How to Know When Your Relationship is Over

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How to Know When Your Relationship is Over
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@accountabilityisadmirable 3 года назад

Don't fall in love with potential. People don't just change

@amyk6028 11 месяцев назад

Amen. Loving the “idea” of him, not him

@lauriediandrea715 7 месяцев назад

Don’t ever get with someone that is broken and hasn’t done the work to repair themselves. Because no matter how much you love someone you can’t fix them, it’s not your job. Pick somebody that you don’t want to change….

@rarebird_82 7 месяцев назад

Wow... I needed to hear that.

@teresawelcome8354 7 месяцев назад

Exactly. Or to hope that they'll eventually believe the way you do. Faith is one primary factor in relationships and if two people are not walking in the same direction, those two will end up pulling each other back and forth until at least one breaks. Ask those questions on the first date, and walk away right away if you can't walk their beliefs.

@palapalak.8907 7 месяцев назад

Fact!

@MrPretends Год назад

It’s incredible how there’s so many women going through toxic relationships and thinking their dude’s actions are normal because they’ve never experienced a true good man

@debbielockhart7762 11 месяцев назад

There are just as many toxic women ruining men's lives. Don't kid yourself.

@bluetickbeagles116 8 месяцев назад

There are no good men. Men are taught to control women and are treated like superiors from the day they’re born.

@StrizzyBlizzy 8 месяцев назад

This 100%... I can't believe this toxic guy was weaponizing her affair. It's his fault she had the affair to begin with. It never ceases to amaze me how toxic men are.

@irockuroll60 8 месяцев назад

Same for men with toxic women who never experienced a good woman.

@lauriediandrea715 7 месяцев назад

It happens gradually and continuously seems more & more normal

@shirk_slayer 7 месяцев назад

Every marriage will be tested to the point of failure; the ones that survive are only the ones where BOTH spouses are committed to never giving up, no matter what.

@nodramamomma2777 7 месяцев назад

Amen

@shirk_slayer 7 месяцев назад

@nodramamomma2777 people to day think they don't need their partner to survive so they are quick to throw them away

@nodramamomma2777 7 месяцев назад

@@shirk_slayeryes. Selfishness and me first attitude has unlived so many partnerships.

@michellemorrow7 6 месяцев назад

BUT….. one can’t just stay and go through the motions to have an actual good marriage. There are tons of bad marriages out there where people “never gave up”. Just because you stay doesn’t mean you haven’t given up. Sometimes that’s exactly what it means.

@shirk_slayer 6 месяцев назад

@michellemorrow7 some pretty have a pretty high bar for what they consider a good marriage, unfortunately. If it's not a 90's RomCom they bail.

@mistysmith8513 8 месяцев назад

OMGEEEE! This is the episode you told her to write "Cheater" down and mail it to you and then on another episode you got it and had no idea why! LOL!! She actually did it! Go Aleisha!!!

@shellthemagicdragon4646 7 месяцев назад

I saw that episode last week so that part was funny to me, too!

@shanlijerome2736 7 месяцев назад

Which one is that?!

@snarv003 6 месяцев назад

😂 I’m dying right now. That’s funny 😆

@Angela-kiss1xs 5 месяцев назад

I remember that episode too and it seemed so creepy. I hope Dr John realizes this too. It would be super unsettling to receive that thinking it is an accusation of some sort.

@nordikcajun5417 5 месяцев назад

😂😂😂 bahaha. 😹. Now I remember it too. In one episode 😂😂😂.

@krystalgardiner5591 10 месяцев назад

Niki, LEAVE. It doesn’t get better. I’m still in it and my mental health is horrible now. My self esteem doesn’t even exist. If I could go to sleep and never wake up I’d be fine with that. Don’t ever let a man make you feel like your trash. EVER.

@leahsiblerud9537 2 месяца назад

Hi. I’m so sorry for the way you’re feeling. Please please know that no matter how hard, scary, messy, complicated, you CAN find freedom and start over. There’s hope and peace and safety out there ❤️

@sabrinastratton1991 Год назад

I knew my marriage was over when I realized I was going through the motions. The toxic environment and abuse didn't help either. We had 2 kids together. I finally pulled the courage and filed for divorce. That lead to 3 months of escalated DV but I always made sure the kids were somewhere safe during this time. August 2018 got divorced and we are much happier for it. For some reason it blindsided my ex but I was working 3 jobs, going to school, raising two kids and doing all the errands, cooking and housework. He did nothing. I remember he once started crying clining to my legs begging not to leave and in hindsight this was him panicking because he was losing a meal ticket, I said I said I was still going for the divorce and he stopped crying and called me every name you can think of, I didn't react I just walked past him and out the door to walk alone.

