You both tolerate so much disrespect everyday… when you finally break away from it, you will see the growth in yourselves and what your worth really is. Don’t be afraid of being ‘alone’ and don’t stay in a situation because of that reason. You both deserve more than this
Mandi 😢 we appreciate all your layers- with how raw and emotional you are but also how you can always pick yourself up and make someone’s day! Better things await for you and we’re with you in this journey together 🤍
Showing sadness in the podcast is really helpful for a lot of people watching. I can definitely feel myself relating more to you guys. Don’t feel bad for showing this to be honest a lot of people would feel seen too. We don’t want to see only the good were here for the bad times too ❤
Try not to encourage eachother to stay in toxic relationships You don’t need to bare it through Life doesn’t need to be sooo hard True love exists doesn’t need to be a battlefield
women who married billionaires were all in their mid 30’s and 40’s. imagine if they didn’t wait and just married some nobody because they felt pressured to. imagine megan markle stayed in her first marriage and didn’t divorce her ex because she was in her 30’s.. she never would’ve met prince harry! we have no idea what awaits us, the ones who wait get rewarded. anyone would be lucky to have such funny and successful girls like you on their arm
Literally! Same with Amal Clooney. Imagine if she had settled with just anybody in her 20s because she was scared that she wud forever have been alone? she wudnt have met George clooney when she was 35. People are relying on age/fear of getting older when reality destiny (or if ur religious Gods plan) can take u anywhere. Don’t rush and patience is key.
I think it’s so generous to share your struggles on here. Everyone is going through something and it doesn’t bring the pod down, it adds depth to you guys as people, and we are here bc we like you guys ❤
Honestly guys after so many heartbreaks how can you still tolerate such man still. U guys are 30+ woman. if it’s not progressing LEAVE ASAP CLOCK IS TICKING! Don’t let a man waste ur years. You’re soulmate out there.
You think that this a is nice and encouraging comment but it isn't dont age shame, clock is not ticking. Anna and Mandi I would have given you both the same words of encouragement whether you are 21/25//55 or 65. A man who is not actively making plans with you in the future based on your needs and your requirement is a man who doesn't deserve you. As you said, you have come to a stage in your life where you are looking for progression and you're not getting it. You shouldn't have to force manipulate or even influence a man into a decision that he hasn't made himself.I think cut your loses and find yourself in a position where you are open to find someone who meets your needs. Not someone who you have around because its comfortable
You guys are such amazing women and these men do not value you. It’s sad and it’s so brave you guys share so much, but pls listen to your listeners. You both deserve more, and sending you love Mandi❤
Mandi don’t waste another day with that man. You’re such a strong woman. You’re so funny, beautiful & amazing, another man will treasure you in ways you can’t imagine. The first few weeks are scary, it feels like you have nothing besides your relationship, but you will find life continues. We all believe in you and I’m so proud you’re even taking this step. Anna I hope you can follow! 🩷
Mandi my heart broke seeing you crying. Anna is absolutely right, we don’t come here just to be happy we appreciate the rawness of you both and being so vulnerable which you absolutely don’t have to share and we so appreciate you trusting us with all of your experiences. We love you as you are! ❤❤❤❤❤❤
First of all, i really love you guys so much and it really breaks my heart that mandi is feeling this way. But honestly i feel like you two have so much love to give and you can shine so bright but these relationships you have has always terrified me. You always say „but they love us so much they do so much for us“ but honestly that doesn’t matter bc what they do to you when things get bad are so horrible! No matter how much someone loves you and how much they do for you is never an excuse to treat someone that terrible when it comes to fights! So many situations you told us about are so extremely toxic and horrible they actually scare me! And they won‘t change, u told them so many times and they still risk loosing you and they go on and on even though they know that it makes you feel so bad and heartbroken! These guys sometimes sound like 15 y/o boys that neither respect your boundaries nor do they hesitate to hurt you! And you guys deserve man that really care and actually contribute to your well being! If its been like this for years imagine how bad it gets when you‘re married and they feel the power of having you even more bonded to them! Love you guys and i hope you find your luck! Don‘t fear loosing someone that doesn’t contribute to your shine❤
You can be grateful and sad! You wouldn't be human if you never felt the pressures of life. We all love the podcast because of real real you both are ❤
Mandi and Anna you are incredibly real, relatable strong women for sharing. Please put yourselves first, yes change is scary but you have to go through painful challenges to grow and find true happiness. Xx
mandi once you see this comment pls for a week count how many nights you go to bed sad or not content because of ur partner and if that number exceeds 3 pls let that be ur sign that ur life is how u spend ur days and if ur sad most nights don’t let ur life be sad inshallah u will find the strength and have the support to do what you know u should 💗
Mandi u don’t understand how much we value you guys for being so real. Yes, it’s a comedy podcast, but sharing your experiences means the world to us all because we can relate and it’s so rare nowadays to find any influencer who is as real as you guys. Lord knows how much I needed this podcast today 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ we appreciate u so much
You never have to feel like you need to be happy and force a smile! We’re here for all of the Anna and Mandy emotions, stages in life, relationships, everything. Love you guys❤
