How to Romanticize Your Ordinary Life

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Hi Everyone! happy Tuesday. I'm a bit late on this trend on "How to Romanticize Your Life" and "How to Become the Main Character," but I think this is a really important topic and I wanted to create my own video. I hope you enjoy!
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@daniqsaa 2 года назад

Also a part of romanticizing/being the main character is knowing that whatever comes is temporary. Like in a movie, you know the lows WILL be overcome -- and that's really awesome if you ask me!

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

I love that mindset!

@soulful645 2 года назад

Very well said

@TheRikkuShak 2 года назад

I started to romanticize my life a couple of years ago, literally feeling like the main character of a series or a web novel etc. And it was literally the best thing ever. I normally hate lifestyle trends because they often contain some toxicity but this has helped me overcome my depression (which was years long and very severe). I turned from someone who wanted to die pretty much everyday to someone who looks at a flower and feels all the luck in the world. I never would have imagined I would say I love life so so much. Altough the daily life and routine (especially work) make it sometimes really hard - I still try to appreciate it whenever it goes - like picturing how my fav collueges and I are in a soap and dealing with our work problems. But life is sometimes hard and not everything can and should be romanticized. Being sad sometimes is necessary as well :) Gread advise in the video nontheless, I love it!

@jo-annel.wright2975 2 года назад

Good for you. Honouring the ordinary is so underated. You might say you swept the floor today and the other person might wonder why you said it but you know why, you are honouring the ordinary. We are programmed to seek and extol only the extraordinary.

@Lea-ov8vq 2 года назад

Same :) Its so much fun and even though it doesnt solve all your problems, it definitely makes life feel lighter

@ametrineambrosia4929 2 года назад

I am SO happy for you!! So here are some flowers for you 💐🌸🌷🌹🌻🌺

@Alyxlightqxstar 2 года назад

I'm proud of you :) here, have a cookie --> 🍪

@DeandraStubbs 2 года назад

*I try my best to live every day and not only to exist, but to enjoy the simple things. I find that living life through the good and the bad times helps us to grow and create memories that we can look back on and cherish because they made us who we are. One day we will be grandparents and our lives will be a novel worth telling our grandchildren because we chose to live.* 😊💕

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

🥰 yes!!! let's make beautiful stories to enjoy and to pass down

@gustavotejada607 2 года назад

@@MalamaLife As always your videos are inspiring as a man I learn a learn a lot from you `!! Priceless

@keepingthefaith1368 2 года назад

..’we chose to live’ 💕 love this

@DeandraStubbs 2 года назад

@@keepingthefaith1368 Thank you 😊💕 hope you're having a beautiful day

@saundarya1094 Год назад

You written so beautifully😍☺❤

@DemetriPanici 2 года назад

*"Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines." - Robert H. Schuller*

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

❤️

@diyanair8618 2 года назад

Hey I saw your comment in Rachel's video too

@AndyJamerson 2 года назад

"Perception shapes reality, so why not make it a beautiful one?" 🙏 couldn't agree more. Wonderfully said. I love how your vids are like a journal entry that you share with us.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Andy! how did you know? This was a journal entry that I wanted to make into a video :D I hope you are doing well!

@shellystrank6633 2 года назад

I am at a crossroads in my life. Not feeling satisfied with an "introverted" lifestyle yet challenged to get out into the real world again. Trying to stay present and allow my journey to unfold gracefully. I am grateful the RU-vid algorithm lead me to you. I look forward to Tuesdays and watching your videos each week. You are the peaceful space I need with my hectic work environment. Sending you blessings ❤

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

😍 Sending you big hugs! thanks for watching and supporting me

@slowandsimplelivingdiaries 2 года назад

I don't think I've ever thought about "romanticizing" my life! I certainly try to enjoy and to appreciate the small things in life but this video gives me a completely new perspective! Thanks for another wonderful and thoughtful video!

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Happy to hear that :)

@christopherjones8920 2 года назад

Thank you for reminding me that I’m “in the driver’s seat of my own life”. I often forget that.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

I have to remind myself constantly :)

@thailandt55 2 года назад

My favorite author Stuart Wilde wrote "Once you do not have to accommodate people, you can begin to act in a measured way. This means weighing events and decision in the light of your own needs, your own nurturing, your own growth. Then if you wish to help someone, you do so from your own volition, not from a feeling of having to or from their manipulation. By being forthright and act in a measured way you move gently through the consciousness of the day. You do not run, you do not hurry and you set up time frames that are comfortable for you." book (Affirmations )

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

thank you so much for sharing this 🥰

@tammyvanderleest4897 2 года назад

Wow! Love that!!! Thank you for sharing!

