I unprepared for the torture and the healing process.

you never did heroin withdrawal (neither did I)

A shotgun to the chest would tickle me instead of this pain

@Zein Miftah 😂😂

I wouldn’t even wish it on my worst enemy.

@Zein Miftah but without IE there wouldn't be other browsers. So thank you IE

Madi Dork asking myself the same question.

I ask myself this all the time... for 13 years I've asked myself this.....

Most likely the latter. When we're in love with someone our brain creates this glorified image of the other person which often has little reflection on reality. Love is really an affliction of the mind.

I'm asking this myself. And I came to the conclusion that I romanticized everything with him

@@lizzymaria3776 YES! That is exactly how I feel!!

you're lucky at 4 months! I couldn't feel better for 2 years

It has been 1.5 years, my heart is still broken.

@@sanayalove9194 @anthonychow6061 It scares me reading ur comments. It's been 2 days and it feels like death. idk how I could survive years. I just don't know how

@@yocool9883 I don't even know the exact months, maybe 3 now, I refuse to know the date of the heartbreak/betrayal.. But it does get better. Even though i'm typing this after not eating all day and getting up late and sobbing for half an hour, it still does get better. I am fighting right now, even still, to love and care for myself, hence why i'm on this video. I have a few set backs, I have to still get my stuff from my partner hence why we are in ocassional contact, which sets me back yards. However, there was a point last month where I didn't even think about her for a few days. I had peace. No contact is key, keeping busy and working towards goals, and 100% what he said about filling the voids. Me and her used to love raves, so I've found someone else to go with now. The key is to just keep pushing. I still often feel like I can't even breathe, but just know you're not alone, and keep getting up and trying again. Much love

@@yocool9883 ¿how are you doing now friend?

Bweezym, yes it is true break up sucks, but don't worry ok I will you to a man that helped me get my ex when I was in a problem like this before

The man will help you get your ex back, restore your relationship and heal your broken heart

Contact the man on WhatsApp to get your ex back as soon as possible

I know how that feels, my relationship was going great for the most part but she dumped me without warning.

@@averagejoe6031 don't worry ok you will get your ex back to

Message DR TUKU now for any kinds of spell casting

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this is not always true i feel.....

I valued her too much... And she ended things really badly...I don't have any friends or close people left.

@@cognitio278 whatever has happened... don't hold a grudge man....it will just worsen you....i wish that you will get over your tough times

my ex valued me so much that he told me to broke up with him because he knew that i deserve way more. I love him and he loves me but I wont put anyone to change for me. He knows that he is different. He suffers a lot for the fact that he cant give me what I want, and to clearify the things all the things were little things.

That statement is not entirely true

Unfortunately it is very true.

Nikki M x

so true

6:00

Hope is last to die, but first to kill..

@@paulharry5589 what's his WhatsApp

Oooof this hit diffrent, so true

@favour Lucky thanks alot for your recommendation my ex is back

Heavy Man, really heavy!🤔

The man of my dreams just proposed to another and it feels as if my heart has been ripped out 💔 💔 😪

S 0 L 4 C 3 my god this happened to me....

Eva L it's exactly what happened to me, which is why i was so dumbfounded when i first read it. i knew i just had to comment it

I get it. But it’s so much easier said than done...

Damn this hurts now😥

S 0 L 4 C 3 I think this massage for me

Why they are still in our memories?

I feel ya... being stuck inside with nothing to do is making everything so much worse

It feels like a really weird bad dream we can't seem to wake up from. Stay strong.

Same man. Five years and cheated on before replaced. Was way easier to deal with while going out and drinking than while staying in looking at a wall

Same:( Broke up just before the covid lockdown. Saw him out with the girl he cheated on me with, assume they’re lockdowning together. It feels unbearable.

Mate, my girlfriend has just ghosted me: no explanations, no contact - and in the middle of the coronavirus quarantine too. I can't even go out with friends to feel less lonely. Please know that you are not alone. Stay strong mate. We WILL heal 💪

Thank you sooo so much!