@boston312 Год назад

the 2 of you made vows in front of God to stay married till death. You need to make amends with both your husband and God

@sandravargas9082 Год назад

Congratulations! You deserve a real quality man to walk beside you or at least rid yourself of a ball and chain pulling you down. “A “man” who doesn’t provide for his family is worse than an infidel.” You are raising your children to command RESPECT and kick losers to the curb and live their best life in good company. Be so blessed in your future!

@MaryEavey-dc3sk Год назад

This comment is for @boston 312: making vows before God to stay married till death. If the husband refused to work on the marriage also, it is abandonment. I was married for 37.5 years to a verbal abuser who saw no need to change whatsover . I thought very long and hard on this decision to leave . He has never made amends to ME. I have forgiven him but there is no continuance of our relationship because he doesnt think he has done anything wrong. My 3 children have thanked me for leaving. He was abusive the them also. They respect me more for finally leaving and stop being his doormat. I come from a family that divorce is not an option, so I didnt do it for a very long time.

@isay207 Год назад

@@boston312 🤮

@pamgodsoe9076 Год назад

So proud of you. I know my husband is happy with our marriage. Yes, he does cook. Other than that, he doesn’t work, drinks whisky and plays games. I am getting older with nothing saved because of life choices, including putting him through 2, degrees. I work 50 plus hours per week and so tired with nothing saved

@wallacesmallwood1465 7 месяцев назад

When they hurt you & no longer show concern for you .

@jpf2121 5 месяцев назад

It’s 12:39 am. Going through this right now 💔

@jessicay6692 5 месяцев назад

4:22am 💔

@Ninjasnail1926 5 месяцев назад

1:41 am 🤨

@SG-gl8ey Месяц назад

7:54pm sitting in my car because I dont want the kids to feel tension because thats and fighting is all thats left and if I stay gone the trauma is less

@amandaredeagle9572 8 месяцев назад

I hope watching this he is 11 year sober😊❤ so kind

@c.j.valentine3027 3 года назад

If the mother of those 2 small children lives in the Phx area, I will gladly clean house, do laundry, etc., to help. Praying for her!!!

@theweirdosdts 3 года назад

Me too! I'm in Peoria.

@kimsmith819 3 года назад

You are a very kind person ❤

@livingtheaz_life2029 3 года назад

I'm I'm Peoria AZ too... what can we help with? I'm part of s huge church willing to help others in need and my family

@normastrong3053 3 года назад

What a Good Samaritan you are !

@elizabethbetsy1 3 года назад

Praying for her!!!

@carnivoreRon 2 года назад

I understand what the young man is going through. I'm 70 and I learned to walk again. For me the worst part was when the braces were strapped to my legs and I was made to stand up in paralled bars. I fell quite a few times. Over 40 years later, I'm doing crossfit and yoga. Don't give up. Please, don't give up.

@Jkaye13 8 месяцев назад

You are an inspiration! Keep on keeping on!

@Christian-gb8zf 8 месяцев назад

Yes this! I have a similar story ❤ Andrew can do it

@aprilchow-chee5281 7 месяцев назад

I hope he reads this 🙏

@saeedahugie8395 6 месяцев назад

What a beautiful simile. I ❤it

@sarahsavesit 3 года назад

"I can do anything for a day..." amazing words, John! CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR SOBRIETY!

@shelleykapp9637 Год назад

I love this....I'm going to steal it!! I can do anything for a day....lunges and squats here I come 💪

@spookmagooked3017 7 месяцев назад

It may sound stupid but I never fully understood exactly what it is about "take it one day at a time" that makes a challenge easier to overcome, until it was laid out like that: "I can do anything for a day" and better yet when he said, "I can do anything for an hour, for a minute." Simple yet empowering!

@sterterous 3 года назад

Congratulations James on staying sober for 9 years! Loved that you rang John. So cool.

@SarahBurnette1007 5 месяцев назад

My heart goes out to the 2nd caller who had his feet damaged and is disabled. Prayers for your healing friend 🧡 ❤

@nicholelesassier1799 3 года назад

Nikki, I lived your life. I stayed for 15 years. It doesn't get better. LEAVE!! For yourself and your boys! By staying you are showing your boys that this is a way a man treats a woman. Trust me my kids are now 26,24, 22 and I see how staying hurt them. We all want WHOLE relationships, this is not one. Please trust me on this. Leave and don't look back. Wishing you all the best.

