Тёмный

How To Handle Long-Distance Relationships | Kingsley Okonkwo 

Kingsley Okonkwo
Подписаться 520 тыс.
Просмотров 253 тыс.
50% 1

Handling long-distance relationships are not the easiest of things and I advise anyone embarking on that journey should be able to count the cost and do the work to make things work.
Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares "How To Handle Long Distance"
--
Stay Connected
Website: ldmwithpk.org
Instagram: / ldmwithpk
Twitter: / ldmwithpk
Facebook: / lovedatingandmarriage
Stay Connected With Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo
Kingsley Okonkwo RU-vid: bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube
Kingsley Okonkwo Facebook: / pastorkingsleyokonkwo
Kingsley Okonkwo Instagram: / kingsleypst
Kingsley Okonkwo Twitter: / kingsleypst
#kingsleyokonkwo #Ldmwithpk #Londgistancerelationship #Relaltionship #PastorK #DCCNIGERIA #LatestPastorKsermon

Опубликовано:

 

3 июн 2024

Поделиться:

Ссылка:

Скачать:

Готовим ссылку...

Добавить в:

Мой плейлист
Посмотреть позже
Комментарии : 778   
@hazelmpasa907
@hazelmpasa907 22 дня назад
1) communication 2) transparency 3) shared activities, 4) discipline, 5) planned end
@FavourChina
@FavourChina 13 дней назад
It’s how I’m watching this with him same time at a distance. It’s really not easy but we are intentional. Agreeing to pray every week together and watch relationship sermons every week too. Omo,we chat and call everyday😂. The fact that we’re in this LDR makes us accountable to each other for every tiny thing we experience or come across. We sing together and practically talk scriptures all the time. Mom calls us assistant Jesus😂😂😂
@88niteowl88
@88niteowl88 2 года назад
I kept laughing when he said, "Don't look at me like that. " Lol..
@florencequaye614
@florencequaye614 2 года назад
Bring your phone along to the event! 😂😂😂 You are the one who committed yourself to LDR!
@DrLucianno
@DrLucianno 2 года назад
I feel like this video is for me. I belong to the third category. Doing my PhD in medical school in United States and my fiancee is in Nigeria. He has my time zone and there's two things I do; School and communicating with him. He loves talking and we spend two hours of his sleeping time talking and video calling. He's joining me by the end of the year for us to wed here and we've been together for four years. LDR comes effortlessly for me probably because we discuss everything and most esp we've been celibate all our lives. He enjoys reading my homework & presentation even when he has no idea of pediatric infectious diseases and we pray together sometimes. Honestly, it takes intentionality to keep LDR
@drrosewellness
@drrosewellness 2 года назад
I wish you the best dearie.
@MakaveliThaDon444
@MakaveliThaDon444 2 года назад
I'm the same too my girlfriend is from Kenya we have been together for two years now and we are looking forward to getting married this year in September we spend a lot of time talking and video calling despite the time zone but we love each other very deeply
@ibrahimyunus5291
@ibrahimyunus5291 2 года назад
How does he handle his sexual life
@doreenchambers3763
@doreenchambers3763 Год назад
Good video I love this communion.
@catherinenzebelie7374
@catherinenzebelie7374 Год назад
Llll
@insanegamer112
@insanegamer112 10 месяцев назад
LDR becomes fun when you really understand your partner. I had lots of issue but i found a better way to communicate my feelings. Through couple questions games, where you add your preferences, next your partner has to guess. Lovify being my personal favorite, we got to know a lot about each other :)
@uupeaceunique1284
@uupeaceunique1284 2 года назад
Thank you sir for this. Have been in a long distance relationship/ marriage for the last 6 years now although we make sure to spend time with each other physically yearly and by the grace of God this year will be the end to this distance. It hasnt been easy but our communication is very strong and we always pray together and for each other. Cant wait to finally be with the love of my life