@ther.channel 2 года назад

Wow, I love this.

@Havanah2006 2 года назад

I love that "Live, Don't Just Exist" 🥰😍🤩

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

❤️😍 yes!! thanks Sani

@lindseyoreilly9211 2 года назад

I've been working on doing this too! There's is so much beauty in making a cup of coffee, taking a walk, etc. It's made me fall in love with my life so much more.

@377499 2 года назад

In my mind lately I have had these same thoughts. I wonder if I am a fool or a simpleton when I can take a few steps into the woods and take such full joy in seeing some leaves sprout at the end of a stem, or a tiny insect making their way across a branch. Nothing needs fixing. And then I look back at the house filled with scores of items that had to be purchased and fixed and maintained. If only I could tell my young daughter to not toil too much in life searching for happiness when it already abounds all around us.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

❤

@rayoneforall 2 года назад

"We have the power to make an incredibly interesting story with the plot that's been handed to us because perception is what shapes reality so why not make it a beautiful one" Me: ... "Why not make it a beautiful one." I just got more motivated and inspired deep within. Thanks!

@kimgordon3695 2 года назад

4:55 Being culturally raised to meet the needs of others, we can at times lose our way. Listening to your wise reflections have helped me to regain balance; to re visit priorities & to savor the beauty along our path. Sending love & gratitude your way Sophie 💝 Aloha

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

much aloha ❤️

@Froglet1968 2 года назад

I'm feeling so VERY isolated, I'm not coping too well but am not near people really....overwhelmed from the last 2 years and just want to feel safe...thank you for your beautiful video....your voice is very soothing...

@sarahuber8567 4 месяца назад

I can relate. Lots of love to you 💜

@LaureninGermany 2 года назад

Yes! Sometimes it’s good to close your eyes and see yourself from outside- snuggled up safely with your delicious snack, for example. How that would be described in a book, and we‘re living it, such comfort. It’s so important to notice our beautiful lucky moments.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

we are living it ❤️ yes! love how you phrased it

@Freepalestin3 2 года назад

Every time I feel down, your videos make me look at my life from different perspective and be so thankful for what I have.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

❤️ thanks Anna

@xoanglexo 2 года назад

Every time I watch you videos I immediately come back to the present moment. Thank you for these beautiful reminders!

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

yay! happy to hear that ❤️ we all need these reminders :)

@rinzler9775 Год назад

An exquisite voice.

@nurulwahida9032 Год назад

I have been searching for a comfort video just like this. The way you talk, the message you convey and of course the video itself is totally soothing. Thank you so much. Looking forward for more videos from you ❤️

@r099manzeetakhumanthem8 2 года назад

Hey Malama wish I could see u irl and tell u how much ur wisdom has changed me. Ur videos comforts me and change me for the better. Sending you love + light❤️

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

aw thank you 🥰 makes me so happy to hear that!

@ajc2195 2 года назад

I have been struggling with savoring each moment in life lately. Really needed this video to help put things in perspective for me. Thank you so much!

@mihaelaclaudiap..2 2 года назад

I heard that quote of Oscar Wilde as well, and it stuck with me forever! I really love it! i also love to romanticize my life, I didn't use to do that, but I've changed my mind. I want to live not only to exist, and I can do that only by enjoying small things in my daily life and by being grateful for what I already have. That doesn't mean that I won't fight for my dreams, but I will enjoy the process as well, and not only focus on the final result. I adore this topic and your ideas are spot on as always Sophie! Hope that you are well! Hello from UK :)

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Yes! I know exactly what you mean. wow you're back in the UK now :) take care Mihaela 🥰

@abstracthope2727 2 года назад

I absolutely loved it 😍 Thank you so much Sophie. The way you put difficult chores as challenging tasks and learning from past mistakes I wish I had heard it earlier.

