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How to Overcome Indecision | Nuala Walsh | TEDxUniversityofSalford 

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Decisions are part of our daily lives. With expert insight, Nuala presents strategies to overcome indecision. Nuala Walsh is a board advisor, behavioral scientist, and award-winning marketeer. After three decades in investment banking and asset management, she advises Fortune 500 clients as CEO at MindEquity, and is a Founding Director of the Global Association of Behavioural Scientists. Her Non-Executive appointments span commercial, sports, and non-profit sectors including UN Women, World Athletics, the Football Association, and the Innocence Project. Recognized among the Top 100 Most Influential Women in Finance, she now publishes in the Harvard Business Review, Forbes, and Psychology Today, and has been interviewed by BBC, Fox Business, and The Telegraph. She is a Visiting Speaker at the London School of Economics, Harvard Kennedy School, and INSEAD. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@malenchki
@malenchki 5 месяцев назад
6:24 It's Too Big - reverse the thought - take something that is big and make it feel smaller (mentally shrink it) - Instead of thinking of the top 10 or top 20, think of the top 3, then critique the idealized outcome. - By deliberately finding the imperfection of something, you reduce the consequentiality and its magnitude 9:07 It's Too Far - Ask yourself, "How will the decision feel in 2 days, 2 months, 2 years, and 2 decades?" - Visualize yourself in that state 11:46 It's Too Hard - Positively Frame the Decision - Instead of looking at it as binary (either/ or), expand optionality - Think about the alternatives you may have - With this, you reduce fear, finality, and foreboding. 14:55 Probability Test - composed of 3 simple questions - If I make this decision, what's the worst thing that will happen? - What is the likelihood of this happening? - If this happens, what will I do next?
@malenchki
@malenchki 5 месяцев назад
Reframing
@nualag1
@nualag1 3 месяца назад
Thanks for this.
@Rnue
@Rnue 2 месяца назад
An impossible task...😮
@donal6830
@donal6830 16 дней назад
Thank you so much 😊
@mollymaguire1391
@mollymaguire1391 8 месяцев назад
I wasn't sure I wanted to watch your video, so I researched you and read the comments. Then I decided to take the risk.
@tculebra
@tculebra Месяц назад
What risk?
@michaw7408
@michaw7408 Месяц назад
@@tculebra Wasting time is an obvious one. Less obvious risk is taking advice that sounds good, but is actually harmful - tips like that do appear from time to time. There are many "self help gurus" that are more interested in selling their stuff than in helping people or in doing their research. That being said, the original poster was probably joking and we took their comment way too seriously.
@skaterdude14b
@skaterdude14b День назад
Is this her takeaway?
@mollymaguire1391
@mollymaguire1391 День назад
Lol... 83 wonderful people hold a raging intelligent sense of humor... Yippee ❣
@mdsadiquealam9840
@mdsadiquealam9840 9 месяцев назад
Wish this was even longer!
@user-lj7uy3xo8m
@user-lj7uy3xo8m 9 дней назад
Brilliant talk!
@reaganmm6198
@reaganmm6198 9 месяцев назад
This is exactly what I needed to hear.
@selimcakc2441
@selimcakc2441 Год назад
😊 This talk needs to be seen by EVERYONE!!
@tamskyline5488
@tamskyline5488 9 месяцев назад
I’ve watched this several times.
@betterdonethanperfect-he6pf
@betterdonethanperfect-he6pf 8 месяцев назад
great one!
@engindurust5586
@engindurust5586 11 месяцев назад
Thank you 🙏 for this! It’s ace.
@briangordon3233
@briangordon3233 Год назад
Terrific ✅ Very useful tips to help overcome the pitfalls caused by indecision 👏
@Dalemonkey
@Dalemonkey Год назад
Awesome. Am putting these tips into practice already!!!! And they work.
@_Nisa_Nur_
@_Nisa_Nur_ Год назад
I listened when crazy unsure. 👍 it helped a lot.
@henryomorodion
@henryomorodion 11 месяцев назад
this is really insightful and worth hearing repeatedly . 🙏
@nurcanakakus7445
@nurcanakakus7445 11 месяцев назад
An engaging speaker, looking for more of these??
@randomstuff1802
@randomstuff1802 9 месяцев назад
Brilliant. ? ?implementing it right away .
@ultimateCAJ
@ultimateCAJ Месяц назад
This video just changed my life forever
@nualag1
@nualag1 Месяц назад
Thank you so much. I really hope it helped.
