I'm an INTP and the main difference between you and me is that basically what you do verbally, I do in my head. :P I will randomly start talking about stuff that has nothing to do with the conversation. And people will be like, how the fuck did you come up to that topic. Because it goes like this for example, I hear Italy, I think pizza, I remember a documentary/video I saw about pizzas, and then will suddenly say "Did you know, what makes or breaks a great pizza is the crust." And people will get this look on their face like, why the fuck are you talking about something completeley random out of nowhere?
I'm an ENTP. My tinder profile back in, like, 2014 when I met my husband said something like, "I love to read and make a mean bolognese. I'm not a serial killer, but if I were, Tinder would likely be my favorite app." I also had a few photos where I looked cute with the last one being me making a fucking weird silly face. My INFJ husband was all about it. Shrug?
Thank you so much for posting this your energy gave me reasons to live. I’m an intj boi and have only seen one entp female in real life but she too young. You’re making me believe in the world again thank you so much you’ve given me life 🤮 this is such a relief
I've been binge watching you're videos, I think I'm somewhere between an INTP and an ENTP. I have a lot of introverted tendencies but, I'm hyper-energetic when it comes to arguments and love to go on tangents. Also I feel like my thinking side definitely overrules my feeling but I find myself to be a romantic whenever I feel like I've met some matched with my intelligence, and has a similar view of the world. I think it can be hard for ENTP/INTPs to make meaningful connection, and so we tend to cherish the connections we do make, would you agree with this?
+Madeline Hensler Oh and my Tinder profile says, "I don't know what I'm here for, don't ask me. Message me if you have decent grammar or a good joke/story to tell." I think we're friend soulmates.
+Madeline Hensler I agree with you 100%. Also, EPIC TIMING. I just uploaded a video on Ne and Ambiversion and I specifically wrote that I want to hear from ENTPs/INTPs. And, I get the romantic thing as well. Especially now that I "found my feeling" but the streak was always there, even if it was severely misguided when I was younger. ;)
+Madeline Hensler also cracking up at your Tinder profile - mine said something similar once when I was going through a charming *over it* phase. Love always, your new Friend Soulmate xo
This video inspired me to make an OkCupid account for my foot. Couldn't use tinder on my phone, for some reason. And yes, I mean that literally. My friend bet me $100 I couldn't get a date as a foot. He'll be proven wrong.
So Melicious Do you think any ENTP chicks would date a foot? But in actuality, the ENTP probably is the foot in the first place. Or an INTP in this case.
This is the MBTI, a (Psychological) framework for understanding personality. The way in which anyone expresses their self speaks volumes about who they are. In this sense, the "point" of their statements is no where near as important as the delivery. Underlying the MBTI is Carl Jung's concepts of cognitive functions. Thus, the MBTI is, in many ways, first a study into how types of people function, and then the implications thereof. Thus, if a point of this video was to convey how ENTPs function, it made its point. If you don't yet understand that, study more ENTPs and other personality types with strong Ne functions.
LOL ... as an INTJ I would have noticed all those oddities in the picture and then would have tried to infer hidden meaning. I laughed my ass off at your uncle shoving pizza in his mouth in the background. I like how comfortable you are with yourself just throwing it down and out there, INTJs admire that about ENTPs.
INTP watching in extreme fascination. Watching an ENTP go from squirrel to squirrel and trying to figure out what the next squirrel will be. Much better than any movie.
This is hilarious. The bouncing from point to point is genuinely mindblowing. I'm going to immediately go check out other alleged ENTPs because im absolutely sure you're unique. That energy is off the wall. I've watched this start to finish, and about every three to four minutes my head's in my hands and im crying with laughter. "Wait? What? How the hell did we end up here?!" The amount of alcohol youd need to drown yourself in order to get an hours sleep with that brain? Do you even breath? Are you such an advanced evolutionary state that your skin simply takes in oxygen from the surrounding atmosphere? I swear im not judging you, im intp. Im almost a little jealous. How are you that fast? Its like... i dunno Allan Wells (hero of the 1980 olympics) watching Usain Bolt.