@aimeerebecca1 Год назад

Perfectly said. Tragically, I stayed for a few more years, even knowing that. It is unfathomable how far we will let this go. So very sad.

@blueseptember2174 Год назад

Can you tell how staying hurt them? I want to know I made the right decision and it helps to hear from those that have been there.

@lmiller1413 Год назад

Agreed. I regret staying. I showed my kids poor role models for marriage. And his actions, his lack of support, and criticism wasn't good for me or the kids. I regret marrying him, and I regret staying.

@lmiller1413 Год назад

@blueseptember2174 the kids have very little self esteem. They talk about walking on eggshells around their dad, even as adults. I know my son treats his fiance like buddy, not like he should. My daughter is depressed and has a hard time getting out of bed, even as an adult. Me too. I eventually went and got another job and got my own place. But still return from time to time for business. Every time I'm back, I can't get my work done because it's all about him. He prioritizes himself with access to the bathroom etc. he gets upset when things don't go as planned. He is yelling even when I'm on a business call. It's just a reminder that I was very young and stupid, even at 30, when I got married.

@ashleejessop1293 8 месяцев назад

I am still in that life, I hope Nikki ran far, far away

@melraggedy 6 месяцев назад

Cheating on somebody really hurt it’s hard to forgive someone

@champagne4bfast 3 месяца назад

Ah ha. The algorithm brought me to the origins of the pink note that simply said “cheater” and Dr. J couldn’t remember why it came in the mail 😂

@angeliquemarquez6549 8 месяцев назад

Omg the last caller I'm crying . I'm in a similar situation. My husband says I looked better before I got pregnant . He constantly tries to tell me what to do. No respect. His advice hit me hard. Thank you John

@Sarah-bn1hg 7 месяцев назад

This is why I’m scared to start a family

@shashamarie4760 6 месяцев назад

Leave him now. I'm 7 months into a marriage. I wish I didn't spend a second.

@woboznz 6 месяцев назад

Just curious did he show any signs of this kind of behaviour towards you or this type of misogyny towards other women before you got pregnant, or did the pregnancy flip a switch in him?

@angeliquemarquez6549 6 месяцев назад

@@woboznzNo he didn't show this before I got pregnant. He doesn't have a great relationship with his mother because she put him and his siblings through hell. When I had the mood swings while pregnant he would say I was mean to him and honestly I wasn't . He didn't care to understand what women go through when I tried to explain it

@angeliquemarquez6549 6 месяцев назад

@@shashamarie4760It'll be 8 years of marriage this year . 10 years together total.

@SandraStachowiczLtd Год назад

Andrew, my man, your innate value as a human being does not end where your legs end You have so much more to offer to the world than just your legs You have value simply because you exist

@ldaniel2023 6 месяцев назад

When you hear other people’s problems, makes you realize your own problems aren’t that bad. Grateful for this channel. 🙏

@heidibonjour Год назад

To the young man, I became disabled in my 20s. Doctors stuck needles in my feet , tried all sorts of therapies, and I am still (in my 50s) an ambulatory wheelchair user. I walk, I use scooters, knee scooter, wheelchair as needed. My feet get better and worse, but I am limited. I have had to find work and income streams that work with my body. Also, I DO NOT DISCUSS MY HEALTH WITH MOST PEOPLE! I ONLY discuss it with people who LISTEN TO ME! Other people do NOT know what I need! Grieve and be angry as long as you need to! Find a therapist! Create your own life

@blueseptember2174 Год назад

Such wonderful advice here. Thank you ❤

@suadasuehuseinovic2472 21 день назад

Great advice, and yes I’m definitely rooting and praying for him 🙏🏼 ✨

@crazeekids9744 3 года назад

It’s doesn’t take 6 years to figure out if you want to marry someone. On a side note, I tell my girls ALL THE TIME to be careful who they have babies with. If you marry someone, you can always get a divorce. If you have a baby with someone, you are stuck dealing with them (in most cases) for at least 18 years.

@unnamedchannel1237 2 года назад

It may not of taken you that long but everybody is different and everybody is in different circumstances.

@milenarivera4956 11 дней назад

Actually, it’s forever. That person will affect your children’s lives forever.

@illuminaci3077 7 месяцев назад

Nikki laughing probably cause she didn’t feel like she could cry is so sad. I wish her and the other callers the best of luck 💙

@elizabethramos1325 6 месяцев назад

Nikki, my love, after a 20-year relationship and him emotionally abusing me just like your BF is doing to you. Is not ok leave baby leave for you for those babies it's the best thing don't waste another second on him. Because he will find someone else and leave you when he can't take anything else from you. You are a beautiful mother and you deserve the world! You can get through this and more. ❤❤❤

@neogbfe3587 6 месяцев назад

Never understood individuals that stay tied to an ex partner. Heal and separate, have integrity, and respect for yourself and others. No breaks, space or trial separations, take a risk and develop some courage to move on.