Possibly yes Possibly no

Thank you for your words.. i had the best girl for me and it didn't worked out.. so no one better is coming for me.. its better for me to shut the doors

@OP: Tell that to all those INCELs out there...

Thank you just getting over 6 year thrown down drian

Thank you a lot

Thank you darling. I noticed that before. The thought that each partner was better than the last crossed my mind. 💗

Wow gotta note this

Damn. I've only been in 3 relationships and recently broke up two weeks ago. And this is so true. Recent ex was amazing but she also had red flags everywhere.

@rea33 *I think my lover is going to abandon me* *I think my business will go wrong* *I think my friend will gossip about me* This baseless imagination turns on the switch of your anxiety. In this state, a logical approach is meaningless. If you can't calm down this anxiety, your imagination already becomes a reality. That is why you get anxious and impatient search youtube "paradox of I can do it"

hi! it's been 2 months and im wondering how you are doing with your heartbreak now

in a very similar situation rn

I am feeling exactly the same right now.

True

Sad but True but we need to get over it. I lost my identity and I'm trying to find it again.

True

we been knew

Yes

Feeling it right fucking now

Yes. I feel your pain . I've been there.

Staring at a blank white wall, staring at a steering wheel of my car after coming home from work. I feel it and no not fun. And some reason you want more than anything for them to call.

This is what I'm feeling right now.

i feel you

👏🎯👏🎯EXACTLY

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U right Pixie. Thank you

I need to believe that every guy i love leaves me

Yes

Yes mate

It’s like you’re strangers all over again...it’s the strangest and worst feeling ever. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone 😔

this is exactly what happened to me, it came out of no where and everything changed

This has Gemini written all over it

Kenneth N happened to me yesterday/today I’m devastated

i don’t want to have to give my body and be vulnerable to someone else. i don’t want to have to try again but things will get better. it sucks being told you’re not loved

Then there is no point in what so called love....Even they don't care we cares...That is love....

So much easier said than done...

That hurt

You’re right! I feel better

Sara Wilkinson actually not true

I know how you feel ❤

Same

Right now

GUYS nvm we're dating

@@john-ui5ee lucky

Struggling massively with heart break right now, I feel you!

Same here too!! And the painful part is suffering for something you didn’t do. All I ever did was to love her. It’s well ooo

Yeah it's called xanax. Just snort that for a few years and you won't rememeber who you are. OR just gtf over it because you're a woman and can go out and get fkd whenever you want a find a replacement at the snap of your fingers. Be thankful for your life on easy mode.

There is something it’s called apathy you never care or trust anyone then you won’t get hurt. Guess what? It worse than heart break it’s a life of dull lonely emptiness. Heartbreak is part of love

​@@Duck72432 it's dull lonely and empty even with the ability to feel and having genuine intentions I'd rather have a medicine and become numb to sadness and happiness by losing the ability to feel anything at all, being a guy and honestly loving someone is a losing game

Still doesn’t mean you can’t miss them you can MoveOn but you can still miss them.Why can’t people be friends anymore? I’m friends with most of my ex’sJust the last one I’m not

@@purdusterdoggett3134 yeah, 6 weeks into a breakup right now ( I am the dumpee ), and we both wish to be friends, we just need distance and no contact for now. It can happen! Just needs to be for the right reasons. And right now, I want her back, so being friends at the moment would be unhealthy

@@purdusterdoggett3134 often times its just too hard. Ofc you're gonna miss them. But focussing on that is often extremely painful. That's why its better to focus on yourself, your family, and your friends.

@@quartzar yeah exactly. Sometimes its too hard too early to still be friends

I can’t do that I want her so bad

You're beautiful and never forget that. Don't allow someone to take that confidence from you. They didn't want it? Then they can't have it. Just because they broke it off doesn't mean that you have to feel as if there was something about you that they didn't like. It just means that they're giving you the opportunity to find someone who is better suited for you. ♥

Emily Cheng I’m in the same boat love

A little progress each day adds up to big results. Time goes on and so will we

YOU deserve more than the world

Emily Cheng I felt this so hard

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@@proudindian9140 bro why does it matter?

