How to Recognize the Real Players 

ALWAYS be under the radar , ie... accumulate wealth quietly , don't drive an expensive new car, buy real estate, index funds or ETFs , NEVER allow a female or friends or family to know your net worth. NEVER brag about money or women....become wealthy the same way I did ....QUIETLY.

@ 2:30 real talk. That is so true. Its the same concept as killers move in silence. One of my uncles always use to say "A king can't crown himself".

True Players never kiss a& tell

I stop counting after 50 in my mid 20s when I realize it’s not a competition because for some dudes it’s about bragging rights. What they not telling you is the ones they had to pay for and the ones who wouldn’t give it up a second time.

Pure facts, homie. The real players never HAVE to mention how many women they've been with. Other women talk about it amongst themselves; this info trickles out somehow and then ppl find out. Meanwhile, the women want the man--and the men hate on the man.

Just lay back and be yourself it ain't all about being in these chicks faces let em wonder about you. Peace family another good one.

The secret is to FALL BACK / BE COOL/DONT CHASE ,am i right Rom?

So, so, so, so true. Once again Rom has hit it on the head. The Real Player doesn't approach women, women approach the Real Player. When women are approaching you, of course, it's very easy to rack up a high notch count. And it's not like the player is doing anything special. He's just being himself. And women are attracted to that “self”, or aura as Rom calls it. I think there is also a “subculture” of real players and their “groupies”. The groupies immediately recognize the player and approach him, they talk briefly, and then they move to the bathroom or the back bedroom or some other location and have sex. The player and the groupie recognize each other immediately, and the sex occurs almost like a handshake. It's just something they do. So I think that is another aspect of the real player’s life -- groupies. One way that you can tell a player in a social situation is that he will be laughing and joking, and women are giggling at what he says, but their boyfriends or husbands are not smiling. That's the time to head for the exit. I think that Pickup Artists can rack up a high Notch count, but women are not approaching them, they are approaching women . Perhaps their aura is not strong enough to attract women, but their techniques can cause women to give them their phone number, date them and sleep with them. So, hooray for pickup artistry. But one thing that confused me about Pua articles was they never talked about “the look”. And that's how you can tell that you're talking to someone that has at least some aura about them. They will talk about “the look”. That's the look that women give them across a room that tells them that the woman is interested in them. In fact that's the primary thing I think that a true player relies upon. He either simply waits for a woman to approach him, or he will look around the room and wait for “the look” from one or a few women, and then approach them. The real players do not approach women. Women approach them. The real Pick Up Artists approach women, and sleep with them. So, kudos to the pickup artists. But they're not the real players. In my opinion Rom does not teach pick up. Rom teaches aura.

You can be a player and be humble about it. I call it the "silent players".

Real game. Truth. Bang 100 you approach 200. Alot of guys claim buying and or sex groups make them players. Wrong. Good game Rom. Players have an aura. Understood

Rom I gotta keep it 💯 I quit my part time job and got back in the gym. You said some shit in a past video that stuck with me, I want go into details but keep grinding, just know you reaching people.

The True Players choose Quality over Quantity 800 Women is just a hard Life.

I had tons of female friends from all backgrounds, If a man's sleeping with 100 women in 2017/2018 in a short time span most are probably single moms. The rest are mostly likely chicks who already been ran-through with high body counts....And when I hear men talking about the 100 women they had, I always think she must not have been that hot or "fine" if he couldn't wait to replace her.

For me, the definition of a Real Player, Select Man, Classic Man, Alpha Male is a man whose presence (or aura in Rom's terminology) creates deep sexual arousal in most straight women. The breadth and depth of sexual arousal in a group of straight women is the only measure of a Real Player. Various factors such as height, golden-ratio face, and others may contribute to the depth of sexual arousal among straight women, but a man’s measurements alone are not a true measure of a Real Player. The only true measure of a Real Player is the depth of sexual arousal that his presence creates in most straight women. As Rom says, it's the women who do the selecting. Therefore, the definition of a real player can only be determined by a woman's reaction to him. Sexual arousal is not the same thing as attraction. A woman may be attracted to a rich well-dressed man, but aroused by poor, poorly dressed man. Therefore, a man making himself more attractive will not necessarily make him more arousing to women. Many married women have been with men before or even during their marriage whom they find more arousing, but who are unable or unwilling to provide them with the Financial Security they need for their children. The sex that they give to their husbands is nothing like the sex that they've given to the men who have truly aroused them. Therefore, men should be careful about spending time and money making themselves more “attractive”. If they have the opportunity to make themselves more arousing, they should go in that direction. Much of Rom’s advice is directed toward making men more arousing to women. It has taken me a lifetime to come up with this definition for my own clarification. It's a definition with which I'm currently comfortable, but completely willing to change in the future.

