To the point of entps not thinking infjs are weird: I don't think that we think anyone is weird (or we think everyone is weird). For me there is no weird and normal, only smart and not so smart.
Where are all of these people that want to talk for hours about stuff. As an ENTP myself, basically all the people I've encountered are not willing to talk or debate stuff. Which bores the hell out of me. And I seem to bore them just as much. Also, great video!
DiNozzo431 I am not so much interested in debating but I have found that I generally have great conversations with the ENTPs I have encountered in general:) And thanks!
DiNozzo431 I agree. I feel like everytime I talk to my wife about an idea or something learned recently, she seems as if she isn't interested. Then she gets offend when I disprove an idea of hers or something a friend of hers told her. Still love her though.
ENTP female here. I don't seek out debates. I like to just bounce with ideas after I have found friends. but I do believe a lot of people have probably gotten irritated with my way of debating. maybe I should be seeking out debates with people? idk. I currently have two INFJ friends (that I know of). one male one female. I choose my debates wisely because most people get irritated with discussion. I suppose that makes me in the same boat as yourself. I litter won't go to Bible studies though unless there is room for creative interpretation. I can't STAND going off a script and just having rote answers. what am I, a robot? I love love love debating and just the bounce and flow of ideas and learning ahhh I'm getting all excited thinking about it. hahaha
You're unfortunate enough to not have met any friends that operate on anything even close to your intellectual level. I've been extremely blessed in that area. It takes an incredible amount of work-around to trick yourself into enjoying talking to most people. With the right people conversational arguments just flow naturally, and it's fantastic.
@@Julia-LArt Get better positions and opportunities to ourselves. Always searching for tactical advantage, meanwhile widen our vision and possibilities. Always looking for consequences and rewards.
I like to put the connection between INFJs and ENTPs (I'm one) in this one sentence: *_"An ENTP can show the INFJ the outside world, but an INFJ can show the ENTP his inside world."_* And yes, I totally just made that one up, but I think it's very true. The way that INFJs can understand us is beyond incredible and you (INFJs) can by far explain us way better than we can explain ourselves, which is quite recordbreaking considering that our nickname is the "debaters" and that for a good reason. You really know how we tick, I love it !
INTP is said to be the Golden Pair for INFJ, but ENTP works because they add in the Extroversion that INTP lacks. With ENTP having goals and ambition in life, actually wanting to step-up and do better, they never feel good enough, meanwhile INTP is lazy, they don't care to do hardly anything. So, the ENTP is far more demanding on themselves, and that is great for getting the more Ambivert/Introverted INFJ out of their shell, and socializing with other people IRL offline ~
I'm married to an INFJ, and I don't have to explain why the very idea of getting married was never a real consideration until I met her. Best decision I ever made of course, and without the slightest hesitation or doubt.
I’m an INFJ, married to my ENTP for 17 years!!! Excellent balance, great communication, always exciting conversation... we spend tons of time together. Anyway, I enjoyed this video! Great insights.
it's really interesting to see the way other INFJs go off into their head (when looking away from the camera, etc.). it's like we're having a conversation with ourselves before we extrovert what's going on inside
as an ENTP I feel so attracted to INFJs I think they're very interresting and charming and I feel like I want to open them up and see what"s inside them
I’m an INFJ married to an ENTP and this is rather spot on. Also, your cadence and eye movements when speaking are uncannily similar to mine! Love to find INFJ sisters ☺️
I'm an ENTP and INFJs seem to find me. My twin is INFJ, my husband is one, my former mentor is one (and her husband was ENTP), and another friend of mine is one. And one of my best friends is a fellow ENTP. I say he's like the male version of myself in a lot of ways. We have a grand old time debating each other. I must be really lucky :)
This is interesting. My father was an INFJ and I am an ENTP. I don't think we ever had a "shallow" conversation. One night we stayed up till 3AM having a fiery (loud) discussion about the idea of insanity as a criminal defense. We realized that we were saying the same thing, but I had a very "roundabout" journey of complicated reasoning to arrive there, while he was very direct. He was my best friend and probably the only person who has ever really understood me. I miss him terribly ☹️
As an INFJ, this is all so true about ENTPs! I love figuring them out; absolutely romantically attracted to them, as well. I always have the “meatiest”, intelligent conversations with them - never boring, have a calming way about them, and the best, creative senses of humor! Could talk with them for DAYS. 🤣🤣
Thats because once you find out you are an ENTP you search and learn about it. This video just showed up when I searched....she is very accurate about ENTPs. -ENTP
Haha as an ENTP I'm feeling so flattered by your video. You give me a really good feel in my gut from all your good saying about "us". But you shouldn't forget that there are weaknesses to ENTP's as well. Such as we easily get bored with what we're doing which resultes in jumping from activity to activity. ENTP's can also have a problem in relationships because of their "discussions" which can easily be taken for arguing. I'm ENTP:ing all over this place. Sorry.
