How to Flirt With Women Effortlessly - Frame Control Secrets 

It makes me chuckle knowing how this is absolute gold and only Todd can tell it right

A Master Class in Frame. Frame can also be short for frame of reference aka point of view. Comedians use a change of frame to create jokes. The setup of the joke is telling a story from one frame of reference and the punch line is looking at the story from a different frame of reference. For example, a guy comes up to a girl wearing a t-shirt that says "Boys Are Stupid. Throw Rocks At Them". The boy reads the t-shirt and casually says, "That's a good way to get your rocks off." Sexual escalation done well is just a gradual change of frame from non-sexual to sexual.

best explanation of what frame is, so far

You’re really helping me. Im gonna keep going. On day 6 of my 30 day challenge. Thanks Todd

Todd, long time listener, first time commenter! The frame behind you rocks too! I see the irony ;)

Great extrapolation! Thanks 👍🏼

Last 5 Minutes are gold. Thank you Todd

Todd an idea for suture video, I can game well, do most things right. Get phone numbers, escalate correctly with right timing. Know when to slow and when to pick up. Quite laid back doing it. However when a really attractive girl doesn’t give me feedback and I’m looking at her face to gauge her emotions in feelings because they’re very attractive sometimes Their energy transmits to me maybe I’m too absorbed. But I start of thinking of ways to calm their nervousness or if they’re giving me short answers consistently I start stressing cause I can feel the set going bad and then I feel like it’s almost a burden to turn things around and game gets worse. It’s like knowing game is holding me back. If I had been during my newbie days I wouldn’t sense when it’s going bad and just game hard till close or rejection

I needed this, I'm having dates but not s3x in the first date

The what is jazz quote is “if you have to ask, you’ll never know.”

Hi Todd, what is a good way of distinguishing between shit tests and just flirty banter? Is there a grey area and, if so, how do you decide what type of response to give? I.e., whether you decide 'just pass it' if it's shit test, or continue the flirty banter? Thanks.

Todd, can you do a video on how to decrease flaking and ghosting. I’ve never seen it this bad before. I follow all of the best practices of pickup, have strong social skills, am confident, solid looking, yet still see the vast majority of my numbers flake/ghost. The scary part is even a lot of girls who show high interest during the approach and at first over text or the phone will inexplicably ghost. It’s like their buying temperature has a short expiration date. It’s a minor miracle I’ve managed to get 4 lays since early March but that’s because I’ve approached like crazy and have clawed tooth and nail for those results (and even did some online dating, as awful as it is). Obviously, the rise of OLD and social media have given women exponentially more options, which has fueled the flaking, but I’m curious if you have any in-set methods or strategies to increase the likelihood of the girl showing up for the date.

I’m just a beginner at game. Does anyone know any good forums or websites to discuss game with others? Thanks 😊

Hey Todd. I have strong social skills, am confident, can approach, good looking and overall interesting life/personality. But I feel I don’t approach enough because of my high standards for looks (in my contemptuous view), and because of that I find myself walking for 2 hours screening like hell and doing just a couple of approaches. On one hand, I feel true to myself because I don’t really like most girls and don’t want to fake interest, but on the second hand I lose social momentum and I know I will do worse on an interesting set because of my long « screening ». Hence, should I approach generally more, no matter the looks, and overall give girls a chance, or should I stick to my « high standards »? Thanks man

What to do if a girl is borderline offensive or she acts passively-aggressive towards you? The chick in question is fuck buddy of a male friend of mine, and when she talks with me she is trying to put me down, sometimes very directly. I think to start responding in the style of Patrice O'Neal but this will potentially make her angry with my friend

So basically, frame is like ‘first impression’??

How many times do you think you say "umm" in any given minute while talking in this video?

Todd can I get a woman in a wheelchair I’m 57 dark, tall and good, I approach well but not a lot of success?

Where are you at haha? Looks like a garden house or something

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Todd ,dont you think that if you are a attractive man a girl will automaticaaly chase you, whats the need to set up a frame. If a guy 100 thousand years ago, didnt need to learn frame control to get girls why do i need it.

You look puffy todd, time to hit the plates

Todd - stop swallowing when ur in the middle of talking.

Ok you just said absolutely nothing for 14 minutes staright.

You speak to complicated