@nexgenjacie
@nexgenjacie 2 года назад
Please how do you do it cos my wife to be is being transferred and I would love to learn from you so we can make it work
@jacklinejematia1852
@jacklinejematia1852 2 года назад
@@nexgenjacie mn I ⁴4⁴⁴44347445
@radhiyamwaugali7175
@radhiyamwaugali7175 2 года назад
please telle how do you managed it
@alexconfidence2354
@alexconfidence2354 2 года назад
I dont actually agree that it doesn't last when both partners come together, it depends on the individual. If you are creative at distance then you can do great when you both are together. Infact it has been proven that sometimes people need short space to rekindle their love because those who stay continually get bored a times with each other.
@uupeaceunique1284
@uupeaceunique1284 2 года назад
@@radhiyamwaugali7175 honestly I would say that it is Our faith in God that is still keeping us strong. We don’t play with spending quality time together virtually . We talk on video at least 1 hour everyday and continue to text or voice call throughout the day, our policy is apart from God we are first in each other’s life before anyone or anything else’s ,We know each other routine .Another thing we do is no matter what we always try and spend time together physically every year and when we spend time together we try to just make up for lost time. Yes plane ticket is expensive because we live in two different countries but losing each other is more expensive. And do not underestimate the power of talking about your spouse, if you are in a long distance relationship and nobody knows then there is a problem. Finally we pray every other day, we share what we are going through and pray for each other and for our relationship.
@ShengBelmonteOfficial
@ShengBelmonteOfficial 2 года назад
LDR is challenging but worth it with teh right person. Was in unplanned LDR situation for almost 2 years cause of pandemic. I’m grateful that I’m finally with him now and married a little over a month ago 🥰
@sibongilemwasile8111
@sibongilemwasile8111 2 года назад
I am glad...the passed weeks have been crazy, long distance is not for the faint hearted and requires work and effort! CHAI!
@nanatradesfx
@nanatradesfx 2 года назад
😂😂
@ifeomachudi-oji9458
@ifeomachudi-oji9458 2 года назад
Each time he says "don't look at me like that" 😂😂 I'm guilty
@darelynda6262
@darelynda6262 2 года назад
I tell you😄😄😄😄😄
@aliemansaray7707
@aliemansaray7707 2 года назад
Long distance relationships are not difficult to handle, you just need to 1= communicate through phone calls, whatsapp and video calls 2= You just need to be transparent and for any appointment you cannot meet, inform the person as earlier as possible for whatever reason. This is not too much.
@Adejola100
@Adejola100 2 года назад
Not difficult Humm🙄, I believe ure not in it, or ure a man that loves your space so much.
@sashilemla6229
@sashilemla6229 2 года назад
I thought so but eventually that wasn't enough for my hubby
@zayyadabdulazeez439
@zayyadabdulazeez439 2 года назад
Have u met sm1 who can't hold conversations, boring, always have negative thoughts and expecting the effort to be mutual even when u as the guy always have a hectic day.....like it's just a mess, I pray not to regret starting this cos it has begin to be love out of pity, I av totally fall out of love just can't run out #i_need_help
@ibrahimyunus5291
@ibrahimyunus5291 2 года назад
How do you handle your sexual life
@YeseerahALawal
@YeseerahALawal Год назад
@@zayyadabdulazeez439 oops, please get her educated on your LDR professionally preferably. And if possible you can both talk about it, and be realistic about what you both want. From there, you'll both know what to do or how to go about it. All the best.
