I love this video Nastasia! Yes, staying over at the same house just takes away from the sacredness and specialness of what could be a future marriage. My husband was SO careful with boundaries and I was so grateful.
I’m a teen, I’m not in a relationship or getting married anytime soon. But the sexual temptation is the hardest as an adolescent, especially with the hormones and the changes in my body. Sometimes I’m glad that I have strict parents, because who knows what could’ve done if I didn’t. I have slipped up a few times talking to my guy fiends from school. I mean I haven’t had sex or even oral sex but I still feel guilty when flirting. It’s not common to be celibate where I am. Most people lost their virginity around 8th grade or plan on loosing it during high school. I have Christian friends but none of them are really open to talk about things like this, most of them don’t really care. I just feel like I need someone other than my mom to be an influence. I really want to find people my age who are really passionate about God and have the same expectations that I do.
I'm happy you're learning this while you're young! You're older self will be soooo grateful. You're saving yourself a lot of trouble. Having sex as a teen is OVER RATED. I lost my virginity at 18 (after I graduated) and quickly ended up pregnant. I have been a single mom for over 11 years and it has been difficult. Save yourself the unnecessary struggle ❤
Hello! Stay strong my friend. I have 22 and I am here because I found out that sex is like a drug. In my case it made me very codependent and it took all the worst out of me. I ended that relationship because it wasn't making me good. I think I have grown a lot thanks to spirituality since then but I want to avoid it from happening again.
I left the love of my life, because I knew within me he was not what God wanted for me or my daughter's life. I am learning to love myself each day at a time, learning to respect myself again. And asking the Lord to show me his love for me and what I truly mean to him. Moving forward with my life I desire to keep myself pure not just for me? , but for God, my daughter, and I, until Father in Heaven places my future Husband in our lives.
I have been pure with no sex for 3 year's hallelujah 🙌 thank u JESUS👰 iam Pedro 46 from PR and I have the holy spirit in my heart my friend 🕊 I LOVE JEHOVAH THE FATHER BECAUSE HE IS AWSOME 🙏l be praying for u Amiga🙏
I wanted to ask a question as a guy: I am a really conservative Orthodox Christian, who doesn’t want to have any form of sexual interactions like kissing or cuddling until marriage not even during engagement, how do girls view this? Could that drive them away from me?
Well that is actually a good thing! There are many girls out there wanting someone like you who would not pressure for hugs and cuddles and kisses until marriage. My parents are not christians but they also did not wanna hug or cuddle or kiss until marriage. And saving yourself for marriage like this is great because then you can give so much more to the right girl and its more exciting for you. You are happier because you can cuddle your spouse for a long time and do more and not feel guilt. You are a respectable guy and I’m sure you’ll meet someone special like you someday if you haven’t already
Honestly, I wish there were more people who wanted this. I’m a conservative orthodox Christian, and I’ve noticed it’s hard to find men who want to remain chaste and cautious in relationships
This guy is avoiding me when I asked why he said I turn him on.. after a sent a recent normal face. We can’t even have a normal convo. I pray, don’t do forbidden acts but guys always end up feeling this way, it never used to be like this.. maybe it’s my vibe? I just want them to like me for mind and soul. I’ll definitely be using your tips thanks 🙏
I like the jar idea :) kind of feel like it needs a reward after getting filled to get that extra motivation.I get bored fast when sitting so thanks for pointing that out. Also, nofap makes it extremely difficult for me to stay pure with all that testosterone screaming to find an outlet. Any tips? Purity would be so much easier if women didn’t have fat hanging off their chest 😭 it’s hard not to think about when hugging. Sorry for being blunt lol
Hey beautiful all love! from Miami Florida, I really love the jar idea , I believe its good for singles as well who struggles with temptation , which is so funny to me because I got a jar the other day! I thought I was going to use it for smoothie but I don’t even use smoothies in the jar. 🤣🤣🤣
I'm an expert and i'm telling you .don't you ever ever try to tell him anything bad happened .stop those idea get away with your life .forget the past.focus on the future
If you’re going to spend your life with someone they deserve to know all of you just as you deserve to know all of them. If you are going to spend the rest of your life with someone shouldn’t you know each other inside and out? If the person can not accept you for all you are then they are not the one God has for you.
I wanna know why you can't pray once a week we do it 5 time a day everyday . It's all about love the moro you try to get close to your god he will get closer to you.
God bless you and he will bless you in your marriage you’re honoring God and he will honor you. my wife was a virgin when I married her and I was a recycled virgin after my divorce. Thank you ❤️
I m 19 years old...I m in relationship with a christian guy...who loves me alot..we have prayed together..but came in sexual relationship n he is the only guy with whom I had a sexual relationship...n after tht when we felt guilty ..we thought we should never to dis again till we get married...... will god forgive us for what I have done? Plzz tell me what's your opinion on this I m really frustrated
Well I can't personally tell you what you should or should not do because it's kind of a grey area in the Bible but I can tell you what I do and don't do! I see purity as honoring to God. So if I feel shame or guilt doing something, I take that as the Holy Spirit convicting me and I won't do it. For my fiance and I, kissing and making out are okay but we have to be really careful to not let it escalate past that. Something to keep in mind is that foreplay is meant to lead to sex so if you just cut it off, you guys will most likely be really sexually frustrated, it could cause fights, or cause you to actually have sex when that wasn't your intention. That's why we just try to steer clear of anything like that all together because it's too tempting for us lol. I hope this helps!
For me personally, if I’m doing foreplay, then I’ve committed adultery through lust and it’ll very likely lead to more. But hugs are okay, since they provoke no feeling of lust for me. It really depends on the person.
Yes ! Thank you for this video. I want to stay pure so bad, but my Girlfriend always pushes me to un-pure deeds. I think she might have the devil in her.