@MS-ns4ki 6 месяцев назад

Co dependency 911

@Averybean98 5 месяцев назад

🍪

@martinab2055 3 года назад

Nikki is a kind of friend who asks for advice but never acts on it. Know your worth girl 🤦🏽‍♀️

@fromthedeskofAngieEmm 3 года назад

If Nikki ever reads these comments, I hope she realizes that she deserves more than that poor excuse of a boyfriend! Someone who’s worth your time will not talk to you like this!!! You CAN make it away from him. You can’t burn brightly if someone is always putting out your flame. ❤️

@janettetimms8650 3 года назад

💯

@Danny-sx6cj 2 года назад

Agreed. Dude seems like a scumbag. Why hasn’t he proposed?!

@OfPsalmsandHymns 2 года назад

Yes!!! 💯

@jamidouglas4083 2 года назад

Preach!!

@shady1234shady 2 года назад

It was so hard to hear her tearing up on the call! Poor girl, and the laughter is almost nauseating too like she doesn’t understand the gravity of how he treats her

@miguelhernandez7652 2 года назад

Wow. Incredible part when he speaks with battling PTSD, Anxiety, & Depression after becoming disabled in an accident. I pray for him. Stay strong brother. Love you from Wisconsin.

@DNICHOLEP Год назад

The last caller is 1000% not leaving her baby daddy. Good luck to her.

@bobbylacy2374 Месяц назад

She doesn't believe she deserves better...yet. She's young. She will have enough one day and finally believe she deserves better. I was her. 😊

@JS-tv8sf 2 года назад

I hope the mother with the two kids listened to every word you said and left that creep.

@vixxcottage 3 года назад

Andrew I am an old nurse. I had thousands of different patients. I had a patient that was run over by an 18 wheeler. He had so many problems with nerves and bones and unable to walk. After 2 years he returned working his business of home improvement and construction. In fact when I visited him for wound care he was trying to assist me with a kitchen remodel! Keep your mind focused on the prize. Compartmentalize your pain. Believe me I understand. John gives such excellent advice. By the way the guy I sited was only 3 years older than you.

@LoveLove-pj8oi 3 года назад

Lovev's life true love Never die I know a great and powerful healer that can get back your ex or crua without delay Just forever within 48hours he helped me too immediately

@LoveLove-pj8oi 3 года назад

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@LoveLove-pj8oi 3 года назад

massage him on WhatsApp

@blueseptember2174 Год назад

Nurses are so wonderful. Thank you for your service ❤

@vixxcottage Год назад

@@blueseptember2174 thank you.

@tinam761 3 года назад

Dear One with the two little ones ... 2 children & 6 years is long enough. It doesn’t appear he wants to be in it for the long haul. PLEASE recognize your worth! And your kids too. Wishing he’d mature and respect you will not make it happen. I know this from experience... I’m completely embarrassed to say I stayed with a man that promised he wanted to marry me for 9 years! Don’t make the mistake I made. His lack of ability to see your value is NOT your fault. You CAN have respectful love in your life. It will be hard ... but you CAN do it! My love and prayers are with you. 🙏🏼💕

@nancyorkeithm1518 3 года назад

☝️

@marvinanthony1172 3 года назад

I can never understand why you women expect men to see this so called value in you. You are not seeing you from his perspective. Perhaps he does not see the same "value" you see in yourself. Instead of assuming that you're valuable to him, try asking him pertinent questions about how he sees you and perhaps you will find out that you are not as valuable as you think, or he's not seeing what you think you are projecting. Coming from a good place. Stop assuming. Ask questions.

@salma_Nella22 3 года назад

@@marvinanthony1172 facts! You cheapen your “value” when you stay with a man based on assumptions. Always figure out what their intentions are and don’t assume that you are beneficial to everyone. You are not entitled to appreciation from someone that doesn’t appreciate you

@marvinanthony1172 3 года назад

@@salma_Nella22 I concur. "you are not entitled to appreciation from someone that doesn't appreciate you". Well said!

@Danny-sx6cj 2 года назад

John handled this call well

@rachelgooden9981 3 года назад

I love how Deloney dealt with Andrew’s case. I feel so sad for Andrew’. I heard the pain in his voice. I’m sending positivity his way . I hope he catches a break. Sigh. I hope he’s with the Ramsey programme and doesn’t have financial issues to make things worse.