INFJ's struggle with that too but I don't see it as a weakness. Plus there are ways to defuse situations and make the other parties understand that it is just a discussion and it's up to them to decide if they like the subject or feel too much discomfort thinking about the topic, then you ask why they have this discomfort and listen to what they say because sometimes the reasons are interesting and... I'm INFJ:ing all over this place, aren't I? Sorry.
As an ENTP, I wouldn’t want to date another one because we’re too self-centered. I am very intrigued by ENFP’s. They are just as clever and fun, but are also nicer.
It's just because of your Ne that naturally makes you easily bored. Ni people on the other hand are hardly bored but they can feel not intellectually stimulated enough and get bored because of that. But it's true you guys tend to argue about everything even if it's just to discuss about it and sometimes we can't make any progress in a discussion and come to the main point because we have to argue/discuss every previous point. For most people discussing is reaching the main point and possibly come to an agreement and end the discussion but you guys want to discuss every single point when it's sometimes less interesting than the main one and you're missing this more valuable insight. As INFJs we get that easily because usually when we engage in a conversation we already have the main point in mind early on and we get misunderstood regularly because others need more time to figure out the depth we're already at. We're going too fast and you guys are going too slow basically so we both get misunderstood in discussions. I'm not judging anything btw, that's just an observation.
@@backcountyrpilot yeah me too..I thought I wouldn't get along with another ENTP because of this..nd the moment I notice I'm giving more even if it's 52% that's 2% more I would step back..but I do get along with others as friends not partners tho
You are the cutest ball of joy. Your eyes have some sort of glow that convey so much sincere, warm emotion. I just wanna smile like a baby and make cute noises pointing at you. *aufkskh shdfjks akshfkd*
Good video. You nailed us Entp types on the head. I love being an Entp because you really get to see the world from a whole new angle. The only real issue is our selfish tenancies and laziness when we need to do something we don't want to.
Every ENTP I've met struggles with laziness because we get bored with a topic to easily then we become disinterested and wonder why we're doing this and talk ourselves out of it. Unless it's something we want to do but simple life things like school and work are hard to stay interested in. You may have a point though.
My solution (as an ENTP) is to always shift and stretch the shit I have to do to a happy place where I still get to do a little bit of the thing I enjoy doing. It makes doing shit less awful which helps with being less of a lazy self-righteous ENTP.
Yesterday I discovered why it is I frequently feel like a space alien: I'm an ENTP. I've only ever met one INFJ. Unfortunately at the time I had know idea whatsoever what an ENTP was let alone an INFJ. We were drawn to one another the moment our eyes met. On a bus of all places. And then the conversation started, and that was it. "Nothin' but magic" - Prince. We were inseparable for three years, opened a business, and had extraordinary runs of creative inspiration. Great video, Miss Melody. I think you may have me believing in unicorns again!
I'm an INFJ woman married to an ENTP man. When it's good it is amazing, we speak our own language. When it's bad and our flaws and insecurities rear their heads it is an indescribable misery for us. He would love me and never leave me, but when I'm frustrated because we're going round and round and shit never gets resolved, I feel so incompatible and dysfunctional because of how he acts that it makes me crazy. When I read the debater ENTP profile this morning I realized that I can't even remember or give examples of how the traits he have make me feel good or happy. I can only read it and feel like he can't help making me nuts and angry. It's so disheartening to me that we should be great together but circumstances, history, and choices are a battlefield we crawl through to get to opposing sides and we never win.
