How Men Choose A Wife 

You look amazing! When I realized that men have their own very specific criteria they keep to themselves, I stopped taking rejection personally. I know of men who have met great women, but they were looking for that ONE in a woman thing in order to get married.

Am I the only person who thought this was yung Miami???? I’m like when did she get on game????😂😂😂 ❤❤❤❤

I’m glad you clarified between male biology vs male wisdom. My brother is in a relationship with a women who doesn’t view herself as attractive. I think she’s absolutely pretty. He knew her for a while and then they dated and are now in love. He doesn’t just go by beauty, but by the qualities a woman has.

Is he atrracted to her Does she actually like him Is she healed? She's positive outlooked, not judgemental, critical in your life, are you emotionally stable, no weird meltdowns, she's confident, has her hobbies, Joy, brings peace in his life Is she supportive, in his vision, sees his vision, this includes loyalty n devotion to the family. You are not overly attached to something, MOM, parents,Bestie, church,. Whether you are feminine, rest in her femininity, encouraging, supporting his masculinity, being available.Help him bring his vision in life His synergy, how you n him are able to flow.. She can commit to her role in the marriage Positive submission - A great mother Is she responsible? Does she respond to him? She is able to respond to things that are going on. She knows how to get what she wants from him. Can you respond to children, to other people of need. What qualities do you display. How does she take care of herself The most they look for is Peace! Peace as a wholesome word! If your life is not peaceful?????? Wow that Was great!💯💖 Psalm 37:4

Your dress , hair , skin, aesthetic is on point ! ❤ gorgeous!!! Wow !!! 🔥 You go girl !!! ❤🎉🌸🙏🏾🔥💎❤️😇

thank you! want to grow as a person before getting married so that i can be the best wife i can be :)

I'm currently working on making myself approachable. ❤

I used to check with my mom a lot. My husband and I lived across the country from her after getting married. I went with him and I would call her too much. -But me and my mom were never even close to begin with. Growing up, I was made felt like I wasn't good enough. I loved school, but she wasn't involved, and then I was made to work at 16 and couldn't focus on school. I was never spoken to as a person, just lectured and had about 10 chores a day. So, I must've been always looking for approval or something. After moving back to state where my mom and family are, I started clashing again with her and have kids now and realizing I need to put my foot down and distance myself a bit and not accept this. That's helped in my relationship with my husband.

This was so gooood! U really help me be a better woman to myself and my man , he tells me he already has a ring for me in the works and I'm afraid that my toxicity will push him away. Healing has been a tough road for me.

You look so gorgeous Michelle! Oozing high value woman aura 🌸

even though I dont agree with a few of the things you say, your presence is incredibly healing, the advice you give has saved me, and even just watching you without you talking would heal my brain

I clicked so fast upon seeing the title. Ready to take notes 📝

Thank you for all you shared. I founded helpful.❤🙏🏽

Thank you for this very helpful advice Dr. Daf ❤🙏🏿

Hair & makeup are on point! 👌🏽 I love it!! 😍

This was a great video. Thank you

All of these tips were so on point 🎉Ivan literally see certain examples of each in my current relationship. I couldn’t see that in previous ones. Thank you for this video❤😊

Another very informative video. I absolutely love this woman.. one of my favourite RU-vidrs

You are looking so good on this episode.

Yho, you are gorgeous ❤❤🎉!! Thank you very much for such an insightful content ❤❤❤

Great topic! Thanks for sharing this Dr Daf! 🤎🤎🫶🏾🫶🏾

Im always impatiently waiting for you to post a new content it’s always nothing but HELPFUL EVERYTIME . You should really consider providing 1on1 sessions with people to talk about those kind of things. I’d payyyy 😭

Wow this was exactly the message I needed. Thank you for delivering this message so positively, it is inspiring. I am definitely going to apply this guidance. I have recently been quite panicky because I am turning 32 and my boyfriend (34) and I do not live together yet. He is not ready for taking the next steps and I believe the reason is that I am pressuring him. It is so hard to keep on trying when I feel like I am running out of time to have a family.

YAZZZZ!!! U look gorgeous!!!!

I’m glad you clarified the kind of man because I was about to say…..😅

Love, for the last point I think you meant responsive rather than responsible but I understand your points. Beautiful video overall ❤

Thank you so much. I love your content.

this advice is absolutely wonderful bravo sister

Hi love this video ❤can we talk more about being responsible and communicating

Girl, this video is amazing! You are so gorgeous!! 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

Hello!! Great points!!!!! I love your hair!!!!! Thank-you!!!! xoxoxo You rock!!!!!

I just want to say that you look gorgeous 😍😍😍

Wow, you looking gorgeous Dr. Daf❤

This look is mwaah❤❤🎉

I’m working on my time management. It has become horrible since Covid really. I am late for dates, but I can make it on time to the gym and other places, so this is what I’m working on.