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@@johedges5946 thank you for posting this. It helps a little bit to be honest. I’ve loved twice. This breakup is one of them. I’m broken.

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While he's on a journey with his new girlfriend I'm here, still getting through the pain.. it's devastating.. totally got you

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Thank you, we just broke up today . It seems like you went thru it too. I appreciate the words.

@@jasonstorey1905 it gets easier every week

@@HexadecimalDump thank you so much for this. It honestly helps. I want to be in harmony with myself. I feel so broken and shattered right now. I just want everything to be better. I guess I can start by fixing myself even tho that makes me sad to write bc I love him and I miss him and this is horrible.

The Iron Yogi - Experience Yoga ~ True, but that’s so much easier said than done. That’s why we’re all here watching this heartbreak stuff.

David Bowman yes but you have no other option . It has to be done. So you either do it now or later . I’ve seen friends let heartbreak consume them . There are so many other facets of your life to work on and experience and if you don’t have any, now is the perfect time to explore as much as life as possible . You wake up and the world is your oyster. When I see someone so heartbroken over a failed relationship it tells me that they don’t apply enough worth onto themselves . They have made the other person their world and they don’t value themselves enough to know that there can be so much more to their lives .

@@davidbowman10yearsago39 I feel the video i made on dealing with heartbreak might help you in this regard :)

Thanks, I needed to hear that.

Tell us your story.

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This hurts

I'm also broken hearted by my girlfriend. So I think I can the chance of healing your heart so you heal mine....

You’re a baddie walk down the street and you’ll find 5 dudes in love with you already, I’ll be lucky if I get 1 in a year, and a lottery winner if I find someone that stays in love after a week.

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Same

same here its killing me

Yeah 😂

I felt this, like why am I the one always hurting somehow, just makes you feel like "maybe the whole time you thought there was something it was all in your head and they didn't feel any of it," i guess love just ain't for me really. Anyways hope you are well seeing how this is a year back

@@ece-hr5fg I don’t want to either. I just don’t think I have it in me to go through another heartbreak. I really don’t. I don’t even want to take the risk.

@@trixietesfaye4683 it was horrible the way my relationship ended. He confirmed those exact things. I never knew when it changed for him. It hurts so much.

Same here. We dated for 8 months and it felt like heaven on earth for me. Our compatibility was perfect and so I started to take her for granted while I must admit that she actually invested more of her precious time and more heart in our relationship which I didn't return. When she broke up with me just a few days ago my world broke apart. But now I see the reason why. Once I won her heart I stopped investing my time and ressources into her and didn't make her happy anymore because I felt like we are already married for many years and she would just accept me as I am. I was so wrong and she broke up with me because she told me that she already dated another guy who made her happy. It hurts but I'm not innocent of this outcome...

@@JackoBanon1 same. That’s the worst part. Looking back and knowing you could’ve done better. You’re not alone , unfortunately ):

Going through this myself. It fucking sucks

Carolyn Ledesma I hope you feeling much better

Denever Broncos me too. I feel like I can’t catch my breath

@@angelawellborn839 it's been like 7 days and it feels like eternity. she was also my best friend. I dont know if she even cares enough for this to work if she did I feel like she wouldnt have hurt me like this. she has go be hurting tho I feel like the period of being happy that I'm gone has to be hitting her already idk

I actually left once b4 ik about this and when I reached out it worked. But it feels so different this time mainly me being the hurt one now

True

He said me he loves me but doesn't want a relationship anymore. He can't prioritise me now so broke up with me. Yet he texts me everyday as if everything were like before and we were together. I feel so lost sometimes, it's really difficult...