I'm INFJ, my uncle is ENTP, He doesn't know this but He's my favorite person in the family 😀 ENTPs are quick, witty thinkers with a sassy comeback ; INFJs think carefully, but they are never trivial. They are a winning combination, but I have always wondered how the fact that INFJs are so slow in speaking and tend to stammer / take long pauses doesn't bother ENTPs, who instead communicate quickly and are also quite direct 🤔
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I'm an ENTP feels weird to hear people talk about the chemistry between INFJs and ENTP, cuz I have an INFJ sibling and I feel like our personalities tend to clash a lot lol. But we get on better now, and I totally know what you mean about talking together for hours. Me and my sis have these random deep conversations every so often that last for like hours, and they never seem long enough! I have 3 INFJs that I'm close to, and our conversations are never boring. Interesting that we were all drawn to each other as an ENTP/INFJ combo. Also, I totally do the debating both sides thing. I just feel like I have to explore every angle to have a valid argument, so I often go back and forth in my arguments as I explore the full problem before I reach a conclusion. Very interesting video. 👍
My co-worker is an ENTP. I can relate to a lot of what she is saying, as an INFJ myself. The funny thing is I am a True Believer in Jesus Christ and holiness, but my co-worker is an athiest. We constantly challenge and argue about the validity of the Bible.
So true about the conversations/debates. I'm an INFJ and been with my ENTP partner for 12 years. We haven't run out of things to say yet. Still find him the person I want to be around the most. Calm on the surface while the mind is working furiously & a voracious appetite for knowledge.
No need to apologize. The task of describing all the ways in which ENTP's are awesome is a daunting one and our multi-faceted wonderfulness can be overwhelming. Please feel free to make many videos about us. The subject deserves all the attention it can get.
I'm an ENTP and my current bf is an INFJ, and we have amazing conversations! There's a really deep understanding between us and we can both be really vulnerable with each other
For some reason I am unable to reply to a lot of your comments even when I add the + sign attached with your name in a new comment box. The name does not pop up with a few of you. So I am sorry if I am unable to reply.
melody landry I'm trying to respond to insert-last-name-here as well but can't either. You're only a few videos in, and worrying about editing is a secondary concern. You stayed incredibly on-track throughout all of this without editing and I actually watched the whole thing. I could tell that there was a bit more at the tip of your tongue you wanted to get out which is why I hope for a followup. As ENTP, I can't get away with a 15 min long single-take video like you. I'm so easily distracted that I HAVE to edit or you'd be in for hours of rambling lmao.
RebelFund Good to know I am not the only one!:) Thanks so much for your kind words and encouragement I super appreciate it:) I actually know how to edit all that stuff out, I guess on these type videos I personally find it interesting to see some types thought processes and how they process information, so I have been intentionally leaving it all in. This is just a personal preference though and if some people do not like it I can easily edit it out :) haha I know what you mean about the ENTP ramble it is quite humorous!:)
That's very true I have noticed some people: who I was sure would expect me to be weird, and came across as shallow and extraverted and crazy in a fun way, to be drawn to me and share an interest in more intelligent conversations, I never had to explain myself and they thought all of my nerdy;) hobbies were cool and when I first met them I'd be guarded and then look stupid when they made me laugh for the rest of the school year, I had already labeled the new ideas as sparks, I enjoyed their self generation of fun and how spontaneous they were, and they are attractive on an I don't mind seeing you during my introverted time way :)
This video makes me all sorts of happy, I'm a fellow INFJ and my best friend is an ENTP and everything in this video I was just here like "yes, yes, yes, oh my god yes that is him." One thing that you didn't mention in this (or more so didn't elaborate on) was that when they really get going on a idea or something they are passionate about, there is no way in hell that you will be able to get anything in when they are on a roll about that idea, and there is no way you are going to be able to say anything for a good solid five minuets until he's done. But afterwords he's just like "shit sorry, what did you want to add?" But honestly I don't mind because what he is saying is fascinating so I love to listen to him anyways, but when I say my ideas he's all ears until I say something that makes him go "oh! Yes, that AND...." Then he goes on another five minuet ramble. TBH I could go on and on about ENTP and INFJ but that would be another 50 odd lines so I'm going to stop here. I hope you make a part two and it'd be nice if you touched on what they do that makes us want to pull our hair out, namely on the issues of when they are like "Hey let's go do this thing that I just thought of!" "I'd love to but I can't because a) we need to do some planing for it and b) I have other responsibilities that restricts me from doing said thing at this time with no prior notice." "Fuck it anyways, let's just do this thing!" "I can't!" "Yes you fucking can! Don't be a little bitch! Fuck responsibilities!" "No, not fuck responsibilities! You should have told me that you wanted to do this last week!" "I didn't think of this last week! I only thought of it now! Live a little, woman!" "Oh my goddddddddd, nooooooo." Then again that could only be us haha.
