I’m a newly wed, can you please do a video on finding a balance as a wife between taking care of yourself, him and the home ?.. Essentially tips on becoming organized as a feminine woman. This is something that kind of worries me because I’m not as organized as I would like to be. I LOVE your videos btw ! Thank you for EVERYTHING 🤍
My moods change a lot because im not happy with our marriage, him, and how our life together ended up after 9 years. Im not attracted to him and its constant stress about money, my future, and professional life and he dont get it. He want to rely on me, i need him to give me something to rely on.
I remember when I use to doll myself up, clean the house, cook before my man got home. And soon as he came through the door. I would greet him with love and kisses. Until one day he came home and literally push me out the way and said I need to start letting him relax first before I start doing all that. Now I don’t even come to the door are care. I still doll myself and clean cause that’s what I love to do. But I can careless about what he think. These are great things for healthy, loving man, but most man or not that.
THANK YOU Dr Daf for the Vidoe. This is defiantly something I have only recently learned and it feels soooooooooo good to be cherished, given princess treatment and taken care of. I used to look at other women who's men went over and above for them and thought "how do they do it "? But its all in the art of receiving . I am an excellent receiver , when ever my boyfriend gifts me with something or treats me to something, I make sure he knows and feels that I am very very grateful and he always just wants to do more and more. TIP FOR THE LADIES...if your significant other buys you something , make sure he sees you using / wearing it as often as possible, brag to others about it if you can. Thank me later
I really love this, we really need more of this. I am not married yet but my bf says he sees the changes. Cheers to happy marriages and working to become better.
Oh my God in the Freedom part when she said us women have a reputation to preserve!!!. It hits me hard. I may not be the “controlling type “ but I considerably dislike when my husband says or does something that might be perceived “disrespectful “ in front of people.
I needed this…. I found myself getting really frustrated and stressed about now thing going in my marriage and I been having all the attitude and emotions lately. I just took a deep breath..
Michelle this was so timely, I have read books, listened to messages, watched videos...but it always makes me feel like they don't get it and are always in favour of the man. But this video really captured this issue and gave me perspective and I am inspired to inspire my husband to cherish me. That is truly all I want, to be seen, loved and cherished and it has been a battle for years. So thank you so much. I would appreciate a video on practical ways to be a finer wife without loosing yourself.😊
This was SO convicting! Can you do one on resentment in marriage? Like maybe you’ve been married a long time and have always been in the supporting role, when you were younger it was fulfilling and great, but now it feels hard and unfulfilling etc… but you can’t change the current circumstances b/c you have a child w/ special needs etc…
This is just beautiful! I definitely did the opposite of these things in the early 5 years of our relationship. I had to learn this on my own and very happy I was open to seeing his needs. Once we got married and found Christ everything changed! All of this began to happen times 10. He calls me and we do Bible study. We both show interest in what our hobbies are. Submission is so very beautiful and beneficial. It feels so good to not be in control. To be feminine and allow him to be masculine. I feel safer.😊
Hello gorgeous Dr Michelle!!! 💓💕 This broadcast was Amazing!!!!!! I’m in my singleness season and I learn so much and will apply those suggestions 🔥🔥💜💓💜🔥🔥
Hello Dr. Michelle. Can you share on how to balance giving time to your husband and him giving time to the children when he comes home from work each day, so that everyone benefits?
Hello Dr. Michelle this is my first time coming upon your channel tonight and it was such a wonderful pleasure listening to you especially on this topic. I didn't even knew you were on the internet. I am not married at this time but these insights are so helpful for my preparation of marriage in the future. As I listened intently, I was thanking God for allowing me to hear the truths you are sharing to help with a happy home and marriage. Thank you so much for the beautiful way in which you presented these very important topics to help us build our marriage relationships. God bless you.
I loved this video and your content. Thank you for sharing what you have learned about being a wife. Excited to continue to learning more about this topic of being a wife.
OMG I was looking for your videos! I watched you a couple times then I stopped watching these videos. I watched so many videos but nothing like yours! Just your voice is already so soothing! Thank you!