@gtstride
@gtstride 2 года назад
I didn't know when tears almost ran down my chicks, it's really not being easy at all, honestly, I thank God for the wonderful daughter of his, he blessed me with. it is not easy. It is been God, & he alone deserves all praise, & It is soon ending by his grace.
@abobijonez2866
@abobijonez2866 2 года назад
I can't peck u on ur Cheek Baby, cus i'm far😭😭😭😭
@ofonbrillian2273
@ofonbrillian2273 Год назад
People fall in love to whom they pray, with whom they pray and for whom they pray 🙏🏾
@theresaaafa2813
@theresaaafa2813 Год назад
Whom we pray it will help
@Motun_oo
@Motun_oo 2 года назад
"Other voices start talking to your spouse when your voice is absent"👌👌👌
@erioluwaoluwadiran4860
@erioluwaoluwadiran4860 2 года назад
Thank you for this Sir. Just got into a long distance relationship from being Physical..🥺🥺..But I trust God to keep us together. Amen
@yummiesandspices
@yummiesandspices Год назад
I had a good laugh when pastor said "don't look at me like that."😂😂😂😂
@ejekwoluchinweotuto7267
@ejekwoluchinweotuto7267 2 года назад
If you're going to do long distance, have money ... Data is not cheap, all the video calls and phone calls, and other things inclusive... Relationships become alot easier when the resources are there and available
@energeticmary-jane9405
@energeticmary-jane9405 Год назад
SMH
@imeekeno7138
@imeekeno7138 2 года назад
Mine is the third type of long distance relationship… I am in canada, she is in Nigeria… it’s been tough …. I haven’t been this far away from her before 😔😔😔😔
@ogechioliver954
@ogechioliver954 2 года назад
Long distance relationships is serious work...God will strengthen us!
@shirin.lee6587
@shirin.lee6587 2 года назад
Amen
@victoriaayoola4755
@victoriaayoola4755 2 года назад
Amen
@adebolaorinayo2146
@adebolaorinayo2146 2 года назад
Great to watch...... handling a long distance relationship at the moment too.......not so Rosy to have him out of sight though...lol.....but we have both been doing well with communication......most times, we stay together on video call when he is to cook, from start to finish, talk about Sunday service experience, he handles some online stuffs for me.....he has access to my mail..........and yeah, LDR is expensive.....lol....data must be available.....I pray to join him soon and just tie this knot......lol....I love man......thanks for sharing sir
@Thinkcr8tiv
@Thinkcr8tiv 2 года назад
Please we need a video of how to handle ourselves when we are finally together after a LDR.. God bless u, sir.
@estheroluwato1119
@estheroluwato1119 2 года назад
I second this!
@thezencare
@thezencare 2 года назад
I too
@Ochiworld
@Ochiworld 2 года назад
I agree too
@opeyemiomoloja328
@opeyemiomoloja328 2 года назад
I third this 🙋
@wadzanaimabvudza8483
@wadzanaimabvudza8483 2 года назад
Yes I agree with you
@chikumbimwenda9729
@chikumbimwenda9729 2 года назад
Sir, i agree with you, LDR isnt easy, i remember texting you over the challenges i was facing in the first few months, 2 years down and i was out. Yes we had a firm foundation, 5 years in a relationship and he relocated out of the country, 2 years in LDR and we were totally two different people, not to discourage anyone but LDR is not for boys for true, its for Men, you can do it at your own risk.
@alexconfidence2354
@alexconfidence2354 2 года назад
And it's not for girls it's for women.
@happyjoycetv7677
@happyjoycetv7677 2 года назад
Amen... God bless you sir
@molokwuritaekene5325
@molokwuritaekene5325 2 года назад
I never really thought I would be in a long distance relationship but it sort of found me Pastor Kingsley. It's been 3 years plus now and you bare right it's tough and hard work. It's been topsy turvey attimes...We really need prayers and advice on this...I never thought the love of my life will be in a long distant...it's well
