How to START a RELATIONSHIP the Right Way: Jay Shetty and Wife Radhi Devlukia Share Their ADVICE 😍❤️ 

She is listening in the most beautiful way...

I am taken aback by her immense beauty!! Wow, by far one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen!!

From a gender role perspective, I love that while his wife took a chance on him when he had nothing and saw his potential; he had the heart and drive to actually grow and deliver on that so they could have a life balanced relationship together. So many times a woman takes a risk and jumps into these kinds of relationships for the potential and then they are left carrying the financial burdens once the partner blindsides them with their conformity.

They look like siblings. It’s always interesting when people are attracted to those that physically resemble them.

This is why I haven’t been on dating apps. It is like a job interview; their profile is like their résumé, and they can make it look good. I’d rather meet someone while I’m just out living my life. I met someone great recently, and it was just when I was hanging out with my family; she’s a friend of my sisters’, and I got to see right away how she interacted in a casual setting.

I love the idea to knowing each other in other environments and not thinking about dates.

two wonderful people, raised by good people. Thank you to both set of parents to give us these two!

Jay please stay mindful and do not allow social media to change your ego. Your genuineness is what sets you apart.

It sounds like they really admire the character of each other. This is so good to see.

We hear so much about what is wrong. It's so wonderful to see something that's right. Love is good. Shalom

It's extremely hard to find someone who discuss things and value conversation we just all hide ! That's the problem

What a beautiful couple!! I appreciate the respect that they show each other by truly listening and allowing each other to speak without interrupting 🙏❤️

What a genuine couple. And wow, she's gorgeous😮

Radhi is so perfectly pretty...

It’s not the only way though- you can meet in any way, if it is compatible and the right time then it works out. I met the love of my life on a dating app. We lived more than 10 years in the same city and our paths would never have naturally crossed any yet it is a miraculous relationship and we both are so full of gratitude every day for having met

I thought they’d say “oh we chose each other cause we got the same eye color” 🤭🤣❤️

They are so respectful of each other; when one speaks, the other fully listens, and vica versa. There's just such a natural, authentic flow between them. ❤

Absolutely love this conversation! I'm in quite a "fresh" relationship and we still figure things out everyday and I think sometimes it is really hard if you don't have the mindest that both of you have when it comes to understand and value each other! So thanks for sharing❤️

Such a beautiful couple. The love and honor just oozes from them ❤

Bro i literally love the positivity in your words, how do you really get the hope to stay positive and motivate people all the time? Sheesh

It's amazing how just a normal conversation between you two can put a smile on our face☺️

Those of us who had “dads” who abandoned us are screwed. I don’t think I’ll ever find “my person”… somehow it always gets messed up.

isn't this how relationships often starts? you get to know somebody through work, study, events, family, friends. only lately has online been diverting from this.

You are made for each other, respecting each other is amazing,be happy ❤

This is the BEST idea EVER! Real people becoming acquainted the old fashioned way.

She is so beautiful. Really good looking and sweet couple. I'm happy for both of you.

The respect you two have for each other is just amazing, and I just love listening to the both of you talk thank you so much for sharing with us ♥️♥️♥️♥️ God bless you ♾️

I love the individual priorities dialogue while still remaining connected. 🙏🙏 And I appreciate the discussion about quality time.

You are really a good communicator thinking that you were once a monk. That was like a God give gift.

Public comment. God bless both of you. I am happy and proud of both of you. Appreciate l life. Great message to humanity.

I can feel the peace while watching this conversation. Thank you both.

Whaou they look like brother and sisters soooo similar 😮

They both have such beautiful eyes...lighter colour

I truly respect and admire the man I care for Ministry. He also has a strong desire to make a meaningful impact on humanity and he has. I can't wait to see what else he will do either together or from afar. He's truly inspiring when we text.

So beautiful! Powerful and easy conversation and lifetime gems! Thank u

This is so heartfelt, a conversation I needed to hear in a long time. Helps me resonate with what I would like in my life too :)

So they both have green eyes 💚💚

Thanks for sharing. You are meant to be one. It’s abundantly obvious. ❤

Its the quality of the thought that counts👌

They are such a beautiful and genuine couple

You really inspire me ❤️ you’re good people and beautiful souls. Thank you.

Love you guys and great video! 🥰However, be careful about the "seeing how they treat other people" my ex husband in the beginning treated others so well and was very charismatic at first. It was until we were finally officially together that I saw another side of him as he was a narcissist and therefore was not treating others well. So I agree its important to see how they treat others but if they change pay attention to all the red flags that a narcissist may have (especially if you have never experienced dating one!). From here on out I will pay attention to all signs that may point to narcissistic traits when dating again. For now I'm in what I call "recovery" from the narcissistic abuse I encountered unfortunately. I may even write a book about it to help others.🙃

What a beautiful example of a great relationship ❤️

Wow am mesmerised😊❤what an understanding an wonderful couple u both are❤

wow that's the first time I see his wife. They look like siblings 😱

The fact the you like all the comments amazes me🥰. You guys are simply the best. I love listening to you 2

There is nothing wrong with no PDA in our country it is sign of modesty. It bothers me when people from western countries automatically assume “ is everything is alright”. And start diagnosing and making assumptions based on their experience. Instead of assuming what will help learning about other cultures and how females act in public instead of putting labels based on projections.

Her face is so perfectly half beauty half cutie pie! His her hair is pretty too🎀😍

On point! I also really hate blind dates. I feel myself in the same position of being interviewed. I always say to my friends that I am not my best seller at blind dates. LOL....❤

This has been the greatest random find on RU-vid.

