As a man myself, I would say that the definition of “manipulate” has been misunderstood and, typically, spun by the media. It’s clearly about teamwork and supporting each other to achieve the best lifestyle for each other. This woman is a breath of fresh air and I would be perfectly happy to find someone like her to spend my life with.
There's a difference though. It needs to come naturally from her....not just because she's getting more love from you. If you truly love someone be it either man or woman....why wouldn't you want the best for them?? That's my opinion anyway.
@@dijonvolner6024 none of this is natural. You naturally want to leave your woman and sleep with 1,000’s of 18 year olds. You are naturally lazy and undisciplined. Naturally, you would never change or work on yourself. So it takes discipline to be a good partner. You have to work on consciously doing these things. Like constantly having patience and being able to give your undivided attention to your woman when she wants to talk. Women need to do the same except they need to show support for their men.
Can I just say... You're a breath of fresh air. You're like the woman BFF I have never had. When I struggle with anxious attachment issues or with my concept of self I watch your videos. Not only does it calms me but it also brings me back on my path of healing. Thank you so much for everything you do. I truly appreciate your advice 💜😊
No need for any explanations Margarita; you are far too intelligent for these critics who have no understanding of how to interpret what you say. You are terrific, super-brainy and funny. Those who know you and understand you know exactly what I'm saying! Nuff said.........❤
This is the third video I've watched of yours and everything you talk about is so healing for me. It just clicks. I watch and read self help and sometimes it just doesn't click. This week when I've needed it and been open to it, for whatever reason you just stumbled into my youtube suggestions. And you are hilarious, I've busted out laughing a couple times "attract more with honey than with .... SHIT". The anxious attachment videos are so clear. Teasing us without yelling at us or making us feel stupid,. Reminding us this was once you and that it's a journey, it takes dedication, and practice. Sometimes it feels like video's I've seen make you feel like "whats wrong with you just snap your fingers and be different!" Giving us tools to navigate that journey, not just with ourselves but with others too, it's so helpful. I'm grateful for finding your channel, to you for giving me a different perspective, and I appreciate your dedication to helping others. I look forward to future videos! Best wishes.
I was put off by the title but I missed the videos so I watched. The message to have mutual support in order to create a beautiful life for both is key. I don't know why people get so angry when there is a supportive healthy relationship.
Don't listen to these miserable people big sisssss. I'm 22 and you've honestly given me so many gems for the relationship i am in and how to own my energy and have a fruitful life
Married 14 years. She is 100% correct. She's calling it "manipulate" but what she's really saying is that if you support and encourage your man to pursue his passions then his chances of success go up 10 fold. If you try to push him in the direction you think he should go in he'll push back, treading water and fall into a depression. Ask me how I know?
I think this is opposite 🤔 I'll explain why. Every scenario is different. Push him to pursue his dreams, leaves you in the dust... With his mom, or he gets cancer after made millions, or gets with another out if status or fame. All is impermanent. End of day save as much as you can throughout the years, as I didn't so you go back to abuse and if nicer after cancer depending on the age of the man. 30 is dirty... not evolved. 60 us companionship but health issues may arise. It does depend on age, who you are at heart and them. To salvage anything means willing to sacrifice your needs for them if they want to provide and you shut your mouth be a kept somewhat women and put needs on weekends or be the teacher if you can't get there without vehicle or transportation, find friends, people who inspire, and if there wiling to fly you back home do it again and again 😉 influence is key 🔑 because you as a women will never get ahead worth millions and if they have you on their will its all fair in love and war. Abuse before health happens so they realize your worth that's 😢sucks!!!! Passion is immature lystful no gamble leave that behind. True love will let you go but ultimately knows you want freedom and independence even if they tey to keep or bond you with money. Get put while you can on your own two feet if not without a child make your MILLIONS You tube 🎉🎉🎉channel or not, or have them pay for nursing, just do it. Everything they want they know a woman beeds..needs... and what they bring to table bit NEVER SACRIFICE YOURSELF YOUR LIFE, YOUR PEACE, DESIRES, WANTS ETC FOR ANYONE! One of my hardest lessons last 2 years.
@@madisonmcgettigan3296 if that's the case...why are you with him? Let's be serious ladies. When you started dating him he was already that way, so why would he change now? Yo accepted him that way. And if not...ok well, then you separate from him. Why? How? Because if you have to choose between letting someone down or yourself, let them down. And how? Doing it. Is difficult of course, but if you don't the only person suffering is you.
