How To Stay Positive When You Hate Your Job 

FerrisWheelPro, Thank you for being at the channel. Please consider watching the video again and possibly another one entitled "How To Overcome Frustration At Work" ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-_-v3bbg7O8o.html to help you remain positive while you search for another job.

Fast food was a nightmare for me ... wasteing my life away and only bringing home 300.00 checks 400.00 if I’m lucky

Another job that turned out to be a job that payed decent enough but turned into a HUGE nightmare and full of pain was being a CNA I’ll never go back that route EVER I was fed up when I was fired for some bs. All because I like the same sex. These jobs out here from what I gather don’t provide you with security and true happiness... I’m searching for stability right now. I’m at a call center job our pay was raised from 10.25 to 13.50 an hour ... after 6 months will be making $15.00 The only reason I’ll be staying is because the pay and that equals more stability. I wish I could be doing something I don’t hate though.

Did u make it out ? If not set intention and make it a 2and job to to search for another job.

@@astephenlandrum6692 I worked as a CNA back when I was in my 20s, did not last long. First time I got close to this old man, and spent a lot of time with him, then he died... I could not go through that for a career.

Wolf Duvall, you also have the potential of doing much good at your job. You may want to consider working with a coach.

What do u do for a living? They wouldn’t hire u if they don’t believe u can do the job

I feel the same

Same here

This is my experience too. The thing I dislike most about my job is that I'm not yet confident in my ability to do it well and I need a lot of help. That's what causes me stress and distress.

LovinMe60, glad you have a plan.

Wow....you get 2 days off a week? I envy you!

Sameeeee

Sundays are so less enjoyable because of that!!

You got this @lovinme60 I hate my job too and feel the same way.

jarry Dee, you need to look into changing your job. I hope you can come up with a plan.

@@LiveOnPurposeTV I am a journeyman electrician. I put half of my life into this trade.

@Jarry Dee I swear that's the story of my current worklife😂😂😂it's really sad. Im in the exit stage now as it's honestly depressing and impacting my personal life.

@@LovinMe60 I understand. I just went into business for myself this last month. Of course I don't have the many jobs that the company I worked for has, but I am now making in 5 hours, what I made all week working for someone else. I wish you the best, you have to do what feels right to you. I could never stay in something that makes me miserable everyday.

Wtf 🥲

Julian Fan, I bet they were. Hope you landed somewhere you love.

Me too, my boss was so shocked. Worked for her for years, tried to transfer out but found out my boss had me blocked from leaving her. She's so miserable right now, I've been asked to come back. Back away demon in the name of Jesus🙏

You are so lucky I’m sticking w the job to see how it gonna turn out

@@demetriae.508 how did she have you blocked?

@@queendom774, my boss and the Director had reached out to HR, had me blocked from working with anyone else in the facility. I applied for a position which I qualified for. Spoke with the hiring manager and he reached out to HR requesting me for the position and he was told "Demetria is blocked". Over the years I thought I wasn't doing my job correctly because when I applied for jobs over the years within the facility I wasn't chosen. Now I know why.

Jamie Wang, You got this, you can turn this around and find something that gives you joy.

I hope things get better for you ♥️

Jamie Wang I feel the exact same way. You are not alone!!! Hang in there.

@risingStar Thank you for asking. To give you some context, 8 months ago I was forced into doing multiple people's workload because we had to lay off some people during coronavirus. At the same time, I had the stress of trying to keep the company afloat so the people remaining wouldn't have to lose their jobs as well. So honestly it wasn't that I didn't like my job, it was just that I had to do a lot of other stuff besides my original tasks. I was working about 14 hours a day on average, 7 days a week. Mentally, I was reactive at work and that also affected my marriage. Now, I still have about the same amount of workload but I have decided to put my mental health and physical health first. I've made several changes to my day including prioritizing time to exercise, build in breaks throughout the day, and just go home and call it a day after a certain time. I had to basically accept the fact that I am only a human being that have limitations and that I can't get everything done perfectly and it's okay. I feel much better about myself, the people around me, and life now. There are still struggles but I just tell myself if you've done your best already, then it's fine. Sorry for the long update.

@@jamiewang7818 see I wish I could get breaks I don’t work long hours like you but I work over 9 hours with 1 hour lunch break and honestly it’s not enough we don’t get no breaks outside of that and just yesterday when I tried to get a break I was barked at and I have back problems I need breaks just like you I’m always brunt out at the end of the day I hope you find a better job

stacey stephens, what are your plans to get out of your current position and find something you enjoy?

Live On Purpose TV - I had a professional resume writer update my resume because I didn’t have much time to make it “trendy”, I started to apply for positions where I could see myself being an asset; however, I want to be picky. I am an INFJ and I know I must work for the right kind of management team/person. If it isn’t the right type of person, I can allow myself burnout & exhaustion because of my all in personality trait.

