How to Stop Body Shaming Yourself and Others | Eckhart Tolle 

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I’m sure that’s why she paid probably $2k plus to hear him speak….to speak too.

I thought exactly the same thing.

I Agree !!!I had the same pattern for Years!! The lady described it Perfectly!Tiresome!..I'm finally awesome of this within myself..and it is freeing to realize it!!I used to Torture myself..Especially sitting on a Beach somewhere in a Hot Country!

Quite an expensive gift too, aswell as unvaluable 💖👀💝 Beauty is in the eye of the beholder... isn't it? 😂

True, but that is a sense of the teenage years or early adult years. For such self impressions to extend into mature adulthood is definitely the problem. We should move beyond the body only image and move into growth of spirit, soul and self as well as how we deal with others. But you are correct, we can get caught up in our own personal self impressions at any age.

@@coolwater55 Indeed, I agree. That is an insightful reply coolwater 55. I appreciate that. Remaining adolescent even into old age is quite common... This also plays out in other areas of life also. If we have a close look at food, we can understand that beyond our taste buds, of what the egoic mind likes and dislikes, there are foods that deliver energy, and foods that take our energy that are highly addictive. From the standpoint of Natural Hygiene, fresh ripe fruit is considered the optimal food. Yet, many people stay in the adolescent phase of not thinking about what food is going to do them, after they have swallowed it, which leads to all sorts of sickness and disease, that could be avoided by being present. Some call it adolescent, others call it the egoic mind? Still, the present moment remains, it is all we have. Would you say that being present is actually adult consciousness, and constantly identifying with thought is adolescent consciousness? Eckhart, keeps on showing up, week after week, year in, year out, to simply remind us, and help us understand, our unfathomable present moment!

@@CitrusSimon I think you might be onto something, although not sure how to articulate it fully.

Absolutely. It is a challenge to separate form from essence.

Everybody deeply wants to be understood. But in our environment oftentimes judgment is what we get instead. Probably at the end it's the ego, that fears rejection and seeks validation at the same time. It's gonna be a gamble until you grow out of it.

Its called bdd

I'm 64 and feel very much like that too!! It surprises me; I always imagined I'd feel like an "old person" at this age.

And what a wise woman you are, Bianca, to recognize her courage. Thank you for pointing that out. Brava!

I relate to this. All I want is to let it go but I just don’t know how 😢

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Jiddu Krishnamurti who according to ET influenced his teaching re: awareness used to say Catch the thoughts as they arise and then there is nothing to control.

Also a way to reinforce the ego in a “positive way” same thing but opposite

Why would you feel the need to say this

@@NN-fz4pdwhy do we feel the need to say anything? We are human.

Everything is a teaching for everyone. I find it best to flip the lens back to myself anytime content makes me think of someone else. Everything is a mirror. All growth comes from within....

When I hear that brothers are moving away, it breaks my heart.I lost a very young sister . Cancer. I would give anything to be able to hug her again. Protecting oneself is being able to hug a brother. Think about it...🙏

I just will point out that, judging by your comment, the ego is also strong in you.

I believe Jesus had a very relevant and practical teaching of remove the splinter from your own eye before trying to remove one from another's. Pointing out another person's ego is only your ego resisting its own removal

Maybe his need to compete and "win" was his coping mechanism to boost his self-esteem. I can relate to his through my stories.

The pain is in the pain body. Can you watch it and let it dissolve? ❤

Hahhaha yet all most modern women do is compare your body to other men they've been with, the inevitable endless list of massively endowed ex-boyfriends that they bully, body shame and go instantly running back to their friends to publically humiliate your body for things you can neve help or change. Yet these women go around claiming don't compare yourselves to others hahahha

@Tej No actually, that's not it. Assumptions are not part of the conscious way or the new earth. You've got work to do

@Tej no worries 😉

@@lelle1068 There is nothing wrong assumptions. No one has any work to do.

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