I love your natural hair. I think you’re the first femininity RU-vidr that I’ve seen wears her natural hair. There’s a raw authenticity here and a deep feminine magnetism free of conventional stereotypes.
Oh my gosh, it's so true! I was extremely masculine growing up, and throughout most of my twenties because I didn't feel safe. Once I consciously began the journey toward healing, my femininity finally blossomed, and it has been such a wonderful feeling! 💝🌹
This is so true. I was in a relationship where I did not feel safe and I was dieing inside. When I feel safe and loved, even from myself, in my sanctuary I thrive. I feel peaceful, feminine, vibrant and full of love.
Maybe that's why so many people are dealing with anxiety disorders these days, because they are forced to constantly live and perform in unnatural ways,?!
That's why a good man should be in the house...it is sooo important to have a male figure that is righteous so that she can feel safe otherwise it's going to be challenging to keep your feminity
I'm a women with a very strong masculine energy. But I'm not sure whether that's my natural self or that's because of my background, my story, my childhood and my surrounding. So I'm curious to step a lil more into my feminine energy and explore this world. Thanks for helping me defining feminine energy and helping to know what to try💖✨ PS: Because of your video I just had the realization that I'm already way more into my feminine energy than I thought.
I’d say women can be a bit naturally assertive or unyielding but oftentimes, that stems from trauma - growing up needing to be aggressive and always with your guard up because of a tumultuous environment. A masculine shield for women is a defense mechanism and it’s not necessarily always bad - under dangerous circumstances, it may become necessary but, God willing, those are rare occurrences. It becomes a problem especially when it compromises a woman’s ability to tap into her femininity. 💕
yes! when i clicked on the video and saw her, idek how to describe it. i could js tell she radiated feminine energy. she js seems very warm and kind and loving, not js bc of how she looks.
*One thing I’ve found that helps to be caring and genuine is to practice gratitude. Which means actively praying and actively thinking of what you appreciate about your surroundings.
I completely agree. Gratitude is to acknowledge the goodness that’s present in your life and of course we’d want to nurture and care for what is good ❤️
Oh my goodness, thank you so much for this information! I grew up thinking that to be feminine was "weak", and so rejected my femininity as hard as I could. It led to feminine men being drawn to me because my energy was so masculine, and all of my romantic relationships never felt good. Things always felt out of balance, and it took me a looong time to figure out why! Better late than never though! 🎉❤️
I’m so glad you enjoyed it. And agreed, polarity is so important in a relationship! Opposites attract however that does mean masculine women attract effeminate men and then down the line, the masculine woman will begin to resent the effeminate man for not wanting to or being able to protect her and provide for her. Indoctrination doesn’t erase our innate nature, just suppresses it for a time
@@JasmyneTheodora thank you for pointing this out! No wonder I kept attracting effeminate (i dont want to necessarily refer to them as "weak") men, and then ending up sad or disappointed when they wouldnt stand up and take the lead in certain situations.
thank you so much for this video!! I've struggled with expressing my femininity for so long, i was always in control, in anger, and even if this masculine energy brought me A LOT (boundaries, ambition, success), I've haven't been feeling myself. I highly encourage every women to tune into their feminine energy to feel more aligned. You need both energies in you, repressing one is never good!
I just realized after this video that I’m a lot more feminine with my energy then I realized! It was actually growing up in an extremely toxic environment that caused me to have my masculine shield up 24/7. Still healing and getting in sync with my true feminine self. Thank you 🙏
It’s more comfortable for me to be masculine but I haven’t always been this way. I’ve allowed life to take a negative toll on me and now, it’s so hard to just be feminine. It’s very conflicting for me now because I’ve been through so much especially with people. This wall has been up for idk how long now all the way from when my dad told me about boys and how they want nothing from you. I’m ready to release this lack of trust though. Ready to release this fear of being hurt or abandoned and just let people in. Let life flow naturally instead of trying to control how things impact me. FEEL however I need to but to internalize it in a healthy way and cope with it. I’m ready to sway my hips around the house and do facials again for no reason and take care of my hair and nails and get pampered sometimes and let others do things for me and walk in my extra-ness without worry that I take up too much space. This video helped, but ik it’ll be harder than it sounds to make that paradigm shift. Pray for me y’all!❤
I was a little girl saying, "I LOVE being a girl". I have always just loved women and loved being one. I'm so happy I found this channel. The problem is that my exterior and sometimes defensive demeanor towards people who feel the need to attack my femininity reads masculine. It's crazy because once someone has a conversation with me they realize they were wrong and often don't want to admit it. When you're built busty and statuesque people are intimidated by that alone. They then confuse being intimidated BY you for YOU trying to intimidate them which reads masculine also. I love this channel I feel I just found a place my heart loves. Although people say it should be innate it can be polished for sure.