lol i loved how you went on tangents.Btw,i paused the video at the end there cause i suddenly wanted to check your twitter profile and you have NOTHING! made me laugh.See,i have the opposite problem:i write too much.Probably a bad habit because then that leaves little mystery for the people who look me up.Maybe i just love writing? So,tough,witty and dirty huh.And somewhat unaware of what's going on around you :P
How old are you Melicious? Apologies for being direct, I'm an INTJ. You're pretty awesome. I'm suprised some guy hasn't locked you down already. Oh and I'm intrigued about that "county lock up!" statement :)
I'm an INTP. I have had a profile in two different dating sites for about a year and only 3 or 4 people have messaged me but I was not interested in them at all and 0 people that I have been interested in have messaged me back.... I don't understand why they would just ignore me unless I'm repulsive.
This might have been kind of random but I only have one friend that I only talk to in person and I don't feel like talking to him about things like this.
Aw that sucks. Maybe the way you presented yourself was not 'commercial' enough for the general public? Or another reason could be that the girls you were interested in, noticed you were simply no their type. If you're an INTP which is often even from the outside visible as an intuitive, will usually attract less sensor types. This results in the fact that the amount of girls who are into INTP's is not that big. Simularly as INTPs are rare types, their best matches are rare too. What types of girls do you think match you best? (I say "think" because alot of people, especially types like INTPs, INTJs etc do not know well enough which types match best to them in reality. It's sometimes the difference between thinking what you want and what you actually need in reality
Dating someone too close to yourself is really not that fulfilling as it may sound. Life in the end is always a sort of balance thing the yin/yang idea. A person that 'compliments' you will give, especially in the longer run, a lot more satisfaction than a similar person. That person will become like a brother or sister soon, and will literally not add much to your life, as it brings in only more of the same thing. Although opposites may not seem that appealing, it's actually being more towards being opposite what sparks relationships. Similarly to the idea of being friend-zoned, which usually simply means the person who is friend-zoned is acting too similar to the person friendzoning them (like the common example of somewhat feminine guys who get friend zoned by feminine girls)
+LadyLullaby INFJ Haha, it's the worst! What's worse than that is that an ENTJ did it. What's worse than that is that I still like him even though I have door slammed him at least 3 times and two times were for the sh-ing. WHat's REALLY worse is that every time he starts to come around he freaks himself out and finds a way to doorslam me back. WTF. Yeah, I know. ENTJ. I should know better. But, I don't. I am actually sitting here right now pondering what to do about all this, so sorry for the ridiculous tangent. I guess I had to vent to someone. Thank you for listening! I will get to the rest of your comments shortly but I think I must leave this McDonald's before my frozen digits break into pieces!
empemitheos Thank you. I worked really freakin hard to gain access to Fi and it did not come naturally at all. It bloody hurt for the most part, at least at first. I’m a much more comfortable inhabitant of Fi-dom now than I was here even, at least I think so. It’s one of those things... once you figure out how to pry open the box - which for me was due to a hammering sequence of really shitty life events - you ain’t never gonna fit that lid back on.
Can you elaborate on why shushing an ENTP is problematic? Like I was once having a discussion with a friend and out of nowhere she (entp) tries to talk over him. I then asked if she could be quiet and wait until he was done. I never saw her again and basically thought that she just has a big social calendar until watching this video.
+Blue sunset ENTP chicks are used to being shushed, but not in the way you are thinking. We think like dudes but we aren't treated like dudes, in all billion and one of those way - societally/careerwise, I mean. We are used to being overlooked, swept under the rug, told we "aren't smart, just emotionally intelligent" (actual quote from one of my old bosses). If you want to date us, we need to know that you aren't one of those guys - the one that is going to talk over us, discredit us, call us cute, ask us to bake a pie, etc etc etc. We need to know that our opinion will be respected and valued. When we feel respected and valued, for our minds, we will return the favor in spades. And probably bake you loads of pies. Cuz when an ENTP chick finds a guy like this, to her, he IS the last grain of sand left of Fantasia. Y'know? Sorry if I typod, fingers are fareeeezing!