Amen my sister

Can you do a series for being in your single season or a series on self discovery or your testimony video ❤️❤️❤️

2nd. You look so gorgeous. 🎉

Thanks for this! Could we get a video on how to gracefully reject a man? or what to do when we're attracting men who aren't our type? I've attracted old men (old enough to be my grandfathers), men in their 40s, and yes some who are closer in age to me, but not at all my type. and I'm in my early 20s. I'm uncomfortable with most male attention because unfortunately my experiences growing up weren't ideal in this area. I'm asking because, as much as I want to follow these steps and find my king (or, be found by my king), the last thing I want to attract EVEN MORE attention from the miscellaneous men (respectfully). obviously its impossible to ONLY attract my king, but I'm just so wary of the attention I already get that it dissuades me from trying to grow further into feminine womanhood... which is what I want to do. I want to be whole, healthy, feminine, receptive... I've just used those traits on the wrong people when really, I wanted to say "I'm not interested" but didn't know how. Now I'm so skittish, I repel a man I actually like, who is actually a gentleman I hope this makes sense 🥲

Love this look on you! 🥰

Thank you !! You’re my confirmation ! He says God brought us together !!!! 😅😮😮😮😅❤❤❤❤❤❤

You look so beautiful Dr.Daf ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Thank you so much for this information...but where can I find those mature healed men you talk about? 😅

Where did You get the shirt? 👕 Wow

Hey Dr. DAF thank you so much for your content.. I am looking for the finer wives playlist but unable to find it linked below. Could you please direct me to the correct section.

I love your videos so much!! I really wanna get married one day and your videos have helped me grow a lot to becoming more feminine and open to finding the one. I used to be mad or sad a lot now I am learning to be more patient and loving especially after I found Christ. I practice patience with my family but I know I can do better and I always feel guilty if I get mad or am mean but ik I can be more graceful when it comes to difficult situations 😁💕

Hi Michelle, please discuss how to date. I’ve never had a boyfriend and I don’t know how to act when men are interested in me. I’d love some insight ❤

Men! Hallelujah!❤

Wow, very beautiful and timely video ❤️ I’ve learned so much about femininity and growing as a woman because of this channel, so thank you Dr. Daf. I’m currently working on femininity even through conflict and also having a positive attitude/submission throughout every aspect in my life. For example, like when at work how often am I aggravated when asked to do some I might not want to do, or even in my personal relationships with family and friends. If I can have a light in these areas how much easier will it be to have a positive and submissive attitude in my relationship. Thank you for what you do. May the Most High continue to bless you and your family ❤

Hi Dr. Michelle, did you have to go to med school to become a psychologist?

As a man , i think this information is excellent. Thanks dr. Daf

Greetings ❤

Can I anyone suggest content on Communication. I'm on a constant communication battle, and trying to learn more about it.

I'd also add a good woman is the hearth of the home. So I wouldn't recommend putting all your energy into work. It's an absolute recipe for disaster. Therefore he needs to step up financially. And the woman needs to be savvy with finances too. This is old school stuff..

I love your necklace! I looks like the sacred heart of Jesus

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Where are these healthy, mature man this days ?😅

Very gorgeous 😍

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I am literally all these things with the right man. With the wrong man, more of my masculine energy was present. You can also be all these things with the right man and not be ready yourself as a woman. This happened to me with my first boyfriend, I was the one who was not ready, especially after my dad passed away and my bf needed to mature a little, but other than that it would of ended in Marriage. My second relationship i was love bombed and this is where my masculine energy was present. But currently in a new relationship now, and as mentioned with the right man, and now that I am ready, these are all the things present. He sees it too. Its very early in the relationship, but I made it known I am dating with the intentions of long term partnership. I want the marriage, the home and children all god willing. Also prayed to God many times if this new man is not for me please remove him, but he is still here. 🙏🏽 Just remember, Love is patient, Love is kind ❤

Will you go into more detail about how we can be more clever to get what we want ? 💖

With this thought... I want to date

does point that men are not looking for, are kind relevant too. For every information expose or posted on internet does really needs to posted quite bitter, its reflected what the person whom is transmitting that a bit bitter or even resentful, does speech are or all kind of women. I don’t think being girly is excluding certain type of woman. Does kind of speech doesn’t sound feminine at all.

Hi Queen, what do you think about marrying a disable person? I have a man that is very good, intelligent and funny, but there is a probability of him turning blind at some point. I think that really would affect the roles. I am happy to know him, but sad about his condition 😢 Thank you for all your content, you really help the world ❤

I do have a question, how do you learn to respond and bond with children and babies when you’ve grown up not liking them or feeling awkward around them?

You look good ma'am

I’m single Christian girl aged 38 never married no kids been told I’m beautiful and intelligent but yet to meet the right guy just had bad luck with men in the past lol 😂 I’ve attracted to emotionally unavailable or guy with hidden red flags.., this is Christian guys too ! I desire marriage and kids before my biological clock runs out!

Teach me how to be a vegan wifey

Is it ever okay for a man to put you through intentional “tests” to see how you respond??

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This is quite random but I think constantly putting relationship business all over the internet/tic tok is a huge red flag for men I see so many women putting their partner on blast one time a woman said something about her partner and weird people who ended up finding his job trying to get him fired and it was over something stupid so please stop throwing your partners to internet wolves anything can go viral

I have a question: could the title be better: „how high value masculine man choose their wives?“ it’s because I see woman, who dress okay, but a little boring and also praise for example, that they did not put any make up etc on when they were dating their now husbands. So they did not put a lot of value onto physical attraction. And they also lead a lot. Their husbands somehow seem to be okay with. Are these man still high value?

The positive submission and owning up to your role as a wife is exactly what I’ve been lacking so far 🙈

Are you married?

Who cares…the future is not about pleasing man ladies, the future is multi relationships and men know tgat

I freaking love how in detail and in depth your videos are. I need to get back to every video and actually take notes. Thank you darling, you are a saver angel 🤍🌸