I hang out with girls who radiate feminine energy and I usually do, but I feel like it's been more enhanced as we've rubbed off on each other. I used to hang out a lot with a girl who was so pessimistic and it really dragged down the flowy airy feminine energy 💖💖💖
🥲 watching your videos and having to face that I was abused and surrounded by violent men that made me hate and hurt my femininity. Anyone that is free and safe to be a woman is truly blessed
Same 😓 my dad was abusive in my formative years and it definitely contributed to me being so much more closed off around men in general. Which first started out as being more shy and quiet around them when I first started dating and now it's trying too hard to be the masculine part of myself as if I have to appear tough
@@qazedc3 thank you for sharing 💞 well you are not alone. This has been the challenge of my life and thankfully we do find the road to forgiveness and healing. I’m so happy that you have identified this too. That was the first step to my healing. Honestly the only way I could repair and feel self worth again has only been through my relationship with God and Jesus. Slowly but surely I found out “who I am to God” and my life started to change. I also gave up all the things I had built up with my “feminist” brain that believed all men must be evil. I finally forgave my father, spent some time with him and realized he did his best but it was up to me now to turn the story around. I also changed my taste in guys, I feel like I only went for the ones that were going to treat me badly. Everything is better now and I have finally attracted a guy that is so nice, gentle, and masculine and I’ve never felt more safe to be a woman. I pray this for you too 💖 walk the journey and hold on to the love in your heart that you know you deserve. Get your validation from God only, let Him teach you, and love you. I promise you it’s a thing. Big hug 🤗💖
@@QueenIsabella777 Thank you so much for your kind and encouraging words, you have no idea how much I needed to hear this today, I just cried a bit while reading your message. I literally woke up today with negative thoughts in my head about never finding love and feeling jaded/like I'll be alone forever and so I do believe your message is a sign from the universe 💜 I'm so glad to hear that you've overcome your obstacles in this. I've come to commit more to working on my inner self/love, healing and on my connection to spirituality so I guess the only thing I have now is more time and hope for when it happens to me. I thought I was 'feminist' too but idk about that anymore, questioning everything now. I'm still trying to figure out who I am and my identity, also trying to move away from my family so I can truly find myself.
@Skinny.pretty.girl101don't let anyone ever diminish your feminine energy. You're quite young and many will try to derail you, especially in college. ❤
IAM A CHRISTIAN MAN I LOVE YOUR CONTENT BECAUSE IT IS SO BIBLICAL BASED AND WELL INFORMED ON THE SOFTER FEMININE FEMALE THAT RADIATE AS THAT WOMAN. THIS MAKES HER MORE OF A PROVERBS 31 WHICH IAM TRYING TO STUDY IN MORE INDEPTH KEEP UP THIS GREAT WORK AND GOD BLESS AMEN 🙏🏾
Firstly, I love how educated you talk, how soft you are and what I admire the most is the patience you took to teach, explain or make us understand our worth and who we truly are. Thank you so much! Secondly, I don’t know if I belong to the targeted public-even if I don’t think there is an age for this-but I’m a 15 years old girl-who’s turning 16 in 2 months-and I’ve always felt like in my surroundings I’ve never actually been taught or seen what is a real woman values. My surroundings every girls and even some women are mostly transmitting masculine energy no matter if they’re dressed like a woman or take care of themselves as a woman should. But I’ve always been believing that feminity is not about what you’re showing but what you’re emitting. By that means, I’ve been able to also notice that I’ve got mostly got that masculine energy than the feminine one and I tried to change that to balance it or just bring out the feminine side more and I’m not saying that I’ve been totally able to do it but I changed in some ways. And this change made me lose some people but also made me understood things about life. I don’t want to explain life much here because I think it will be too long but what I really want to say is “thank you” thank you, for helping every woman / girls to step or understand more what they are and to make them love themselves as they are!
