Thank you so much for your wisdom shera!! i am a 27 year old woman who got my boss to buy me a car worth 300,000k!! and new beautiful windows for my house!! i am engaged to him he is a millionaire!! THANK YOU THANK YOU!!
“Some of yall are too scared to lose someone you don’t even have” 😮💨 preach Shera!! Some of us need the hard truth. We ain’t got no business catching feelings just cause someone tells us how beautiful we are. We should already know that, so when they say it it’s just a compliment to what you already believe about yourself. Yall better stop letting these men run game and playing these mind tricks.
Shera is right about keeping a rotation and have more than one. Ever wonder why you leave a guy and he already has another girl? Or you breakup with them and they marry someone else in 2 or 3 months? It’s because they always had other women in rotation. Men always talk/ date more than one woman “friends”. They ALWAYS have a roster.
"if the man is not agreeing with your level of standards dont compromise" exactly! i had a guy begging to see photos of heels i was buying for myself. no sir, you need to pay for the heels and the photos. Block. Whenever men try to negotiate our standards they are draining our feminine energy it's gross
“Feelings”…? What are those again?? 🤣 Sometimes I scare myself with how unbothered and blunt I’ve become. I don’t even beat around the bush with men anymore. What’s the point of doing that? I think I even made a guy cry on our last date… I wasn’t *trying* to be mean- but he started acting super clingy, feminine, and catty: giving me extreme attitude for absolutely no reason. So I told him “I didn’t think I was a lesbian because you’re acting like a chick”. Then I left him at the table. 🤷🏾♀️
I went through a similar situation. He wanted to be acouple, but he confessed as if he was being emotionally blackmailed. I did not want him, but I will never talk to him again. We know each other a little. We only sat together twice as friends. We got to know each other because he confessed to me first. But I feel bad because he was speaking so rudely that I did not insult him
Mental Illness is real yall. Shera is a woman of a certain age and a certain era. Please don’t feel invalidated. Take accountability for your mental health by seeking therapy, possibly seeing a psychiatrist, and dropping any bad habits that may affect your mental health (Shera did sort of mention that part.)
The reason guys want to “fly you in” is not because there are no other women in his town he could impress. It’s because he’s married or in a committed relationship already with someone else but she’s too busy to give him the physical touch that he craves. He wants the woman to be from somewhere else, so she doesn’t go telling his wife about the relationship. This way, she may never even find out about the wife in the first place. The problem is, he may not take her shopping because it will mean going to a public place together (mall/boutique) and he will not want to be seen by someone who’ll tell his wife. The best she can hope for is him picking her up in the hotel garage, taking her to a restaurant where nobody knows him, and going up to her hotel room while dropping her off after dinner at the same hotel. Hopefully he gives her money before she flies out to “visit” him so she can take herself shopping. Otherwise, this guy’s just looking for someone to quickly sleep with and discard.
Yes. My girl got engaged in 3 months. Meanwhile, I was with a guy for a year, and he told me he don't see a future with me so I packed my stuff up and left.
I'm dealing with a 33 yr old for the last year as a situationship..and I asked him at the 7 month did he wanna work on an relationship and he said multiple times that he doesn't and he still want relationship benefits and how to get unattached mentally?
@B6gmxy u right but I'm so used to being used and I'm still questioning my worth in every relationship or freindship.. he haven't even invited me to his place in a year..he always have an excuse and I'm on my spiritual journey and I refuse to keep giving my heart..mind..spirit and body to any man who tells me they r not ready for a relationship but still want the benefits. I thank you for ur positive advice
My husband bought me taylor swift ticket including hotel and accommodation to singapore eras tour my 42 birthday ..sprinkle sprinkle..i was so happy..it was awesome concert
@@in4mationplugCompliment? From you? YUCK!! You should be getting your money right what do you mean 'soaking up free game?'. D-U-S-T-Y!!! I said what I said period!
@@fk8395 soaking up game is listening to what she say. Its better for you to ask what soaking up game is, before coming off as a hater by calling me dusty. And my pockets straight, keep your eyes on your own paper.
Found out about her after being ghosted. I'll be turning 30 in a few months. I really wish I had learn of her many years ago. I’m building my self confidence and learning so much about the game!
This new guy started working at my job , and everybody is on him because he’s so handsome, yall know what I did? Stayed unbothered🤣, idc if he’s handsome or if he’s a model. Lemme tell yall, when I started doing that, I catch him staring me all the time. He so used to getting the prince treatment 🤣🤣🤣Ian fallin for nada or that, I stay doin me….&& look at him already aching for my validation.. LOL
@@laceykeysha exactly girl, and that goes for everybody though. We must get validation from ourselves. Everybody else does not come next they come never.🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂 I used to stay unbothered about my boss like I used to just do my work and leave and not talk to him more than what’s needed but others used to literally fall on his foot gradually he got attracted to me although he was married. I then quit my job all of a sudden with just a mail he still texted me after that asking how am I 😂😂
You have to think like a typical man in a committed relationship and reverse the roles for it to workout and for him to actually want marriage w you. The dude who wanted me like that I was a logical bitch with and all the men I was sweet and emotional to ran far away
Sprinkle, Sprinkle I'm new to the channel and like the vibe. I'm definitely learning how to let go of masculine energy because I am independent but after watching he don't need to know that. I need I need and I'[m working on my lie for the first date!
I guess i should look at everyone like they are practise ..trainining i mean a person to practise conversation with ..and learn to train to be better they are just to practise with also money isnt enough im not about to give in for SOME money ... i need more i need control ..his heart ..and his money
LOL you are funny 😁 We, women have got to stop being weak against this con-men/scammers. Our standards are sooo low & giving away sex & feelings so easily that at least prostitutes are getting paid. Gosh, we’ve been so devalued by these scammers so they can manipulate us in accepting less than our worth 😢😢😢😢 BE STRONG LADIES, stop being conned❤❤❤❤
Serious question, is it okay to have more than one guy to provide for us? I'm basically hopping from one guy to another. Give one guy attention and when i notice he reverts his attention to another female i go to another guy lol. I give my attention to the guy that is nice to me
