Oh yes! I was stuck in that victim mindset for years. Everything was everybody’s fault. The mom, the dad, the teacher that laughed at me in 5th grade, the goldfish, the pet iguana that ran away, everything. I had never been that good at math, but one day I realized Nadia the common denominator as it relates to the issues in your life… it’s you sis. I humbled myself and got a counselor, and I got honest with God and myself and now I’m working THAT! Working on assertive skills, regulating my emotions, etc. I don’t have time anymore to play the victim. I got too much Jesus and the word in me to live in constant fear, anxiety, worry, and doubt. I am single, not free to mingle and I am working on healing from the inside out. 🗣WE WINNING OVER HERE! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
H I crystal, I am writing to let you know that this message spoke very clearly to me. I feel that it was a “Rhema word “for me. You were speaking directly to me I felt like it was just you and I sitting in a room having our coffee along with our discussion. For 44 years I had a victim mentality. To keep this short and simple .My boyfriend at the time threw me in a swimming pool He did not realize that I did not know how to swim until he had to jump in to pull me out. I was 17 at the time and that’s when my victim mentality began. I have made many attempts to learn how to swim but I allow the mindset I’ve been a victim prevent me from completing the courses because my excuse was someone threw me in a swimming pool so now I’m afraid of learning how to swim. . I am now 60 and I have two beautiful grandsons that loves the water they swim like fish and their parents both are big swimmers. I’ve always said that I never wanna be that person standing on the side of the pool not being able to help someone who was drowning. I am over being a victim I have just signed up for swim lessons I’m taking back my POWER and I’m completing the course . And I know that I’ve taking back my Power because just the thought of me starting these lessons there’s no fear in my heart. But true excitement to know that I have taken back my power ! And I haven’t even started my first lesson. I Had just listened to my church sermon on RU-vid and I wanted to listen to something inspirational before turning in and from time to time I watched some of your videos and when I saw the title I knew then the Lord lead me to your channel 🥰 God Bless you Crystal and thank you for sharing what God has placed in you🙏🏽.
So, so, soooooooo good! I needed this encouragement. Thank you, Chrystal! ツ -- I loved the thrown overboard illustration. -- "When you want to live, you reach for something." "Find what is in your area of control, and fix that" Other quotes/takeaways for me, "Stop carrying weight that is not yours to carry" -- This is a hard one for me, but necessary. " I am God's daughter, I have to answer to God" --- This is an excellent perspective. I need to chew on this a bit. We have to manage the time God has given us to do. We answer to Him. What does the Lord require? "The people around me will adjust" "I made a mistake, but I'm still the leader" "Stand up straight girl!" Grateful for you! ツ
Hi Chrystal, You spoke straight to my soul. My name is Rhema. You spoke that Rhema word into me. I always wanted to write and I know in my spirit that I’m a writer. I was struggling deep inside about writing on my own. I’m taking charge and responsibility now. God bless you abundantly! Your humour and laughter is so contagious. Wonderful! Keep laughing! Your video popped up suddenly and now I’m following your channel.
Than You So Much!!! There Shall Be Changes Up In Here. I shall no longer have a victim mindset!!! I have never knew this. Everything is all coming from the way I think about what I can and can not do. There's no limited too what GOD can do in my life right NOW!!! The pass is the pass. Its about RIGHT NOW!!! AMEN 🙏🙏🙏 THANK YOU SO MUCH💖💖💖
This is so vital for every believer! As a survivor of child abuse and domestic abuse my brains way of protecting my self from abuse was a victim mindset, because abuse was everyday, But I thank GOD for the word of God and the spiritual support system, knowledge in the way of videos and books with such knowledge you are sharing Oh.....what a threat we become to the enemy as individuals! Specially women, mothers, wifes, ext, Ooooh Weee! I keep my self at the feet of such knowledge to remind self everytime the enemy comes against me as a reminder that I can do all things through Christ Jesus, Phil, 4:13, 1John4:4 tells me that greater is He that is in me.......🙌🏼🙌🏼👏👏👏! For a reader that can relate to this keep pushing don't quit challenge your self because one day we will have to give an account to God and we want to hear Mathew 25:23 Well done.
I needed to hear ever second of this message. Thank you God! I will be making a lot of changes in my life. Thank you Chrystal for sharing a life changing message. 🙏🏾
Thank you Mrs. Hurst. I thank God for letting me see this. Yes, I admit I have had a victim mentality all my life. I have been evolving and growing in the Lord. I needed to hear thIs for my growth in 2022
Hallelujah hallelujah what a great word. I truly receive that. Taking responsibility for our everything will move us forward. Wow I’m guilty of that and it’s time to get out the boat. Great word. Amen
My God! I’m so sure this word was from the heavens! Oh this spoke to something deep within me! 😭😭 thank you for allowing yourself to be used as a vessel. Peace and Blessings to you and your family.
Oh wow…thank you so much for this Truth of the word of God. Did not know I was an victim, thank you for saying about the words “always and never”. I enjoy your message, will listen again and again. This enlightened my mindset. Thanks for sharing about Valeria Burton book. I appreciate you so very much. You and your family is such a beautiful blessing. I love me so Dr. Tony Evans very profound and intellectual pastor. I love listening to all of you such a blessing, thanks
I want to give you a BIG virtual hug!!! Cause this Wisdom session surely wrapped itself around me!!! Yes, of course, their are plenty of "gold nuggets" for me, but I was saying this to my Beautiful Beloved daughter yesterday!! "Thank You" Holy Spirit, and thank you, Miss Crystal! This was a BLESSING! WOW! So on time!
Thank you so much for the truth that comes to set us free as women of God, that we may walk in our purpose and be all that the Father wants us to be as His daughters. Be Blessed
Yesssssssss!!👏👏👏👏👏👏I enjoyed!! The message!! You Had me laughing!!🤣🤣🤣 I learned to use my GPS on my phone. To walk from A to B Its a long story. Yesssssssss!!! Im A Daughter to a King!! Yes!! Its been A Blessing!! FAITH!!🥰❣❣❣🙏🙏🙏((HUGS)) VICTORY!!🙌🙌🥰
I am currently in therapy & I was told I have passive-aggressive behavior which can show signs of victim behavior as well. It is really hard to face those things that God is telling you is wrong however I learned that once I accepted it it became just a bit easier to say to God, I'm sorry. Please forgive me.
WOW! Just recently my brother and I were having a disagreement and he was honest enough to tell me that I was playing a victim in my life. At first, I couldn't see it and recognize it but after watching your video and hearing all the traits, I realized that I do to play victim. I have been putting a lot into myself this year and my healing to unlearn that bad mentality and step into the fullness God says I am. Thank you again for the gems you dropped in this video.
LOL! CEH is so inspiring with the messages she teaches, I really need to share this with my younger sister and hope she doesn't get offended. Question: what if the person doesn't want control and the only thing they know is playing the victim and they are a baby Christian?