@@staceystephens4754 I understand the INFJ perspective and am friends with some. Do you feel misunderstood sometimes? Is there a client/customer you can focus on being your boss from a different perspective instead and think of your real boss as secondary?

@@holamissmusica I will find the right company - life is too short to waste it away working 90000+ for some jackass you hate 🤷‍♀️

Thats my biggest problem, i just cannot stand it.

Angie Arias, I think you can do it.

Sameeee I’m quitting this month

I hope it all went well.

Logan L, good luck with your plans.

I start a new job tomorrow and also have plans to leave and start a biz after I stack up. The fact I have work at this job is killing my spirit but I have to do it so I can stop doing it.

@@Imasaydatshit That is what I went through. I had to have money to fall back on. I saved, did some side jobs, and now I just started my own biz

Same I’m moving very soon so that’s a good ass excuse to put in my 2 weeks notice so they won’t ask a ton of questions

Op has the most cursed pFP I've ever seen. I need to go bleach my eyes.

Calino Salas, that is frustrating. We can't change them, only ourselves. Hang in there.

My situation is the opposite, bunch of folks drunk off the koolaid

EJL, sounds like you are not in the best place. Please look around and do some searching for what might be a better fit. It could be that there is something out there.

I cold call too...I'm doing fundraising for organizations that goes against everything I believe in so I have to be a great actress everyday...I hate it so much that I have anxiety attacks at bedtime. I'm 45. I want to work for myself but I need an income..

It is always an option, Nicolo Marchillo.

With the Coronavirus there is no exit right now but unemployment... I’ll stick with my call center job

I am glad the video is helpful to you, Catreana-Katrina.

S PR, that is a great way to understanding this too shall pass.

That’s the mindset I’m in. Got 4 months to go and prepping in the background. Every time I get stressed or get blamed for things out of my control, I keep thinking this won’t be forever. I’ll get out

Did your time go quicker when you counted the days down? Mine seems to be going slower

Enlist your partners help in finding another solution to getting a new job. That should take some pressure off if there is another person looking.

Glad to hear it. 2024 is your year to really develop positivity.

That can be hard even for a few years. You might want to try somewhere else where you will be happy.

Melissa DaCosta, that is wonderful. I wish you the best.

Da Don, that is great!

You are welcome, tomboy dee.

Jack Reacher, it might be the end of that job, but there is something more out there.

@@LiveOnPurposeTV I really want to believe you.

I hope you find a place where you can work and feed your soul.

Glad you enjoyed the video. Thanks for watching, ANONYMOUS SOCIETY

Uh yeah I’ll be homeless My car won’t be fixed I’ll be on foot... and no food in my belly.... I’ll stick with my call center job

Work your way into another job that suits you better.

Schmoke Weed, thank you for watching and commenting. I'm glad you were able to learn some things with your experience. Keep looking for the good things and you will find them. We have a Positive Personal Development playlist if you wish to work on positivity in other areas of your life: ru-vid.com/group/PLq2mRDkHEBPCYtqYUCuzsyYpAlzKZDVVV. Best wishes on transferring to a different department.

You are learning some great lessons at an early age that will help you throughout your adult life.

Joanna Julep, that is awesome! Good luck.

Thanks for sharing! Glad it is helpful.

Benito Samia, good luck on your next venture.

I'm so glad to hear it, Horst Keks! Thanks for watching. I hope you can find more enjoyable videos at Live On Purpose TV.

Yes, better times will come, Rhys Davies. I hope you are aware that you have some control in those better times. Please consider watching this newer video on a similar subject: "How To Stay Positive At Work" - ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-X9jb5bOyilk.html. We have much more for you on our Positive Personal Development playlist: ru-vid.com/group/PLq2mRDkHEBPCYtqYUCuzsyYpAlzKZDVVV. Thank you for watching.

I’d be happier being off the phones 📞 and helping people solve the issues with out customers in my ear all 10 hours of the day 💀💀💀 people are rude demanding and exhausting

@@astephenlandrum6692 yes I agree i have co workers like that

Glad you are using your breaks to escape for a bit and not merely to countdown the time till your shift starts again.

My work place won't allow us to use phones on our break unless we leave the facility. It makes me so tempted to go hoe for my break by I only have 30 min breaks and whenever I go home I never get back in time that I won't be late. I've been drawing or doing extra work, the extra work all day strategy makes my legs hurt tbh but it's more fun than drawing

You are so welcome!

Sounds like you are ready to change some things in 2024. Make an appointment at www.drpauljenkins.com/breakthroughcall.

Heather Far, thank you for being there for some of the toughest times in other people's lives. I appreciate you.

Thank you for using the suggestions in the videos, Luis & Mariela Gonzalez - Santiago.

I wish you well.

So glad!

Come back whenever you need a refresher.

Amelia PC, it helps all the days until then.

Thank you, Good Wife.

You can do it! Michael McCarthy, I wish you well.

Don't worry about it, just apply. You don't know until you try. The right employer will want to utilize your experience and wisdom. Employers are having trouble finding good people so you may be a perfect fit.