Thank you you have a very beautiful soul very humble, happy, Loving, and intelligent so much that you glow with beauty thank you I love this message God bless you and yours😇
Gooooood evening gorgeous 🙂 Although I’m not married but in my relationship I have come to a point of evolving, but my other half is stagnant. I start to feel drained and angry because he didn’t notice how I put so much energy into motivating him to change, after realizing that just asking him was not working. Now I feel like I’m in a better mindset and things are flowing for me in my feminine energy, he wants to be apart of my experience, but I feel like I put so much time, energy, and love into myself by my self. So when I look at him he’s the same and I don’t feel in love with him any more. I also don’t want to allow him to take advantage of the discipline I trained myself to respect. I honestly thing I have a person that just wants from the relationship but doesn’t want to make necessary changes to keep a healthy and loving relationship to last
ok so... I am not a married woman, I don't even have a man, cuz I'm 20. I still watched this video and I've been watching your videos for a while. When it comes to appearence, which is something very important and impactful in general, not only in relationships, I have a huge issue: scoliosis. I've been taking really good care of myself and I look decent and all, but deep down I am aware of my deformity. It's not the kind of back problem that can't be seen cuz it's slight, it's pretty bad (as in I should've gotten a surgery kind of bad) and it's visible. Do you have any tips on how to feel more attractive and confident in our bodies even if they're deformed? Will a high quality man even look at me, knowing what I hide under my flowy shirts? I'd love to hear your thoughts and tips on this!
Your body might be deformed but your spirit doesn’t have to be. Man are looking for someone to connect with in deep level and most the time they don’t take the look as primary element. If you take a minute to look around you noticed there’s a lot woman and men with physical limitations and defamation who are happily married , so you can find a good man as well who will love you as whole. Love and accept yourself as you are and the world will embrace you ❤❤
Hi I love your content ❤ my hubby and I aren't experiencing any passion we been together for 6 years! He tells me I'm beautiful every day but no excitement. HELP lol please. God bless 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Please, please, turn down the piano a little bit...the content is so nice and interesting, your voice is so nice to listen to, but the piano grabs the sound too much. Thank You! And warmest greetings from Prague...yes even here your video is making someones day a bit shinier! Love and respect!
As I am ‘darker’ black woman, how were you able to overcome the thoughts or challenges around darker women ‘can’t be’ or aren’t seen to be feminine? What tools or resources did you use?
I am dark skin. I think that we have to not allow stereotypes to define us. I have always been a girly girl and I grew up in a very traditional household so for me these stereotypes never made me question my femininity. It sounds like you might be scared to showcase your femininity and you just have to let go of the fear ❤
@@jemimajanvier4706 thank you so much for your help! I think you are right and God does give us the spirit of fear. Renewing my mind around this. Thank you again for your input !! 💕💕
Make sure your hair looks beautiful, that you smell delicious, & utilize natural things, like homemade lip gloss made from vaseline or a nice chapstick. & exercise to have a beautiful body.
I’m married and I don’t like having sex with my husband and he is such a good provider and loving husband but I’m not sexually attracted to him and we only used to have sex when I smoke or drink and now that I gave my life back to God I no longer smoke and drink so we are not having sex and he is getting frustrated and didn’ Doesn’t feel appreciated and I don’t want him to cheat I being praying and I know God will help but do you have any advice
Talk to him and tell him what you like and vice versa. If its a mood or hormonal imbalance why you're not enjoying it after making changes, then go see a doc!
Naaaah he still talk to ex n when his out public cannot let go of looking sexy beautiful women😂😂😂😂. Wife have to assit husband financially, need to do budgeting while most husband dont soentnon cigarettes, alchohol, gambling, weed, buy his hobbies item redicolous toy hobbies, vinyl hobbies etc n not for wifes needs. Could not even spent romantic dinner for wife. How can wife buy sexy nice clothes when wife have to give most on finance for family 😢😢😢. Anyway men cime back home drunk n smelly drinking wif friend n come home late jus want f.
