EVERYTHING You Need To Know Before Getting Married: Mahr, Red Flags & More!! | Sheikh Belal Assaad 

Jazakallah khair for this!

Can we do a video about the parents getting involved in personal matters? For me that’s a major 🚩

thank you

جزاك الله خير 🙏🏾

Can I have Dr jasems book

I invite you to Islam dear brother/sister. Study, learn, and read with an open mind and heart. My only request is that you ask for guidance from your creator. I wish nothing less than jannah (paradise) for you:)

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SubhanAllah look at you, Allah AWJ guiding you towards Him. My prayers and heartfelt wishes go out to you brother/sister ☺️

Now you folks started to pimp each other.

I hope that one day Allah will grant you the opportunity to be associated with Islam. I hope I will pray for you my dearly sibling.

Glad you enjoyed it! :)

Ameen

We have same name hh iam also amina noor osman from somalia🇸🇴💟

AMEEN

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He’s a what???

Please always type tabarak Allah with A capital

Make sure you never make it impossible to marry your children the way todays Muslim parents make it for us.

@@ismailkamran4370 hahah 😂 he's a zalameh = a real man

the thing is my family is so toxic that I would not even want my husband to be around them

@@rianeon then after marriage, keep your distance. But make sure you fulfil your duty's as a daughter.

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Aameen and duas

Attractions and physical is everything. That is the first key of and character and honesty and hope for the best.

The person who wants to marry can also ask the friends or relatives of the husband/wife candidate's. I knew about this from my teachers too, that it's not only the husband/ wife candidate's parents that we can ask about because, like you said, they can provide a very biased opinion on their own child. I haven't been married, but just recently I was saved from marrying someone who had a verbal abuse past to his ex-girlfriends. His parents and his brother said a lot of nice things about this man, but his friends and colleagues saying the opposite. I had a hunch that this was not right--thankfully I was able to cancel my marriage to him.

MashaAllah!

Thank you for the kind words and we’re glad you enjoyed it! Wailakumusalam from Australia 😄

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Inshallah that day is soon for you sister. I'm 26 and unmarried, I realise how quickly the clock ticks. It's scary but Inshallah Allah will open doors for us all. The priority is to get stronger in deen then pursue in the best way. Bi'ithnillah. At least that is my approach.

Inn Shaa Allah

Pray to ALLAH to pick your spouse who will be best suited for your khair in this life and the next. In-sha-ALLAH you will both be connected through the blessing of ALLAH. Do your best in balancing for akhira/dunya rightfully and read this dua every day: “Our Lord, grant us from among our spouses and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.” [25:74] رَ‌بَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّ‌يَّاتِنَا قُرَّ‌ةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا” Also ask ALLAH to bless you with afiyah everyday for this life and the next.

Embrace your mixed ethnicity be proud of who you are and learn both cultures

Marriage is pre-decreed by God so if it is written for you it will happen at the time it is meant to. My cousin got married at 40 and had two daughters. A friend of mine got married at 41 to a guy in his thirties and had a daughter.

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Yep, agreed. I’m nearing 30 and I’m still struggling to find anyone

Wa Iyakum, Alhamdulilah 😅

Wa Iyakum 🙏🏼

🙏🏼 wa iyakum

Well doesn’t happened that way god put women on earth 🌍 and it’s our own risk to find them and remember it’s up to the woman who will either choose you to marry you or not and there is always a good reason why most of the women will reject proposals

Wa iyakum!

Ameen!

Ameen🤲🤲

Please always type ma sha Allah with A capital

ameen

When you make dua to Allah, don’t say InShaaAllah after the dua. Just say Ameen ❤

Look at the pinned comment akhi 🙏🏼

What a good topic I really enjoyed it this man makes a lot f sense

Wa iyakum 🙏🏼

Aameen!

Wa iyakum 👍🏽

SubhanAllah

May Allah give barakah to your sister

May Allah make it easy for her and all of our sisters

may allah give her rewards for the patience and oppression she has received in this life ameen. And may allah grant her jannatul firdaus ameen

That sounds exactly right, it's a man's world. Bless your sister and she's better off away from him.

I'm half arab half indian and the struggle is real!

Legend 👍

Yeah, he’s a good orator, mash’Allah. His lectures/speeches are clear, coherent and to the point.

Alhamdulilah 🙏🏼

Allahuma Ameen. And you as well

Asc..we need to know the ten quetions

Thanks

@@FairDinkumAU you’re welcome 😇

@@FairDinkumAU you’re welcome dear 🙏

We do too!!

Wa iyakum, thank you from Australia 😊

Agree. Tests are carried out to see how one party reacts to a particular situation as the saying goes “Every action has a reaction.” The party interested in a potential spouse may carry out tests of all sorts ie to ascertain whether the individual is jealous, for instance or try to uncover other traits that usually won’t be obvious or transparent. Individuals are good at impression management so tests reveal an insight into the individual being considered. It’s a sly way of gaining an insight into a persona but marriage is a BIG investment (not necessarily financially but spiritually - religious) so one has to make the correct choice and do all the necessary checks. An individual doesn’t go into marriage thinking they’ll end up in divorce.

@@shabanatasleem1014 I understand better JazakAllah Khayr for clarification. I think it depends on the type of person that you are. I tend to be intuitive and observant. I would go about how I feel the person is but as they mentioned in the interview we can’t just assume things such as the concept for soulmates because we never know if we truly are that compatible without gaining enough evidences. In general we would be spending enough time during engagement for exemple but maybe it happens that none of the encounters allow us to tap in some crucial elements and important personality traits. It would take some deeper digging to unfold more depth into the person’s character and morality than just “ time”. Also time has its limit, we won’t spend our life getting to know someone therefore we have to spend this time wisely. Maybe one scenario would be for example giving them different options and see which one they go for most of the time or asking them to do some tasks when they are naturally under pressure to see how they respond when stressed. May Allah grant us all beautiful patience and wisdom in such a process 🙏🏼

Wa iyakum 🙏🏼

Thank you!

InshaAllah your dua is answered!

We’ll try our best to get this message to him inshaAllah

What happened in your first marriage, dear sister? Of course if u dont mind me asking

@@dinaf.k5372 my ex husband was manipulative, controlling,abusive and a pure narcissist. He had countless affairs and I was always treated in a horrible and nasty manner. As a consequence of the divorce ,I suffered with terrible anxiety and panic attacks.after so many years and receiving counselling I am alhamdulilah mentally healthy again.

​@@pearls2733Is there a way in which I can contact you??

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You can apply what you learnt now to your marriage :)

Hey, you can hear Omar Suleiman's point of view, I'm sure it'll answer your questions.

@@komailhaider5089 Don't listen to him

@@Dont-worry1618 why? He gives great advice.

If you have a good relationship with your parents then they can still give guidance. Them not being Muslim doesn't mean they can't see issues you might not notice simple from being mature and having your best interests at heart. It's important to involve them, especially your father. I hope the relationship is good so that this is possible

​@@user-pb5jt6xk2mHe has a more liberal view of Islam than what is near the Prophet and Sahabah

Alhamdulilah, glad you enjoyed the episode! These suggestions have been noted inshaAllah

True, l would also want to know......

@@waldahsulaiman6525 Gabriel Romani mentions this topics in his videos

May Allah make it easy for you inshaAllah

Inshaallah

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Wailakumusalam, glad you enjoyed it! Maybe shoot him a message on his socials inshaAllah

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He’ll definitely be back inshaAllah!