You’re not a manipulator! Those boys are so silly to even think that! Really sad actually this is becoming the new culture… we should not be pinning against each other, it’s about understanding each other! You’re so very much appreciated! 💕💕💕
It was a women who wrote the article. And a women who made this video to na.e it exactly same. Looks like your women arent too sharp with their feminism BS 😂
Good thing i am boy i was never manipulated by girls do your bulshit like you want to you will never manipulate me trust you can try but you wont manipulate peapole can try but they cant get me
The way you said “just do it” the second time made me laugh. Although your lifestyle is different than mine, you seem like you’d be a great friend to have. It’s nice to be around people who are real and authentically themselves. It’s refreshing!
Please do a video on healing from emotional neglect from your birth family and finding self love and building confidence from there. Thank you in advance!
Marg, your response to this is BRILLIANT 👏🏻 They should do a follow up on how you are a GAME CHANGER and advocate for embodying and exemplifying being an empowered woman in a highly masculine energy dominated society. I love and appreciate you, soul sis. Keep vibing high and shining in your be-YOU-tiful authentic light. The world is a brighter place when you do.👑💕✨️
I’ve never seen your tiktoks and I’ve only watched one video of yours. The title grabbed me. I really appreciate the content you put out as far as I’ve seen! In a man’s world, it helps with navigating complicated personal relationships. I especially appreciate the bit about asking my man a favor and giving him space. My partner takes a very long time to respond, even. But he usually does and it is strange to me, as someone who responds quickly and sometimes with too much gusto. Your direct way of speaking is very comforting as well.
We have 7.5 children 🤣 where they are gonna go?! Margarita, you are definitely doing everything right. They are talking about you and attracting even more attention to you. Being married with children and slavic (in UK), what you are saying is very useful for me and reasonates with me nicely. My husband is occupied with some project I don't believe in. It has started arguments, since it's the only thing he wants to do. I now remember how I supported him always and it has paid us back nicely and have multiplied our collaborative energy. So why break now what was working nicely? We also know there is nothing wrong about lavish lifestyle, if I can get it by listening to you, so be it.
I imagine it was a lot easier to support your husband in projects that you did believe in whereas now (or at least when you posted) you don’t believe in his current project. Here’s the thing you’re being 100% genuine and you’re trying to remain genuine, that is admirable. Now her advice is correct you need to support the current project, you just have to find a facet of this project (aside from the fact that he’s committed to it) that you do believe in so that you can pour your genuine enthusiasm into him. If you don’t like it, perhaps the skills he uses in pursuing it are transferable? You’ll find an angle.
So glad you’re posting about this. That journalist is insane, there is nothing manipulative about your content. I actually find you pretty straight forward!
Oh yes, sticking up for men to nit be manipulated is so insane. You know what really is insane? Abusing and manipulating us all while wondering why we won't take you all seriously...
I'm here for the new content as well. As women I personally don't think that we have to be monolithic in our thinking. We are a many layer of things, with many different ideas about life and things. I mean just as you were " qualified " to speak on luxury items ( Because that is your real life) Let's be real. You are married to someone who's successful, and you seem to live a certain lifestyle that you can speak to as well. Like I said. I'm here for it!🤗
I must say that I’m loving the person you are. Your style of explaining the archetypes is so clever and unique, it makes so much sense. Just discovered you today and I just love how creative, honest and real you are in all your videos, your concepts are broken down so well. The writer completely butchered everything from that interview and that’s the only manipulation that took place.
I had to take a step back from your older content because I sensed that you were capable of more than talking about Hermes, etc. Believe me, I love luxury content, too, but this type of content is fascinating and amazing, which you do so well! I'm glad you're following your intuition, Margarita! I personally avoid TicToc but will follow you here, for sure!
Margarita your videos are amazing!!! Don't waste your time giving explanations to those people that are criticizing your wisdom. Thank you for sharing.
Can you do a video on mamas boys & how to deal with in-laws who actively try to sabotage your relationship. I recall a tiktok you did about how you don’t owe anyone anything & to not go around family that is not kind to you. I would love something more in depth about this topic if you wouldn’t mind. Thanks so much for your videos!
By encouraging each others 'dreams' that are 'practical' and making him believe in himself is a good thing. You play to a person's 'strength'. You both need to be 'content' and 'happy' in 'who you are'. All you need in life is for someone to believe in you, and together you 'both' make a difference. May we 'respectfully' support each other. You 'amplify' each other. Both 'compliment' each other. Everyone has naracistic traits but if you get to the end of the spectrum you have naracistic personality disorder. You have given 'suggestions'. Is giving 'suggestions' manipulation? We need to have 'mature' relationships based on mutual respect. The male and female compliment each other. When you combine these qualities things happen. You are 'giving' your man space. You need to 'keep yourself special'. Men only respect 'special' women. You 'support' your soulmate who is 'worthy' of respect. Keep yourself strong and remember that there are real gentlemen and real ladies in this world despite what the media seems to portray.