@@BluesofButterfly he broke your trust. You need to allow time for you guys to build trust up again

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She had recently ended things because she didn’t know what she wanted anymore and didn’t want to keep on leading me on cause it would only hurt me more. I recently had asked her if there is an opportunity for us still and she responded with “There is but not now”. Her past relationship had really affected her but our relationship was completely different to her her past one. We didn’t end with hate towards eachother but at times I really get my hopes that she’ll come back. She said there’s still love but I don’t know what I should think or feel.

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@@ef366 I went through a breakup a while ago and this was single handedly the reason I never went back. He was toxic. It was a long list lol

@@ef366 going through a breakup right now though. And I loved this guy. I truly did. I still do. I don’t know if anything I can put on the list except that he didn’t love me back. What should I do? I feel so lost and I’m sobbing as I write this. I know he wasn’t perfect but I can’t think of anything bad. I don’t know what to do. I miss him so much.

Natalee Denlinger they say worse

Grieve the loss of a person who is still alive

Yes I list my girlfriend my first love when i was 16 now I'm loosing the person I love again and it's very similar

Worse. When someone dies they’re gone for good. When you get dumped. They’re still out there and your mind goes crazy thinking of all the possible things you could’ve done differently. It’s the worse pain I’ve ever felt.

@@johnq7505 so true

Love is the result of investment, you probably invest so much for him

Completely understand how you feel! I felt horrible and was in denial when my ex decided to walk away after 5 years. I knew it was falling apart, but I tried everything under the sky to make it work. It took time to recover, but you become stronger and much happier without them. Just believe and tell yourself that you deserve someone who loves you.

Caren R Sabatina I understand more than you know. Xx

I 💯 feel you. Im trying to find an explanation right now no bullshit

I feel like that. I have been used , abused and betrayed. Still therez a part of me that needs to hear her voice and see her beautiful green eyes. Its like i need poison. My heart is broken , but i dont have anyone that i can talk about ir with.

It literally can't let go, even after seeing her profile pic with new guy lol fml

KingJugganaut19 thank you so much❤️

yeah tbh. It hurts... you know you moved on but seeing the other person with someone else after all that happened still has a control over you.. in time it will be all well.

@@adamfarah2065 thanks man 😃

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🙏

Rightly pointed! Such an important aspect of going through heartbreak. We are the chosen ones who are woke emotionally. So much more important is to make sure that if you've ever been heartbroken then not to take it out on your next emotional connection. Be compassionate. Just got heartbroken and deceived myself by this girl who took it to having me meet her parents and ask her hand only to completely back off last min. We had talked about our past heartbreaks and I thought she would be compassionate after going through it. Apparently, she just used me to get over her last ex. I had stayed away from relationships for the last 3 years to completely recover myself from my last.. only to fall into her trap. But I will not turn toxic. I will still open my arms and heart for the right person. I will not carry her baggage and break someone else's heart to fix mine.

Wow. Thank you. I felt an anvil left off my shoulders.

But how do you let yourself fall in love without attachment? I've been in relationships when I've realised I'm not in love and not going to be. I felt it's my obligation to end them because I felt it's unfair to the other person who has feelings I will never have. And when I've been in love, and it's always a risk that, my feelings might outlast theirs. To be in love but indifferent. Sounds like the ideal, but it also sounds impossible.

Maybe it really is because of that attachment.

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It's been 10 months and I am doing okay... I am single because now I AM NOT READY TO SETTLE DOWN WITH JUST ANYONE.. I will stay single until I find someone who loves and respect me and vice versa ... And no matter how tempting it is I will not use these boys for rebound or date just for validation and companionship.. NO.. Dont want to use or get used.

Am surrounded by tons of drugs but crying is what we have in common

Even as a kid I haven't cried as much as I did when she broke up with me...

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Literally same

I hope you got well, sweetheart

Move on! Be strong, it will pass. Until, take care of U! Trust me, it will pass. LE. Still hooked on some pain, sorrow and useless thoughts abt. breakup but better none the less. So, keep moving forward!