@Kimberly-kz5uv
@Kimberly-kz5uv Месяц назад
Love ❤️ it!!
@waildnd3023
@waildnd3023 Год назад
A very impressive talk. A speaker who knows what she's talking about.
@philiprigney1289
@philiprigney1289 Год назад
What a brilliant delivery from an educated and successful business woman. No wonder she is so highly thought of internationally. Great delivery with common sense throughout. Would love to have been there to hear Nuala live.
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Thanks very much Philip. Appreciated.
@webseriesmovies7872
@webseriesmovies7872 9 месяцев назад
Such a powerful message. Love ❤️ it.
@nualag1
@nualag1 9 месяцев назад
Thanks very much for that.
@elaineconnolly5036
@elaineconnolly5036 Год назад
Excellent and insightful talk on indecision. Love the integration of psychology, visualisation and reframing brilliantly delivered by Nuala. I will definitely use these techniques when facing my next ‘big’ decision! Well worth a watch 👏👏👏
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Many Thanks, Elaine - glad you found it useful! Let us know how you got on.
@louiseoreilly4884
@louiseoreilly4884 Год назад
This is a brilliant, inspiring and thought provoking talk on indecision. It is well worth watching.
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Thank you. I hope it serves you well with your future decisions.
@muhabbetkusuali83
@muhabbetkusuali83 Год назад
As someone who struggles to decide about what coffee to buy, thanks for this.😎
@scottlemphers4785
@scottlemphers4785 Год назад
What an incredible listen! Very inspiring to hear!
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Thanks Scott - Hope it serves you well in your career choices.
@prashantbhosale7776
@prashantbhosale7776 9 месяцев назад
This changed my perspective in minutes.
@nualag1
@nualag1 9 месяцев назад
Thanks very much. Quicker than I thought. Appreciated.
@CanonlineMusic
@CanonlineMusic Год назад
This TEDx talk is one of the best I’ve seen in years. Well done. 🙏
@nualag1
@nualag1 10 месяцев назад
Huge thanks for that. Much appreciated..
@frozz9938
@frozz9938 Год назад
One of few TEDx I've watched where I've learned what to practically do when unsure about a decision.
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Thank you very much for your kind words!
@tubagok2017
@tubagok2017 11 месяцев назад
Absolutely fabulous!!!!!!!!
@nualag1
@nualag1 11 месяцев назад
Most kind. Thank you.
@mylesoreilly4011
@mylesoreilly4011 Год назад
A very insightful and informing clip on indecision. Excellent delivery and useful for people of all ages and walks of life!
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Thanks Myles. Hope this serves you well in all of your major life decisions!
@xthebossx5936
@xthebossx5936 Год назад
I needed this so bad. I woke up this morning feeling so anxious about a work problem. Feel better now xx
@nualag1
@nualag1 9 месяцев назад
An anxiety-reliever. Great to hear. Thanks very much.
@annettepurvis9909
@annettepurvis9909 Год назад
A simple but effective presentation on how to approach indecision - will use this!
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Hope it's useful to you in your personal and professional life Annette
@virtual.mtk4
@virtual.mtk4 Год назад
4:45 three thoughts - breakdown on first 9:10 breakdown on second 12:00 breakdown on third 14:55 personal test
@jayblvck2305
@jayblvck2305 Год назад
So insightful and well delivered. I rarely watch Ted talks to the end but I couldn't keep my focus off this one for the entirety of the video
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Thanks so much Jay. Really appreciated. Hope you are doing well. Nuala
@yvonnemuldoon9719
@yvonnemuldoon9719 Год назад
Nuala is always the voice of reason, supported by science! Her content is always so inspiring, practical and something you can exercise with immediate effect. She is a thought leader magnet and i always come away looking forward to her next talk.
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Thanks very much for your kind words Yvonne - you’re a superstar in your world - never forget it!
@joanfitzpatrick4441
@joanfitzpatrick4441 Год назад
Absolutely brilliant!👍Superb delivery. Obviously a very educated and experienced person. Powerful, engaging and above all useful for when you can’t decide. 🤷‍♀️Well worth sharing.
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Most kind. Thank you very much Joan. Hope it helps you make the right call when it matters!
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Not that you will ever need it of course!
@oyunkral2138
@oyunkral2138 Год назад
Loved this TEDx talk!
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Thank you very much!
@enginciloglu5824
@enginciloglu5824 Год назад
If you need help to decide just about anything watch this on repeat!!!