I always felt like I had a very masculine energy. Grew up around boys and even took quite a lot of their mannerisms, speech, etc. Ever since I realized it (more than 10 years ago), I've been trying to be more feminine, to change my gestures, my speech, my clothes (wear more skirts and dresses and cute stuff), and to be honest...after all those years of trying, now (I'm almost 30) I just feel like embracing my masculine energy and be at peace with it. Some things changed, some things remained just the same. I realized over the years that my feminine side is not really in the way I dress or carry myself most of the time, but in the way I take care of people when then need it and pour onto them all the love and support I've got. Not being the typical definition of feminity never really stopped me from getting a good man, and no man I've ever dated told me I was too masculine. I'm not saying taping into your feminine energy is bad (I still enjoy a good red lipstick from time to time), I think it's always interesting to explore it and play with it, but maybe a good balance between masculine and feminine is just right and we shouldn't try to supress the masculine at all costs just because "a woman should be like this and like that". A woman can be many, many things. This summer I went to a wedding wearing a nice suit instead of a dress for the first time in my life, and it felt really good to explore that possibility and also, everyone complimented me (even the groom haha). So just be the kind of woman you want to be and don't worry, I'm sure you will find your own balance. Whether that tilts more towards feminity or masculinity, you will still be an amazing woman.
I'm looking for real women, so without questioning, I subbed. With the tools you've offered, I'm confident that I'll be able to discover someone who believes in the power of reciprocity through the intertwining of feminine and masculine energy. My intention never fails when someone is just living behind a facade.
this is great advice to women for themselves but also to attract more men and have better relationships going forward. as a guy I can confirm that showing a caring feminine nature is the fastest most effective way to get yourself into the gf/wife material category where u will get more respect rather than the casual attraction category... we definitely notice either consciously or sub consciously! ps I bet u r super popular with guys, cute and a really well spoken gentle approachable manner 😀
Yes! Totally agree. Operating in your feminine as a woman will bring so much peace and harmony - familial harmony, romantic harmony, professional harmony, etc. And thank you so much for the compliment 😊
ive struggled alot with balancing my feminine and masculine energy and generally stepping in muy feminine energy but im learning how to balance both of my energies and being morr feminine, and you genuinely made things move easliy to the better for me, thank you for your energy and tbis video because it did really help me alot. you radiate so much positivity and feminity. also your hair is GORGEOUS
@@user_abcxyzz i just think the energy you want to embrace depends on the situation, people and what you're feeling, sometimes you need masculine energy to run after your goals, achieve them, at work, and sometimes it's nice to have in certain situations like a problem you have to get out of or be practical and think of a solution
I've been super masculine my whole life, honestly I don't think that's a bad thing but when I've leant into my feminine side I've felt so happy so I'm trying to do that more, it's definitely going to be hard cz I have a reputation for being an aggressive masculine person but this video really helped, thank you 😊
Rose is a beautiful name. Something tells me you will keep blossoming into your feminine energy in the years to come. Perhaps some of your new friends might call you "Rosie" ☺️
Wow- you have such a magnetic personality and your speech is so calming! I’ve also noticed how you tie in Scriptural morals into your ideas. I definitely think that many women need to tap back into their femininity. What a beautiful message! These characteristics of women must’ve been in the beginning too when God called mankind good. Amazing how God restores His people!
I literally teared up watching this because growing up in an African household my mom always made me feel ashamed of my femininity and forced me to always have my masculine shield but now that im 15 im starting to embrace my feminity 💓🌸
I loved this video, I stayed focused on your words, and I want to tap into my feminine energy more, Im not strong in my feminine energy but that is going to be my main focus starting now into the new year, im subscribing. I love your energy, it kept me drawn to this video.
I agree with you so much! I used to think that being feminine was being weak. I thought I had to be tough because I was just trying to survive. But feminine energy full on is so powerful and magnetic! You are so beautiful and you radiate feminine energy. Great content!
I do not know why or how, but certainly the first time i saw you i felt very calm, relaxed, and happy. You somehow have something special, i do not know how to describe this feeling but it is really good. I feel like i want to see you and listen to you all the day. I love your look and your voice. You're beautiful and amazing.