@Danny-sx6cj 2 года назад

💯

@debbielockhart7762 11 месяцев назад

People don't have to follow Ramsey to be financially well. I disagree with a lot of Ramsey's methods.

@Christian-gb8zf 8 месяцев назад

I was 28 and had my foot and ankle were crushed by a car. It was just one of them, not both. It took 5 years. I will never run again. But I can walk normally, I wear compression socks and I currently work on a farm. You can really do whatever you believe you can. Move more and more! It takes YEARS. You can do it! I believe in you.

@danikathacker8549 7 месяцев назад

The man in the wheel chair is so anointed and called by God. And those suicidal dreams are an attach from the enemy. He needs to pray like Job, and then heal and start working in his calling. That’s how you KNOW you’re called by God is when the enemy tries to take you out.

@nancyt6895 3 года назад

Dr. Deloney is doing some really good work. He keeps getting better and better.

@gabriellacallahan2649 Год назад

I greatly empathize with the man who has been injured. I have dealt 20 years of pain from an automobile accident. My ❤ goes out to his situation.

@LOADING...o.o.o 7 месяцев назад

@29:41 Writing down is such a great advice. My sister told me to write down my trauma backward/opposite. I used to have trust issues. I wrote down, "I'm healthy, I trust in men, and I trust my boyfriend." Now it helped me a lot.

@nikicrowe2768 7 месяцев назад

Nikki in Seattle-if you ever read this I really really hope you got far away from this manchild! The seven minutes that you were on air on this episode showed more of your soul and personality than anyone I’ve ever heard. Please know that you deserve better, much much better. My kid are now 16 and 11. My house is still a mess half the time..ok MORE than half the time. You deserve somebody to come home from work and see you and his beautiful children and know that is what really matters. Not the clutter, or the dishes, or the toys… that’s probably one of those guys that says he’s “babysitting the kids tonight “… No.. that is called raising and feathering children, not babysitting them. I’m so sorry for the pain that you had in this episode. I hope by now you are far from it.

@laurahano7448 3 года назад

Andrew in Los Angeles: Wishing you luck in finding your new purpose.

@joanntebo2835 3 года назад

I felt for Andrew because I have watched a family member who was vital, active and a force to be reckoned with, deal with a spinal cord injury that has left her a quadriplegic. She has fought pain, depression, doctors and caregivers who did little. Some even told her she would not live 5 years - she would likely die of infection. Fast forward, her husband takes great care of her. She has a few good doctors. They travel. She has an ATV that is rigged with a harness and adaptive tech to let her few arm muscles that work let her drive off road. She has done a tandem sky dive. (Her former spinal cord advisor did too, and asked, "What's gonna happen? I already broke my neck!") Her good advisor told her to get well over the next two years. Then, have something to do and to work for. Andrew, there is life ahead! It can still be an adventure.

@constancemiller3753 3 года назад

I respect how Andrew and John had a real conversation about moving on versus sitting down. 🐢

@Mrs.Buttercup_ 3 года назад

I have to say... every time I wash dishes I say to myself it's time to listen to Delony.😂

@Dwights_trash_can 3 года назад

Me too! Haha!

@Jane_1994 3 года назад

It's a vibe!

@Ajay4kay 3 года назад

Same! Lol

@taleeco2977 3 года назад

I do this but with cooking lol

@thegamergame3851 3 года назад

Me too!

@tomdrummy4984 3 года назад

Your soul will tell you when relationship is over. Think of the person, and your soul will tell you. Oh yes, it’s real......deep, but real. Your soul guides you when you are quiet, and listen

@Brenduh03 2 года назад

I would have to disagree…

@Dannniellleee 2 года назад

I agree. Once you learn to listen to it!

@rachelann724 2 года назад

How can I tell the difference of my heart, mind or soul when asking questions?

@voltatech7772 2 года назад

Agreed! I so enjoy when he’s gone and dread seeing him driving up. Time for him to go!

@evalisabowers8898 7 месяцев назад

Agree! I love that you made this comment. It speaks to me. I often get clarity and perspective about my situation in the small time after I wake up in the morning. If I don’t write it down, things get clouded again as the day progresses and I don’t understand my situation again. I have wondered what that phenomenon is. You explained that very succinctly. Makes sense. Thank you commenter

@mariee.5912 3 года назад

Nikki, GET OUT!! John is right.

@veronicamoo6380 5 месяцев назад

He needs deliverance. The enemy is trying to oppress that young man. Prayers for him !!!