@muhammeducak2960
@muhammeducak2960 Год назад
Simply gold dust. One of the best I’ve seen in the industry in many years.
@nualag1
@nualag1 11 месяцев назад
Very much appreciated thank you.
@bakabylu
@bakabylu 9 дней назад
My first ted talk and definitely something I needed to watch I think this will help me a lot thank you.
@nualag1
@nualag1 9 дней назад
Thank you so much. I hope it makes a difference to your decisions. Feel free to share with friends. Best regards to you.
@Gurjarmusic09
@Gurjarmusic09 9 месяцев назад
This talk speaks to me.
@craig7835
@craig7835 Год назад
Engaging talk, with insightful, helpful ideas, and brilliantly presented.
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Most kind Craig - hope it helps those tough decisions!
@esmaerkunt4871
@esmaerkunt4871 Год назад
Thanks 🙏 for a great talk.
@nualag1
@nualag1 11 месяцев назад
Delighted you enjoyed it. Thank you.
@nighthunter2890
@nighthunter2890 Год назад
Have this speaker for your events. Top class!!!
@nualag1
@nualag1 10 месяцев назад
Thanks very much!
@hyunlixyoksabendeyokum.
@hyunlixyoksabendeyokum. 11 месяцев назад
Was sent this and am not disappointed. 🤞Captivating from end to end.
@nualag1
@nualag1 11 месяцев назад
Thanks a lot. Realiy glad you enjoyed it.
@avinashkunigal6054
@avinashkunigal6054 16 дней назад
Wonderful speech, this really helped me with some difficult choices that I had been struggling with for many years. The simple and elegant approach solved the dilemma quite effectively
@nualag1
@nualag1 14 дней назад
What terrific news. Thank you so much for sharing and glad it was of help.
@atukunda9028
@atukunda9028 7 месяцев назад
Best Ted Talk I’ve watched in a long time
@nualag1
@nualag1 7 месяцев назад
Thanks very much to you. Seriously your note is appreciated.
@light8759
@light8759 25 дней назад
I’ve been very indecisive about my career since I was young. I didn’t know what to major in high school, didn’t know what job I wanted to pursue, so I just chose a major my parents wanted me to study. Now I’m still as lost as ever. I kinda know what I have to do now, but since we only live once, I can’t really go back in time and redo everything…
@nualag1
@nualag1 25 дней назад
That’s terrific. I really hope this helped you.
@user-kv1uv8un4x
@user-kv1uv8un4x 22 дня назад
i am in the same position as you. I am a high schooler and i can't choose a career. it's a conflict between my own interests and what my parents want me to do. i can never excel at what they want me to do. I am certain that i'll end up as a failure no matter which one i choose.
@clasencoach
@clasencoach 18 дней назад
@@user-kv1uv8un4x If you do something you enjoy, it can by definition not be a failure.
@mahishah4723
@mahishah4723 3 дня назад
I feel like I can relate to you, at least to a large extent. Is there anything you would advice me that will bring some clarity to me?
@GAMERS-gn1ql
@GAMERS-gn1ql Год назад
Funny, sassy and brilliant. I'm sending this to everyone in my office!!!.
@nualag1
@nualag1 10 месяцев назад
Hope they get something from it. Thank you.
@evangordon4888
@evangordon4888 Год назад
Brilliant talk from start to finish.
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Thanks very much Evan! Appreciated.
@herdaldanvideolar3585
@herdaldanvideolar3585 11 месяцев назад
✔️ Highly recommended. You’ll never be stuck again.
@esat_im
@esat_im 11 месяцев назад
Worth listening to if you’re unsure about ANYTHING!!
@nualag1
@nualag1 10 месяцев назад
So glad this helped.
@phildendron4702
@phildendron4702 6 месяцев назад
thank you so much Nuala…You help remove my fear of making decisions.
@nualag1
@nualag1 6 месяцев назад
Phil. I am genuinely delighted. I wish you the best. You’ve got it! Things are never as good or as bad as you think! Nuala
@zuzanakasmanova7323
@zuzanakasmanova7323 10 месяцев назад
definitively the best and most useful TED talk I have ever seen
@nualag1
@nualag1 10 месяцев назад
Really appreciate that kind comment. Thank you very much.
@PaulTavaresEmpowerment
@PaulTavaresEmpowerment 6 месяцев назад
A great approach to indecision.
@nualag1
@nualag1 3 месяца назад
Thanks a lot. Appreciated.