@okaredjebenedicta
@okaredjebenedicta 2 года назад
Amen 🙏. God bless you pastor.
@tinadolo7931
@tinadolo7931 2 года назад
Amen 🙏 thank you Sir
@Kilali_
@Kilali_ 2 года назад
THIS IS POWERFUL!!!!
@idim9248
@idim9248 2 года назад
God bless you sir🔥
@KathyLearns3
@KathyLearns3 2 года назад
We did video calls like a huge part of the day and had meals together.. its hard work but if you invest in the relationship you will be able to maintain the relationship or even make it better when you finally reunite.. Put God First
@onthego_tv7034
@onthego_tv7034 2 года назад
You’re blessing Pst K thank you 😊
@TheWanaBeChef
@TheWanaBeChef 2 года назад
Thank you P k You hit very key points
@manirakizajeanne3365
@manirakizajeanne3365 Год назад
I have been in long distance relationship with my husband and at first it was not easy because we couldn't handle and control our imontions I could spend long time crying when I could think of him but WHEN WE STARTED PRAYING TOGETHER WE BECAME HAPPIER Thaks to Jesus
@uniquelypeter
@uniquelypeter 2 года назад
Thank you Pastor K, This was good!!!
@tomisinakomolafe3904
@tomisinakomolafe3904 2 года назад
Thank you sir, this hit so differently listening to this. God bless you sir
@adwoabeautty3592
@adwoabeautty3592 2 года назад
Oh my God , thank you 🙏🏾
@julietteomamuli5322
@julietteomamuli5322 2 года назад
This was impactful
@odosaoghagbon2567
@odosaoghagbon2567 2 года назад
This is helpful 😄thanks for sharing
@bloomsekure8854
@bloomsekure8854 2 года назад
I was in a LDR,we meet sometimes, omo he could just ghost you for days plus he wasn't a strong Christian....just ended the relationship...LDR are great if both parties work
@neriteglowskincare1825
@neriteglowskincare1825 2 года назад
THANK YOU SIR FOR THIS
@cynthianwekenta6791
@cynthianwekenta6791 2 года назад
God bless you sir
@motunrayofunmilolaolayinka2708
@motunrayofunmilolaolayinka2708 2 года назад
Thank you Pastor K.
@kemioviebo4541
@kemioviebo4541 2 года назад
Thank you pastor. This was very helpful
@QJ-Luxury
@QJ-Luxury 2 года назад
I learnt a lot thank you so much 👍
@parfaitfurnishing4007
@parfaitfurnishing4007 2 года назад
Amen, God bless you always sir
@abimboladaniel1959
@abimboladaniel1959 2 года назад
I'm so blessed, more grace Sir!!!
@mel_bella8555
@mel_bella8555 2 года назад
This is very informative. Thanks Sir 🙏🏽
@jasminewinters6456
@jasminewinters6456 Год назад
Awesome insight! Thank you!
@euniceayomide5672
@euniceayomide5672 2 года назад
Amen thank you so much sir
@graceadewole2673
@graceadewole2673 2 года назад
Thank you Pastor K
@opeyemiomoloja328
@opeyemiomoloja328 2 года назад
Thank you so much Sir..... I really needed this right now
@chidinmajudith7679
@chidinmajudith7679 2 года назад
Thank you very much Pastor.
@ruthmorgan2333
@ruthmorgan2333 2 года назад
Amen. Thank you Sir
@ezehjennifer324
@ezehjennifer324 8 месяцев назад
Amen!!! Thanks so much sir
@doreenchambers3763
@doreenchambers3763 Год назад
Communication is the key for all relationships.
@TheDebbieSpeaks
@TheDebbieSpeaks 2 года назад
Very insightful. 🙌🏼
@janeumerika7779
@janeumerika7779 2 года назад
Amen, thank you sir. God bless u
@luckyaghedo3920
@luckyaghedo3920 2 года назад
Another great message from K.O. you're a role model.
@Esther-vr8fc
@Esther-vr8fc 2 года назад
Thank you so much for this. I've definitely learnt something
@dvmerciee
@dvmerciee 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing this sir👏🏽😊
@malvin_gaming
@malvin_gaming 2 года назад
👏👏 so real.
@lekomabeke6552
@lekomabeke6552 2 года назад
Amen... Thank you Pastor K.
@kafunyakaswilo6634
@kafunyakaswilo6634 2 года назад
That don't look at me like that😂😂got me and made me fill guilty.
@chenaimatowe3569
@chenaimatowe3569 2 года назад
Thank you so much, Pastor Kingsley. Just what I needed to hear. I am grateful!
@akinseteoluwasileola5714
@akinseteoluwasileola5714 2 года назад
I was blessed !