When the word femininity comes up in my mind: I bound it with softness, Sweetness, Beauty, Aesthetic, Lightness, Nurture, Authenticity, Peacefulness in Energy, as you said Receptiveness, Enchantment, Gracefulness, Loveliness ♥ --- yeah I love being a woman
I love that your videos arent manipulative. I am seeing so many videos under the banner of "femininity" that are really guides about how to be self-serving and manipulative by putting on a mask. That isn't feminine, and it is always going to end up being destrictive when that mask slips. Your videos stand out as being about growing in kindness and gentleness in a very wholesome way.
You know weirdly enough I had a complex where I felt like I come off too masculine and stuff, but I think this video made me realize that I might act a lot more feminine then I thought, it’s more so my thought process that contains most of my masculine enrgy
You are such a delight to watch and listen to, Jasmyne! My whole being softens just by listening to this video, getting confirmation, nuggets and feeling your energy. I feel grateful and even more excited about continuing to unfold and flow with my organic, feminine essence. Thank you 🌹🙏🥰
I loved how you said the word vagina like it's normal. Most women who say thay word on camera become all giddy and laugh like they are nervous. I always find that to be silly. Vagina is the proper word to call it. There's no need to be childish about it. That was just refreshing to me.
Thank you for helping me think about rekindling my connection to my femininity. As I process your insight to femininity I feel your words are leading me to the correct information and it deeply resonates. I’m really looking forward to learning more of your perspectives and hope to develop and create a life focusing on my femininity. Thank you for providing the tools to potentially manifest my dreams and my passions.
Hi. I'm a new subscriber of yours, I'm from Italy and almost 20. Your videos are a blessing to me. I'm not religious, nor I want to get married and have children, yet I always felt like being my true feminine self was unnecessary or even unproductive. Finding your videos changed my attitude completely. Now I feel so much better, now I can be feminine without putting a fake masculine mask over it. I'm so thankful I found your channel, and I'm really sorry for my bad English, I just hope my blessings will reach you and all you hold dear to yourself :)
I’m learning how to radiate my feminine energy I used to do it a lot but I got depressed and had really bad anxiety which stopped me from taking care of myself and my mental health but now I’m not sad/upset/over edge anymore. I’m starting to feel sm more happy with myself and my inner self and higher self. my boyfriend balances both my feminine and masculine energy we are so in-sync with one another it’s such a beautiful thing we have. i love dressing up and putting perfume on, wearing jewelry, wearing lipgloss, looking and feeling cleaning makes me feel like such a goddess. 💕🌸💙💅🏽🙏🏽☀️
I'd just like to say that..... Your voice, my god. It sings serenity and gentleness, like a fresh morning breeze. It's one of the most enchanting and transparent voices I've ever heard, It almost made me cry because I could almost feel myself touching your essence. Your words have touched me deep in my soul, and this whole speech of yours...It was something I didn't know I needed until I came across this video. I've always struggled a lot with my sensitivity and I've got to admit that I haven't always been in a safe environment (outside of my family), too many people and bad experience (and the type of world we all live in) almost ruined this femininity of mine and I've only realized this recently. I have even started to cut off all the toxic people from my life during these past months. So thank you, thank you very much.❤ Ps. Sorry for any kind of grammatical mistakes, It's not my first language.
This is a very refreshing video. Your vernacular and word usage is very nice and impressive. You are reminding me that I need to read more to expand my vocabulary. Also, love your natural hair! 💕
I started watching your videos last year and honestly I can say your videos and just your presence infont of the camera has changd my life💖 Thank you so much for your videos💖
It makes me happy to my core to know I've always been like this and have done all of these without knowing and I see heads turn every time I enter a room :)
So happy to have found you! You radiate confidence and feminity through the screen. Wow! I have been working on levelling up myself, looked up for feminine energy and here I am. About boundaries, at some point in my recent job, one of my employers was being rude and said something out loud. I thought about answering back but then I would have stooped down to his arrogant level, I stood there, called in for an employee meeting and explained to the management team what happened. That there are certain boundaries the male employees should not cross with the female employees (ea. sexual comments or gossiping, etc) We are human beings too just like our male friends and colleagues, and the men should respect the women and vice versa. Always set up boundaries and explain where you stand to your employer, friend, family member, or whoever is in your circle, in a respectful manner.