Hi I’ve just come across your content and I’m finding it useful. I love how you’ve broken down the comments and set what was said about you straight, in a factual and respectful manner, beautiful.. I’m glad you came back to your channel so I can watch more of your content. Thank you for your time and effort, it’s deeply appreciated 🙏 Xx
This grrrrrrrl has the gift of gab. I think she’s brilliant and have sent her channel to my best friends in need of her worthy advice. Keep it coming Margarita. 😊
You have been the only one to explain dynamic men and dynamic women and how to create a healthy harmonized life by sharing your gifts and wanting the best for people because you have been hurt and now lead people thru their darkest time because you have faced them thru your life experiences. Can't say how happy and how Very grateful I personally am and glad you are posting again. You are a life saver. Not to say your message is easy to hear at first but it is so refreshing Unfortunately, we live in a world where people are so closed because they are stuck in their ego. But any publicity is good publicity. Your break down of the article helped even more, the real task at hand about what you are trying to teach and correcting the false projection, that you are doing this for your ego, also a master class of how not to fall for being bated. It is helpful to see emotion regulation be modeled where most of us never had that taught to us.
They did you dirty on that article. A complete twist of words. Such a shame what they do for clicks and views nowadays. On a side not~ I am so freaking excited to hear this news! I love your content and lessons on Tik Tok and I have implemented a couple of things in my marriage already and I have noticed a definite change is our relationship and in his confidence and masculinity. Thank you! Tik Tok videos are not long enough! I am excited that your bringing this side of you over to YT.
I appreciate the human being you are, I admire woman you are. And I find your teachings and dedication very benevolent and important. Thank you for your work and teachings. This has potential to improve women/men relationships.
Anyone who actually watches your video's will already know that it is full of uplifting content. This negative press could actually peak some people's interest and get you more views on your channel. Even negative press can be used to your advantage. Celebrities and Political candidates use this to their advantage all the time! Negative gossip has been around for thousands of years, but those of us who really know you, know the real truth. I subscribed to your channel only with in watching just 3 video's. now i will do notifications too, just to spite the negative press.😊😊😊😊
I've always saw you as an inteligent woman, who advices your audience with the best advices,acording to your experience, i always loved your videos and i don't understand why it is so difficult for some people to aknowledge this and support it,to more women like you!
@@Margarita.Nazarenko you do you,i know your audience loves it!And please let's support this kind of content that gives the best advices to live a much better life as human beings.
Sooo awesome to have you back here and I fully agree with what u said re supporting VS nagging❣️I have been married for 20yrs and it took most of those years to fully understand that if I really listen to him, give him the voice that I might have taken from him over the years by eyerolling at his outlandish ideas, I have helped to build his confidence to the point that he now successfully attempts projects that neither of us thought he could accomplish.
I really hope he sees this and divorces your ass. It's not because you nagged him that he's better. It's because he continued trying to make both of your lives better despite your misandric abuse.
Straight up, how pissed off would you be if everything you did to try to lose weight and look good for your husband he called stupid? Actually, don't answer. You don't seem like the type of women who gives a shit hiw their husband feels...
I will be honest, I stopped watching your instagram post and stories because your content went from lifestyle to more counselling and psychology. I was actually thinking you should do that as a career because you will be good at it. I will look forward to watching your fashion, lifestyle, beauty, travel videos and vlogs specially with your beautiful mum ❤❤❤
@@esmeraldadarlinggangmeilu5091 I know, I no longer subscribe to her because those videos are not tor me, it’s good for very young audience looking to get a boyfriend 🙂🙂🙂
You partner does need to know certain inner gritty stuff etc. To understand you but they need to earn that right. You need to form that trust before you deep dive in that direction. You can’t deep dive on the 1st, 3rd date. You owe them nothing and they owe you nothing.
Great excuse for a reason to abuse men when you're not in control of your emotions. If this was applied to men you would call it toxic. Hold up a minute, you do...
Interesting that on dating apps all the women are saying what they like doing (camping, traveling etc.) rather than saying what they can do, like homemaking skills or business skills.
