We just passed the 5 year anniversary of Lavendaire! This was the first video I created for the channel, so I decided to revisit the topic to celebrate the anniversary: ▸How to Stop Caring What People Think of You: Lavendaire's 5 Yr Special ✨ | bit.ly/2ZNIsLH I agreed with basically everything I said in the original video, but I felt I could bring some extra insights to the topic with all the new life experiences I've collected in the past five years :)
Not gonna lie I just had an issue with someone at my job all because they got under my skin for being myself. Im gonna stash this vid in my personal playlist and imbed this to memory. Thanks for this. 👍
I have been extremely paranoid and unable to sleep at night for a few days. After watching this video I feel much better now. Thank you so much for sharing the video and I love you!!
Hey there. My 9-year old son and I watched this tonight. We found you because he does worry a bit at school what people think and this video really helped him. Now he knows what the word "paranoid" means! LOL! Thank you for this video! - Chris
Hi!!!!!! Just found your channel and blog. Really fantastic and inspirational, especially this one and the one about finding your purpose. Thank you for you xx
I used to think about this type of thing but I’ve learned that I am not going to do things to please others. I’ll always stay being myself for myself , if I want to change it will be for me only
You know yourself way too well, you see everything your way, damn if anyone took anything personal on your bad days...moments. See others in the same scope, see yourself with love...you're the closest to already doing it. And without explaining yourself!
Hey~ you commented on my comment on Jenn im's video about "Life after college" and so I decided to check out your channel and this is the first video that I've watched of you, really really great video btw and thank you so much for the inspiring words and advice
Hi!! I'm so glad you decided to check out my channel :) I was totally a shy girl growing up too, and sometimes I still find it awkward to go out to hang in large groups. But after you learn to accept yourself and love yourself in your own skin, you grow much more confident in any situation. It's definitely a journey that takes time. I have a video on "Self Love & How to get better at it" that might help: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-p35Lq26yONI.html Good luck!
I will listen to this everyday or when it gets tough. Thank you for being such an inspiration. I've recently started my blog and youtube channel and you inspired me to start pursuing what I want.
I have a much more recent video on a similar topic: self-criticism! What if *you* are the one placing judgment on yourself? I shared 7 ways to deal with self criticism: ▸How to Deal with Self Criticism: 7 Tips | bit.ly/2u4EKOx Q: What similar issues are you dealing with lately? What would you like advice on?
Just watched this now and the #3 point to stop being paranoid is so true!😂 It's something that I remind myself: "It's not about me" and when I shift my perspective to this, I do become calmer and more rational😁 Love watching your vlogs! I'm a fan💕
I am so excited to have found your channel! This is such a good example of the type of youtube channel and blog I want to start but in Spanish. I've always had a passion to empower women to live happier lives. This vlog is such a great example of that.
You make it sound so easy like a switch to just shut off. I have to unlearn YEARS, DECADES WORTH of damage. I mean this is a great general outline, but if I could so easily do all that I probably wouldn't have looked up a video on how to stop caring... lol
I like what Yo said, not give a fuck what people think of me, because I care what people think of me, and I hate that, and I need to train my mind not to care what people think about me, it's a new year, and I need to pray to GOD, so I stop caring what people think of me, GOD bless you!!!!!
Hi Aileen I watched this video when it first on the internet last year is was akward and shy and cared a lot what people thought about me now one year from then if some one says something to me I take it as a pinch of salt and I can stand up for my self last year I watch lots of videos of how to not care what people think and your was the one that changed me into who I am now
Amy Stevenson Amy! I'm so happy to hear this... It's so amazing that you took control over the situation and changed the way you react to others, now you are stronger. Thank you for sharing. I'm honestly inspired by reading this.
I just found out that you started this channel 10 years ago 😲 And I can't believe it You started so early I was like only 13 at that time And also, very few people started that early as you Great Your quality is good btw
This video is such a good way to start not caring about what others think. Could you do a follow up video that deals with family related matters? I have some very stubborn people in my family who don't want to listen to me, but it is really hard to cut them out of my life...
Thank God I found your YTC. I've started watching your YT vids and listening to your Podcast since yesterday. I will surely continue to do this on the daily.
Wow thank you. I’m always paranoid and get anxiety about what people are thinking. I’ve been trying to coach myself through this and you said EVERYTHING I told myself. As I work on my self love I start to care less what others think. The key is to work on yourself and feel good about yourself and care about what YOU think about YOURSELF.
Thanks Beautiful .....Your positivity just shines through the video I looked a video up on how to not care what people think because My confidence has always took bashing for not feeling equal to others for never fitting in. I deal with being Paranoid in my day to day thinking Im so important having imaginary audiences and I dwell on the Past like HS I feel like I would of known a lot of people if I did not let my shyness and introvert ways get in the way but I mean I graduated most of the people there have moved on with their lives anyway and Im fine Now but Thanks for the Vid!!!
yah like i just assume things even do they dont say it personally or that even tho its not me theyre talking about it affects me not kinda but so much that i took it so serious. i cant even do.things normally like my joints, my nerves my body is crampling and not able to move freely thinking about it
I keep coming back to that viedo over and over... Is brilliant!! But I'm still in the place that I need to hear it from time to time. I hope one day to have it within me :)
I had expored your youtube channel just now and it was amazing to learn these. It gave me a causeless hope about me and my life. Thanks for everything!! I'm looking forward to see other videos:)
What if you are worth it and know it. But, your experience with people have been nothing derogatory or indifferent rarely positive if ever towards you more often based on assumption?
I love you! This so inpiring and worth to apply in a daily life.. Im a new subbie here. Have you read "The secret or The Magic" ? That book helps me a lot.😍