@roxybaaybee 3 года назад

I feel for Niki. No one deserves this from any one, especially a guy whose sole purpose is to make you and your kids feel happy and safe. it’s true that kids will absorb their environment, I grew up with parents that never separated but they should’ve. I would prefer to have seen both my parents happy apart. It ruined all my siblings views on marriage and our relationships, and consequently our relationships with our own kids.

@splash6267 3 года назад

Same, i feel that so hard.

@Butchic1129 3 года назад

😥😥😥

@shirleyscott8879 6 месяцев назад

I stayed much too long with my ex. We didn’t have a relationship for years (and he was emotionally and verbally abusive) In my mind I was staying for the children. I know now that it would have been better for my daughters if we had moved out earlier.

@jessicadominguez1315 3 года назад

They had kids to try to fix their broken marriage. That never works. I feel for these girls.

@Songbird36able 3 года назад

WOW her situation is crazy!!

@jarelchico 3 года назад

Not they. Do men ever have kids as an attempt to fix a marriage?

@jessicadominguez1315 3 года назад

@@jarelchico hm. Good point

@christianrapallo9850 3 года назад

@@jarelchico it takes 2 people to make a kid lol

@wolfpack3812 7 месяцев назад

Massive congrats James. I truly hope by now it is 11 years… 💪I can do anything for a day. Love love love it

@tgsharp2838 Месяц назад

My heart and prayers gobout to Andrew i know exactly how he feels. I became disabled from a work accident and it changed .y life forever. Lost my confidence, my husband and my control on my mental health 😢

@imjussayn7936 7 месяцев назад

BLESSINGS, COURAGE & STRENGTH to Andrew ❤❤❤❤

@BigE-qx1jb 7 месяцев назад

I was married for 14 years we divorced 5 years ago and I jumped back into a relationship, as this relationship went on I realized that I was the reason for the divorce and I’ll never change and now 4.5 years later this relationship is over and I’ll never change, I’m not a cheater or anything like that I just have problem with communication so I think it’s time for me to be alone I’m 52 and I learned life does go on and spend time with me

@HPB1776 9 месяцев назад

I would so much rather be with a person with any type of disability who is so open, honest and a good person than half the men out there who are not loving and kind. Your wife loves you! Most women like to be "carers" in some way and what they give you, you can give back to them with love and affirmation which is a rare thing for us and makes women feel happy and fulfilled. Please be positive. You have great future ahead of you. Wishing you all the very best from the UK. XxX

@charlotteboyett-napper4780 2 года назад

It never heals. Move on and don’t make that same mistake again.

@jamidouglas4083 2 года назад

My heart goes out to Nikki. Now being a mom myself. Oh my goodness is it hard being home with not only 1 but two little ones...Sister..GO LIVE YOUR LIFE. There is so much more for you.

@potluck712 Год назад

I’m not yet on Nikki’s story but am seeing this comment. Whats more than being a mother and loving your children? As in, why are you implying they are ruining her and her ability in life?

@sweetyukibo 3 года назад

To Nikki: He WILL leave you for a younger, fitter model. GET OUT NOW. HE NEEDS YOU, until he finds some other chick to take care of him

@Soydulce3581 6 месяцев назад

Smh that poor woman with the 2 kids and the jerk. I hope she left he doesn't love, adore, protect or provide for her. I hope she listened.

@kerry-annmcpherson1011 3 года назад

The tears are just rolling down my face as you called James. So awesome. Such a therapeutic show

@usmanojochenemiamina3086 3 года назад

Lovev's life true love Never die I know a great and powerful healer that can get back your ex or crua without delay Just forever within 48hours he helped me too immediately

@usmanojochenemiamina3086 3 года назад

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@rachelhelman2098 3 года назад

Super emotional listening to Andrew's story. John, you are so amazing, getting into the problem, emotion and mapping out the rout to the solution. I'm so inspired listening to you. How incredible, you have the ability to change people's perspectives so that in turn they can change their path. What a gift you have x

@Jkaye13 8 месяцев назад

I completely agree!! 👍🏻

@frumpusnumpus 3 года назад

Nikki, what are you doing??? I felt so sorry for her! Move on. The second you move on, you will gain motivation for yourself and your kids. Some of these 'men' are so selfish its mind boggling. Jocko will 100% disapprove.

@kimm5555 3 года назад

I love how you inspired the young man who became injured. I was inspired.

@gmoney1089 2 года назад

I picture Nikki's boyfriend coming home from work, walking in the door, holding a clip board and grilling her about what she's done all day, as he marks off pass/fail boxes he's making qrunting noises while looking over his glasses that he's wearing at the end of his nose, and disappointingly shaking his head back and forth like a supervisor at work... 🤦‍♂️

@godslove8767 7 месяцев назад

I love this dude. John God bless you brother!!

