More people are concerned about themselves than you. Thats totally true. That is what the book “ how to win friends and influence people “says. Honestly now if something bothers me esp at work thats where i get to engage with most people, i got to a point where i do my thing, i dont overthink about what someone said. If its not my fault, i dont have to care at all. Coz they dont care about you. If you keep overthinking its on you. Life is so short that you cant even imagine.
stop caring what poeple think dont feel the need to recieve compliments dont take anything personal dont care about anything said by somrone who doesnt matter to you in 5 yrs dont judge yourself be kind to yourself live life in peace stay private (for me) My key takeaways from this amazing video
Hi again, you said live your life for yourself and I know this sh*t but never really apply it because idk. I want to start running because I want to be boxer I already train my a** and want to do cardio also, so I have to run in the mornings (good vibe too when I speak and think about it) but when it comes to go jog in the morning I just be so scared of being see out there… (maybe nobody gonna see me) but my social anxiety (I’m not diagnosed) but I be so scared out there I know I am exaggerating these emotions but. It is what it is when your confidence isn’t that big everyday and you just doubt yourself and a lot lot lot of other stup*d things. Just motivate me to go tomorrow. And I will, I really want it rn. Maybe tomorrow morning I will be lazy but I promise I will try my best to do it. I just be so scared of the new opportunities and my freedom. It’s weird but it’s true. I don’t stand a lot for my own self and I could because I know how to talk like I am human. But yh… I might be secretly depressed and sh*t so… Yeah, not easy and I’m also very very very lonely all the time, and it is what it is. Anyway just want to run help me goat, ty
I get you, but there's a different between motivation, confidence & discipline, if you have discipline you don't need motivation because imagine one day you feel like not doing it but you still do it because it's a commitment & promise you made to yourself to do & your not going to give up on that if you really want it so bad, realize that being lazy is a privilege; you also can't build confidence if you never face your fears. Get so uncomfortable until you become comfortable with it, no one cares if it's embarrassing or not they just go about their day & one day they'll also die like you and me & that won't matter but what will is if you did something with what you have.
@@Genesisgm27 This is why I just want motivation for this first time next it’s more easy. I know this because when I got things to do I don’t workout and to workout again you feel the pain the uncomfortable so I know discipline. Just the new things and trying new things it’s so fckn scary like I piss myself my anxiety be so big I just be incapable to do anything. And in the present moment if I jump out of my confort zone I stressed so so so so much. That’s the rude reality of all this things it’s not easy. Like just run outside be sooo difficult for me 😕 I’m gonna try it tomorrow. I will mute my emotions and step outside, I have to remember it’s great for me. Thank you for actually answering to it. Much love