@mariek4671 2 года назад

As always your wisdom is a reminder of how much power we have of our lifes... you seem to find the words and advice I need at the right moment for me... thanks😊❤🙏

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Thanks marie❤

@lindajackson6959 2 года назад

I am really living in the moment,enjoying what’s around me.Love your videos it’s helping a lot of people to see the simple life,you are one of a kind.❤️

@apple1hun Год назад

The calm voice help so much, in a time that I’m feeling overwhelmed

@MalamaLife Год назад

Happy to hear that! Thank you for watching

@Ladylovesdogs 2 года назад

You are a gift! We truly are the heroes in our lives. Thanks for the reminder and inspiration

@angelimmanuel6665 Год назад

I love how peaceful these 8minutes were to me! Its always productive to come to this channel and also a start to open the new subtitle to my life. I find it motivating and giving new energy, thank you so much dear! We love you so much! 💕🤗

@EllenEmryReads 2 года назад

This video was such a great start to my day. It's so easy to get stuck going through the motions of a busy week, especially if it feels like we have a lot of responsibilities. Taking care of yourself doesn't always mean shutting the world out, but most often it is really by inviting it in, in some way. Finding small pockets of time throughout the day to bring us back to ourselves and the world - because we aren't just living, breathing "To-do" lists. Thank you for this.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Yes!! love your comment so much 😍

@dshdsh1874 2 года назад

"Taking care of yourself doesn't always mean shutting the world out, but most often it is really inviting it in." SO accurate. Thank you!!

@therandallgarrett 2 года назад

I love how you bring this idea from concept into examples from your own life. I've been considering this in my own videos as well, how we write the story of our life, preferably with greater awareness. You definitely inspired me, thanks!

@manalichaudhari710 2 года назад

Your videos are really therapeutic to watch. Your perception creates your reality" hitt me hardest. Thanks for all you efforts!!!!💜✨

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

❤️ thank you!! I'm so happy to hear that

@marissat9953 2 года назад

Thank you for reminding me to "live my life and not just exist"! It's something to strive for every day! 😊🥰

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Yes!! ❤️ we always need to be reminded

@nataliestoddard9060 2 года назад

Your voice is so calming and your video made me realize that it's ok to fall in love with even the smallest simplest parts of your day💛

@SoNiels Год назад

Such a beautiful, gentle soul you are. Thank you 🙏🏻❤️

@kumushmatyoqubova1676 2 года назад

It's just a first time that I heard the term ''romantisizing the life'' and you gave me a chance to think how much romantic my life is! Your peaceful videos inspiring me a lot! Thank you ❤️

@JuliaShalomJordan 2 года назад

I love this video. Thanks for the reminder that our life is a reflection of what we choose to make it. 💕

@junesimone Год назад

Your channel has changed me in so many great ways

@RewangYulianto 2 года назад

your house is a beautiful place, neat arrangement, and comfortable for relaxation, I will try to imitate the arrangement of the room like that

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

❤️ thank you! I like to keep it simple and functional

@Hallie0524 2 года назад

You perfectly put words to what I'm creating in my own life. Falling in love with it again, with the mundane, the usual, the now.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

❤🥰 best wishes

@shenaro1518 2 года назад

i cant stop watching your videos , i love ur voice once again and i love your positive energy , thanku so much girl ❤❤💫

@seletamadden8063 2 года назад

All of your blogs are very informative and inspiring! Your blogs save lives!♡

@georgelyden 2 года назад

Sophie 🌺 We absolutely loved this video, the scenery/ cinematography is just stunning! We have found such a peaceful calm in your voice and advice. Mahalo.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Thanks Keoki and Kate 😍 I hope you're well!

@vrindagopinath3299 2 года назад

I was somehow recently got attracted towards 'slow living' and search of that led me to your videos. Its 2.41am here in Abu Dhabi and i am watching your previous videos , I am addicted ❤️!! Being an anxious person who thinks about what ' to be done next' even while watching a movie, I find great solace in your videos and they are greatly influencing me. Looking forward to watching many more. Love ❤️

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Thanks so much 🥰

@sunilgoureesam7194 2 года назад

Are ya malayali?

@vrindagopinath3299 2 года назад

@@sunilgoureesam7194 am !

@ItsAngelOfficial15 2 года назад

This is the reason why I'm hooked on your channel. You give positivity and realizations in life. Thank you for this. May God bless you always So much love from Philippines 🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭

@savannahangela8855 2 года назад

such a beautiful perspective. I have really found it to be a practice as well, and it's one of those things you come back to.