I do pretty much all of this. I am friendly and caring. Even if I am mentally off to the point where my self care is lacking, I get new confidence if I can give directions for a stranger on the street. I write cursive, I keep my hair curly like you, I like swimming, yoga, and playing the flute. I do love how you rep for us curly girls and your voice is so soothing. I think I never wanted to straighten my hair because my first celebrity crush was Drew Barrymore. I’m not sure if you intended this for lesbians like myself. It does speak to me, however. I am always told “I never would have guessed that you’re a lesbian! You’re so feminine!” And I don’t know how to take that. I knew one girl once who told me, “oh I saw your rainbow bag, and I honestly wasn’t shocked!” And I felt so seen, but that never happened before nor since then. It’s just you know, I am really feminine but also really gay…
This is a Christian channel instructing in Godly femininity, if it speaks to you then perhaps that’s a sign your heart is seeking the Gospel. No vice is to great so as to overcome our Lord’s love for mankind, seek and you shall find God bless.
@@EmilyViggiani “For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son so the whosever believes in him should not perish but have everlasting life”. There is no greater love than to lay down your life for your friends. God loves you even in your brokenness, but if you prefer to be broken then he won’t force healing upon you. The Bible isn’t just a book of fairy tales and the God of the Bible will reveal himself to you if you seek him earnestly. If any part of you wishes to be whole then just give him a chance, if you don’t hear or see his sign you can keep on as you are. It doesn’t hurt to try.
@@andrewholmes7045 I really don’t want a life of indentured servitude. Men carry a lot of diseases, too. And they cause pregnancy which is a severe disability. Women take a very long time off from work when they get pregnant, and as such, they financially depend on some guy who really isn’t good for anything else. Men do intentionally and blatantly cause disabilities, such as pregnancy and acid burns and foot-binding and FGM. Like, the whole intention is to cripple women so we are left with no choice but subservience. I like being feminine but I establish healthy boundaries
Seems like you are genuine in your approach and don't feed the toxic feminine agenda. Kindness, compassion and surrender encompass for me the greatest qualities of the feminine energy. We need more support in our women network 🙏🏼
Thank you so much for talking about not masking our traits in fear of being taken advantage of. I sometimes catch myself having to put away some traits so people dont think I am gullible
The biggest and hardest problem for connecting with my femininity is to get off the " I do it my own. I don't need anyone." mindset. But the moments I got out of it for a while things were so easy...until the anxiety about everything around me came back. 🤔
I wish there were more content creators like you. Your message to women is beautiful. Women have been trying to be like or beat men for so long we stopped appreciating the very thing that makes us special and different
SUBSCRIBED!!! I adore your energy. You have so many great points. I think sometimes we all unconsciously want to stray away from our femininity to protect ourselves. But there is nothing wrong with receiving and being in touch with our natural selves as women, this makes us 10x more attractive. Thank you for this 💕
i just realized that women radiate more feminine energy when they're in love. like since i got heartbroken i've been masculine more than ever . i think women can be more natural and feminine when they're around someone thay trust .
I am deeply afraid of being feminine and vulnerable as it was always used against me growing up. My mother and sisters are deeply hostile, aggressive and antagonizing especially of other females and are frequently mistaken for men so I am terrified of being in my feminine.
You can also be quietly feminine when by yourself or amongst other people, and try to be independent from your family. Is your father alive? How do they treat him, seeing as he is male?
@@white_tulip2189 my mother was dealing to my father. She's never had a boyfriend or significant other and battered my father. When I was four she walked up behind him and tried to cut his throat. It was terrifying. And when my father told the the police they laughed and the judge decided 'children belong with their mother' despite my father telling the judge she sexualized us girls as toddlers and called me a "fucking idiot" and "bullseye" as a small toddler.My mother has never had a sexual encounter with a sober male. She's usually mistaken for a man. I'm the only one of her daughters who never been mistaken for male. I was very close with my father. She was kind and nurturing and held me and rocked me. No one held me after the age of four when I was injured, in pain, hurt or sad....
