I'm 19 years old and I'm going through probably the most darkest time of my life, your videos are helping me overcome my struggles, and helping me to improve to be a better man. Thank you so much.
You haven't seen sh*t yet bro. These are the minor tremors to toughen you up. Keep your head up and chest out with your shoulders back... proceed forward my man.
Summary #1 Be unpredictable: - Change your lifestyle, try new things - Surprise your friends! #2 Be interested in others: - People want to be noticed, they like someone who notices them - Look at people with a curious look on your face - Slowly nod your head 3 times during the conversation #3 Stay curious - Be excited about your life! Find something interesting in it ======================================= Human is born boring because it's comfortable & consumes less energy To not be boring, you should build habits above
why evribody tries to be so "uniq" and such a special snowflake ? We are all humans , in our heads we are all uniq and shit , but in reallity we arent .
1. It takes effort and energy. Regardless of how you feel attack life and it will be a self feeding process. More good things will happen to you and reward the effort you make. 2. Show genuine interest. Find something about the person you are talking to that sparks your curiosity. Don't ask mundane questions. Disrupt people from their emotional baseline and stimulate them with your tonality and/or topic of choice. Be out of the ordinary and don't be afraid to ask people unusual things. Small talk has it's place but it should be your secondary choice - only used in more formal situations, brief interactions or to break the ice. Use engaging body language. Appropriate eye contact, upright open posture, relaxed friendly facial expression, slow movements and speech, point your feet towards the person. 3. Nod your head 3x slowly. 4. Be spontaneous. Say you are driving someone across an open paddock. Drop the gear and fishtail a little. Be an exciting person to be around. 5. Be curious. Be excited about life. Treat every person you meet as the most fascinating person you have ever met. Do this in a confident way, not a grovelling/suckup manner.
When you're more alert about life, people, and things and are curious about how it all works and what they truly mean, and what they mean in relation to your life, you will instantly become less boring. It's like tip #1, wake up and be alert! Theres sooo much in this world to discover, and its difficult discovering life on your own, you need others to help you learn and grow and to help guide...More people will become attracted to you and lead you to these discoveries if you attract them by just being fun and giving a little bit of yourself up to them (your time and energy and genuine interest/ compassion). ❤ Great video!
You don't have to be funny to be curious or excited about life.. you can be yourself, and still not be boring.. it's just about having a positive attitude. Plus, you'd be surprised, a lot of girls prefer just a nice guy over a funny yet douchey one any say of the week!
I am 16 year old kid my parents didn't let me go outside allot you know when I was small I remember going outside really rarely I know nothing I am antisocial I have few friends but they left school so I am alone and the problem I can't make friends and they make fun off me a lot
I used to live in a forest. There was this one really tall pine tree that stood out from all the others, and looked different from all the others, and I thought it was just a different species that simply grew taller. Then one day somebody told me that it wasn't really a tree, it was a cell phone tower that was disguised as a tree. So the moral of the story is, if you want to be the most noticeable memorable guy in the crowd, disguise yourself as something you're not.
The spontaneous part, i dont know about that one. My boyfriend, wakes up, goes to school, goes to the gym, goes home/or to me, goes to sleep. I still find him
Tonald Drump Oh my god, I couldn't relate to that more. When I go to school from 2pm, I'm the life of the fucking party. But, when I go to school at 8am, I couldn't be more boring. 0 jokes,I dont talk too much in the morning.
Ahhh need ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Double cheeseburger and hold the lettuce/ Don't be frontin son, no seeds on my bun/ We be up in this drive thru order for 2/ I gotta cravin for a number 9 like my shoe/ I need some chicken up in here, up in this bizzle/ Fo shizzle my dizzle, extra salt on the frizzles/ Dr. Pepper my brother, another for your mother/ Double double supersize and don't forget the fries.