@jacquiwalsh1
@jacquiwalsh1 Год назад
very good talk on indecision, well worth a listen
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Appreciated. Hope it is useful to you.
@donal6830
@donal6830 16 дней назад
Thank you so much for these advices 😊😊😊
@nualag1
@nualag1 14 дней назад
You are most welcome
@ajmalkhanzada8434
@ajmalkhanzada8434 5 месяцев назад
Highly thought provoking and informatic lecture delivered, I appreciate and will continue from still now listening you
@nualag1
@nualag1 5 месяцев назад
Thank you very much. Really appreciated.
@paulagordon7900
@paulagordon7900 Год назад
Great Ted Talk Nuala, amazing points!
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Many thanks Paula - don't think you'll ever need this one but just in case...
@brianegan6863
@brianegan6863 Год назад
Great content, wonderfully presented.
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Thank you - hope it serves you well.
@martinambrose999
@martinambrose999 Год назад
Great presentation Nuala.
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Thanks a lot Martin!
@annefinola1773
@annefinola1773 Год назад
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Positive and very well presented. Gives you a lot to think about. Will help me in the future. For any age…
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Glad it gave you enjoyment ! May you never need this advice - at any age!
@joyce7892
@joyce7892 8 месяцев назад
9:45 The dilemma. How will it feel in... Visualization. Future self. Positive reframing. 15:00 Probability test
@nualag1
@nualag1 8 месяцев назад
Thanks very much Joyce. Very helpful.
@cemileakgul7030
@cemileakgul7030 11 месяцев назад
🏡 has just helped me move house… yay!!!!!!!
@ofetv2374
@ofetv2374 Год назад
A fabulous talk about a critical topic .👍
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Thank you very much for your kind words! Glad you found it useful,
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Thanks very much for that!
@liahk1000
@liahk1000 Час назад
Can't decide if I should watch this video or not
@MessiFAN60
@MessiFAN60 11 месяцев назад
Easy to listen to, easier to implement.🥳
@nualag1
@nualag1 11 месяцев назад
Thanks very much!
@joannaallen8458
@joannaallen8458 Год назад
A great talk - well worth watching.
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Most kind Jo - Hope you never need it!
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
If you need more just let me know! N
@BaBalox230
@BaBalox230 Год назад
I’m giving this to my team to watch.
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Thank you Sibel. Hope your team found it useful.
@VijayPawar-sz6gq
@VijayPawar-sz6gq 5 месяцев назад
👌 insights... Thanks 🙏
@nualag1
@nualag1 5 месяцев назад
Thanks very much Vijay. Glad you liked it!
@muhammetts_
@muhammetts_ Год назад
Tells you something you don't know. Brilliantly delivered.
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Thank you very much for your kind words! Appreciated.
@bassaya
@bassaya Год назад
Just one word- amazing 👌🏻
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
How terribly kind Basavaraj - thank you very much. Hope it is useful to you.
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
That’s very kind. 🙏 Thank you very much.
@sadia6061
@sadia6061 7 месяцев назад
Dont know who this lady is but she delivers smoothly. Thanks TEDX , Uni, and RU-vid for bringing this to us 💟
@nualag1
@nualag1 4 месяца назад
Thanks so much!
@xQuerzy
@xQuerzy Год назад
Worth watching. It helped me finally dump my ex. Freedom....
@lydiahmuraya3741
@lydiahmuraya3741 Год назад
An inspiration on indecision
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Hope you find it useful when it comes to a tough decision.
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Appreciated Lydiah. Hope all is well with you.
@mortalezez
@mortalezez 11 месяцев назад
One of the best😎
@nualag1
@nualag1 9 месяцев назад
Thanks very much. Appreciated.
@user-ee8so8gg1d
@user-ee8so8gg1d 9 месяцев назад
Incredible talk, so inspiring! Thank you.
Год назад
Love ❤️ it !! Watch it. Share it.
@nualag1
@nualag1 11 месяцев назад
Thank you very much
@nualag1
@nualag1 11 месяцев назад
Thank you very much
@nualag1
@nualag1 11 месяцев назад
Thank you very much
@nualag1
@nualag1 11 месяцев назад
Thank you very much
@nualag1
@nualag1 11 месяцев назад
Thank you very much
@ShiroMiura-fy4lw
@ShiroMiura-fy4lw 5 месяцев назад
I am indecisive about whether to go back to chicago or to stay in los angeles. The cons of going back would be, its cold in chicago and I would live in strict rules, like curfew. Pro would be I'll have a job waiting for me. Con of living in los angeles: i need a car to get by anywhere. I dont have a license. I'm afraid to drive because of the crazy drivers. Con is I dont have a job yet here. The cost of living is too expensive.