@graceseward2217 6 месяцев назад

The gentleman that called in about his feet ran over and disability my ears hear him .Thank you for being so brave I feel like you do .I have herredity angiodemia and is life threatening daily .keep going my friend you got me to reach out .thank you .

@mlovespring7892 3 года назад

Dr Jonh Daloney is doing a miracle work. We are all so appreciative for all that you do. God blessed you! 🙏🙏🙏

@jessicaneal8553 3 года назад

My to do list includes feed baby, make lunches, eat lunch, make dinner, change nappies (diapers). Then I have the optional things after that if I can: read books to kids, clean, do dishes, tidy toys, laundry on, laundry dry, laundry folded, laundry away. It helps a lot to cross things off, and write what else you do as it comes up- that way you know, and others can see exactly what a day looks like.

@LivingAble 3 года назад

I don't know if this would be of any help and I can't deal with it from like the PTSD part but my RU-vid channel is where I show how I do things from a wheelchair. It may help the gentleman with the hurt feet to do some things sitting. I live independently I can work and completely take care of myself from a physical standpoint (pun intended) all from sitting. He will obviously need help to deal with the pain physically and mentally but from a task perspective there are ways. And I'm more than happy to talk to him or his wife and be of encouragement

@callmecordelia7181 3 года назад

Good for you! I hope he checks out your channel!

@chezlou812 3 года назад

Such a lovely offer 💖 I hope he sees this and checks out your channel!

@LivingAble 3 года назад

@@chezlou812 thx I hope he will reach out to me

@mariee.5912 3 года назад

Andrew, keep going. You can do it. You have a story to tell. You don't need to get up from that chair to be amazing. Don't give up you sound amazing.

@lynncbryan 3 года назад

Praying for you, Andrew!

@timmy5948 Год назад

Omg alieshas story is my own currently! Seperated still living together. There are so many feeling still floating around. We have the best days sometimes and the spark comes back. It's so tiring. I want to be worthy of someone's love.

@NaeK188 6 месяцев назад

You ARE worthy. Even in the moments you don’t FEEL it, feelings can be misleading.

@jnikibbons5606 3 года назад

Nicky, girl, this man has failed his job interview, his training sessions and failed to meet his job expectations. Fire him and run the business yourself.

@misharamage5529 7 месяцев назад

Omg! Run for the hills Nikki!!!! You are worth more than that sister! It’s him mama…not you. You are doing fabulous. Big hugs mama. ❤

@Dutches-so3di 8 месяцев назад

I just want to say how happy I’m to have found this channel. I love the way Dr. John gives advice in all the shows. Great Job!!!! We all need this free therapy❤

@nmc1859 3 года назад

I really feel for the young man who talked about the accident and also the loss of his brother. And also... have a feeling things are going to go well for him. What obstacles to overcome they are.. somehow I believe he can. 💖

@thenutrientwhisperer3700 7 месяцев назад

Wow John, you really outdid yourself this time. Nice wrap up to this video. Holding mothers up high the way you did. Thank you for your support. You are one of a kind.💝♥️

@johnnypineappleseed 2 года назад

Hey James! Happy almost decade of sobriety man. I don’t know if johns gonna call you again this year, but we’re all still out here rooting for you man ◡̈

@vr8921 Год назад

Omg that poor girl at the end, I sure hope she left that jerk

@Songbird36able 3 года назад

She left and went back. That means you can leave. LEAVE LADY!!! He keeps saying "wife". She's a girlfriend if he acknowledges her as that.

@jessicadominguez1315 3 года назад

Lol bc she's playing the part of a wife with no legal protections. Now she won't get any part of their house or any alimony. I hope she goes to her father's house again and stays this time. I hope Dr. Delony's words stay with her. It's a big deal imo that he flat out told her to leave, he doesn't say that.

@Songbird36able 3 года назад

@@jessicadominguez1315 Absolutely right!

@TomiaMacQueen 3 года назад

You can do it Andrew!!! Keep living and loving! Find your God given purpose and go for it. Often, finding someone else for you to help makes a tremendous difference in ourselves.

@beezymommy7888 Год назад

I am now a fan. This show must be seen by many people. John is a good coach ❤️

@findingaway5512 3 года назад

Congrats James!!!! Huge! 9 years! Congrats on the marriage and the baby on the way!

