Your a 💯% right ! Me I never had My hand held yet . Just waiting for a guy to do with . Two of the best places to hold hands is at a park or a Mall . I’ve been to Malls I’ve seen others doing it . The reason I say parks & Malls is because it gives you privacy & nobody knows you & you don’t know them . So Yeha
@@Wiseoldgeezer75 So go to the mall at midday or to the park after dark, when there would be less people around! (Trust me, I'm an introvert so I know how to avoid big crowds!)
I've learned from RU-vid: 1how to talk to a girl 2how to ask a girl out 3how to hug a girl 4how to hold a girl's hand 5how to kiss a girl 6how to cuddle with a girl Now all I need is a girl that's into me......
That feeling of holding your girl's hand while walking together, talking and laughing aimlessly, is something that can't be described in words, its a different feeling altogether.
I had a really romantic date with my gf. We were at the park (which was pretty high off the ground) and we were holding hands while cuddling a bit and it was just amazing
Tripp Advice hey tripp my brother got a death note from the anime ''death note" and he gave it to me and i have a friend who's birthday is coming up and i showed her and she loved it and im thinking if i should give it to here for her birthday in September.but i think things mighf get weird sense we're friends
How to touch girl hand >buy manual car >get her in car >"I'm going to teach you to shift" >put your hand on top and guide >>>"I am going to" vs "do you want to?"
10/10 guaranteed smoothest way to hold a girl’s hand for the first date is offer her your arm when leaving a restaurant, bar, etc. wherever you’re walking to together and then sneakily after a few mins go for her hand if she hasn’t already gone for yours herself. Has never failed me once
My first time holding hands was weirdly not awkward i was sat watching tv with him and we were laughing at something he said he high fived me and we just kinda didnt let go? Its funny but it was nice
Not sure when I'll ever get a chance to ever even do this. I'm 38 years old, still a virgin, never dated and never even held hands with a female in a romantic way before. Maybe one day in the next ten years if I still have never found a female interested in me, I may have to go to a surrogate and have this done. It hurts seeing dudes much much younger walking together with girls and holding their hands. I feel jealous and something I've missed out on in life . Heck just walking together with a girl is something I've never done before, not counting the times I've been on ruck marches in the army . Again, I'm here crying about the fact I'm almost forty and never held a girls hand, much less losing my virginity and other things.
@@lllla7624 you don't get it. If I went to a hooker that wouldn't change anything other than no longer being a virgin. It would still be the case that that would be the only way to get sex is to go through a hooker. Also Im sure a hooker wouldn't want to do anything other than just lay there since the only reason she'd be opening her legs for me is because I'm a john. She wouldn't be into me the same way a woman would be if she were really interested in a dude and giving herself up for him. She wouldn't want to have anything else to do with me. I can't date or hold hands with her either because it's not intimacy at all. You and others like you who would say something like "just get a hooker" just don't understand. I wouldn't expect you to since you've most likely not only lost your virginity at the absolute latest by your early or mid twenties (most likely in your teens but I'm saying absolute latest) but you've most likely also been on tons of dates, held hands, etc and you are probably (or have been) married and you might have a kid. You just don't understand.
I'm in the same situation. I think we should focus less on what we don't have -women - and more on what we do have, because life can still be beautiful without a romantic partner. Spending our lives being miserable is a waste of valuable time. Just try to enjoy life, my guy.
the girl like holding hand slowly ! >~< actually still holding hand make me blush just seeing it ! >~< it's more protected and precious to me ! damn I am too weak ahahah thanks for tips!
Great advice! Personally, I think doing the cup is better for the first few times you hold hands, or in more casual situations, whereas interlocking fingers is better for very romantic situations! I prefer NOT to go for a kiss while holding hands, though -- when going for a kiss, I want to put my hands around the girl's head (and likewise, I want her to put her hands around my head or neck as well), it feels MUCH more romantic that way!
one time we were walking in the night and my date wanted to hold my hand and I said "no that's not my hand", she is has not spoken to me since. I don't know why
I first held hands with a guy I'm interested in a few days, and he was legit so smooth. He was just laughing about something and took my hand and then didn't let go...