I always listen to you guys when I’m in bed , always put your podcast on while falling asleep listening to you but this episode I was almost in a deep sleep and heard Mandi crying saying it’s embarrassing which got me up instantly.. never ever feel like being vulnerable and showing real emotions is embarrassing, you’re the realest for that and you should always be proud of yourself for showing up for yourself the way you do. You’re strong and amazing, I hope you find your way to happiness and peace. Love you two for what you do and who you are ! ❤
You are both so much more loved than you think! I’ve been listening from day 1 and usually I’m a silent listener. The realness this podcast brings is like no other!💗 you both deserve more recognition 💗xxx
i also worry about kids and not having.a husband in my thirties, its the worst, it brings so much stress, where is i understand i nee to meet him asap, in this desperate state of mind, you wont meet anybody nice! So relate to what you are saying, even tho you have bfs it doesnt seem like they are the types to settle down any time soon, i wish you girls loads of happiness and love x
Honestly I love you guys. I just sometimes hope Anna can express how she truly feels, without worrying about everyone else. The strong one needs people to fall on too and needs to vent and express too. Anna literally reminds me of my older sis 😭
awww Mandy, don't ever feel pressure to constantly make us laugh, i appreciate the realness, and wish you the best with all your going through, and you are definitely not alone babe xxx
There’s something to be said about being raised prioritizing, the needs of others before we care about ourselves. I can tell that both of of you care about making sure everyone is OK or happy before you satiate your own needs or satisfy your own needs and I don’t mean this physically or with luxury items, but with being emotionally safe and sound. There is also something to be sad about how we will self sabotage our happiness because we’re too afraid of the unknown and starting over. I deeply empathize with Mandi and I can’t imagine carrying that grief around. I hope you can get through this and know that there’s always love out there in the world for you. As a fellow codependent person, I’ve learned to enjoy being alone. I’ve been in a relationship for almost a decade now and we are independent and have our own identities and lives outside of each other. It’s different and not what I imagined (also in my early 30s, unmarried and no children), but it’s okay and works for now. I know when it’s no longer okay and if I want something better, it’s on me to leave. I hope it helps. Love you girls 🩷
Hi Anna and Mandi. We will always support your podcast and we love the authenticity and the rawness of each episode. We understand not every episode will be “upbeat” or “funny”. 💗💗
You guys are so funny I swear to God, the way I DIE at your podcasts 😭 please don’t ever ever ever stop making podcasts! I literally look forward to your uploads every week 🥺😭🩷 LOVE U GIRLS!
i love your guys podcast so much literally makes my day, pls never stop making episodes!! and mandi it’s okay to be emotional and vulnerable it’s not always going to be smiles and butterflies that’s not real life nor realistic please don’t feel pressured to feel like you have to put on this front all the time, this is your podcast! use it to vent however you feel like🤍
I remember that episode!!!! And your earlier episodes while at work! This podcast has come a long way… I remember wishing you guys would do video and here we are! ❤
You girls are my fave people to watch, every single episode you are so relatable. Mandi, don't tolerate this anymore, you can smash it on your own and your time will come with a man who worships you girl xx
you guys do deserve it, i came to you through grace's podcast, although i did always love and know anna's journey from love island, im so glad im back watching you two, your amazing! deserve the world, two gorgggg boss ass women!
Love your podcasts, they make me laugh so much, Mandi you're so funny! But so refreshing to see you open up, we all go through hardships and that's normal, embrace it ❤ I too have been through the worst year of my life with relationships , health and work but you always get through it 💪🏼
Mandi we love you so much babe! It’s normal to be upset and babe it’s okay to worry but you must trust yourself to have a good life because you will! 🩷 We love you for you! xxx
Guys they mainly only share the issues of their relationship to be relatable here. They say it’s good most of the time and their partners AND THEMSELVES have things they need to work on. Not every relationship is perfect
ur both my favourite and I pray for ur health everyday... pls remember that u cannot let a flower grow in the same soil it died in.. if that man keeps bringing u down then don't stay... imagine all the doors ur walking past bc ur keeping that one open. for God to bless u u have to be isolated... Mandi u r in ur primeeee time don't waste it .,, dont let a man tell you he doesn't want you twice.
I want you both to be yourself. We are your BESTIES right!??! we dont want you to be always funny and positive... EWWWW. I love both of you for being yourself and putting it all out there. Im going through a breakup after .... 7.... years!! No one is EVER in a position to judge
Omg I love u guys so much use truly make me feel like I can understand my emotions and feelings love use both, also Mandy ur hair looks gorgeous like this😍😍and Anna ur dimples are the most beautiful feature ever love love ❤
Awww Mandi I lit felt it when you got emotional.. You need to put yourselves first no matter what.. also when it comes to men it’s so confusing.. like you said they want a women to cook & clean ect but don’t want that and want a chase… ufff so exhausting especially theses days
LOL. You just sat there and admitted you're in terrible relationships episode after episode. Now you want to give advice...you all should not be giving advice on keeping and getting men. LOL.
True but its not easy to leave a long relationship if it was easy im sure they would have left but i hope they do leave because they are not happy and shouldn’t tolerate such bs men
Ngl you guys blaming women for men not respecting them is absolutely crazy & sexist?? Why aren’t men held responsible for their own actions & behaviour? Why do women have to change themselves for basic simple respect that is a basic human right? Very misogynistic!
@@SistersInTheCityOfficial it does but also you should function as a normal human being, you should be kind to people regardless of your own personal ethics. And tbh it’s rich coming from you guys cause from your videos you seem to tolerate a lot of disrespect from your boy friends. Are you saying you deserve the disrespect?? The logic is very pick me
