How to help anxious kids who are behaving 'badly' with Stephen Terrell

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NOTE: This is a re-release of one of my most popular interviews and we are re-running it. The original was released on Dec 6, 2016. You can find the original here: • How to help anxious ki...
If your infant, child, teen, or adult child is struggling with ‘bad’ behaviour that you can’t seem to fix or change, please watch this interview with my friend, mentor, and colleague, Stephen Terrell. Be sure to watch till the very end when he shares a personal message of hope for all parents.
To learn more about Stephen and his work, visit his site: www.austinattach.com/
Resources to complement this vlog:
► How to help children who have anxiety, depression, and ADD
irenelyon.com/2020/02/23/how-...
► Helping the kids starts with healing the adults
irenelyon.com/2021/08/29/help...
► Why parental nervous system regulation is essential for anxious kids
irenelyon.com/2022/12/04/why-...
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My website is a wealth of information, free resources, and information on how to start this work, so here it is one more time: irenelyon.com

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@eleanor4759 9 месяцев назад

Coming out of functional freeze is intense to say the least. Not for the faint of heart. Very much the full spectrum of sensations, including things you didn't even know you could feel. Deep discomfort/pain/sadness as well as deep joy/love/peace. You're finally sensing everything that you've suppressed throughout your entire life (and potentially past lives). It can be a wild process and requires immense self trust to not crazy-make yourself and become frozen again. I totally get why people are so quick to numb out, but it's totally worth it to process all your survival stress. One thing that saddens me is that expressing all of this, whether it be dysregulation from your past or present-day triggers, can feel so incompatible with modern day society. People can often interpret this way of being as bizarre which can be isolating. It really is a totally new lens through which to view life and requires you to throw out the script of much of what you believed to be normal and healthy. Thanks for all the work, Irene and team!

@GodiscomingBhappy 9 месяцев назад

totally agree with you

@maryjordan6124 10 месяцев назад

Skip to 13 minutes for symptoms of disregulation in children.

@nerudaad 10 месяцев назад

What a profound discussion. Thank you!

@maryannribble3254 4 месяца назад

Wonderful!! Thank you Irene and Stephen !!😊

@jmayed 10 месяцев назад

I could listen to you both all day.. thank you so much for this.

@kathymclaughlin3327 10 месяцев назад

This was so very helpful! I will probably need to listen again but well worth it. Thank you!!!

@penelopedurkan1681 10 месяцев назад

Thank you Irene. It was very interesting to recognise how many times I became dysregulated and how many flashbacks I experienced while listening to this conversation.

@jenoop60045 10 месяцев назад

I second that 😂❤🎉❤😂😅

@dawnstauffer797 10 месяцев назад

Thank you, friend, for sharing your experience watching this video. 😅 I too felt some into times I felt helpless with those I wished to trust. We are fortunate to have this information & opportunities 🙌. Thank you, Irene and affiliates. Watching 👀 this, I fantasized that I had these people in those memories instead of what was. 🎉

@mmiller1011 7 месяцев назад

This is pure GOLD. Boom! I am that parent that thought I/we provided a great home and childhood. Our children have estranged us and we were blindsided and evicerated. Now I get it. We transferred our childhood traumas which were real. 2nd BOOM At the end he talks about how he is training parents to create this safe environment for their children. What if we recreate/heal ourselves with some of these techniques he teaches to parents? I’m 66. My parents are on their way out and cannot heal this. 3rd BOOM What if we have an opportunity to reconnect with our adult children and they allow us to reenact for a weekend this safe childhood home? I wonder if that is a pathway for them to stop this generational BS? 4th BOOM My mother, for vanity and imposition reasons admittedly CHOSE not to nurse me as a child. She has always told me she didn’t want to, and how ugly I was at birth. My head was pointed, my complexion was red and my legs looked like golf clubs. I over eat. I get it Thank you both. I feel like I have pointed toward a new path.

@northstarearthstar 9 месяцев назад

This is so helpful ty.

@ashumsmashum 9 месяцев назад

this guy is just brilliant!

@SpiritualTarotGoddess 9 месяцев назад

Your trauma and somatic healing is the best out there. My unsolicited advice is start video sooner. And edit a bit more, all to increase exposure. Also graphic editing. Wow ur work is absolutely beautiful ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@yvonneudaeta7123 7 месяцев назад

Thank you.

@ginamadeo8501 10 месяцев назад

Could you recommend someone for 12 year old boys in Vancouver? A friend's boys have had birth (and womb) trauma and have ADD and other issues as well as diagnosed with some medical issues recently. Thank you for this interview.

@mysticjojo5700 9 месяцев назад

This would be great if there was an online training program vs attending physically. This information is so helpful.

@mysticjojo5700 9 месяцев назад

Also are there books recommended that go over what is being spoken about in respect to children?

@IreneLyon 9 месяцев назад

Hello, Sophia from Team Lyon here. Some of Irene's book recommendations, not specifically for children, but the advice applies to children as well irenelyon.com/2020/05/17/books-i-love-plus-an-open-heart-surgery-analogy/

@maryjordan6124 10 месяцев назад

31:50 how to help you child

@sparklehorseangelhalo 8 месяцев назад

If you look at these comments- word, "aroused" can be triggering. Let's find another word... "eat me alive," also...

@ZFabia2010 7 месяцев назад

I find. This whole channel very triggering. Yes those words are ridiculously inappropriate, we are dealing with. Hurt peaple. It's so insensitive. And some it's users are also condescending, if answering a comment being left. Have a good one.😊