@downunder4404
@downunder4404 4 месяца назад
From what you have said, the move to Chicago sounds to be the better decision as there were more cons in LA.
@keerthanakulothungan2139
@keerthanakulothungan2139 Год назад
Very interesting !
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Thanks a lot Keerthana. Hope it's useful for you.
@ciaraambrose490
@ciaraambrose490 Год назад
Excellent Ted Talk 👏
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Appreciated Ciara. Thanks very much.
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Why thank you very much Ciara. Am sure you’ll never need it in your career!
@DrillCity47
@DrillCity47 9 месяцев назад
? I’m sharing this with everyone I know.
@healingtogetherwithus
@healingtogetherwithus 23 дня назад
I have one question if its not too late to ask: does character influence the decision making process too.
@Feronom
@Feronom 11 месяцев назад
should I watch this video?
@Luckystoic
@Luckystoic 22 часа назад
Tomorrow, 19th May will be the Most Wonderful Day of your Life..
@andrewvirtue5048
@andrewvirtue5048 Год назад
Languish: -To be or become weak or feeble; lose strength or vigor. -To exist or continue in miserable or disheartening conditions.
@hasanemiravc6666
@hasanemiravc6666 11 месяцев назад
Grateful as it’s painful decision time for me.
@nualag1
@nualag1 9 месяцев назад
Thanks very much. Hope you are doing well with those choices.
@scottm1594
@scottm1594 Год назад
Well spoken but mostly useful content
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Appreciated Scott. Thank you for your comment,
@cizgifilmlertr1024
@cizgifilmlertr1024 Год назад
Send it to everyone you know. You’ll make friends for life.
@ryujiyamazaki5102
@ryujiyamazaki5102 Год назад
If you only watch one, watch this one.
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Many thanks to you Ryuji.
@Heisenberg805
@Heisenberg805 9 месяцев назад
Am mind blown!?
@nualag1
@nualag1 9 месяцев назад
Thank you very much. I hope it is useful for you. Feel free to share.
@harrypearle9781
@harrypearle9781 Год назад
Try pressing an EASY button, from Staples? It says, "that was EASY" when you press it. Global EASY buttons are available in the USA. Global buttons have different languages. (Perhaps, pressing an EASY button, over and over, can give us a slight push, forward) ====================================================================
@harrypearle9781
@harrypearle9781 Год назад
thanks much
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Interesting idea Harry - thanks a lot
@eceates4906
@eceates4906 Год назад
You’re always guaranteed to get high quality insights from Nuala.
@nualag1
@nualag1 Год назад
Thanks Ece. Appreciated.
@PascalBachmann
@PascalBachmann 6 месяцев назад
Indecision can be a real challenge, but it's important to remember that everyone experiences it from time to time.
@chillmusic5703
@chillmusic5703 Год назад
Even a few minutes will change how you make decisions.
@0kngrd289
@0kngrd289 Год назад
You cant admit you cant decide. Now I might. Eveyone has the same fears.
@leroyhayes3251
@leroyhayes3251 8 месяцев назад
WOW!! I got absolutely nothing from this aside from a chuckle about the donkeys dilemma in the first minute of the video.
@kimsimler3363
@kimsimler3363 Месяц назад
I loved every thing you said, but what about if you are not sure what can go wrong? What if the wrong thing is you getting nervous and saying the wrong things infront of the public eye? I want to start performing in the street but my mind makes it such a big thing to public speak and interact with strangers in that way . . I guess what im afraid of that even tho ill know what ill do in my show cause i would practice it alot on my own, infront of people its different. I know i might get super nervous … even tho i would be prepared for my show im pretty sure stuff might happrn that i would have to improvise.. and i guess that scares me
@nualag1
@nualag1 День назад
Hi there. Everybody hates public performances. I was even nervous doing this talk!!! The only answer is practice as it reduces the nerves , then in the situation if something goes wrong you are better able to. Improvise because you’ve had the experience in your rehearsals. Best of luck with it!! Nuala
@JoeBoomerMusic
@JoeBoomerMusic 7 месяцев назад
It’s just Paul Simon. But point taken.
@nualag1
@nualag1 7 месяцев назад
Thanks very much for the clarification Joe. Great point! Hope you enjoyed it.
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