Never Do These 5 Things With a Man 

The five things not to do: 1. Try to find a relationship when you're desperate. 2. Never be with a man who pushes you away or gives you the ick. 3. Never create a co-dependent relationship. 4. Never agree to a partner below you. 5. Never suffer in a relationship.

I died at "finance, trust fund, 6'5, blue eyes" 😂

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Ladies and Germs

"hello my little gorgoeus spring chicken" is sth that i might copy- so lovely 😀

I've been married 31 years and have my person but I still get something from your podcast. You are a natural, giving info that many women need

All men I have dated gave me urinary tract infection... And I was thinking about my body knowing when we are not compatible... Interesting that you mentioned that

I just love her she’s so funny with a straight face😂

Spring chickens, kingfishers, parrots, a broken hoofed deer, frolicking otters, guilt inducing shrews. This was more than entertaining lol. Honestly as a man, I really like the advice you speak to women, and I find value in it for myself :)

Smell is important because it signals biocompatibility.

Hi Margarita! You have helped me so much!!! I ❤ your content and your book!I bumped into your you tube channel when I was researching my anxious attatchement, what a Godsend you were to me!! I am 41 years old...and started to loose myself. My husband is an avoidant, and we have been married 17 years and have 3 amazing kids together. Once we hit the 10 year mark in our marriage... both of our attatchment styles really started manifesting....it got pretty bad,I am not gonna lie! But you helped me turn the page,set boundaries, work on myself and step into my queen energy....Amazing how things started to turn around for us and my husband started chasing me again!❤❤❤❤❤God bless you... you incredible woman! Just so you know,when I was crying,hurt, and eaten up with anxiety I would put on one of your detachment/feminine energy videos to calm myself and keep myself steer clear of desperate energy!!! Thanks again! Love you lots like jelly tots!❤

Margarita pls talk about how to raise our standards and how to attract desired partner into our lives

You’re talking about birds at your window just as I’m watching the hummingbirds at my feeder 🥰

You always pop up right when I need it most!

you're so iconic I love your personality, wisdom, EVERYTHING!

Literally liked the video even before it loaded lol. I knew it would be the bomb! Like always

i love the energy she has the way she speaks the knowledge she shares to us ladies . thank you margarita !!!! ❤️

Oooo this was a realllly good one! Loved it, thank you!

This is one of my favorite videos of yours! ❤it! So true. I had a few awful relationships and my partner I am with now I have often felt this respect for him. It hasn't always been easy and nothing like I imagined but everyday I am grateful 🙏. I first had to decide I was going to be the best version of myself before I found him.

This is my first healthy relationship after an extremely toxic and abusive one, and I hate feeling so dependent on a man, instead of myself. I lost so much confidence in myself, and my anxious attachment style had been pushing away my boyfriend and I feel so bad, and not secure with myself. I've been binging your channel, because I wanna unlock my potential and become a powerful and confident woman, who can regulate her emotions and raise strong kind children.

Every point is spot oooon. Thank you so much Margarita!

I'm addicted to your voice

This talk was excellent!

Margarita I've just finished reading your book! I've recommended it to my sisters and friends. You are incredible and I've taken the New Rules very seriously!!! Already helping me in my everyday life ❤

This is very useful for someone like me whose confidence been dented from past relationships

reading your book currently

oh my god, those advices are just... ON POINT!

Margarita, I’ve read your book 2 times already, of course audio. It’s such an amazing well thought out piece of art. You turned my life around from anxious to securely attached I saved my relationship, Thank you so much!! 💗 Love you lots like jelly tots ✨

I’m only a few minutes in and you are spot on. You helped me tremendously with what I am struggling with at the moment❤ THANK YOU!!!

And just bought your book! 💕

Thank you, thank you, thank you! That was even better than I expected. You're wise beyond your years!

Really appreciate what you do, your videos always help me to clarify my thoughts ❤

I love your vibe❤❤❤

Wow that piece of advice about a man giving you the ick and not liking his smell is gold. I never heard of that before. Excellent podcast as always M!

Thank you so much for your wisdom.

A man’s scent is vital in my decision on whether or not I stay. If I love my man, I am also attracted to his scent even after he has been mowing the lawn or working out. Actually, I am more attracted to his scent when he’s a little bit sweaty. My ex-husband; after realizing he was having an affair, I could not bear the scent of his skin.

The thing with the smell. This might sound strange but it proves your point. When I'm around ovulation I feel like I become very sensitive to smell. And there are guys towards whom I feel more attracted. The one smell that I hate the most during that time is my father's.

You're soooo good at this topic (book was excellent) - Thanks for all you are doing ....City living/dating in 2024, you are keeping it sorted like no one else

absolutely in love with your content!!! ❤️ Margarita, can you make a video on how to be happy single after a tough breakup and how NOT to start immediately desperately searching for a man? it would be sooo helpful!

This is great!