May God bless you with everything you need in your life, you are a real hero, ...you show the right path like a true friend, just love your every video and content
To not be boring: get out your comfort zone, take every opportunity to do something new or different, express your opinions and feelings, ask questions you actually want to know and have a lot to say about, and use that nodding head thing when someone else is talking so you can think about what they’re saying and how you are going to reply- good trick!
wow this is like if you're addicted to something, you lose interest at other things but since i'm in school i'm just worrying about it and i'm being boring. this video really helped me out, thank you man :)
I might be out of it and need to sharpen these traits before talking to women. #1 Excitement is something I had as far back as high school and after grad. I had girls wanting to talk for a while. #2 The first people I'm interested in are close friends, but retaking an interest in a random girl would be a nice change of pace. #3 I nod with friends and family only. #4 Mixing it up can keep girls coming around more and more #5 Sure thing. Curiosity and asking questions shows your interest. I'll talk to anyone in the comments.
I've seen so many of these types of video's some are good some are bad but the energy level and style along with the way you layout the information make me love your videos.I understand your videos 100%%%
Just be yourself. You don't have to act like someone you're not or become a psycho to attract girls. If a person is with you just because you used some mumbo-jumbo psycology trick, that you learned from a RU-vid channel and you think that's ok I feel sad for you. It's funny because this channel has videos about how sociopaths and psychopaths attract girls and it's like a big "no no" but yet all of these "fake it till you make it" tricks encourage just that. To be someone you're not, just so you could get laid or get a better job... Everything has to come natural. Or else you could end up in a mental institution.
If you keep your mindset the same, your outcome will be also. Nothing is set in stone not even who you think you are. Ask your self this, are you a different person than you were 5 years ago? if so for better or worse?
Each time you upload a video it becomes the best video on your channel. In other words, *you're going further and further away from average everyday, FarFromAverage* !
I'm boring because I get nervous on what I will say and say the wrong thing. Guess ill try to be positive and say things I don't normally say to change things up in my life
I AM appreciative of the value you add to our lives. Can you make a video on having a conversation while on the phone and maybe small talking appropriately, thanks!
Im in middle school people are cruel and now when people get in middle school you have a little friend group you hang out with no matter how much you hate this one person in your friend group you have to pretend you like them or you,ll loss all your other friends in that friend group bc they like that person you hate.. unless they hate that person too in that case then that person is OUT of the friend group..
I’m the most boring when I’m with friends. I’m the most boring when I’m at work. I’m the most boring when I’m with family. I’m the most boring when I’m playing with my dogs. And I’m mostly certain afraid of starting a RU-vid channel cause I’m afraid I might bore my future viewers to death. But this video really resonated in me. So I’m gonna take a chance and do it anyways. Thanks friend.
I feel bored during exam time. Because when i study normally then if i find something confusing or simply curious to know more then i can look it up or ask someone. But during exam times i read like a machine. Same old routine. everyone talking about same old exam. Oh yeah sometimes feel bored when i dont watch your videos for a long time. This one was great.
I find myself being boring at the worst times, I think myself into boredom with one phrase. "I'm a boring person" which is far from the truth in social interactions because i mostly always try to one up or bring something new to the table of conversations
I don't know if I'm having problems connecting with people, or everyone nowadays is just soo boring... I go to a lot of social events at my university or chat up random people and hardly see them a second time because people are so closed up and don't talk beyond the superficial "what degree do you do?" "What do you want to do when you graduate?" and give such genetic answers. I want to say that I'm not boring (I do try consciously because I don't like superficial talking) by trying to open up and tell personal things early on, but if people don't reciprocate and prefer to stick to the small talks then I'm not bothered to make new friends anymore.
@FarFromAverage could you make overview pictures for your videos? By this I mean a poster of all the completed frames as a reminder that can assist the memory impaired ?