Im going through my second heartbreak.

I cant love myself im disgusting

@@splitaone7794 No, U are not! I'm positive abt. that. Someday U"ll love yourself again and take care of U as it should.

Phantom Alma me too. First boyfriend and first break up. And yes it’s true, I wish I loved myself more instead of depending on him. I wish I knew better because I gave him so much love, when I didn’t receive the same love. But I’m young. Life moves on, and I’ll move on.

i am sorry for u

Sadly its unlikely the case that we will find THAT someone. Have to learn to live independently

Same happened to me during 14 years, but even I achieved relief.

I hope you are doing better today. I'm starting my journey now.

@@jenynz5334 I’m doing better but I’m certainly not a 100% over it. It’s been 5 months and I have good days and bad days. I’ve tried to stay busy - it’s the down time (like today actually) that make me sad and think this whole thing could have been avoided/ or is a nightmare. But I’m starting to accept that if she didn’t want to be with me, I can’t force that. It kills me but I’m starting to value myself. I’m really sorry you’re starting your journey. I hope you can get some benefit from this video or from your friends/family.

Good for you love thinking of you I feel you I’m crying now too

I need social support

These are the exact reasons my relationship didn’t work out either

Oh my god, my gf did all of these things too😭😭😭😭

YOU DESERVE BETTER

I’m going through a tough time, I needed to hear this!

I know a powerful man that can help you to bring back your ex love back to you without delay,he was the one that helps me to bring back my ex love back to me within 3 days

Like you said my brother is head to say goodbye to someone you wish to spend your life with

@@ivynguyen8583 please take care of yourself. We get into a relationship to be happier in the first place. If that is not being catered due to any reason better to switch back to self-care/self-love mode.

@@ivynguyen8583 how about a professional?

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How do you feel now it's been almost 2 weeks, hope you feel better

Hope you feel better, these activities and the drinking may lower your pain for the moment, but the problem will just strech out. Like he said, fight the heartbreak!

Are you a pilot?

Slow your roll start working out start now or you’ll regret it when you finally start getting the results you want

Drink liquor it’s faster lmao jk

exactly, never give yourself hope, it killed me every single day. until i had to cut him out completely and find out that he doesn't care about me at all and has moved on. there is no hope when you know that he has moved on and doesn't care anymore

potatohacker I want to confess to my crush, because Ik he doesn’t like me, but I NEED to confess to him so I can hear him say it, & then maybe I’ll finally face reality...

@@EmiDucky I confessed yesterday, I knew for sure he will reject me, but I still confessed and it did happen. But you know what, the good thing is this confession helps with the process of moving on. I still cried, but this time, something's different, I try to find myself once again.

Jess A.R.M.Y awe stay strong ❤️

True. The fact I know it's all my fault for getting my hopes up makes me hate it even more

anonymous 20002001 I broke up with my girlfriend 5 days ago.

@anonymous 20002001 then you never loved. Lust is always easy to move on from. The loss of love lasts a lifetime

My thinking is:"I'll never find someone."

Its like i dont want anyone else other than her!!!

Non Care thank you

Thank you for this, you are spot on

This was my first relationship and I am so scared that it will be my last. I just want to run back to him but I know I can't. All I can think about is him and I just remember everything we did. I don't know what to do

Thanku ur words are so nice

Wow... doing that right now actually. Thank you.

😭 reading this as you cry... made me cry even more.. trying here

Praying for you

hope you're doing better now Tim.

Hey, this is late Tim. But I hope you're doing better now. You're never alone and you're never too broken to fix yourself. We're all here for each other

Same here pal

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@@trellnba176 thx for your kindness but years have passed and now she belongs to somebody else and so do I

How is your heart doing now?

@@nadaharchi8487 damn no reply

Me too girl. Me too 💔

Yes, Thankyou so much

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thank you for this 😢

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Same. Felt like I did everything I could to make the relationship works but it got to a point where he stopped caring even though sometimes he told me he did care but didn’t show it. I had to leave 😭

That’s beautiful... And closer to God, I will add 🖤

Very true

My heart never been broken by “a girl”. Only family members or friends been able to...but I’m forgiving

Wow.