JAY PLEASEEEE READ THIS……No idea why there is two hate comments! There must be ZEROOOOOOO hate or negative comments! Jay you have absolutely changed a lot in me by listening to your podcast and reading your book…and helped me grow the best way possible in my relationships (including ones that are romantic, friendship , even family and work) and breakups. I have even used the lessons from your book during my pharmacy interview because I needed to show who I am as a person and your book helped me unravel these questions about myself. Sooooo much loveeee to you and Radhi ❤️❤️❤️she’s gorgeous and love listening to her as well and her hair tips lol❤️❤️❤️❤️

This conversation further dimensionalizes questions I've been pondering regarding expectations, projections, and intentions in relationships, and what love has to do with all of it. When it comes to the word "expectations", I notice my mind tends to create negative connotations, as in, "expectations lead to suffering and let-down", however, this conversation is a great example of how the concept of expectations is actually much more nuanced and paradoxical, in that: 1. not only is it OK to have expectations for our relationships, but 2. having clarity on our expectations for relationships is instrumental for BOTH our relationship with ourselves, as well as with others, and 3. this clarity also serves as useful in dispelling any tendencies to "project" subconscious expectations onto others. When an "expectation" is grounded in self-awareness of what matters most to us, and we're rooted in an intention to stay loyal to our Soul (in Jay's case, as well as in mine, awareness of how service and contribution is a priority) then the expectations we consciously hold are in service to Love, and by default, this awareness supports the alleviation of suffering. As this convo beautifully demonstrates, part of our responsibility is to: 1. Know ourselves 2. Communicate our priorities and expectations to potential partners (this need not be limited to romance) not only in conversations, but primarily in the ways we commit to daily actions, choices and overall way of being in relationship with life itself. Through our efforts to know ourselves deeply, and the choices we make to commit ourselves to serving what matters most to our Souls, we are destined to align with harmonious, mutually beneficial partnerships, and any "suffering" around expectations is minimized, because we've grounded our expectations in a higher purpose, which empowers us to view our relationships from a bigger picture point of view: From the altitude of Soul, we're empowered to take our relationships and life circumstances less personally. As we detach from narratives of personalization, we free ourselves, while simultaneously allowing others the freedom to be who they truly are. Our world continuously emerges into something far more harmonious, nurturing, and dynamically co-creative as a result. Thank you for this illuminating conversation! Much love to you both :)

Hey, that's what my mom would always tell me to eat five almonds a day for good memory

Plz , plz invite BK Shivani didi from Rajyoga centre , India. You will enjoy listening to her deep knowledge about spirituality, Dharma, universe . Shivani Didi ‘s voice is so sweet and soothing. Make you understand everything in a simple manner.

loved watching this, so insightful!

❤❤❤ two beautiful people… inside and out (I really think she is one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen!… just my opinion.)

Thank you Jay!

I love this ❤you guys are clearly for each other . I wish you nothing but happiness and joy …ps big fan of your show 😊

Unfortunately that didn’t work in my last relationship. I liked them better around other people than solo

Why can’t I find people like this lol

Wow, you both have such beautiful eyes! 😍

Wow...they are both very good looking people 😊.❤❤❤

Powerful. Powerful. Powerful 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

You guys are so cute inside and out!!! You guys are gorgeous 😍😍

Yall are both beautiful ❤

How come you both look so similar?

❤thank you to Jay Shetty and your beautiful wife, mrs Devlukia Shetty for you are sharing facts, im learning. because facts help me to see, what is it...i hv reference how to face important matters in my life here under the sun❤ i love ms DevLukia, her natural being little fun🤓

They look like siblings.

Love this video !! Such a beautiful couple 🫶🏻

I will not go to dinner dates in a Restaurant in the beginning. I’m not going to interviews. I refuse!

Thank you both so very much for sharing this beautiful story with us! What an amazing inspiration you both are! A truly blessed union. Thankyou for showing the world that this sort of relationship is possible!! God bless 🙏🌹💚💕

Totally, completely inspiring 🙏

You to look like each other 😊❤

I’ve learned so much, I can’t begin to tell you.

Thank you!

Beautiful people!

You two are so cute ❤

Hehehe yeah that's right, fear was where I fall rest wanna know more. 😁😃

Yeah but it’s hard when you’re doing online dating. That’s what you do in online dating, go to the movies, restaurants, go out and text, phone calls. A person who dates someone from work or school is different.

Excellent video - such synergy

Y’all look like siblings

Mr jay still nervous around her 😂

If you're a good listener you seem to remember more details.

When young love starts out, one takes a career lead to bring in income and start the building and accumulating stage. The other usually ends up with a lesser job and more domestic duties at home. Then kids come…. Division of labor??

I don't need it to be your priority, I just need you to understand it to be my priority... arghhhhhhhh can someone tell me why I'm crying 🥺🤍🤍🤍♾️

So funny, when I had my business I totally would have hired you if I saw "monk" listed on your resume 😁

You guys have the same eyes!!

Why does she keep switching to “he”, speaking about him like he’s not in the room?

Thank you J 💜🔐

lol I can relate 4:35 😂 but she has a beautiful heart ❤️ you can tell 💗💗

She is pretty 😍

Love these two lovely people. Keep the video s coming! Thanks 😊

Very beautiful & great match couple 👌

I love your love. 🌺🕊️

awesome 👏

How exactly is that possible ?the only people we see everyday are people we work with

I don't feel Good in my family I prefer to stay away from them😊. I feel better on my own. I believe also be yourself😊 we love people not for their possessions or money

U asked her question and u r only answering most of it..😅

True, I assumed she was speaking of someone different lol

they are so cute