@conniediaz6456 9 месяцев назад

I really enjoyed this video and how you balance realism and romanticism. To become the main character of your story, yet not becoming a selfish, self-centered person. This is one of the best videos on the topic. Well done. I would love to continue watching this topic in future videos. Thank you!

@carmenalabat8425 2 года назад

Love this video so much. Your calming voice is refreshing and helps you focus to listen to this beautiful message you have left us to ponder

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

😊 thank you so much

@Josie_55. 2 года назад

I find your videos incredible calm. I love them.

@lydiabeaton6924 2 года назад

Yay!! Mahalo for another great video! I’m learning so much about slow living from you.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

🥰 so happy to hear that! big mahalo for watching Lydia

@agentbey 2 года назад

SImple for me is more. I find trying to fill each moment with things to do lead to survival. I gave up this way of being after living in SE Asia for a few years. The experience ripen my true nature and gave me a better understanding of being in the flow of life. I am much more grateful of each moment. Thank you for your gracious wisdom and videos. You are greatly appreciated.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Happy for you :) thanks for watching

@elvinamyrzabekova1436 2 года назад

For me it's about your voice and atmosphere, it's calming and making me feel comfortable and relaxed

@angeladai1201 2 года назад

I was in a funk for a while and your words are helping me regain control over my perspective, thanks Sophie

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

I'm so glad! Thanks Angela 😍

@dancingqueen9902 2 года назад

What a truly beautiful video - thank you, I really needed to hear this, especially with what is going in the World. Where you look is where you go. Love your content 😊💕

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Thank you ❤️

@kokiami4673 2 года назад

this video is as beautiful as the meaning behind it! you're really inspirational, thank you

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

🥰 thank you so much for watching.

@kyla8555 2 года назад

Thank you for taking the time to curate such thoughtful and meaningful videos. Sending good vibes your way. ☀️

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

sending much love your way ❤️ thanks for watching

@YennyCMorales 2 года назад

Your videos are like wall arts, so inspirational and always make someone stop and watch and think. Tks for taking the time to create them. Keep them coming 💕💕💕

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

❤️ thank you Yenny

@emmybedi 2 года назад

thank you so much for sharing this video- really needed this, much love xx

@harngnonb5914 2 года назад

I am so calm and kinda able to make an upcoming decision for myself, thanks hun

@deboracabral6610 Год назад

Your hair is SO beautiful!

@lisav5741 2 года назад

THANK YOU for this wonderful video!! it releases my anxiety so much

@isadoraarantes116 2 года назад

This is seriously The best video I’ve ever seen. Thank you for that!

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Aw thank you Isadora ❤

@mrsibatalha Год назад

Thank you so much for sharing this. I really needed to hear this. Thank you.

@thivashini1211 Год назад

This is deeply calming and inspiring 💕

@berenicecr7684 2 года назад

OMG the best topic on RU-vid ♥️ thanks

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

❤😍 aw thank you!

@TheKrazyKoala 2 года назад

Awww Kona is so happy 🐶🐶I’m lying on bed listening to your video and so calming that I think I can sleep better tonight 🐨 I didn’t know this word “romanticize” before this video, but I always feel my life is very romantic 😁

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

thanks Koala! I also think your life is very romantic ❤️ enjoy your beautiful life in Singapore

@simsparix7276 2 года назад

I am so greatful that this is something i have found at such a young age.

@nandanavinod7309 11 месяцев назад

I loveeee the doggoo, the way he looks at you is everythingg🥺🥺🥺

@kadeeeartiaga 2 года назад

Omg! Early 💓💓💓

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

yay! thanks for being early ❤️

@elizabethadams3790 2 года назад

I love your videos and your mindset!! 🥺🥰

@ava_ily Год назад

This was so Beautiful Thank You :)❤

@nidhirakyan2375 2 года назад

Such amazing content every single time o watch your video. Honestly it's like living what you are showing. I feel like meditation. Wanted to take this time out to thank you for being there.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Thank you so much. what a kind comment ❤️ I'm happy to share and make these videos. Just grateful you're watching it

@camiecakes2132 2 года назад

I literally love your videos. I am a new subscriber and this channel brings me so much peace and good vibes. I am completely relaxed after watching your videos as well as enlightened. Thank you for your content❤️