All the broken hearts are here...

Damn💥💥💥❤

and here i am, crying for every damn comment 😢😅

Noticed that too.

I don’t know why but I think sad people are generally more friendly towards others.

Well that’s not reassuring. No way I can handle it

@@Leaveitalone1382 I went on holiday, made some new friends, went on some dates. It gets better my brother. Sending you love.

@@estellaa4672 as above my man✨

Man lolll im scared on day 2 now after reading this, but we all heal at different paces. Hope you are all better.

@@layoramirez4993 Monday I had a good day. Thought I was finally on the right track. Right back to wallowing in pain today. it’s been 2 months and I’m really sick and tired of being sick and tired. But I guess one good day is better than none.

i feel you man, my girlfriend broke up with me three months ago and it really came out of the blue for me. I am just now starting to feel even a little bit better but it does get better with time. I hope all the best for you and for everyone else who is going through these feelings.

I read it. Thank you.

I hope you will feel better soon, a heart break is literally the worst pain

Broke down crying reading this. I too am in a dark place from a broken heart. I’m so so sorry brother. I can only imagine what it must be like for you but we’ll get through this. It doesn’t feel like it right now but we’ve got to keep telling ourselves that. One day it WILL get better.

Wait why did I just read my relationship right now 😭😭

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Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind

Hey give yourself closure don’t expect from them.

same. I'm with you brother

Guys I made it thru the worst parts. I just want to say “time doesn’t heal” it’s just a measurement - it’s what YOU DO in that time that matters. Spend it investing in yourself and learn ways to expand your heart to contain all the love and emotions you have now. It does get better, I am proof!

It will get better man. I’m going through that rn too but there’s still a little bit of hope left in me that it won’t be like this for much longer.

I feel that. I will offer no platitudes. I don't think my situation can improve, unfortunately.

Hey, buddy! You know what? It's been over a year that my ex broke up with me. I was almost certain that I had finally overcome him, and my love for him. I actually thought, a year is enough to forget someone. I saw his picture again today. And I bawled my eyes out. Yet again. And it is the happy memories with them that are dangerous and terrible, and not the sad ones, the ones that show us the very reason the break up happened. I remember how he was grocery shopping with his roommates one day, being all funny and crazy and video calling me at the same time, notwithstanding what the world thought of him, because back then, apparently, I mattered more. He talked of marriage and children and a future together. He called me "My girl." The memories I had with him were the most magical and overwhelming I ever had. But he broke up, in some months. Reason? He still missed his ex. :) Waking up with the memories is the worst, I agree with you so completely in that. But there's much MUCH more to us than what hurt us, right? Hold on to that! As I'm hoping to do the same.

Be strong bro. Same situation right now.

Same situation, we had problems and she did things I forgave her for but this time we ended because I hurt her. Last few months I felt her getting distant and constantly asked for more effort, it never really showed up. We were together 5 years and I’m on day 5 of the break up with it being day 3 of no contact. I struggle to see the light, but I’m slowly finding it easier to fill that void as the days go. Good luck to you, you owe it to yourself to be the best you can be for yourself and one day you will be able to share that with the right person.

It is still fresh so don’t beat yourself up about how you are feeling. Let yourself grieve and cry if you need too. My partner of four years and the mother of my two year old daughter left me four months ago and is now living with this new guy . She is taking our daughter out with him for the first time tomorrow. That hurts me more than anything. It does get easier over time though I promise.

How are u feeling now brother man. Any progress

It was my colleague. She's a woman. I'll pass it on.

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This is me! It was a great momemnt of my life and all of a sudden he left me to reconcile with his ex wife.

haha this happened to me when she fell out of love

I’m going through that now

@@BheaC 😭😭😭 I'm sorry

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