Contrary to the original post I have managed to reduce it down to the current state. Unlike my male counterparts I’m all for treating women with the same consideration I would give to a man. Regarding courtship would you say that ENTP women are opposed? I bring this up is because of the references to pies and sand lol. Once I began picturing what you were saying I couldn’t help but draw parallels to a very traditional woman underneath the creative side you normally display if that makes sense. Unfortunately we do live in a world that is discriminatory towards assertive women and I get this mold that society tries to place you based on one’s gender. So yeah it sucks! I’m in the process of reevaluating a few things and it seems to be the case that I don’t not like that which I have found yet I am not in a state of mind to reject that which has been intuitively known since experiences that were once thought to be reality yet did not require the senses as one began measuring movement what once could not be found was never lost lol. Let me know if you get it lol.
+Blue sunset LOL. I'm going to come back and read this when my eyeballs aren't burning to see if I can do a better job of wrapping my dome around it. =)
+So Melicious I'm laughing at this message right now because all I could think about at the time was that I saw an idea shining in the distance. Which ultimately was something I discussed with a girl this week not sure what her MBTI is at the moment. She tries to switch things up and always seems to know what I'm thinking before I say something aaahhhhh!!!!On a side note the weirdness of it was to grasp a better perspective on what an ESFP woman was trying to relate to me lol. Your video's are very entertaining and just the breath of fresh air I needed look forward to more :).
I would be careful if I were you. I'm an ENTP as well, and have to say unfortunately online there are some extremely disturbed people out there. You're in the public eye, you could easily attract the wrong kind of attention. I did a long time ago, and ever since have been reluctant to date online. Just be careful.
You love words? I'm a wordsmith. Let me give you and your readers some TRICKS. Find adverbs. LY find the lie. They're manipulating for their own purpose. At best. REALLY? Lying. Find the LY, find the lie.
..And humans... If you THINK that is something? Joker Voice: "Wait til they get a load of me" Oh.. That is NOTHING.. Easy peasy. Took me two years to solve.. Then the next.. And the next... Humans are a joke.
I get so so angry when talking quantum physics. MORONS? Didn't understand the results of the Hadron Collider? Can't figure how quantum entanglement works?!? Heavens. We live in a world that is functionally retarded.
"An odd juxtaposition arises with Debaters, as they are uncompromisingly honest, but will argue tirelessly for something they don’t actually believe in, stepping into another’s shoes to argue a truth from another perspective."
There is something to this. The Debater personality type is the ultimate devil’s advocate, thriving on the process of shredding arguments and beliefs and letting the ribbons drift in the wind for all to see. Debaters don’t do this because they are trying to achieve some deeper purpose or strategic goal, but for the simple reason that it’s fun. This tactic shouldn’t be confused with the sort of mutual understanding Diplomat personalities seek - Debaters, like all Analyst personality types, are on a constant quest for knowledge, and what better way to gain it than to attack and defend an idea, from every angle, from every side? There Are no Rules Here - We’re Trying to Accomplish Something! Taking a certain pleasure in being the underdog, Debaters enjoy the mental exercise found in questioning the prevailing mode of thought, making them irreplaceable in reworking existing systems or shaking things up and pushing them in clever new directions. However, they’ll be miserable managing the day-to-day mechanics of actually implementing their suggestions. Debater personalities love to brainstorm and think big, but they will avoid getting caught doing the “grunt work” at all costs. Debaters only make up about three percent of the population, which is just right, as it lets them create original ideas, then step back to let more numerous and fastidious personalities handle the logistics of implementation and maintenance.
As an INTP, strings of emojis are a HARD pass. All you're communicating to me is that you're cryptic, are likely evasive, and are unwilling to communicate properly (just because emojis are faster doesn't mean they're more efficient; unless you're trying to get me to pass on you, in which case that was very efficient and I commend you). I'm not wasting my time on someone like that.