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Thank you so much for supporting and watching :) so happy you're loving it

@IqraSaeed-xj1os 6 месяцев назад

Your voice calms my inner child

@amolmugutmal8347 Год назад

Just found your channel...came at the right time in my life...You make me feel to live in present...thx for inspiring

@marymorenomariposa 10 месяцев назад

i love this self love main character idea. so true ❤❤

@MalamaLife 10 месяцев назад

😁 it puts everything into perspective

@hunterhanna-yox7828 2 года назад

I really needed to hear this today. Thank you

@catharinab8860 2 года назад

I’m trying to live my best life, use the things that are ”to nice” for everyday use and pursuing my interests even though they are suitable for old ladies. Like embroidry, feeding the birds or bake. Simple things make me happy, people around me don’t have to understand my hobbies as long as I enjoy them 👵🏻 I always say I’m 37 years old but 83 on the inside.

@maryjanedeeyoy6655 2 года назад

I really love your words of wisdom, thank you so much. This is amazing and all of your other videos❤

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Thanks for watching Mary 🥰

@hannabandoja7311 Год назад

I love your perspective❤

@yvonniesmith8590 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing your positive energy Sophie 💝

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

my pleasure ❤️ glad you enjoyed it!

@BrandonFrias 2 года назад

Cuteeee! i love this idea of being the main character! Thank you for such a BEAUTIFUL video 🥰🤲🏽

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

❤️ Brandon!! thank you

@KnotChinese 2 года назад

Always happy to see your videos and bask in your tranquility.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

🥰 appreciate it! thanks Matt

@alexandraqu Год назад

Thank You Malama for this video. I felt this primally. Thank You.

@swarajage549 Месяц назад

so beautifully said💗💗💗

@shyamalakamath 2 года назад

Its so soothing to watch you

@inspiredbyou 2 года назад

I just love everything that you do!! I love uuuu and your channel is just amazing! Thank you ❤️

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

aw thank you so much Esther 😍

@Miaoo_ 2 года назад

Thank you thank you thank you! Inspired and much needed at this moment. ❤️

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Thanks for watching ❤

@SuzannesSimpleLiving 2 года назад

Its been a difficult couple of months for me and I have ended up in a rut and stressed. So I've taken a step back, taken stock of my life and slowed down. I have left some of my chores so I can enjoy some me time and enjoy my hobbies. Your video today has reminded me to live and enjoy every moment. Thankyou :)

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Glad you are making time for yourself. Thanks for watching :)

@ivyvelasquez4156 6 месяцев назад

Perception is what shapes reality so why not make it a beautiful one!😊

@tatjanakuljaca1708 2 года назад

Beautiful video! I am waiting your new videos with joy, because they are so calming and can easily put me back in a present moment, no mater all things I have to do during a day. I try to have these conscious moments as many as I can, which is not easy, so your videos are such beautiful reminder to stop, breath and feel. Thank you for that!

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Aw thank you so much 🥰

@tatjanakuljaca1708 2 года назад

@@MalamaLife ❤️❤️❤️

@TyTheeHistorian 2 года назад

This touched my profoundly. Thank you.

@jayenvarsani2020 Год назад

A beautiful life..and a beautiful mind is you.. thanks

@Saltynebula-xi2di 2 года назад

The last thing you said before your outro reminded me of the quote from the 11th doctor in Doctor Who “We are all stories in the end, just make it a good one.”

@Surfrz3 2 года назад

Very deep and balanced perspective. Thanks for your insight. 🧡

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Thank you so much 😊

@mastandstars5869 2 года назад

I just loved this video so much. Very well done. Thank you for sharing this with us all. I always enjoy clicking on your videos.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Thank you so much :)

@d.jackson1770 2 года назад

This was so poignant and beautiful and True. Thank you for sharing this.❤️❤️❤️

@taylorcox6386 2 года назад

This was so helpful and inspiring. Thank you for this video love. Definitely giving a thumbs up and subscribing. 💙

@thats_nice_canada6283 2 года назад

Yes yes yes! You have shared so many wise thoughts and tips, thank you!

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

❤️ thank you so much

@PowerOfAIandMotivation 2 года назад

Awesome video & words.💕 Lovely footage you took by your camera and really great words that are important and needed to be heard. Thank you for this lovely video🥰🙏🏻