@olukunmidamilare3293
@olukunmidamilare3293 2 года назад
Thanks so much for this, really an eye opener.
@carole5765
@carole5765 2 года назад
Very impactful 🙏🙏🙏😊thank you
@phillipine1
@phillipine1 3 месяца назад
'Go with your phone to that event 😂😂😂' Past. K, you make learning about relationships very easy and practical. LDM is a blessing 🙌 🙏
@guswanki1524
@guswanki1524 2 года назад
Amen Sir, I was so blessed. Thank You
@koupheshishi3550
@koupheshishi3550 2 года назад
Thank you sir🙏
@yiwo-numenyi-nnely-shey
@yiwo-numenyi-nnely-shey 2 года назад
Thank you for this video sir🙏🥰
@gloryceepee8857
@gloryceepee8857 2 года назад
Honestly just coming across this video, it helpful
@mirabelikpe229
@mirabelikpe229 2 года назад
Thank you sir this was very helpful
@maryvalerieben-edo2375
@maryvalerieben-edo2375 2 года назад
Thank you so much sir for sharing this
@iregbundahperpetual1019
@iregbundahperpetual1019 2 года назад
This is of great help. Thanks pastor
@adaezeiwuala7750
@adaezeiwuala7750 2 года назад
God bless you Pk
@nbfproduction1585
@nbfproduction1585 2 года назад
You're a blessings to this generation, thank you for all you do 🙏🙏
@praise3700
@praise3700 2 года назад
Ahhh ahhhh I don’t know if my heart can take long distance relationships, I’ll worry to much 🥺. I’d rather have someone I can smell and hug whenever I want to, atleast the same country. You’ve made me understand that I’m this way because my love language is quality time…….
@nanaabenadarkowaah1800
@nanaabenadarkowaah1800 2 года назад
I feel you girl💔
@ijeomaobike
@ijeomaobike 2 года назад
This so me....
@foyinlolasworld6072
@foyinlolasworld6072 2 года назад
❤️ beautiful points sir
@enikanoseluolusegunpraise
@enikanoseluolusegunpraise 2 года назад
Thank you so much sir 💓💓
@edetedidiong1357
@edetedidiong1357 2 года назад
God bless you sir, this was very informative yet hilarious. More grace to your ministry
@ngozioffor1204
@ngozioffor1204 2 года назад
Thank you Pastor for blessing my day🙏 this teaching is very impactful
@bisiriyurukayatabiodun3833
@bisiriyurukayatabiodun3833 2 года назад
Yes oooo. Mama is amazing
@ekondoseraphine5363
@ekondoseraphine5363 2 года назад
Thank you sir, amen
@philosdelights2933
@philosdelights2933 2 года назад
Wonderful advice !!
@kathymutale1419
@kathymutale1419 2 года назад
Im so blessed
@olamidewilliams5638
@olamidewilliams5638 2 года назад
Pastor K Is always a blessing.Thank you so much Sir
@ernestappert
@ernestappert 2 года назад
Powerful insight... God bless you
@daniabelmukete3217
@daniabelmukete3217 2 года назад
Thank you pastor
@darelynda6262
@darelynda6262 2 года назад
God bless you Sir.
@olaiyamoyor4605
@olaiyamoyor4605 2 года назад
Thanks so much sir
@janicehowell2164
@janicehowell2164 2 года назад
You are a real blessing to the world pastor
@footballchampions1512
@footballchampions1512 2 года назад
God Bless You 🙌🏿
@ampahgifty820
@ampahgifty820 2 года назад
May God bless you so much hallelujah 🙏🙏 🙏🙌
@goodluckosato3232
@goodluckosato3232 2 года назад
Thanks alot for opening my understanding sir.
@kopasam7662
@kopasam7662 2 года назад
Yes ooo it's adding value.. thank you so much
@jennypeter2449
@jennypeter2449 Год назад
Thankyou Sir...Amen
@gladysamu5456
@gladysamu5456 2 года назад
Thank you sir God bless you
@abolarinoluwafolakemi9269
@abolarinoluwafolakemi9269 2 года назад
This has been impactful . Thank you for sharing this PK....
@ritaagbor7487
@ritaagbor7487 2 года назад
amen. Thank you Sir
@Official_Vickkhie
@Official_Vickkhie 2 года назад
Thank you for this video,I am really blessed
Далее
Gonna tell my kids this was Spider-Man
00:27
Просмотров 18 млн
ОВР Шоу: Русская баня @TNT_television
12:06
Китайка и Пчелка 5 серия😂😆
00:20
Why Your Man Is Not Talking To You | Kingsley Okonkwo
32:09
How To Know The One | Kingsley Okonkwo
19:56
Просмотров 447 тыс.
How To Know If He or She Really Loves You.
12:00
Просмотров 1,4 млн