I’m pretty boring when I’m anxious cause I question everything, but after these I feel I just shouldn’t give a fuck about anything anymore and should really focus on myself for once 😂😂😂
What if you forget everything you do or that happens. One of the big things I've noticed is that conversations are driven by small talk and life experiences. But I can barley seem to remember what i read in the news this morning or what I did yesterday. I see all my friends talk about thier life and what they did last week or at work yesterday and I seem to dump all that information out. I can't remember what t.v. shows ive watched, specific things about books I've read, the recent movie everyone is talking about that I saw maybe a few days ago. I can't keep a conversation without almost any info to use in my mind
andyzzz213 you are very right about the fact that small talk is based on recent life experiences so the fact that you can't remember these things might actually be a serious problem for you. Maybe a doctor can give you some information and tell you why your brain seems unable to retain certain information. I hope you figure it out and I wish you the best of luck.
I’m like this I only like talking about really intense world changing sort of things and everyone else seems to just want to get drunk talk about the food they posted on fagbook last week...I can’t retain anything useless to banter about so people find me too much I’m a “headache”
I was the kid who could sit with the jocks, the nerds, the introverts, and everyone in between. I never sat at the same place in the cafeteria and engaged in every conversation I was in as well as chip in as best as I can. I only spent 2 years both in public middle and high school. Even though I keep to myself most of the time and never went to school functions eventually at the end of middle school/ high school I'm one of the kids you knew about.
I find myself most boring when I talk to people at my school who I am somewhat uncomfortable with, usually because I don't know how comfortable they are around me, and what our relationship is to them (friend, acquaintance, etc).
i feel most boring when someone else in the room is attracting everyones attention so effortlessly, and i go into that default mode and just put headphones in and do my own thing thinking why even try or waste my energy.
When I talk to a person and Right in the middle of the conversation I loose my train of thought with what I am saying to them or at least what I am trying to say to them and how to figure out to put it out there in the right words in the right way at the right place and time and I run out of things to say You know like you do When you are around your crush and I do it around my crush and also everyone else and it's bothering me all the time and I can't stand it
I feel like I'm most boring at work, but I don't want that. I'm in a great place that can help me move up the ranks fast if I start standing out to the bosses that come around.
I find myself most boring when I’m not interested in others. When I’m tired or moody. I find myself boring when I don’t ask questions to others. I find myself boring when I don’t want to do new things or fast something new.
um about the tree thing I think the most noticeable tree would be the tree growing 100ft. away from all the other trees in the middle of the plain, no matter the size. So yah be the most different person you can be and you will get noticed
you told you that ? now you said they were ever right ? ( wether its you or not ) dont talk down on your self like that ... foreal . Any being is capable of having a mate dont let your fear rule you ... jump leap and take a chance and like Adrian said ... all great batters strike out try to figure out and check out the infinite qoute " wacth your thoughts (ect) " dont know rest lol but yeah yah can just type in in google
i am talking a lot... especially around girls ... i try to change topics... but in my conversation skills is a lack of emotion bound... its more about knowledge which can be insider or not but when do not have any topics to talk about there can be a big silence... a few times in a date that's happened to me when the funny conversation suddenly turns into silence for several minutes... i know that since can be a tool for seduction if used correctly... however at that time i had the fear that i am boring and the girl just says lets meet the next time whereas i wanted to talk to her more... i have realy to kick my ass hard to come out of my comfort zone... i still struggle with forgiving myself to failing with the choose of the right university in japan and had to go back to Germany.. which i can not overcome and just denying the fact i am back here... i still try to escape to its culture rather than just trying to get the best of that where i am now.,... i am mentally still in Tokyo and not i muenster... i wanna go back however currently i am living in my past mentally and not at the present.... i recognize it even when i talk to person here in Germany on of the most topic i talk about the most is japan... so dating is currently not my beer... with the exception of a Japanese girl..... i am mentally starving everyday to not to interact in Japanese...and when i talk about japan or more when i talk in Japanese its a relieve for me... but also escaping from my current environment... the problem is i understand it with my brain but not with my heart... that is the block i have.. whereas i wanna move forward my heart sticks there... without any trace of redemption of the cage i put myself in...and this irrational thinking i have makes me boring for myself!