It's so ridiculous that you're having to defend yourself like this! The press love to edit, twist and manipulate! It's so obvious what you meant, but some will always be hellbent on misinterpreting/ misunderstanding you. Keep doing you, they aren't worth the oxygen! I've followed you for years because you are authentic, there's never been anything about you that's remotely as you were portrayed! About content, I'm interested to hear if you've ever bought anything from The Frankie Shop (apologies if you've already talked about the brand) and what you think if you have? Keep doing what you've been doing XX
She literally put up a video on hiw to manipulate men and you're angry ger words "ArE bEiNg MaNiPuLaTeD bY tHe MeDiA!!!" Do you know what the word hypocrite means? While we're at it, do your know what the word misandry means? Actually, do you know what the word chauvinist means because quite literally all of 5 those words apply to you...
My husband is in therapy and it doesn't seem to be helping him much, he doesn't do any extra work or practice. Me on this channel and other, ex. put the shovel down, have help the most. It is like dog training, you need to teach the owner to be effective in training a dog and give it a healthy environment to grow. Having these women help us understand and handle our men properly is key. They are happier and healthier and so are we. They will have triggers hit a lot but use this time to enhance your emotional intelligence and work on yourself.
You might call that "individual guidance". It still feels so shallow because you can't have a real discussion with the other party. it's like walking on a mine field. You can only treat him like a dog so he always behaves like a dog
Your problems are only gonna be solved once you understand that you're the dog. You're the one being cared for and fed. You're the one who lives in this fantasy world where making yourself pretty and feeding someone's ego is gonna make your life better. A man has no other alternative but hard work. To be honest it is less like a dog and more like a sheep. Women feel safety in the herd, but the excess of conflicting messages and loss of community is making them go berserk. It is not about not being pampered for men. It is about the fact that you feel a biological imperative to make women's lives better. Now, I think most men agree, you can make your own life better.
Im truly in love with you! you really break things down into real realities. I must say since watching, listing and implementing the suggestions from your video's, there has been a threshold of shifts in my mindset. as for the media? well ? what did you expect? handle it as you always handle everything else, with style, grace, sass and being unbothered.
Based on the title and first couple minutes I was expecting "tricks" to look out for. I didn't realize you meant how to motivate men into using that energy for good.
Did you get a lot of hits/new followers on Tik Tok after this article? I’m guessing a lot of people checked out your Tik Tok, which is great! Congrats on having over 200K followers. That’s awesome. My pet cockatoo has almost 120K and he’s going to follow you!
I’d say my followers didn’t change much after the articles. As in the growth didn’t jump up and was tracking as it was. However, I am glad it reached more people x
I didn’t know that. I would ask my ex to help me clean but he would go out to be in the garage all day, he’s come back in the afternoon and still hasn’t done what I had asked. I would feel let down because while he was in the garage pursuing his hobbies I was toiling away with housework. So I would just end up doing the task myself & when I would ask him why he didn’t do it he said there was other things he’d rather do with his time. Turns out he expected me to do all the housework because he put in more for bills. I’m confused if this was fair But he left me He said I was complaining and nagging about cleaning and he didn’t want to hear it anymore. One of the many reasons he gave for leaving me
agreed with those saying not to give too much air/fuel to such reductive "journalism," but god how i laughed at the line, "i don't mean support JAKE on the road over there"… keep up the great (& nuanced) work!
I find this woman humorous. She does videos on a general subject that consist of stream of consciousness rambling without ever actually explaining anything in any detail. And all the while she acts as though she is some kind of authority on everything. It’s perfect for an ADHD audience. LOL!
This is amazing to hear! I love your take on things but I’m not going on TikTok so would love to see more of this content from you on RU-vid. Already signed up for upcoming courses ;) Too bad the journalist didn’t get all the wisdom you were throwing down. Her loss!
Margarita you’re a bloody genius I love u! I’m so glad I found u on IG! New sub ❤❤❤ the problem is people love to hate because having opposing opinions makes them feel powerful. They don’t truly dig deep what ur content is actually about. If u ask them what it is they oppose to well quickly realise they don’t even why they are hating 😅
I always admire your personality from the start of watching you and this is exactly what I am looking to learn and inspire from you. Please teach us sister🎉. Love from Malaysia
I'm so glad to have found you. And that you're posting here as I don't use tik tok. I have been watching some of your videos, and relate to a bunch. I especially like pointing out this weird culture where one wrong move, and we'll clearly the guy is an idiot! Or, we're all human and make mistakes. There's context. Not every single move is instant get rid of them, or we're potentially dumping some good friends at the very least.
The woman who wrote the article sounds jealous and that's not a very attractive quality for a lady or a writer 😂 Women should uplift other women not manipulate to drag others down to try to lift themself up.