@lauragonzalez-ramognino3792 Год назад

Nikki I notice uses laughter in place of crying or laughter in place of hysteria or sadness…makes it even more heartbreaking 💔 because she doesn’t have enough self love to let that narcissist go…

@SaystheTruth3 Год назад

My heart goes out to Andrew... I pray he's starting to feeling more positive & achieving his goals. ❤️

@whistlepiglet 3 года назад

Aleisha in North Carolina: I wish you healing and much love in your future. Take care of yourself and your babies.

@dianethompson6804 7 месяцев назад

So much pain in the world that is self inflicted! No one can make us happy or miserable--we do that to ourselves! I'm sorry for the ones that feel they can't leave the misery! The unknown is better than the painful now!!

@Shan0714SLS Год назад

Thank you Dr. Delony for your brilliant approach to tough issues and help people answer their mountain. I love your direct approach, direct solutions and how you call people to their own action. Absolutely brilliant, beautiful, inspiring! Thank You! ❤🙏🏻

@Thegracemade Год назад

Love how Dr John challenges and encourages Andrew! God still has a plan for you and can still use you sweet Andrew your testimony can change lives and touch so many❤ God Bless you - all the best!

@brendarewan7441 6 месяцев назад

I almost cried hearing what he told the lady with the live in ex and twins. I like his directness. I need him as a counselor.

@99CaNdYfLiP99 6 месяцев назад

God bless Andrew, ❤️❤️❤️❤️

@stacyannjohnson4219 3 года назад

She went from laughing to crying now that is enough of enough. 😭😭😭 I think she is depressed.

@HenryPaulThe3rd 3 года назад

That went from 0-100 real quick

@nicoled5797 3 года назад

Been there, done that, she’s definitely depressed.

@Emc_Squared 6 месяцев назад

Someone finally understands. It’s a coping mechanism for her, because she is scared of what it all really means. I hope she gets the courage she needs to leave.

@jenniferchiang8759 3 года назад

If I was the one run this talk show, there would be 10 boxes of tissues on the desk.... Amazing Dr. John and very very good wishes for you Andrew, so sorry, you will feel better day by day.

@Jacqueline967 9 месяцев назад

I related to Andrews story so thank you for calling, and thank you for the advice!

@raquellennan1760 7 месяцев назад

I absolutely love this guy…

@KManwarren 2 года назад

I hope Andrew let's John's strong words really penetrate his heart. I knew before he said it their was a religious element. I am a very strong Believer and follower of Christ, AND we have done ourselves a disservice by thinking that God will heal every broken bone or relieve all suffering. That is not the message of the Bible. We are not guaranteed health, but we are guaranteed the Lord's goodness and closeness when we go through difficulties. In the last year, we have experienced so much that people have had the nerve to say that we were in sin...if they knew the Lord, they would have seen clearly that our hearts were filled with joy, we had opportunity to pray with people who hurt us because their lives were broken, and God provided without fail the whole time. I am now walking, in nursing school, my husband is working, and our children have witnessed the truth of God's word be evident in our lives. We aren't promised easy, we are promised His word and His presence. I pray that Andrew would remember that God's grace and mercy have followed him and his wife ALL the days of their lives...even in the accident. He endured the cross. He won't run from your pain, sweetheart. Lord, restore joy and peace to their home, please. In Your powerful name!

@thesecretlifeofwonderwoman 4 месяца назад

Andrew, I wish we could talk. I got a near fatal illness years ago and almost died. I didn't (spoiler alert!) but my brain took a terrible hit. My neurologist told me that my brain looks like the brain of an elderly Alzheimer's patient. That knocked the wind out of me. I have had to work my way through fear, doubt as well as the very real disability that the illness gave me. I feel your fear and I want you to know I'm cheering you on. If there is any way I can be a support for you, let me know. You are close to the same age as my youngest son. I am willing to be a support to you on your journey. God has taught me so much, Andrew. I'm here for you

@hend6475 10 месяцев назад

The last lady reminds me of the song lyrics "free is just another word for nothing left to lose"

@lethaldorito3426 3 года назад

These episodes have been slapping recently !

@djlazylee 3 года назад

I agree, I love your show. For someone with so many credentials, you are so down to earth and easy to relate to. Good luck and I wish you continued success.

@nnylasoR 4 месяца назад

This is the episode! When I first started listening, he opened the show by talking about a note he had gotten in the mail - a pink paper with the word cheater written on it - but no idea who it was from. haha Now I know!

@jonimitchell6962 11 месяцев назад

I went thru a terrible trauma but when I finally realized the pain wasn't good but the lessons I learned could be a blessing to others and that gave the trauma and healing a purpose. It was when I started to heal. It took a long time but it worked.