I hope you read this because i have ran out of hope. I am 28 and have had no luck in dating, I mean 0. I have watched many of your videos also many of the other motivational and pua channels here trying to get help and advice. I have noticed that pretty much all of you guys are above average, good looking guys. I have seen all the videos about looks and confident but the truth is looks do very much matter. Im short, skinny, have a big nose, receding/thinning hair. I have no good features whatsoever. I work a good job and I am confident in that aspect also around family and friends but with women absolutely nothing. I live in Vancouver and there are many good looking women here but majority of them are with tall, good looking guys. I have tried approaching women with tips you and others give about how to talk and being confident and still nothing. I tried all the dating apps and even after about a month did not get a single match. I tried all the dating websites and didn't get one response back and I was on there for months. I have come to the painful truth and realization that dating and meeting women is not for everyone and I have to live with that.
I thought I would never have this experience, even though it's something I've always wanted to do. I'm happy to say that I was completely wrong. Someone asked me out two weeks ago, and I'm not sure whether she wanted it to be a date or just wanted to spend time with a friend. We were sitting next to each other, and I said, "Do you want to hold hands?" thinking that she would be creeped out and say no. But I was wrong. She said yes. She then asked me whether I hug, and I said yes, and so I also got some big hugs while we were on our date. It was magical and romantic. It's everything I dreamed it would be, and I will always have fond memories of it. I want to have my first kiss with her. It might not happen, and I might never get to experience kissing. But hand holding and hugging have always been on my bucket list. No one can ever take that away from me. Something important in this video that you missed is that you should ask first if you are going to do something affectionate. If it's a person you've never kissed, you should ask first to make sure it's 100% consensual. People are going to say it's unromantic, or it could make your conversation awkward. It might, but an awkward conversation is a lot easier to get over than a nonconsensual violation of someone else's personal space. Being a gentleman is important. It shows that you are respectful of boundaries.
I'll just say, I have a platonic female best friend. Holding her hand is not romantic to us. We don't see each other very often, and when we walk to the park together I'll either lock arms with her or hold her hand as we're walking together. Holding hands with my female best friend makes me feel safe ❤ For us there's no romantic love here, we are just really close as friends and I show platonic affection to those I am very close with.
Okay so she's having trouble holding because of a touch barrier. Would it be cool if I did something like fake trip and grab her hand as she helps me up and I just not let go. Pretty sure she'd laugh at the attempt, but is that going too far? Touch barrier stuff, idk anything about it.
Artur In the middle of a chat conversation, say "you're easy to talk to." Think about how you would feel if a girl said that to you. That's a good start because she gets a good impression on you. And then go on from there. Good luck
Arad Mofidi Okay so heres an update. I looked for a girl that speaks russian just like me and she found me. She found me on a dating app and I decided to chat with her on her instagram profile. Whatever. She looks beautiful She replies right away But she is boring as hell. She is 21 but she seems to me like she is 16. A very boring person. Her hobbies are shit When I ask her what she did today then it sounds boring At the weekends...boring. bars, chilling, going out. I dont want to give up now cause its just the first day but jesus Christ the conversation with her was shit. Anyone got any tips on that? Or any life hacks or solutions or something to try out? Anything but not moving on now. Would appreciate this. Thank you
Arad Mofidi and with her it would be a lie if I said "its easy to talk to you" cause talking (chatting) with her feels like I am not her type but she also does not ignore me. I am so confused
Artur then I think you will need tips from a proffessional like Tripp. I'm not really an expert but if I were you I would tell her the truth. It's a lot better that you tell her the truth now than later because that would really hurt her feelings and you will also feel guilty. But it is your choice man
mohammed ali oh well okay if you want but if that friend I really close and you guys doesn't like each other in that way yeah that's fine nothing is wrong with it but if you are just friends then she will think you like her...
Put hand sanitizer on before, casually run hands on your jeans, carry around napkins in you pocket and when your hands are sweaty put them in your pocket and wipe it off
I had a date with this girl and it was awkward at first then after breaking the touch Barrier I holded her hand (hers on top)like you suggested not to .. she said holdon and holded my hand comfortably like your gf did in the video... It was like now I'm being in charge of the situation and l liked it ..
Here's the thing. The longer you wait, the more chance there is of her liking someone else, getting bored of you, and getting with someone else. So what I would do, is not really ask her out NOW, but wait a week or two, get to know her better, become her friend, and then go for it, but it's your choice.
Skip the become her friend stuff. Just ask her out and you will have your answer. Better to know now and move on to next girl who deserves your attention.
I think it has to do with the direction in which her joints in her arms and hands are flexed -- if her hand is on top, they're turned in the opposite direction from normal, and that feels unnatural to her!