Tiffany Amber This just sounds so adorable hehe. Then again I wonder what is it about is us INFJs which the ENTPs find interesting actually! Like despite us having to have our "rigid# schedules and systems they are still funnily persistent on all the spontaneous stuff when they can clearly ask someone else who's a Perceiver type instead haha
Omg wow thats so accurate. Im an ENTP & i do this too😂. I fucking love to argue but i do it to learn more from the other viewpoint (IF theres something to learn). *I donnot argue to try & force my viewpoint & intelligence on others ...thats not needed lol, & i already know im smart. The proofs in the pudding.
+ShiroxYume What it is that ENTPs find interesting about INFJs? Well I think the answer if fairly obvious. INFJs carry a distinct insight into others that is usually not as present in other types. Their rare and there is a lot of crap going on in their psyche. When the ENTP looks in people for their potential for entertainment. The possibility scale of an INFJ is off the charts. Even the fact that kind of mask the fact of their type only makes the ENTP more excited to explore when they catch on. It's simple really, it's fun.
ENTP here. I married an INFJ w/o explicitly knowing she was that type. The attraction is real! And, yes, we are a lot of fun. We are the Han Solo's and Tyrion Lannister's of MBTI - eternally frustrating but never, ever boring ;)
As a ENTP the biggest thing that annoyed me is that my school grades were bad I got lots of C - D's however that's because I got so bored easily and hardly ever paid attention in class, and couldn't be bothered to revise it's just so boring; In 2012 and 2014 I almost got into the English chess team which is a pretty intellectual game however some people at school just dismissed this and thought I was stupid because of my school grades, yet coming that close to playing in the English chess team is a lot more complex then boring GCSE's. My view on these people is that they weren't very bright even though they're in the top sets and I gave a good explanation to them, they failed to have a understanding and wanted to keep their smug faces on even though I was probably more logical then them. Can anyone relate?
I’m ENTP (female) I left education at 17 and got a job because I was so bored and my test scores never reflected my real ability. Having said that, being able to focus and study hard is its own reward. I study every day now to improve my second language. Nothing like working shitty jobs for years to motivate you. But the struggle is real, my Ne always wants to look at other things and my low Si feeds into that. It is like reigning in an unruly child at times.
Great thoughts. I'm and ENTP and my wife is an INFJ, so much of what you said is spot on! Also, she is an actress, who runs a blog, as well as a popular online magazine, you INFJ's should connect and colab!
Oh how lovely:) Yes I would love that:) It's exciting to hear about another INFJ that is pursuing similar things as me:) What magazine does she run? Would love to check it out:) Thanks for the comment!
you explained Ni and Ne perfectly. i read this on a forum: Ne: Generating possibilities, leaping from one idea to the next, thinking in a tree pattern- each idea spawning more Ni: Drawing conclusions, all the pieces coming together subconsciously to form a whole, going from pieces to the final form without all the middle steps Ne: AB... Balloon, floating, Chickadee, insane asylum, Z! Ni: ABC....Z
As an ENTP I can tell you, I am happy that many people and sites call me highly intelligent. However research shows ENTPs Make less than average money.
INTJ-Skorpyo7 you couldn't be more wrong. intj and entj do not even have introverted thinking. that is an extreme indicator of intelligence. entj and Intj do make some of the highest money though. they also are very goal oriented and can achieve their goal. but intelligence, in terms of iq, is something posted by the four personalities with Ti (introverted thinking). intp, istp, entp,estp. Einstein was an intp.
I wrecked an INFJ a decade ago. Repairs are taking longer than expected. It took me over an hour to assimilate your video, during which I was cognitively impaired/overloaded. Thank you.
I am a female ENTP (super rare) and my best friend is INFJ. We are definitely soul mates, in a totally platonic sense. Even though you spoke mostly about the romatic chemisty, everything you said applies to our friendship, we balance each other really well and I don't know what I'd do without her. We are a dynamic duo! She is marrying an ENFP which I think is a better romantic match for the INFJ.