2nd point hits hard

I soooo needed to hear this cuz i dont have healthy relationship experience. Thanks so much ❤

I'm still quite young. But I love watching your videos because I want to be prepared for when the right person comes along. I resonate so deeply with "don't date a guy below you." I was with someone for 2 years. From the very beginning his lack of discipine towards academics took a strain on our relationship. Academic performance is very important to me. Given we are still in a stage of our life where competitive exams will decide our fate. I did not respect him. I did berate him. I became someone so intolerable. He didn't have any standards for himself, he would have stayed regardless. But I did. I couldn't bear to be this person who was always naggy and negative. My inability to respect him because of his tendency to be a complete slob made me leave after 2 years. It is not worth it.

my first time here and the “little gorgeous spring chicken” intro made giggle & caught me off guard 🤣… subscribed ! 🤍💗

Oh my! Margarita, you look stunning ❤️‍🔥

Thankyou so much.

love you margarita ❤❤❤❤

you are my no 1!

The fact that I listen to your podcasts religiously and always get something out is amazing. Thank you so much! Can we talk about getting back in the dating scene after being single for a while. I’m 28 years old and I found that I’m struggling abit. I think I’ve passed the phase of being desperate for a relationship. I’ve reached a point where I’m happy on my own, probably too happy because when a guy approaches me, firstly I don’t know how to respond. If we do exchange numbers I just don’t know what to say to him when he texts me. I thought I was okay but I think I’m actually scared to connect with someone again or I just can’t. It’s so weird. You covered a few points in this video but can we talk about it! ❤

This Woman safes my life! I think you so much, From the bottom of my heart

Hello Margarita, thank you for the great video. I found your channel a couple of month ago and find the content you create very helpful an inspiring. If you don't mind sharing, can I ask you about the dress/blouse/shirt you are wearing in this video? It's absolutely gorgeous :)

It makes me remember that I was dating a guy and was very attracted to him - even if looking at his picture did not get me attracted, but when we would be physically together, there was the attraction and a "vibe".. he later told me that my natural odor was very much appealing to him and that he liked how I smelled. there was another one I was interested in and even though through pictures I did not feel that attracted to him, when we would be in the same room, I'd feel like i'd be drawn to him and constantly have to look at him... and PS : YESS you better be faithful to Jessica(me) !!! xD

Speaking truth in the most hilarious way😂 absolutely❤her!

love this

girlies listen to her! i wish I've seen this video when i needed that advice

She is the mother of 2 beautiful children…and then all of us

Never clicked so fast!!!

Agh You Look Absolutely Gorgeous! Need A Series On Narscisstic Behaviour & How To Deal With People Like Them, Grey Rock Method Etc. Ty. ♥️♥️

My god . This woman only speaks facts !!!!!!

Wow! so..❤..me are enjoying listening your voice & learning English as well, thanks for the caption, am your podcast follower here in the island West Philippine Sea

Love this. In a relationship, you should never be in a position where you feel you need to point out the value of your effort, time, and care, to your partner for them to see it. If they make you feel like these things aren't valued and/or reciprocated in their own meaningful ways, then your partner doesn't actually value you. When they make this mistake once, it's a mistake. When they make it again after you expressed your needs, it is then a conscious choice. They are telling you they don't find meeting your needs valuable. I just set boundaries this morning with this. I know my value. I will only engage with men who are capable of meeting me on the depth of emotional intimacy and security I bring, which is significant.

Perfection every. single. time.

You look stunning!!! 💕

I needed to hear this. The ick is a sign🤌🏾

This is excellent! A + I’m a sigma female but I still need a reminder from time to time. ❤

Wow this is so true if ph does not match run

Love love love it

I went to Amazon US to buy the book but it's out of stock! When should I check back? I'm so excited to read it.

Please tell me where your dress is from ? It’s lovely 🥰

Your face looks more toned and gorgeous! Have you had anything done? I love your look today😍

You got my attention at “spring chicken” 🤣

You look stunning ❤

I truly believe if you’re with the wrong person you morph physically (as well as energetically) into a less than ideal version of yourself. Possibly many factors at play - dna, cells, lifestyle, etc. I always thought odd for this observation so thank you for this podcast!

I love this content 🎉❤

Not coming from a desparate place Not choosing a man who pushes you physically or makes u feel ick

My man’s sweat smells GREAT to me. Can’t get enough of it.

Thankyou ❤

Where is this dress/top from? Its lovely!

GOD BLESSSSSSSSSSSSSS YOU!

That dresssss

I think the smell thing is very real, but as someone who has had UTIs since childhood (before puberty) I get UTIs from new partners, trigger behaviour, all men give me the occasional UTI 😢

Please tell me where you get your necklaces

Pls share what lipstick you’re wearing

thank u mom❤

How pretty you look today!

Ladies and germs 😂 appreciate you!

I got your book but can’t find it in goodreads , can you list there so readers can add it to their lists and keep track on their reading progress ?❤

I noticed once I had a hormone IUD placed…. Men all started to have an unpleasant odor. When before I had it placed the smell was so much better. I feel like I need to remove it to fully trust my biological instincts

Hello, do you happen to have any videos that I just may have missed or can you make one regarding what to do when you were in a confident happy place in your life with yourself and someone came in and just completely wrecked it because they were just that good at being manipulative and sly about what they were doing.

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.

My husband's sweat smells great to me, but he is a narcissist.

You’re speaking facts! Lmfao at “he smells like shit”

Pretty dress.

The subtitle said... "that's right ladies and gents but I heard you say... Ladies and germs 😂

you are so beautiful Margarita!

snow-white🍎

Now you tell me

so so glad to be first 🥹

You look so beautiful in the floral outfit🤍

Great advice ❤ thank you 😊❤