@@white_tulip2189 my mother preaches submissiveness to men to women but in reality she's never had the same sex partner more than once. She would bring home several guys a night that she'd met in bars that she usually was giving drugs to or promised drugs too and she'd batter them, rip their hair hair out, punch them or if they wanted to use a condom she'd insult their masculinity by calling them 'faggots' and 'pussies'. That's much better than how she treated her daughters or other females including little girls. My mother and sisters will batter, stalk and harass men for not sleeping with them.
Honestly I think theres something wrong with your mother and sisters as you describe them. Thats why roses have thorns. You have to be at peace with yourself which sounds difficult in that environment. Dont give up be strong and be yourself.. feminine. Men and Woman are not the same, whatever people tell you. We are different and thats beautiful and we need to embrace our strenghts and weaknesses. You are the true gem in your family, no matter what they tell you. I agree in the above comments you should keep it to yourself or only show it to your friends and when your old enough move to a different field of good people.. move on. This is no family and will destroy you. They have a bad influence on you. That is very sad and I wish you the best.
Omg, you're so charming!! I'm a young woman myself, and I immediately smiled when I saw your smile 🥰 Thank you so much for this video, it really helped a lot!
I forgot how Powerful I am.....how Powerful I feel when Im in my Feminine Energy. I exude confidence....love pours out from me because....it simultaneously radiates from me. I am in flow state....and feel aligned. WOW!!! Thank you for reminding me Jesus....of how Beautifully Powerful we Women are. Its our Divine Mandate. Im back....in my Feminine Power....Divinely placed inside of All of us because God operates in both Feminine and Masculine Power....Authenticity!🙏🏿🙌🏿❤️
Thank you for helping me become a good feminine. I used to be emotional and vulnerable sherbet other people hurt me deeply. But today I realised, forgiving is also part of this. To forget the past and move forward with a smile. I love how positive and vibrant you are. Thank you again for making a change to this world 🙂❤️
I am financially independent and I'm a very strong woman but I'm also enjoying leaning back into femininity when I'm with a man this being courteous towards me and it feels wonderful and I really enjoy it and it makes me feel good inside
Your essence and mannerisms are captivating; I couldn’t agree more with the points you made in this video. I hope that I too can further tap into my femininity, thank you for this video.
the boundaries thing is what I need to just play on a loop lol. calling it the "masculine shield" is brilliant and really helps to reorient how I think about these dynamics.
So thankful to have found your channel. 🥰🥰 I have been on my grind taking care of myself for so long; I think I've forgotten how to be in my feminine energy! I'm positive that you will help me change this and I'm excited about this new journey! Thank you so much for being you!! ☮🕉
I only watched 1 min so far and I couldn't stop myself from commenting to say that your face is literally glowing and I can see that you have a beautiful soul&heart.
I just stumbled onto your page and it brought me to tears because it revealed how out of touch I was with my feminine energy. Thank you! I love your video!
Hi. Thanks for your video, Jasmyne. This is so refreshing to hear these days. One book that really helped me immensely was "True Woman 101". I read it with my small group and I'm reading it again!
Can I just say that your videos & content are just so blessed and PERFECT! I watch a lot of feminine themed videos and you have a lot of good advice and come from what feels a really natural angle. Please keep up the beautiful work! 💕💕💕💕
I literally had to stop what I was doing and look at your face because you are so incredibly beautiful. You have such a balanced perspective. Please keep doing this.
I have now realised that without practicing this, this knowledge will be worthless. It not natural for me to smile more, even though i do know that i have good heart and good intentions but i know that i always tend to protect myself and also because am socially anxious am always tense and look sad. So am now practicing talking with smile.
Young lady you are so darling! I feel like I finally found my Cabbage Patch doll 🥲 FINALLY someone that looks like me 💖 it brings me great joy watching this video thank you & may God bless you and keep you🙏🏽
I stumbled upon your channel, what a blessing! Such a beautiful message :) I have struggled to feel emotionally safe for so long, but now I am aware of the impact it has in me and how I can try to better the situation. Have a blessed Saturday, your portray your words very gracefully ☀️
I used to get defensive when guys offered to carry stuff for me; I didn’t want to be “weak”. This last week at college I was carrying a HUGE box all the way across campus and I had to stop and rest and this super nice guy offered to take it to my car for me 🥹 I felt bad accepting because he wasn’t much bigger than me but I did and it was a very positive experience!