Nice video, it really is true that ENTP and INFJ compliment each other. My wife is an INFJ and I am an ENTP and what I think I love most is how she can appreciate my quirks while calling me out on my bullshit.
The ENTP, often referred to as having a "Christmas tree brain," tends to have a mind filled with various ideas and possibilities, much like the diverse and colorful branches of a Christmas tree. They are creative, spontaneous, and love exploring new concepts. On the other hand, the INFJ, known for their "spiderweb brain," possesses a highly intricate and interconnected thought process. They tend to see the bigger picture and understand the underlying patterns and connections between different ideas, much like the complex and delicate structure of a spiderweb. INFJs are empathetic, insightful, and value deep connections with others. When these two personalities come together, their contrasting thinking styles can complement each other in remarkable ways. The ENTP's ability to generate innovative ideas and explore different possibilities can inspire the INFJ's spiderweb brain to analyze and understand the underlying patterns and connections. The INFJ's deep insights and empathetic nature can also provide a grounding influence on the ENTP's sometimes scattered thinking. In essence, the ENTP and INFJ can form a powerful partnership where the ENTP's creativity and exploration combine with the INFJ's analytical skills and depth of understanding. Together, they can bring unique perspectives, innovative solutions, and a harmonious balance of creativity and practicality to any situation they encounter.
One of the reasons we (ENTP) make such a good pair with the INFJ is that we balance each other out. In classic ENTP fashion, my brain is all over the place like Ricochet Rabbit, and I have difficulty staying focused and on mission. My INFJ friend helps me pick out the good ideas from the not so good. She also encourages me, keeps me on task, and pushes me to follow through. An ENTP and INFJ team could build a successful business together.
Helmuts Vanags Well we are more annoying than boring to others, or so at least i heard. Immature ENTPs tend to be very dislikeable, even amongst eachother, but mature ones on the other hand seem to be amazing, also according to others lol.
You're absolutely adorable... I mean I listened to what you were saying and you were interesting and all that important stuff, but god you're cute too!!!
I married an entp and really enjoyed this video :) very similar to my experiences. Feeling immediately accepted plus the ability to connect right away on a deep level was wonderful and intoxicating experience. And I think you touched on this a little as well - but we are frequently able to fill-in and counterbalance the other's blind spots and weaknesses
I agree with a lot of this. (I feel like I say that for all your videos, haha!) One of my close friends is an ENTP. Sometimes the constant debating really drains me though, because she will literally try to debate everything just for the sake of debating. And often times the random (or seemingly random from my pov) ideas she'll come up with seem so illogical that it frustrates me that she's trying to argue their validity. However, I am drawn to her enthusiasm, the fact that she can get me to do spontaneous things (which I typically dread), and I do enjoy that we can have really lengthy, deep conversations.
Samantha M. hey girl!:) yeah it can be draining at times especially if it is directed to us. I think it really depends on the ENTP. Some are more mature than others, and the ones that are immature can potentially be a nightmare for an INFJ haha:)
First off, you seem to know what you're talking about! Secondly, I am a male entp and I agree with everything you say about us. I spend a lot of time with a female infj and you're spot on.
As an ENTP who is currently dating a bonafied INFJ Does anyone actually BELIEVE that this girl's mannerisms resemble that of actual INFJs they've met in real life?
When I did the test 10 years ago I was an INFJ. I did the test tonight and it turns out I'm now an ENTP. It's neat to hear perspective from the other personality types. Maybe that's just the ENTP in me. Thanks for the vid, very interesting stuff!
Phew. You nailed it! Your point about how ENTPs and INFJs often reach the same conclusions was really astute. I think it has something to do with the shared (yet inverted) middle functions. This makes for a strong anchor while allowing each party to shine with their unique strengths. I once dated an INFJ who would just blindside me with her Ni insights. We're still good friends, and I just interviewed her for my channel. Can't wait to edit it and get it uploaded. :)
Not bad (red head?)...not bad. Your insights were pretty spot on. I’ll give you that! The part where you describe being somewhere and losing yourself in stimulating conversation for hours....I absolutely love that....it’s a crazy good feeling....especially when you’re getting what is being talked about because I don’t think many ppl think like or understand how we ENTPs really think. It’s cool that you get it. At least there is someone that does. Lol
Lol, this girl is clearly still in love with her ex ENTP. I'm an INTP and I clearly can say that when i'm in Ne mode I atttract INFJ like crazy.( through Ne and Fe whit being fun and entertaining conversations and...Etc). Balanced INTP can be as charming as ENTPs but come with the additional qualities of an INTPs. Personnaly I prefer contemplation rather than debates. Lol; I think ENTP and INTP are going to compete for INFJ hearts.