@LiveOnPurposeTV Thank you for this. It gives me hope 🙏

Lisa Warren, Stay focused on your goal and it will be by quickly. Hang in there.

My pleasure, Sandra.

True Scary Stories, you can do this. Use your discontent to make something better.

Well said, Carlos Torres. Thank you.

It’s not your “fault” if you have no other options. How about having a 190k student loan for a profession and realizing 10 years in that you are 100% unsuited to the work and hate doing it, but nobody will hire you much less *interview* you because your 10 year history is niche. It’s not always your fault. Sometimes (and I’m in this situation) it is my ONLY option. Therefore I have and had no *choice* but to accept doing it. Not going to explain the last 14 years or why nothing else is a (viable) option for a (viable) life. Don’t have to explain. It is what it is. And it’s not my “fault” for not “simply” moving on. Some of us just have to *endure* indefinitely. Find someone to serve? My entire career is serving. I’m sick of serving. Nobody serves me. My entire existence is making other peoples lives easier. I sincerely don’t care if I’m offering value to others because nobody offers value to me. I just have to give and give. And I’m supposed to feel *gratitude* for *getting* to *serve*? No thank you. It’s not always our fault. Sometimes it just IS.

You got this!

lindsey Labulis, I hope you can find something else very soon.

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LIL D BEATS, thanks for watching.

Glad it was helpful!

Honored to be on your team, Ajae Flint!

You got it.

You got this! I do corporate trainings if you want to suggest me. Contact can be made through info@drpauljenkins.com.

Thank you, Angel Phister. Honored to be on your team.

You are welcome, PRodriguez. It's an honor to be on your team - thanks for watching and taking the suggestions.

Wonderful. It makes life so much easier when we have a plan.

Your friendly neighbourhood nobody, honored to be on your team.

Rowan Britto, thanks.

Arely Rodriguez, Glad you have the exit all planned.

Thank you for watching, Stanley Lopez. I hope you were able to find something useful in the video.

Me too, i work at factory, and when i get home holy shit i start think about everything i'm doing on my job and it stress me so much. i just want to get home and enjoy my free time, but shit when i want to get some sleep, i have a battle with my minds about work and everything what's going on there.

You're welcome! Share away with anyone you think could benefit.

B, thank you for sharing what has worked for you.

Juan Ruiz, don't give up, come up with another plan, it will work.

What do you do for a living?? @Juan Ruiz

Thanks for commenting, Wendy Watson.

Glad you enjoyed the video, Rabia Kamal. Thank you for being at the channel.

I wish you well.

Julii Reed, yes, we can change our journey.

Lucy Lynn, I hope some of the ideas help.

@@LiveOnPurposeTV I didn't watch the rest. I'm sorry, I know you're trying to help. I'm glad people are out there at least trying. I guess maybe I just feel like these coping mechanisms are outdated in a way. The comment section really shows that, I think. A lot of the structures of daily living are falling apart these days and people are more miserable than ever. I shouldn't have attacked your video regardless.. There's enough hate in the world and I can't stand to contribute to it. Hopefully these methods help someone out there. 💜

@@catsarerude 💜💜💜

You are welcome, I hope you have a wonderful day and can spread positivity to someone else.

You're so welcome!

I get that. With the serotonin deficit, any job might be difficult.

Thank you for watching, Michele Missai.

Wonderful, Jazmin.

Honored to be on your team.

You are so welcome!

Ritchie Thomson, thank you.

traps inc, that does sound difficult. I hope the company gets some response to hire more of a crew.

You are so welcome

Glad you enjoyed it!

Well Dupe Account, I am glad you get to eat now, and saving for retirement is a good thing, too. I also appreciate you watching and hope you found the video useful. Would you be willing to watch my new video on the subject, "How To Stay Positive At Work"? It can be found here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-X9jb5bOyilk.html

So sad you feel trapped many people do...

@@astephenlandrum6692 I feel traped until I am retired and no longer need to work.

Thanks for subbing! Gerald Benson, welcome to the Live On Purpose Community.

I hope you can find one that gives you some joy.

Ludvig Borga, use the discontent to create something better. You are a good example of this principle.

You're so welcome! Thanks for watching.

I am glad also, your health is priceless.

Samantha Parker, Glad you are being intentional about this next step. Good things are waiting.

maria guzman, thank you for watching and there are more videos coming.

Check Zig Ziglar. He has a similar video about attitude.

Happy to help.

Thank you for watching.

Noah Strange, I hope your co workers are supportive of one another. It is a tough job and you might be happier looking for a new one.

Sounds like it is time to look around for something else.

Glad it was helpful!

Upper management is part of your job so do what you can to limit your contact and remember the parts you do love.

Honored to be on your team.

Blaze Reptiles, honored to be on your team.

Yup that Sunday night dread!!!!

Marcy DElgado, you can do this. Then, make a plan to change jobs.

Glad you enjoyed it!

Count off the days, it will happen.