A real player never brags about the women he been with most of the time he's in denial.

They increase their sexual aura by doing self improvement in their appearance and body am I right ?

Truthfully getting burnt, pregnancy scares, busted women bodies, stalkers will slow down that body count create selectiveness and silence

A player goes everwhere but a badboy like myself we choose with how we sleep but don't get it twisted sex is just sex. I love to make love with a women but only with someone i really feel. Not a lot i guess.

That makes sense Uncle Rom!

I never paid for no sex!

Real talk fam! Truth for real! See that's exactly why I still put you at the top when it comes to men doing videos on women, relationships and sexuality. Even if guys have more subscribers than you, you're still the grandmaster in my book! It's not always about the amount of subscribers you have, it's about the impact you truly have on your followers. Like you've said, you'll have guys that can make good content that sounds good and be on point and real but these can do quite a bit of embellishing! So that's why their number of subscribers will surpass yours but I always respect 100% pure real content! I believe I know the person you're talking about online that's doing videos who talks about being a real alpha and how to deal with women and sleep with multiple of them. The good thing is that you didn't mention his name which I know how you get down and I don't expect that from you at all. I strongly believe that I know the person you're talking about, I'm not going to say his name either but I subscribed to this guy and I'll admit, I do like a lot of his content! My thing is this, it's truly impossible for you to sleep with multiple women on a consistent basis throughout the year and they're all bad/stars. Some of them are just probably nice looking enough to turn you on and give you an erection! Also like you've mentioned, when you're considered select and turn a lot of women on sexually, a lot of women do come on to you even though some will send choosing signals and you have to make the first move,I can personally tell you from experience. Another thing too, if you're so focus on your finances and taking care of of your business, it's impossible and hard for me to believe that your dealing with multiple women when your time is very limited especially when you only have weekends available. You can't work all of those hours during the week, be able to juggle all of those women and make videos on a consistent basis, no way in the hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Long long time ago I was at a bar with my then boyfriend. This guy came in with about four women and sat in a booth behind us. The man was beautiful. I mean simply stunning. I'm trying not to pay any attention but before you know it I had turned my bar stool around and was grinning at him and he's grinning back along with all the other women with him. Next thing I know my boyfriend is snatching my chair back around. I wanted to go over there so bad. It's like I was under a spell. To this day I remember tha t man's face clear as a bell. It was like he was a Warloc of love. Thank God I wasn't alone I probably would have ended up in a sex coven. I swear it was something about that man, you inhaled him.

Salaam brother Rom. Is that a Kufi?I might start rocking one again.I had custom made jawns back in the day.

I totally agree with you

As much as I say I am solidly in the Non-Select category I have to admit I have had a few women make the moves on me.

uncle Rom a good guy

Less but quality feminine women everyday; when you have this cred the rest keep coming at you. But it gets to a point you would rather stay indoors and read a book than hookup with a new chic - you become choosy about protecting your energy.

Real shit

I know a woman who told me she slept with over 800 men. She told me this in 2009

7:23 say that lol. everything has as price.

Like the character Greer? , from “ She’s gotta have it “?

Stay stealth with body counts

Yo Rom, I swear my workplace is training ground for game. There is this sista who I thought for months didn't like me is now talking to me. She must've been scoping me cause I overheard her talking bout her break up sometime ago. Best I can describe her is a "Queen" personality. She's very outspoken and can be bossy. Very pretty tho. Her features are like Janelle Monae. She can be professional model if she wanted. She has me on lockdown at the lunch breaks. LOL! I guess I am becoming a playa.

...good lookin' out.

Facts. Pregnancy scares and actual pregnancies. And a numerous "softballs" along the way.

What about the friend who begs to sleep with a woman after they know you got the number?

Hey Uncle i don't know if someone told you this but you got a dope delievery i like it alot

You could put me in the Sahara Desert

great video

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Today you Rom "the bullshit breaker" Wills 😂😂😂. Exposing the game one day at a time - this should be on a t-shirt

Man Unc, I dunno what it is I'm 35. Just this week a 18yo gave me her number. We were talking and she straight up told me she thought I was a playa. That it was "my vibe." Now I'm not complaining but I can't help but wonder if she thinks I'm a playa, why even give me her number to begin with? She's not wrong lol. But damn

Just read Nice Guys and Players. Powerful. I say it's going down in history... a la "The Joy of Sex"... What say you Rom Wills? Lol

Leo men

2018 MY youtube not recent so know I have something to personally ask you .Can I email you? Just came across your channel on here and wondered if I can email you but if you are married I do not want to be disrespectful!! ROM

Rom, random question, do you think women have became very masculine these days?

First!!! Who’s quicker than me 😉😉😉

Players have women chasing them

ugly or paid for...

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