+Mattkrewe Myeah, INFJ women seem to be undecided between someone NTP but who understands my introverted side or someone NTP and who entertains me.... I can understand how INFJ would prefer INTP over ENTP because despite their introversion INFJ are horny and needy as fuck and herefore they need to get entertained byt the ENTP. INTP are too badass and too busy daydreaming to care about such nonsense...but poor INFJ need attention? Is that it? OOhh pooor baby ! ANyway one thing is certain NFJs and NTPs attract each other for I don't know what reason; one day I did an experiment... I decided to enter a world filled with NFs and more predominantly NFJs... once in there I emulated NTP behavior and suddenly all the women were attracted... GREAT HEY I KNOW !
I randomly came by this but it's super funny listening to you tell me exactly who I am and it's interesting just to hear you and others on your outlook on our type. haha have a good day :)
Love your videos!!! I've been an INFJ confirmed since sophomore year of high school (about 8 years ago). 24, starting a Ph.D in business psych next year (somewhat regret not doing clinical since I love one-on-on). Any who... I dated an ESFP over a year ago and cannot get over the awesome-life love-about the now-genuine fool. I've read other forums and it appears ESFPs are notorious for leaving an INFJ heart broken but simultaneously enamored by their authenticity. Any way (sorry for rambling). Advice? Again, LOVE your videos! Make me feel like I'm not an alien for my idealistic thoughts!
Hi there, thank you so much for making this video. I just Recently took that test learned I was an ENTP. It’s literally like you were reading my mail on here. I mean freaky spot on lol. What sucks for us is #1 there are so few of us to connect with and #2 so few girls that can keep up.. much less enjoying having deep talks. I don’t know what happened with your ex but.. unless you are an amazing actress, he needs someone to smack some sense into him for letting a girl like you get away. All I find are shallow women.. everywhere. Sad face lol Anyways, thanks again and great job! 😊
I just found out that I am an ENTP I need to meet a INFJ to keep me balanced. I love that you had just hit 100 Subscribers when you made this video and are now over 4000 🎉 Congratulations 🎉 I just broke 300 this week, it's so cool watching our channels grow♥
Aren't INFJ's like the best match for ENTP? I swear on my life, I've never been smitten with a RU-vid girl but marry me real quick, yeah? No prenup or whatever, just one of those cheeky Vegas weddings where Elvis is the pastor.
ENTP here, Great Video...I've studdied a lot on MBTI type 2 test & I can meet people & on very little information I can tell how they decorate their house or other characteristics & they find it Amusing... Once dated an INFJ & we would talk all night long, great conversations. Came along way, Detroit, Chicago, Tampa, Miami, Keys & In NYC now trying to Make it Happen... All those Self Help Books are really starting to pay off... I feel like also a mixture of all the closest people I've met along the way...Cheers.
I been with an INFJ, she been called in class the weirdo. But to me I think she’s awesome because her ideas is so unique and so fking Creative but sadly not much people see that in her. We both learn art and one day I saw she’s alone and decided to be friends with her. She doesn’t have much confident in herself but I try to tell her that things can work if you set your mind through it. And just do it. I and her had been together for 5 years. ENTP.
I'm an ENTP, and I love you.. Wow. I can say you're not only be of the most beautiful girls I've ever seen but also you're very intelligent. I need a girlfriend with this mind and this beauty. Where have you been all my life. Wow
Great insight, my beautiful INFJ! I want one of you rare gems... You are hard to find. ENTPs have INFJ ESP. We can read minds of introverted intellectual hottie. Let me demonstrate.. I really know what you need, deep down, but am not allowed discuss in forum.
Also, it's funny to hear some of your story.. It's Iike hearing my own relationship story from the other perspective! Reminds me of when I first grabbed lunch with her, we started talking and before we knew it it was 6 hours later and we almost breathless.. Neither of us had ever clicked with another person that instantly before, it was crazy
